Anyone who sees the class of the First Couple is struck by the question, "How did these 2 come together?" This book tries to explain the History of how this happened. Michelle was a young working attorney, going through the grind, when she heard of this "hotshot" attorney who would be coming to work for the Summer. She thought, like many others, that he had a "funny" name. However, when she met him, there was more substance to him than she had envisioned. She was also a little surprised to tell herself that she found him attractive. As they began to have informal conversations, one co-worker noted that she felt there was gravitas to the budding relationship, when late one afternoon, Obama was seen sitting comfortably on the edge of her desk, just casually talking. Another co-worker felt there was "something going on" when he found himself at the movie theater, standing in line close to where Obama and Michelle were also standing. Michelle thought that actually making their relationship public early on would have been "tacky," since they were only one of a few Black folks at the firm. Michelle had once tried to set Obama up with a friend, but Obama was having no part of that. Michelle's mother also had doubts about Obama being bi-racial. The book details the couple's first kiss, with Obama talking about taking her out in his Hyde Park neighborhood to an ice cream shop, laughing as he tells the tale of the kiss tasting of chocolate. Michelle found humor in the rusted out spot in the passenger's side of Obama's Datsun. It seems Obama had long held dreams of becoming President, but only shared that fact with Michelle's older brother, Craig. Craig had to tell Michelle not to be so rough on Barack, because she had a reputation for "eating guys up" that she had dated. Craig thought that Michelle's high standards would make it so that no guy would ever "qualify" to be in a long-term relationship with her. Apparently there had been some friendly jostling about the merits of marriage, with Obama seemingly cool to the concept. When he finally did propose, he teased her endlessly about her speechlessness that he had actually done it. At some point, the couple had dinner with a Chicago politico at a downtown Chicago restaurant, to seriously weigh options about a Presidential run, adding to the legend that Obama rarely does anything spontaneously. Most of what he does has been thoroughly calculated and thought out, including his eventual proposal to Michelle. This book is great in showing the evolution of a great "power couple," who both came out of differing close families to make a family together. It's a good book for anyone who wants to see how it happened. As a perfect segue, there is another book that complements this one, catching Obama in a reflective mood, articulating what he envisions in his romantic life, long before he met Michelle. In Thomas D. Rush's "Reality's Pen: Reflections On Family, History & Culture," Rush talks of two long, private conversations he held with Barack in 1989, when they both worked as Community Organizers. As Rush reflects, the thing he finds special about the conversations is that he was the only person, other than Obama, to have heard what was said. He was struck by the unique and special substance of what was shared. It was shared long before Obama became famous, so it was just two everyday men having a conversation. The interaction is detailed in the piece "You Never Know Who God Wants You To Meet" on page 95 of the book. That story, along with a number of rich anecdotes, makes it worth its purchase. When you put Rush's story together with what is shared in Andersen's book, you get a very rich story indeed.