Actor, comedian, and writer Bob Saget is the king of dual personalities. His most well-known role was playing an uptight, geeky father on the television hit, “Full House” while at the same time delivering dirty and raunchy one-liners in stand-up comedy clubs. Saget pens his first memoir in, “Dirty Daddy: The Chronicles of a Family Man Turned Filthy Comedian”.
“Dirty Daddy” is not your typical Hollywood memoir. Although Saget combines personal life experiences with that of his professional career; the similarities end there. Saget makes it clear in the introduction to “Dirty Daddy” that he will not follow a chronological autobiographical narrative with his story-telling. He couldn’t be more honest.
To be blunt, Saget’s writing is best described as “all over the place” in the vein of stream of consciousness. He describes a story which springs back to an older memory and then returns to the first thought. This may be a bit choppy for some readers and not what one expects from a memoir. Yet, there is a method to his madness and it reflects the way human minds truly work rather than exhibiting poor writing skills.
Although “Dirty Daddy” can only be taken in small chunks because of its randomness; it has soul. The writing has life to it, laugh-out-loud funny moments, and pure emotion. The reader will truly feel Saget’s personality, resulting in a vivid connection. Admittedly, there are times when it feels Saget is trying too hard to be funny but this isn’t detrimental to the book.
“Dirty Daddy” is not gender specific and appeals to both genders with a plethora of male-friendly penis jokes but with heart-rending tales of his love for the women in his family and life morals. It is quite clear that Saget is a loving romantic at heart. The disappointing factor is that Saget’s defense mechanism of dealing with pain by using comedy always kicks in when telling an emotional story and thus, they feel cut short and abrupt.
There is something about “Dirty Daddy” which makes it quite riveting and a page turner. Saget is without a doubt entertaining. Not to mention, it is very refreshing to not read a Hollywood memoir with the standard, “I am an entitled drug addict but woe-is-me” plot line. Saget may be dirty but he is more intelligent than that. Naturally, “Dirty Daddy” contains name-dropping and Hollywood stories as is typical in celebrity memoirs. This does become somewhat tedious but the stories also have messages/morals which are worth repeating.
“Dirty Daddy” becomes less scattered as the book progresses. Perhaps, the reader simply becomes accustomed to his writing. Either way, it works. Generally, all of these tangents would be off-putting, but there is something in Saget’s sincerity which softens this flaw and drives the book.
Sadly, “Full House” fans seeking juicy gossip will have to look elsewhere. Saget mentions a couple tidbits about his “Full House” and “America’s Funniest Home Videos” days but he clearly filtered himself and erred on the boring side (one can find the gossip in Jodie Sweetin’s memoir, “UnSweetined”). Don’t expect “Dirty Daddy” to be a “Full-House” tell-all.
The final chapters of “Dirty Daddy” are meaningful and positive in their messages. Again, Saget is more of a family man than the dirty man (but he has a nice combination of both).
Even those readers who can get past Saget’s hyperactivity may have an issue with editing (or lack thereof); as there are some issues with repetition and grammar/punctuation. Plus, the photos throughout the text would have been better with included captions for those readers unfamiliar with the people posing with Saget.
Overall, “Dirty Daddy” is certainly NOT for everyone due to its choppy, non-chronological narrative. It is also not for readers aching for juicy gossip on the Olsen Twins or John Stamos. However, fans of Bob Saget will enjoy his candor, good nature, and revelations of his self and views. “Dirty Daddy” is a quick 1-2 day read and is therefore ‘fun’ entertainment (much like Bob Saget, himself).