Like most American women, it seems, I have read Eat, Pray, Love. (I haven't seen the movie, because I'm hopelessly behind the times, but I'm hoping to change that soon.) And, like most again, one of my first impressions of the "Rome" section of the book was this - "No way Luca Spaghetti is a real person. Surely she made him up. I mean..."
Well, Luca Spaghetti is real. And he wrote Un Amico Italiano ("An Italian Friend") so that you would know that he is real. Elizabeth Gilbert didn't make him up, and that really is his name. Oh, and he really is as open-hearted and ebullient as he appears in Eat, Pray, Love.
In his own memoir, Luca takes us through his childhood in Rome - from the agony of growing up Roman with a last name like "Spaghetti," to the pure joy of playing soccer in the parish yard on a Sunday afternoon, to the fun of discovering British and American rock music thanks to his two young uncles. The second section of the book is devoted to Luca's travels in the United States, where he takes in everything from the Grand Canyon to the Grand Old Opry with wide-eyed charm and Italian enthusiasm. And then finally, in the third section, Elizabeth Gilbert makes her appearance, and the reader gets to experience the friendship that so informed the first part of her memoir through the eyes of Luca, the other party.
Un Amico Italiano isn't particularly deep or well-written (except for some meditations on friendship and one practically poetic description of a sunrise as seen from an Amtrak observation car), but what it lacks in literary value it makes up in spades, in sweetness and charm. Luca is a fun and gregarious guide to Roman life. His passages on the anguish experienced by S.S. Lazio fans (and I can relate, as a Buffalo Sabres fan), and his attempts to test Elizabeth's culinary fortitude during the early days of their friendship (of course, we know she passed) are such good fun. His talk of pasta and gelato made me hungry, and his meditations on love made me yearn for un amico Italiano of my own. Luca Spaghetti, let's be friends?