Love is power or something like that by A. Igoni Barrett
A book composed of nine short stories, most of them set in Lagos, Nigeria, in the early 2000s. They take us through poverty and the human behaviors it presents.
1. The worst thing that happened. A story about an old widow with failing eyes. Her children are too busy hustling to have time to care for their aging mother. She reminisces on her youth, when she was still young and her body worked fine, and on her dead husband, whom she misses. She always keeps a cat as company and there have been many. In the end, she befriends her neighbor, an equally aged a woman with failing legs who has lived opposite her for several years and never said a word to. She is also lonely and in need of the companionship.
2. Dream chaser. A story about a young teenage boy in a low-class home. His parents work long hours to makes ends meet and no one pays much attention to him. He skips school and one day finds himself at a cyber cafe, where he is introduced to the world of cyber crime(419 or yahoo yahoo). He has learned the art of posing as someone else and swindling his victims of money. He wants to be ‘successful’.
3. The shape of a full circle. This is where the book started to get interesting. This story made me angry. It’s a story about a young teenage boy growing up in poverty. His father is not in the picture and his mother, a raging alcoholic without a job, spends her days drinking and in bed. He shares a battered apartment with her and his two younger siblings. He comes home one day, after loosing the money for food and alcohol, to find their landlord demanding for their overdue rent. The landlord asks for sex from his mother to buy them sometime. His mother, after the ordeal, beats him mercilessly till he is blooddied when she finds out he came home without her ‘fix’. He and his siblings go to their grandmother for the night but he comes back to his mother with some food and her ‘fix’. I wished he had put her to sleep forever that night because I know he and his siblings would go on to experience more years of trauma and poverty because of his mother. At least that way, they would live with their grandmother, an actual adult capable of caring for them. He has moon shaped eyes
4. Love is power or something like that. A story about a typical police man in Nigeria- Underpaid and impunitive. He has a beautiful wife, whom he had once broken her arm in a drunken rage and two sons. The story tells of a typical duty night. He is made to visit Brothel where one of his coworkers uses his power and position to intimidate and have non-consenting sex with a worker there. That night, while on duty, they are bribed by a rich and man when they ask to search his car.
5. My smelling mouth problem. Now this was a very funny story. It shows the typical nature of Nigerians to give unsolicited advice without understanding a situation. A young man had a smelling mouth and he finally decided to go to a dentist after his ordeal on a hot afternoon in Lagos traffic. He had entered a BTR bus that was modernized because he knew his situation and didn’t want to talk to anyone. Until things took a wrong turn. The ac, which they had payed extra money to enjoy, spoilt along the way and the angry passengers demanded to be taken back to the park and put in another bus. When they had been taken to a new bus, someone had taken his seat and in his furry, he opened his mouth to talk. Everyone covered their noses and took to advising him throughout the trip.
6. Trophy. This was a confusing story. I thought this was going to be a homosexual story. At the beginning, I thought Iggy was a woman, he was so feminine. Cus why was he shaving his ass in page 105. Anyway, It’s a story about a young man- Iggy, who travels to give a leadership seminar to a group of men at a club in a new town. There, he befriends a secondary school teacher, a pedophile, having an affair with one of his sixteen year old students. The story shows the student ‘wanting it’ and being a bad girl. This is the narrative some pedophiles try to defend. But these are children! And let’s say this holds, you are the adult and you should remove yourself from such situations.
7. The little girl with the budding breasts. This was a sad story. And it’s sadder because this is happening in so many homes out there. Parents and their children living with a rift, creating an avenue for ills like sexual abuse and grooming to thrive. Her mother had lost her husband and I know the changes and emotional turmoil that can cause. She had her own lot to deal with. She saw her daughter as a rebellious teenager that wouldn’t listen and needed some discipline. But underneath all that was a grieving child who felt misunderstood by the people around her. And the one person that ‘understood’ her was her elder cousin, making it easy for him to groom and abuse her.
8. Godspeed and Perpetua. This was an annoying story turned beautiful and then sad. I saw a man born into poverty that had to work hard to create a good life for himself and his family. His self worth was attached to his wealth, so when that was taken away from him, he crumbled. I was glad to see him be a man in the end and protect his family. Too bad it had to cost him his life. And perpetual was just a typical woman that fades into the role on a wife and home maker when they marry. They don’t marry for love. They no longer have interests and desires. Well, I’m glad she found some happiness with her husband for a while.
9. A Nairobi story of comings and goings. A story that lightly brushes apartheid in Nairobi. It’s about a new couple with slightly different gender roles. An older financially stable woman dating a younger man. He’s Nigerian. She pays for their dates and they spend most of their time at her nice apartment gbenshing and smoking. She’s easygoing and blunt. She just wants to have fun. She defends her man one day when he gets racially discriminated against in a store. She’s white.