This is another admirable book by Thich Nhat Hanh.
The author tells us that this is a beautiful world but if our mind and body are full of noise then we can’t hear beauty’s call.
He tells us there’s a radio playing in our head – Radio Non-Stop Thinking. Our mind is filled with noise.
Mindfulness is the practice that quiets the noise inside us. Breathing in and out mindfully, paying attention only to the breath, we can quiet all the noise within us.
The late author lived in a retreat centre in Southwest France, where they practised a kind of silence called “noble silence”.
If they ate, walked or worked, then they did just those things. They didn’t talk too. They did these things in “joyful noble silence”.
When Thich rang the bell of mindfulness, they breathed in and out mindfully and stopped thinking. Their collective silence generated a strong field of energy, This silence can be called ”thundering silence”.
Bodhisattva is the Buddhist term for someone with great compassion whose life work is to end people’s suffering.
There was a bodhisattva named Avalokiteshvara, the Bodhisattva of Deep Listening. The name Avalokiteshvara means “the one who listen deeply to the sounds of the world”.
“The practice of mindfulness is very simple. You stop, you breathe, and you still your mind.”
Thich tells us that many of us are afraid of silence.
What are we so afraid of? We may feel an inner void, a sense of isolation, of sorrow, of restlessness, We feel desolate and unloved.”
Luckily, I’m not afraid of silence. I live in a very silent place opposite a wood. I don’t have many thoughts, which is helpful.
We are given a guided meditation, which we can practise when we sit or walk. With the first in-breath say the first line of the meditation below silently to yourself, and with the out-breath say the second line. With the following in- and out-breaths, you can use just the key words.
Breathing in, I know I’m breathing in.
Breathing out, I know I’m breathing out.
(In.Out.)
Breathing in, my breath grows deep.
Breathing out, my breath grows slow.
(Deep. Slow.)
Breathing in, I’m aware of my body.
Breathing out, I calm my body.
(Aware of body. Calming.)
Breathing in, I smile.
Breathing out, I release.
(Smile. Release.)
Breathing in, I dwell in the present moment.
Breathing out, I enjoy the present moment.
(Present moment. Enjoy.)
Walking is a wonderful way to clear the mind without trying to do so.You just walk, and while you’re focusing on the walking, joy and awareness come naturally.
Allow your mind to completely let go of any worry or plan. You can take one step with each in-breath and one step with each out-breath. If your attention wanders, gently bring it back to your breathing.
During the time of stopping your thinking, your body and mind are able to heal themselves.
When we eat, we practise giving all our attention to eating. “There’s no thinking: we just bring our awareness to the food and to the people around us.”
“Not talking, by itself, already can bring a significant degree of peace. If we can also offer ourselves the deeper silence of not thinking, we can find, in that quiet, a wonderful lightness and freedom.”
We should realize that silence comes from our heart and not from the absence of talk.
With regard to relationships, we are given four mantras:
The first is “”Darling, I am here for you”.
The second is “Darling, I know you are there, and I am very happy”.
The third is “Darling, I know you suffer: that’s why I am here for you”.
The fourth is “”Darling, I suffer: please help”.
All Thich Nhat Hanh’s books are wonderful, and this one is too. It contains much wisdom and practical advice about mindfulness.
Reading each of Thich’s books helps me greatly, and I recommend that you read this one too.
P.S. Thich wrote some verses he used in his practice of walking meditation.
“Let the Buddha breathe
Let the Buddha walk.
I don’t have to breathe,
I don’t have to walk.
The Buddha is breathing.
The Buddha is walking.
I enjoy the breathing.
I enjoy the walking.
There is only the breathing.
There is only the walking.
There is no breather.
There is no walker.”