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The Accidental Caregiver: How I Met, Loved, and Lost Legendary Holocaust Refugee Maria Altmann
When thirty-two-year-old actor Gregor Collins reluctantly interviewed for a job one morning as a caregiver more out of a favor to a friend - he had no idea his life was about to change forever.
Seconds into the chance meeting in 2008 with, it would turn out, a world-renowned Holocaust refugee named Maria Altmann, sparks flew, and it already felt as if they had known each other their entire lives; Collins was almost instantaneously transformed from a self-absorbed artist to an adoring caregiver.
Gregor offers us a personal and unprecedented look at Maria over the three intimate years he cared for her - her thrilling escape from the Nazis, her fight and subsequent win in the landmark Supreme Court case to return original Gustav Klimt artwork that belonged to her family in Austria, and the extraordinary people she met along the way. But the real heart of the story goes beyond mere historical fact.
Through a raw and honest portrayal of their unlikely and unbreakable bond, imbued with humorous, candid anecdotes about his mercurial relationship with Hollywood, Gregor takes us on a deeply emotional journey of how he opened up his heart to a 92-year-old woman in need - and in turn experienced the love he had been searching for his entire life.
Seconds into the chance meeting in 2008 with, it would turn out, a world-renowned Holocaust refugee named Maria Altmann, sparks flew, and it already felt as if they had known each other their entire lives; Collins was almost instantaneously transformed from a self-absorbed artist to an adoring caregiver.
Gregor offers us a personal and unprecedented look at Maria over the three intimate years he cared for her - her thrilling escape from the Nazis, her fight and subsequent win in the landmark Supreme Court case to return original Gustav Klimt artwork that belonged to her family in Austria, and the extraordinary people she met along the way. But the real heart of the story goes beyond mere historical fact.
Through a raw and honest portrayal of their unlikely and unbreakable bond, imbued with humorous, candid anecdotes about his mercurial relationship with Hollywood, Gregor takes us on a deeply emotional journey of how he opened up his heart to a 92-year-old woman in need - and in turn experienced the love he had been searching for his entire life.
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First published August 13, 2012
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5 books16 followersGregor is an actor, author, scriptwriter, and film and television producer living in New York. The stage adaptation of his acclaimed memoir The Accidental Caregiver: How I Met, Loved and Lost Legendary Holocaust Refugee Maria Altmann, will debut at the Robert Moss Theater in NYC on 01/26/15: http://venusnytheaterfestival.com/the...
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November 8, 2024
Gregor Collins' The Accidental Caregiver is a heartwarming memoir that chronicles his unexpected journey as the caretaker of the legendary Holocaust survivor, Maria Altmann. Collins' honest and engaging writing offers a unique glimpse into the life of this woman and their profound bond.
The book talks about aging and the challenges of caring for an elderly individual. Collins's patient and compassionate approach to his role as a caregiver is evident throughout the narrative. He captures the nuances of their relationship, highlighting the moments of joy, frustration, and connection.
One of the most compelling aspects of the book is the exploration of Maria Altmann's extraordinary life story. From her harrowing experiences during the Holocaust to her later years as a prominent figure in the art world, Altmann's determination is truly inspiring. Collins's portrayal of her strength and spirit is, respectful.
His ability to blend humor, heartbreak, and historical context makes this book a truly captivating read. The book offers a valuable reminder of the importance of human connection, empathy, and the power of resilience.
While the memoir may not be a fast-paced thriller, it is a deeply rewarding read that offers a unique perspective on aging, loss, and the determination of the human spirit.
The book talks about aging and the challenges of caring for an elderly individual. Collins's patient and compassionate approach to his role as a caregiver is evident throughout the narrative. He captures the nuances of their relationship, highlighting the moments of joy, frustration, and connection.
One of the most compelling aspects of the book is the exploration of Maria Altmann's extraordinary life story. From her harrowing experiences during the Holocaust to her later years as a prominent figure in the art world, Altmann's determination is truly inspiring. Collins's portrayal of her strength and spirit is, respectful.
His ability to blend humor, heartbreak, and historical context makes this book a truly captivating read. The book offers a valuable reminder of the importance of human connection, empathy, and the power of resilience.
While the memoir may not be a fast-paced thriller, it is a deeply rewarding read that offers a unique perspective on aging, loss, and the determination of the human spirit.
September 15, 2012
Wow, wow and wow again. This is a heartfelt memoir recounted in the deepest and most honest way and it wholly warmed my heart, my mind, my soul.
It begins with the story of a thirty-two -year-old actor in Hollywood and it sheds light on his difficult and sometimes disheartening life in that land of dreams. Contrary to what we think the sun does not always shine in that glittering land of glamour and sophistication. Circumstances force him to follow a path he never ever dreamed of taking, caregiver to legendary ninety-year-old Maria Altmann. This proves to be the turning point of his life.
The stark honesty and simplicity in the meaningful conversations Collins and Maria share are truly tender. It is pure love for what is deep inside. There is a good kind heart beating inside Collins’ chest when he says, “I’m feeling gratitude at what I’m giving to someone else. I’ve always just felt gratitude only for what I was given.” Now that’s a quote that should have touched anyone’s heart.
When Collins told Maria that he was about to write a book on their special bond, she said...“Will anyone read it?”.....Yes Maria, I’ve read it, I’ve thoroughly enjoyed it and I just hope that many others will too.
It begins with the story of a thirty-two -year-old actor in Hollywood and it sheds light on his difficult and sometimes disheartening life in that land of dreams. Contrary to what we think the sun does not always shine in that glittering land of glamour and sophistication. Circumstances force him to follow a path he never ever dreamed of taking, caregiver to legendary ninety-year-old Maria Altmann. This proves to be the turning point of his life.
The stark honesty and simplicity in the meaningful conversations Collins and Maria share are truly tender. It is pure love for what is deep inside. There is a good kind heart beating inside Collins’ chest when he says, “I’m feeling gratitude at what I’m giving to someone else. I’ve always just felt gratitude only for what I was given.” Now that’s a quote that should have touched anyone’s heart.
When Collins told Maria that he was about to write a book on their special bond, she said...“Will anyone read it?”.....Yes Maria, I’ve read it, I’ve thoroughly enjoyed it and I just hope that many others will too.
March 22, 2016
This was a first-hand account of a man who was a caregiver to Maria Altmann for the last three years of her life, after she had successfully sued the Austrian government to get back her family's artwork that had been stolen by the Nazis. Maria's story was the basis for the movie Woman in Gold. I had heard/saw/read various articles about this book and even though it sounded a little weird, I thought I'd try the book. I also saw Woman in Gold. I didn't like the book. I didn't find it very interesting and much of it seemed like deja vu - I guess I'd had too much pre-information. The flirty relationship between the young man and the elderly Maria came across as too much and never felt OK to me. I didn't learn much more about Maria except about her close family and friends. I only finished it because I was literally stuck away from home for three days without TV, radio, or anything to read that I didn't bring myself.
September 2, 2012
Article first published as Book Review: The Accidental Caregiver by Gregor Collins on Blogcritics.
Are you yearning for an astounding story written with a passionate voice to take you away from your troubles? Look no further than this book.
Astonishing and assured, the memoir recounts both the years the author was caregiver to a remarkable woman and his life as an actor. “Acting found me, which is why I knew I couldn’t ignore it.” Admittedly self-absorbed, Collins writes honestly about the loneliness and exasperation inherent in an acting career. At age 32, he becomes a caregiver for Maria Altmann and learns the feeling of truly loving a job. Rather than just feeding pills to a ninety-year old woman, caregiving for him turns out to be a two way street.
Collins has a stout, sensitive heart. He breathes life into the story by inserting his deepest thoughts and feelings. His recounting of Maria Altmann’s story is done with reverence. “Maria is a bundle of charm snuggled under a blanket of love nestled inside a basket of sweetness.” The author’s lust for living life to the fullest spills off the pages. In his relationship with Maria, two effervescent personalities comingle to make sparks fly.
He describes Holocaust refugee, Maria Altmann, as a spitfire woman with amazing intellect and quick wit. A member of one of the wealthiest, cultured families in Western Europe, she was well connected in the musical world. She shared her husband’s passion for opera and had a huge crush on tenor, Placido Domingo. She and her husband, Fritz (a survivor of Dachau) narrowly escaped from Austria in 1938 and ultimately made their way to Los Angeles. In 2004 she won a Supreme Court case to restore to her family Gustav Klimt artwork stolen by the Nazis. When she met Collins in 2008, she was a woman grappling with the challenges of aging, but still dancing her way through life.
The reader is engaged from the get go. The writing is refreshing. Playful banter between Collins and Maria sparkles throughout. Moments of hilarity alternate with deeply tender scenes. The narrative jumps around a bit and would have benefitted from an editor’s pen, but this is a minor issue considering the story’s impact. Chapter headings are indicated by dates, photographs and provocative (sometimes quite racy) quotes.
Lest we think Mr. Collins gave up on his acting career, he reiterates that he cannot separate his life from his art. He recently produced and starred in Goodbye Promise and currently working on A Good Day to Die with Cloris Leachman.
The Accidental Caregiver is a truly unique love story. Gregor Collins gives us a beautiful, intense memoir not to be missed. Highly recommended. Keep your handkerchief handy.
Reviewed by Holly Weiss, author of
Crestmont
Are you yearning for an astounding story written with a passionate voice to take you away from your troubles? Look no further than this book.
Astonishing and assured, the memoir recounts both the years the author was caregiver to a remarkable woman and his life as an actor. “Acting found me, which is why I knew I couldn’t ignore it.” Admittedly self-absorbed, Collins writes honestly about the loneliness and exasperation inherent in an acting career. At age 32, he becomes a caregiver for Maria Altmann and learns the feeling of truly loving a job. Rather than just feeding pills to a ninety-year old woman, caregiving for him turns out to be a two way street.
Collins has a stout, sensitive heart. He breathes life into the story by inserting his deepest thoughts and feelings. His recounting of Maria Altmann’s story is done with reverence. “Maria is a bundle of charm snuggled under a blanket of love nestled inside a basket of sweetness.” The author’s lust for living life to the fullest spills off the pages. In his relationship with Maria, two effervescent personalities comingle to make sparks fly.
He describes Holocaust refugee, Maria Altmann, as a spitfire woman with amazing intellect and quick wit. A member of one of the wealthiest, cultured families in Western Europe, she was well connected in the musical world. She shared her husband’s passion for opera and had a huge crush on tenor, Placido Domingo. She and her husband, Fritz (a survivor of Dachau) narrowly escaped from Austria in 1938 and ultimately made their way to Los Angeles. In 2004 she won a Supreme Court case to restore to her family Gustav Klimt artwork stolen by the Nazis. When she met Collins in 2008, she was a woman grappling with the challenges of aging, but still dancing her way through life.
The reader is engaged from the get go. The writing is refreshing. Playful banter between Collins and Maria sparkles throughout. Moments of hilarity alternate with deeply tender scenes. The narrative jumps around a bit and would have benefitted from an editor’s pen, but this is a minor issue considering the story’s impact. Chapter headings are indicated by dates, photographs and provocative (sometimes quite racy) quotes.
Lest we think Mr. Collins gave up on his acting career, he reiterates that he cannot separate his life from his art. He recently produced and starred in Goodbye Promise and currently working on A Good Day to Die with Cloris Leachman.
The Accidental Caregiver is a truly unique love story. Gregor Collins gives us a beautiful, intense memoir not to be missed. Highly recommended. Keep your handkerchief handy.
Reviewed by Holly Weiss, author of
Crestmont
October 24, 2012
This book surprised me. Truth told, I did not think a story involving a caregiver, Holocaust survivor, and their unlikely bond would resonate with me. However, while speeding along in my rather self-involved LA-based life, I was pleasantly sideswiped, and for several hours a day, over a few days, I was immersed in this honest, heartfelt, and poignant story. And I'm thankful for that. I needed that. Long story short, I loved the book and would recommend it to anyone. Trust me, it's not what you think.
The author has succeeded on so many levels in relating this extremely personal story to the reader. You're drawn in from the get-go, and the book, for me, surprisingly turned into a page-turner. For that, I credit the writing, which takes the reader by the hand and leads them through a very intimate story with adept storytelling skills and an addictive sense of humor. It tugs the heartstrings often, and then yanks them at just the right time -- but that's what great writers do and do well. The dialogue was also great. In fact, several lines made me jealous as a writer of fiction. I know the words and exchanges were real and came from a real people, but I found myself wishing I had penned them. I still do. One I'll never forget involves the comment, "Fish f*** in it." I'll say no more and will let you discover the situation surrounding that quote.
And you should discover it. You should take a chance on this book. I noticed the bevy of five-star reviews after I finished reading The Accidental Caregiver, and I was glad to see them. They are well deserved. And now I add mine to mix.
The author has succeeded on so many levels in relating this extremely personal story to the reader. You're drawn in from the get-go, and the book, for me, surprisingly turned into a page-turner. For that, I credit the writing, which takes the reader by the hand and leads them through a very intimate story with adept storytelling skills and an addictive sense of humor. It tugs the heartstrings often, and then yanks them at just the right time -- but that's what great writers do and do well. The dialogue was also great. In fact, several lines made me jealous as a writer of fiction. I know the words and exchanges were real and came from a real people, but I found myself wishing I had penned them. I still do. One I'll never forget involves the comment, "Fish f*** in it." I'll say no more and will let you discover the situation surrounding that quote.
And you should discover it. You should take a chance on this book. I noticed the bevy of five-star reviews after I finished reading The Accidental Caregiver, and I was glad to see them. They are well deserved. And now I add mine to mix.
November 9, 2013
This one snuck up on me. I hope you let The Accidental Caregiver: How I Met, Loved, and Lost Legendary Holocaust Refugee Maria Altmann sneak up on you too. This is a wonderful story about a vapid, superficial Hollywood actor wannabe and a holocaust escapee. Maria Altmann is the central figure, a daughter in a prominent Austrian Jewish family caught by the Anschluss. She escapes the holocaust that claims so many of her relatives and the confiscation of all their possessions. You will learn her story and how she came to wage a battle to reclaim the Klimt paintings stolen by the Nazis and then hung in Austrian museums. The other central figure is Gregor Collins, the barely working actor who needs some extra cash and takes on the job of part-time caregiver for the elderly Maria. I rolled my eyes at the initial setup of the story as it seemed too corny to be real. But the relationship changes Gregor and Maria is such a character, brought to light by Gregor’s writing. If this were a movie, it would be a chick flick…a darn good one…and I would admit to watching it. 4 Stars.
October 29, 2012
A Tale of warmth and love.
Whilst this is an autobiography of Gregor Collins’ experience of being a caregiver, it is also the biography of a short part of the life of an amazing person, Maria Altmann.
The range of this book is set at the end of Maria’s life, a time that many would consider to be the saddest of days, as the candle of life burns towards its inevitable end. However, life sometimes has a way of throwing a last, lucky, throw of the dice. So it is with the connection between Gregor and Maria, a connection that could have been a passing of ships in the night and instead was a wonderful love story between two people at different stages of life.
The story is told in a wonderfully positive atmosphere and every page oozes with the love that the writer has for his friend and soulmate. This book could have easily been a simpering adulation exercise, or an unemotional factual account, but Gregor has been able to imbue it with a wonder and positive emotion that, even when the inevitable happens, leaves you upbeat and positive knowing that it was a life well lived, right up to the end.
If you are looking to read this book, rest assured this is a positive book, with lovely anecdotes of times past and times present. The narrative is very natural, if for no other reason than it was written from the heart. Do not pass up the opportunity to read this book, as it will do your heart good to read it.
Whilst this is an autobiography of Gregor Collins’ experience of being a caregiver, it is also the biography of a short part of the life of an amazing person, Maria Altmann.
The range of this book is set at the end of Maria’s life, a time that many would consider to be the saddest of days, as the candle of life burns towards its inevitable end. However, life sometimes has a way of throwing a last, lucky, throw of the dice. So it is with the connection between Gregor and Maria, a connection that could have been a passing of ships in the night and instead was a wonderful love story between two people at different stages of life.
The story is told in a wonderfully positive atmosphere and every page oozes with the love that the writer has for his friend and soulmate. This book could have easily been a simpering adulation exercise, or an unemotional factual account, but Gregor has been able to imbue it with a wonder and positive emotion that, even when the inevitable happens, leaves you upbeat and positive knowing that it was a life well lived, right up to the end.
If you are looking to read this book, rest assured this is a positive book, with lovely anecdotes of times past and times present. The narrative is very natural, if for no other reason than it was written from the heart. Do not pass up the opportunity to read this book, as it will do your heart good to read it.
February 17, 2013
This book is written with such enthusiasm and humor that it's inspiring. The story embarked on a truly special journey between a care giver, Gregor Collins, and the love of his life, an elderly lady with a phenomenal past and an incredible spirit: Maria Altmann. Maria is a legendary Holocaust refugee, mother of four, and a spirited, passionate, and kind elderly woman who Gregor cares for for 3 years.
The story is beautifully written, funny, clever and heartfelt. The author transitions and grows as a man during his time with Maria. Her glow and energy help change his views on life and love, while his care and dedication help her to feel young again.
It's a fun read full of clever anecdotes, celebrity appearances, funny stories, and images which capture a peak into a truly incredible life.
It's a beautiful and touching story!
Disclosure: While I won this book on goodreads, the review is completely honest and my own.
The story is beautifully written, funny, clever and heartfelt. The author transitions and grows as a man during his time with Maria. Her glow and energy help change his views on life and love, while his care and dedication help her to feel young again.
It's a fun read full of clever anecdotes, celebrity appearances, funny stories, and images which capture a peak into a truly incredible life.
It's a beautiful and touching story!
Disclosure: While I won this book on goodreads, the review is completely honest and my own.
September 11, 2013
Although it is an autobiography about Gregor, I enjoyed reading about Maria - a truly extraordinary woman - so I finished the book despite my distaste for the author.
I found Gregor to be the "typical actor" who is a classic name-dropper. It was tolerable and I grew to like him a bit more as it went on... and then there was a "selfie" of him lying next to Maria, at this point quite frail, in her own bed. What was his motive for taking a photo of himself in the delicate position of caring for (and lying next to) a sickly elder woman? I'm sure he loved her, but perhaps what he loved most was his connection to a woman who had made a name for herself.
The selfies that began almost every chapter really ruined my overall opinion of this book for me. It was just plain awkward and unnecessary.
I found Gregor to be the "typical actor" who is a classic name-dropper. It was tolerable and I grew to like him a bit more as it went on... and then there was a "selfie" of him lying next to Maria, at this point quite frail, in her own bed. What was his motive for taking a photo of himself in the delicate position of caring for (and lying next to) a sickly elder woman? I'm sure he loved her, but perhaps what he loved most was his connection to a woman who had made a name for herself.
The selfies that began almost every chapter really ruined my overall opinion of this book for me. It was just plain awkward and unnecessary.
August 12, 2013
Really wasn't sure about this book at all. I gave up at 23% as I found it quite an uncomfortable read, to be honest.
The author was taking care of a 92 year old lady and he was in his early thirties. Yet he mentions liking feeling her satiny bathrobe.....I found that inappropriate and a tad creepy. He writes like he was in love with her. All a little strange, I found.
I liked reading about Maria herself and what sounds a fascinating life she led, especially regarding the court battle to get the family's Klimt paintings back.
I only spotted a couple of errors by the time I gave up, though. so that merited an extra star.
The author was taking care of a 92 year old lady and he was in his early thirties. Yet he mentions liking feeling her satiny bathrobe.....I found that inappropriate and a tad creepy. He writes like he was in love with her. All a little strange, I found.
I liked reading about Maria herself and what sounds a fascinating life she led, especially regarding the court battle to get the family's Klimt paintings back.
I only spotted a couple of errors by the time I gave up, though. so that merited an extra star.
July 18, 2015
Don't bother it's not a history of Maria Altman
From 25% to 50%, according to the Kindle book marking system, there is an interesting, but brief overview of Mrs. Layman's life. The rest is the rather rambling thoughts of a self centered want to be actor/writer. The photos are mostly of him posing. Wow.
From 25% to 50%, according to the Kindle book marking system, there is an interesting, but brief overview of Mrs. Layman's life. The rest is the rather rambling thoughts of a self centered want to be actor/writer. The photos are mostly of him posing. Wow.
April 29, 2015
After having seen and loved the movie "Woman in Gold". I was anxious to read this book. What a wonderful person Mrs. Altman must have been. The book was interesting and gut wrenching. I enjoyed it very much!
November 10, 2012
Loved this! There was so much to it...Gregor's changing attitude about what is important in life and the elderly along with introducing us to Maria and the culture of her youth and life.
January 16, 2015
Awesome read! I loved it!!!!
January 15, 2014
It started out intriguingly but rather quickly degenerated into something of a paean of praise for the author himself. It made me feel he was something of a gold digger.
February 17, 2015
Thought this book was a bit choppy in places, was hard to keep characters straight.
October 11, 2018
This book is a love-letter to Maria Altmann, who became famous in art circles in her 80's, when she challenged her homeland of Austria for the return of a Klimt portrait of her Aunt Adele, stolen by the Nazis in World War II. The author of this memoir meets her by chance when a friend asks him to become her caregiver in 2008, when she was 92. Collins at that time was an under-employed actor/producer in LA and took the job for the paycheck (obviously, since he had never been a caregiver before). What follows is a charming love story between an outspoken aging woman with lots of stories to tell, and a formerly self-involved thirty-two-year-old handsome single man with "one fabulous nose." It's fresh, funny, flirty and flippant, as well as honest and heartbreakingly sad. Thanks to Gregor Collins for writing it!
December 22, 2016
A true love story
I rarely read biographical books but this caught my interest straight away and cuddled me through to the end. It is a love story like none I have read before. I have fallen in love with Maria and Gregor. Their bond is simply beautiful and gives us all hope that we can find that perfect love once in our lives.
I rarely read biographical books but this caught my interest straight away and cuddled me through to the end. It is a love story like none I have read before. I have fallen in love with Maria and Gregor. Their bond is simply beautiful and gives us all hope that we can find that perfect love once in our lives.
June 13, 2025
Heartwarming and beautiful!
I went into this wanting to know about the fascinating Maria Altmann after the movie. What I got from it was so much more. Collins’ writing had me enraptured - laughing, crying, and wanting more! Ms. Altmann was an extraordinary woman in every way. How I wish I could have known her. Thanks to Mr. Collins, I almost feel like I did.
I went into this wanting to know about the fascinating Maria Altmann after the movie. What I got from it was so much more. Collins’ writing had me enraptured - laughing, crying, and wanting more! Ms. Altmann was an extraordinary woman in every way. How I wish I could have known her. Thanks to Mr. Collins, I almost feel like I did.
June 10, 2022
Really interesting in parts, but it lost me in others.. Often skim read because I couldn't relate or see the point of some of the information shared. Overall, the relationship between the two is beautiful though!
September 2, 2017
Great follow up to the movie, written in diary form.
August 21, 2018
Wonderfully written!
I felt as if I was there the whole time. I could not put the book down. The story is as fascinating as it is loving. A must read.
I felt as if I was there the whole time. I could not put the book down. The story is as fascinating as it is loving. A must read.
March 17, 2019
I was more interested in Maria than his self aggrandized story about himself.
March 6, 2021
I really enjoyed learning about Maria’s life that was not historical fiction,
September 5, 2015
History. A subject I have always been thoroughly fascinated with. Not just the dates, places and people often forced upon us by rote in mandatory classes. No, my research has always been from the perspective of what I might have done, thought, or felt. What might have caused these people to do as they did? What human frailty became the pivot, the fulcrum of history?
That inquisitiveness drew me to the tale of Maria Altman. Her battle with the Austrian government is portrayed in the movie, Woman in Gold. I highly recommend it. Yes, it speaks of the Nazi invasion and possession of Austria and the events that followed, but it goes far deeper. The movie sheds some light on the Vienna of the late 1800s and early 1900s. This was a time of the literati, when parties and recitals were a nightly affair and the accomplished and the affluent of Austria met in private homes. Even reviews that find fault consider it a movie well worth the effort.
Maria Altman was a child of the elite. She was raised in a home where personages such as Johannes Brahms, Gustav Klimt, Giacomo Puccini, Max Reinhardt, Arnold Schoenberg, Richard Strauss, and others who are no longer household names, were frequent visitors. It is Klimt who was commissioned by her uncle to paint her aunt Adele. This world was shattered the day Hitler marched into Vienna.
The movie portrays those dark months in flashbacks as it dramatizes Altman’s battle with Austria to gain acknowledgement of her family’s title to the paintings. Randol Schoenberg, the grandson of Arnold, waged the battle in Austria and in the U. S. Teh case was heard by the Supreme Court. What I found most interesting was that key I always look for; the human side.
The Nazi’s were infamous in their looting of the treasures of Europe. The paintings, among other assets, held by the Bloch-Bauer’s were no exception. Originally entitled Adele Bloch-Bauer I, the name of the painting was changed in the Nazi effort to eradicate all things Jewish. Eventually, it acquired the status of the Austrian Mona Lisa. But, this was not a state treasure of the Austrian government, proudly displayed in the Belvedere Palace in Vienna. To Maria it was a family portrait. A piece that represented something very special about a happy, secure and intellectually challenging childhood. It was a painting of a fondly remembered aunt.
In later years, Maria discovered that her aunt’s jewelry was given to Hermann Goering’s wife. She said she didn’t feel too badly since she had heard the lady had done some good for people. One of these pieces was the diamond choker depicted in the painting.
That brings us to the more personal side of Maria Altman. The Maria not dressed up in Hollywood depictions and poetic license. For that you must visit the memoir of Gregor Collins, The Accidental Caregiver.
It doesn’t matter if you are a caregiver, this is a delightful book with genuine insights into the woman, and the process of aging. Collins is a member of a team hired to look after Maria in the last three years of her life. He chronicles their relationship, their conversations, and the lessons learned from a woman that simply would not let life get her down. An invigorating personality that you could well see standing up against the governments of two nations and demanding whatever small part of her childhood could still be touched, without ever letting go of living life to its fullest right now, right here.
Again, I am reminded of her whole outlook. The money was never the real issue with her. In fact, the family gave large portions of the proceeds to charity. The division of what was kept was settled quickly and without squabble. Testimony to the grace and noblesse oblige which permeated the upbringing of many generations of Bloch-Bauers.
Collins does not dwell on the failings of the disease, he spotlights his charge and allows her spirit to shine through the day to day management of physical therapy, doctor’s visits, medications and moments of realization that the end was surely on the way. Having been a caregiver for 4 years, I chuckled as he described corralling three elderly ladies with the intent of getting them to a shared meal. I cried as I read the last days of Maria’s life, reliving those same experiences with my husband. He walked through those days with beauty, honesty, and genuine love for the woman.
Accidental Caregiver is not an instruction book on how to be a caregiver. It is a story of how one caregiver learned to see more than the diminished capacity of his charge. It is about seeing the humanity in all of us and of grasping that bit that makes us individuals in all circumstances and to all ends. It is a lesson in finding the good in life, however that good may masquerade.
That inquisitiveness drew me to the tale of Maria Altman. Her battle with the Austrian government is portrayed in the movie, Woman in Gold. I highly recommend it. Yes, it speaks of the Nazi invasion and possession of Austria and the events that followed, but it goes far deeper. The movie sheds some light on the Vienna of the late 1800s and early 1900s. This was a time of the literati, when parties and recitals were a nightly affair and the accomplished and the affluent of Austria met in private homes. Even reviews that find fault consider it a movie well worth the effort.
Maria Altman was a child of the elite. She was raised in a home where personages such as Johannes Brahms, Gustav Klimt, Giacomo Puccini, Max Reinhardt, Arnold Schoenberg, Richard Strauss, and others who are no longer household names, were frequent visitors. It is Klimt who was commissioned by her uncle to paint her aunt Adele. This world was shattered the day Hitler marched into Vienna.
The movie portrays those dark months in flashbacks as it dramatizes Altman’s battle with Austria to gain acknowledgement of her family’s title to the paintings. Randol Schoenberg, the grandson of Arnold, waged the battle in Austria and in the U. S. Teh case was heard by the Supreme Court. What I found most interesting was that key I always look for; the human side.
The Nazi’s were infamous in their looting of the treasures of Europe. The paintings, among other assets, held by the Bloch-Bauer’s were no exception. Originally entitled Adele Bloch-Bauer I, the name of the painting was changed in the Nazi effort to eradicate all things Jewish. Eventually, it acquired the status of the Austrian Mona Lisa. But, this was not a state treasure of the Austrian government, proudly displayed in the Belvedere Palace in Vienna. To Maria it was a family portrait. A piece that represented something very special about a happy, secure and intellectually challenging childhood. It was a painting of a fondly remembered aunt.
In later years, Maria discovered that her aunt’s jewelry was given to Hermann Goering’s wife. She said she didn’t feel too badly since she had heard the lady had done some good for people. One of these pieces was the diamond choker depicted in the painting.
That brings us to the more personal side of Maria Altman. The Maria not dressed up in Hollywood depictions and poetic license. For that you must visit the memoir of Gregor Collins, The Accidental Caregiver.
It doesn’t matter if you are a caregiver, this is a delightful book with genuine insights into the woman, and the process of aging. Collins is a member of a team hired to look after Maria in the last three years of her life. He chronicles their relationship, their conversations, and the lessons learned from a woman that simply would not let life get her down. An invigorating personality that you could well see standing up against the governments of two nations and demanding whatever small part of her childhood could still be touched, without ever letting go of living life to its fullest right now, right here.
Again, I am reminded of her whole outlook. The money was never the real issue with her. In fact, the family gave large portions of the proceeds to charity. The division of what was kept was settled quickly and without squabble. Testimony to the grace and noblesse oblige which permeated the upbringing of many generations of Bloch-Bauers.
Collins does not dwell on the failings of the disease, he spotlights his charge and allows her spirit to shine through the day to day management of physical therapy, doctor’s visits, medications and moments of realization that the end was surely on the way. Having been a caregiver for 4 years, I chuckled as he described corralling three elderly ladies with the intent of getting them to a shared meal. I cried as I read the last days of Maria’s life, reliving those same experiences with my husband. He walked through those days with beauty, honesty, and genuine love for the woman.
Accidental Caregiver is not an instruction book on how to be a caregiver. It is a story of how one caregiver learned to see more than the diminished capacity of his charge. It is about seeing the humanity in all of us and of grasping that bit that makes us individuals in all circumstances and to all ends. It is a lesson in finding the good in life, however that good may masquerade.
March 4, 2017
This. "It's one of the magical things about life, that when you hit a wall, you step back genuinely and humbly... and the answers suddenly flow like a babbling brook."
And this: "People who put avocados in the fridge are basically saying, 'I want to eventually experience something less amazing."
Such a little gem of a read.
And this: "People who put avocados in the fridge are basically saying, 'I want to eventually experience something less amazing."
Such a little gem of a read.
July 11, 2015
I liked this book primarily because it filled in some of the blanks that exist in the story told in "Lady in Gold," -- a book about the first Klimt portrait of Adele Bloch-Bauer and Maria Altmann's quest to recover it from the Austrian government. "Lady in Gold" is a spectacular (5-star) book, which I highly recommend. This book is not as good. It's more of a personal diary, which covers the last three years of Maria Altmann's life, while under the care (hence the title) of the author. It has an overabundant quantity of personal references to Mr. Collins's relationship with Maria Altmann -- some too personal (and a bit self-indulgent) in my opinion. Nevertheless, there are some sections of the book that are just filled with wonderful information about the exciting early life of Maria Altmann that one may not find anywhere else.
Be that as it may, it gave me a better picture of the main characters which populated "Lady in Gold." In particular, it has an appendix of sorts, which lists all of the friends, family, and famous people that Maria came in contact with during her long life in Austria and the US. She died just short of her 95th birthday. This appendix alone made the book worth reading.
I recommend the movie "Woman in Gold," to anyone interested in this topic -- the stolen Klimt paintings. It's a really good movie.
Be that as it may, it gave me a better picture of the main characters which populated "Lady in Gold." In particular, it has an appendix of sorts, which lists all of the friends, family, and famous people that Maria came in contact with during her long life in Austria and the US. She died just short of her 95th birthday. This appendix alone made the book worth reading.
I recommend the movie "Woman in Gold," to anyone interested in this topic -- the stolen Klimt paintings. It's a really good movie.
October 11, 2012
From the very beginning, this book brings to the forefront the truly remarkable life of Maria Altmann. The tales of her escape from the Nazi's, her battle for justice and the circle of characters that formed her progeny, are simply fascinating. What is more interesting about this book, however, is the sincerity and passion of the writing. Even a mediocre talent likely could have written about Maria's life and made it palatable - she was just that amazing. But in this version we get to see her through the eyes of someone deeply affected by her nature and honestly transformed through his relationship with her. That journey shines through each page of this book. Gregor Collins manages to put us in the kitchen with he and Maria - he lets us share the meals they had, listen in on the intimate and revealing conversations and allows us to walk on path he and Maria shared both physically and emotionally. That is the true wonder of this book. It is a Hollywood worthy biography wrapped in a story of self-evolution.
In the end, you are reminded of how much we take for granted the older individuals in our lives. Maria shows us how much they have offer - and Gregor shows us how to gratefully accept their gifts.
In the end, you are reminded of how much we take for granted the older individuals in our lives. Maria shows us how much they have offer - and Gregor shows us how to gratefully accept their gifts.
June 19, 2015
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It was not a biography of Maria Altmann, the subject of the movie "Woman in Gold" but was instead a very heartwarming personal account of the author's 'accidental' encounter with her. Clearly she was a fascinating woman, who still had so much love to give in her last years. The author shows us the value of getting to know the elderly, whether our own relatives, or those we encounter as neighbors or in our community. Our society has so long devalued the elderly, and this book is inspiring. Through dialogue and anecdotes from the everyday encounters with Maria, Collins shares her remarkable personality, which comes across as both humorous and flirtatious. Despite her brush with the Nazis she always maintained a positive outlook on life. The book is very informal, and the author speaks about his own search for meaningful relationships, and what he learned from this much older woman. This book makes me want to spend more time with older men and women like Maria while there is still time.
November 2, 2012
"The Accidental Caregiver" is a charming book about a young, self-absorbed actor in L.A. who is utterly blindsided by an amazing, older woman. The fact that the woman in question was Maria Altmann, the world-renowned Holocaust refugee from Austria whose landmark case allowed her family to reclaim five paintings by the artist Gustav Klimt that were stolen by the Nazis during World War II, only made it that much easier to understand why he fell head over heels in love. Maria was such a spitfire that by the end of the book, I was falling for her too.
The story of Gregor and Maria's unique relationship was intriguing, particularly considering the age difference; however, I really enjoyed reading about how her very presence affected and inspired him. And while I enjoyed reading "The Accidental Caregiver," I wish I could've heard an audio version of it, narrated by the two of them. What a treat that would've been!
The story of Gregor and Maria's unique relationship was intriguing, particularly considering the age difference; however, I really enjoyed reading about how her very presence affected and inspired him. And while I enjoyed reading "The Accidental Caregiver," I wish I could've heard an audio version of it, narrated by the two of them. What a treat that would've been!
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