They have made the impossible climb into the spotlight and attained their brightest dreams. But for Mike Wallace, Kitty Dukakis, William Styron, Joan Rivers, and countless other people struggling against the debilitating effects of depression, life's most challenging battle is waged, not in the public eye, but in the darkest recesses of the mind.
In her brilliant new work, Kathy Cronkite gives voice to dozens of celebrated professionals who have endured—and conquered—the hopelessness of chronic depression. Most of all, this courageous book brings a ray of hope to the 24 million Americans who live in the shadows of this misunderstood disease, yet bravely seek a path toward the light. You will learn:
• What to do when the sadness won't go away. • Why women are most vulnerable to unipolar disorder. • How substance abuse can mask the symptoms of depression. • The latest therapeutic options for children who are affected by their own—or a parent's—illness. • Which effective new treatments can lift the burden of depression—for up to 90 percent of people who suffer from it!
Whenever I check a book out from the university library I like to look at the "Date Due" card, that ancient sticker affixed to the inside cover that they used to stamp with a reminder of when to bring the book back. Entirely obsolete today, but I am always curious about who came to the title before me and what kind of a history the book itself has had. I confess to feeling a smug self-satisfaction when a book has just one or two stamps. Oh, how hip I am to be reading something so obscure! But this book? This book has been stamped so many times a second sticker had to be added.
I hope everyone found some comfort in reading it.
I am a card-carrying bona fide depressive (Major Depressive Disorder is my cross to bear) and I have to assume most of the previous readers were too, if they were interested in reading this. Or maybe some were pre-med students who went on to become psychiatrists themselves, helping many more depressives in turn.
Comfort aside, as a book I'll rate this 3 stars out of 5. The author herself is warm and relatable, open and honest and to be sure throughout the collection there are a few interesting sections, but most of them are bland. The info about depression treatment is kind of dated, too, having been written in the mid-90s. But then, this wasn't intended as a comprehensive textbook but rather as an uplifting, "you're not alone" type of missive. It is the result of numerous interviews and so I was hoping for more lively and varied voices, perhaps in the Studs Terkel format of one continuous chapter per interviewee. Instead they have all been chopped up and arranged by topic, so you'll get a paragraph or two from each speaker which makes the reading experience kind of disjointed.
But I'm glad I read it. It's well-recommended for people who need a leg up in this struggle, or are searching for a sense of validation about their condition. Nobody should go through this alone.
The author/editor/interviewer for this book is one month older than I am. She is the daughter of a world-famous television personality; I am the son of a Baptist preacher. She is a successful author and actress; I am a not-so successful author and my acting has always been amateur (on more levels than one). She suffers from clinical depression; I have always suspected that I am borderline manic-depressive because of the wild mood swings I call my “biological tide.” So, we are very different in spite of being from the same generation, but her book is helpful to me nonetheless.
On the Edge of Darkness: Conversations about Conquering Depression is an overview of depression built from an aggregation of interviews conducted with famous and not-so famous “depressives.” To a guy who grew up with Dick Clark hosting American Bandstand, admiring the film work of Rod Steiger, questioning the theories of John Kenneth Galbraith, and watching Mike Wallace on television, there was no clue that any of these celebrities had any self-esteem problems, much less biochemical imbalances that caused complete dysfunction over long periods of time. Even though my battles with “melancholia” are virtually insignificant compared to their experiences, this book was liberating in just hearing what they have to say.
In addition to interviews with the famous and not-so famous, this book weaves in doctors and therapists with vital perspectives and statistics. I resonated with one of the definitions of depression as “essential hypertension” (p. 28) and discovered that I am not the only one who encounters depression shortly after recovering from a virus (like influenza—pp. 37-38). I have noticed anecdotally the tendency for people (including doctors) to blame the patient for having depression (p. 79) and was simultaneously amused and horrified at the husband who reacted to his wife’s depression by stating that she simply needed a spanking (p. 282).
Sometimes, the best advice came from the victims of depression themselves. Former 60 Minutes anchor Mike Wallace had two strong words of advice: 1) it’s good for depressives to talk about it and 2) it takes one to know one (support best comes from those who have experienced it) (pp. 19-20). I like cartoonist and playwright Jules Feiffer’s observation about the old “half-glass” analogy (whether half full or half empty). Feiffer observed that while the pessimist may see it as half-full, the true optimist acknowledges the emptiness and starts trying to fill it (p. 212). And in terms of a lesson that I definitely will take away and apply, Rod Steiger spoke of support in the following manner, “Support means to hold, not grab!” (p. 224)
In terms of speaking of medication, this 1994 book is way behind the curve. In speaking of experience, this book should be highly recommended to anyone who believes they have suffered from depression or knows someone who is. I used to think I personally had a problem. Now, I’m thankful for the gift of life as it has come to me. In that sense, On the Edge of Darkness provided helpful warnings and ideas, but also a liberating freedom that I’m not crazy or dangerous. That’s always good to know, especially when you constantly berate and second-guess yourself.
Kathy Cronkite chronicles her battle with depression and fills the pages of this book with interviews of people also battling the disease, either as a professional, or as a family member who has someone close who struggles, or the person him/herself. It was interesting to read how debilitating and all encompassing depression can be. She shares insights on adults, children, and seniors and how the illness manifests depending on age, severity etc. Also included are drug therapies and their side effects - often told firsthand. This was a good handbook for an outsider, but could easily validate feelings for someone searching for answers. I certainly feel better informed than I was prior to reading it.
Cronkite understands depression from the inside out, and it shows in this important book. I don't know any family whose life has not been touched by depression, yet seldom do I hear people talking about the affect of depression on themselves or their families. In reading the accounts of depression from so many different people, many of whom, due to their fame, the reader will feel they know, it is possible to see that in this dark struggle, no one is truly alone, even when alone is all that can be felt.
I didn't like the format of this book at all. The author writes an introduction about the condition related to depression that the chapter is to focus on...then a few celebrities share their stories (easily the most riveting part of the book), and then some experts give their opinions on the whole ordeal. The thing is, this book is out-dated and dumbed-down, and I don't feel any more enlightened about depression (of which I have suffered for most of my life) than I did when I began. This is the first book specifically geared toward telling me that I'm "not alone" that has failed to make me feel as if I do have common ground with people. It's very strange. I didn't like it, but I give props to Mrs. Cronkite for getting all of the information together as she did - for that time period, this was a big deal.
Depression is a common mental illness. However, mental illness has a stigma attached to it. There is a notion out there in the public sphere that if you have a mental illness, you belong in Bedlam or another institution. There is no concept of a gradient. You can't function and have a mental illness at the same time.
"On The Edge Of Darkness" is a 1994 book. Kathy Cronkite experienced depression and dealt with it by interviewing celebrities about their experiences. While the book does focus on celebrity stories, it also contains expert advice from doctors and psychiatrists. I don't know which version of the DSM was out at the time, but it was 1994.
The book splits into chapters that focus on an aspect of Clinical Depression. I say that, but the book discusses Bipolar Depression, too. I have Clinical Depression, so I am familiar with a lot of these symptoms. I understand when someone can't muster the strength to do anything. It is easy to tell someone to "just pick themselves up" and deal with their issues, but it is never that simple.
I took this book out from the library on a whim, and I was not disappointed. The book is slightly dated. I haven't heard of any of the celebrities interviewed besides Joan Rivers, but it was acceptable.
This book took a lot of courage and vulnerability to write during a time when mental illness was considered a shameful secret. It helped me understand myself better and helped me begin to share my struggle. I read it shortly after it was published and read it again this week. I was pleasantly surprised to see that I learned some new things this time around.
I enjoyed reading this book (maybe enjoyed is not the right word) and learning to understand those who suffer with depression, how they suffer and the ways we can find help. Don't give up! That is the most important message of this book. Every person's depression is different. The treatments for them may also take on different forms. Reading this book helped me to see that diagnosing this disease or malady is not always very easy because there are so many factors which complicate depression and its causes. May the Lord help you in finding help if you struggle with this illness.
This book opened my eyes to the mental illness that is depression. This is the first book I've read on depression; and as someone living with depression almost her whole life, it was truly amazing to read something that gave multiple testimonies of amazing individuals suffering from this disease. I was so hopeful just to hear of others (even though the book is a bit dated) who are having the same thoughts as me.
I went through a major depression in my late twenties. This book helped me gain perspective on what I was going through. It is powerful to read about experiences of those who were/are in the public eye.
I read this years ago when Kathy was in town for a book signing. I remember her quite well but I should probably read the book again. I just thought of this book because Walter Cronkite died yesterday.
Sad look at the realities of depression. Informative but I didn't pick up anything new. The first hand experiences were the best part of the book, particularly from family members who've walked loved ones through the torment.
If you have ever had depression of any variety or know someone who has, you must read this book and revisit it. It will give you a window on the misunderstandings and help you develop your own compassion about depression.
Didn't like the format. Too many people talking in short bursts which was irritating as hell. Besides, there was nothing particularly new or interesting. Very meh.
Some of the information is dated (written in 1994--and that is about how long it has sat on my bookshelf), but I still found it interesting--the personal stories and experiences. Worth reading to understand more about depression.