It's always interesting to see that lives that appear enviable from the outside, contain exactly as much hassle as anyone's! It struck me that Devey is an incredibly loyal and loving person. She was so loyal to her parents, who I thought were horrible & she never gave up on her son.
This tough, practical woman had a moment when her dead father came and put his arm around her and told her she'd get through a bad patch. I know it sounds crazy, she said, but that's what happened. These incidents fascinate me. When they happen, they feel real, but if they are real, then why can't dad come back more often and give advice beforehand so you don't get into trouble in the first place? And if they are not real, what happens?