I stumbled upon Anna Shechtman several years ago when I revived my love of crosswords. I have completed several puzzles by her and enjoy her constructions and wordplay. I think this book is masterful for a few reasons. Shechtman’s story being so inherently tied to crosswords and her ability to express herself while deep-diving into the fascinating intersection of the female impact (and really inception) of what we know as the crossword is lovely.
She hails many women constructors while recognizing equally the limited view of this being largely cis white women (and transitioning massively into dominated by cis white men). It is a strong narrative and commentary of mental illness, history, sociology, and linguistics. It would be a disservice for me to not let a few quotes speak for themselves.
“Passion projects are a social privilege, and as most women are still expected to do the majority of childcare and housekeeping as well as work full-time, few find time for this rarified, underpaid work… But like botany, film editing, library science, and computing before it, it was once a form of feminized labor.”
“The crossword puzzle, under Margaret's stewardship-and today, according to her legacy—is a conservative cultural product. Conservative in both senses of the word: traditionalist (few create or solve crosswords to change the culture but to assert their fluency in it) and self-preserving a crossword is a coping mechanism, a way of feeling in control of the culture, even when you've lost it or could never lay claim to it to begin with).”
“…[She’d] like to think that language's potency is its most brilliant resource. We can use its constraints to harden our self-conceptions, to resist the painful ineffability of embodied experience, and to crystallize our difference from others. We can wound, and we probably always will, but we can try not to.”
"’So much of crossword-making is gatekept. Something you notice about people who value intellect is that there is this pride in being the 'only person' who can do something. [It cultivates] the idea of genius, which I understand to be related to access and privilege.’"
"’[She] was robbed of a chance to learn about crosswords at a young age in part because crossword culture does not encourage learning —rather, it rewards already knowing.’”
“To ask these questions is to concede to such a thing as women's language, a separatist lexicon that maybe shouldn't be used by or for men. It is to sit between unsavory cultural stereotypes, on the one hand, and gender essentialism, on the other…How can women fight for cultural equity without conceding their difference in the very terms that would objectify them? Can women ever create in a culture that is not properly their own? These were the very questions that plagued the French Feminists, the American sociolinguists, and their critics fifty years ago. They puzzle me now.”
Lastly, the detail of included a crossword in the front is incredible. I ended eyes-open; I felt emboldened, enlightened, attuned, seen, and ready to solve some puzzles.