Intrigued by the title I starting reading this book hoping to learn something new about weight loss.
Since diabetes and cancer run in my family and I have had my share of battles with health, I try not to take life for granted, but to be responsible about how i treat my body. Turns out that this is a book about incorporating healthy habits into our life by replacing bad habits with good habits. Derek talks about changes that can be made over-time; it is not about sprinting toward a goal, but taking this long marathon toward it, which will ensure long-term success.
Although there is nothing in the book that talks about calorie ratios and types of workouts, there are a lot of practical tips for changing our thinking to a much healthier way.
I am a firm believer that unhealthy thinking only generates negative results. While, positive thinking always helps, even if in small amounts. Derek talks about our internal conversation and how our negative patterns of thinking defeat us and thus, such patterns need to be replaced with "can do attitude" along with questions that will change our thinking. For instance, instead of "I don't have time to work out so I can't do it", changing it with something that will move us to action like "if I do not find time to workout, what will that do to me?". It is true that no matter how we put it, taking care of ourselves requires effort and at some level pain. But, I think that it is important to consider the other option: can we afford NOT to take care of ourselves?
I did learn something from this book which I find of value. Derek talks about stress as one of the worst factors which destroys our health.
The factors that he lists are all true and common, but I had never considered my environment as one point of stressor. Although, I must admit that when my place is in disarray, I don't feel like I am home, but rather in a place that I would rather escape. It is important to create for ourselves living areas that promote low-stress and a welcoming atmosphere. Just as it is important to have friends who are not critical of our plans, especially plans that aim to increase our health, knowledge, and better our lives. As Derek points out, by our side, we need supportive people who want our best, or we will begin our journey into good habits and then quit for lack of external support. Instead, being close with people who are going through a similar journey, will motivate us, inspire us and make us push harder toward our goal.
I must say that one thing that I really appreciated about this book is the specific note about social networks and how much time people spend on these sites (i.e. Facebook, Twitter...) Although people justify time spent online as "catching up with what's new", I agree with Derek that spending a month away from these sites will make us realize that we have not missed that much. I have done it not too long ago, and I echo Derek's opinion that all the gadgets that we carry around these days, make us so connected that we can no longer unplug, and thus, creating stress for ourselves, or even worse: connectivity addiction. Moderation is the key, and small efforts toward a goal count!
Good tips Derek, your book is not a physiology/nutrition first class book, but I don't think you were striving to create such book.