This is the sloppiest, most unoriginal, and depressing book I have ever read. Please read my review before you consider picking it up.
I don't enjoy bullying stories at all, and this one is no different from the others: sweet kid who you feel bad for is bullied by some bad kids at school. They don’t tell ANYONE and no adults seem to notice and/or care. One eventually finds out, the bullies get told, and the poor kid is “better” for the experience.
I do not like these books because they send a bad message to kids being bullied: “Don’t stand up for yourself, don’t tell an adult, because someone will find out eventually and you’ll be OK.”
No!
Sylvia and a group of girls at school torment Stephie mercilessly. It is terrible. The teacher is always conveniently not looking that way or out of the room. It gets bad. Really bad. Sylvia even BURNS OFF SOME OF STEPHIE'S HAIR, leading Stephie to cut it very short and feeling guilty when she has to send a picture of her short hair to her mother, who loved her long braids, pouring tons of salt into the wound.
Poor Stephie. She is drifting apart from her sister and has to live with this mean old woman. She is lonely and has no one at all. this leads her to make a lot of bas choices. Not consciously bad, but pretty much every chapter has her doing something reckless without thinking. It gets to the point where it's quite ridiculous and hard to read. This and the constant bullying make every chapter incredibly redundant.
I love Scandinavia and when I saw this book I thought it looked good. The beginning was good, with Stephie and Nellie on a ship, wondering what will happen to them, wondering what their foster families will be like. I enjoyed the book until they met their foster families. Nellie gets kind, loving Aunt Alma, and Stephie gets stern and unwelcoming Aunt Märta. Up until that point, the two sisters only had each other. But now Nellie has Aunt Alma and her family, and Stephie has nothing. The two sisters drift apart rapidly after that. This made me sad, of course, but also, I thought that this was supposed to be about two sisters. But it is just about Stephie. And not even Stephie, really. All the book is is bad things happening to Stephie.
There is so much bullying in this book that I skipped ahead to a chapter without all of the painful teasing. But even though that chapter did not feature Sylvia & Co. showing you how to treat other people, it showed Stephie doing—you guessed it—something stupid. Every single chapter seemed to be something bad happening to Stephie or her doing something stupid. Each chapter was worse than the one before it. It is tiring to read about such a good person taking knock after knock after knock and just not doing anything about it. For me, it felt like the author just didn’t have any other ideas for how to progress the book until the ending, so she stuffed it with filler material. I lost track of what was actually happening and realized that I had been reading the exact same thing for the last 50 pages.
And wait—I completely forgot. Stephie and Nellie were Jewish! Yeah, that’s the whole reason that they were sent to Sweden in the first place. It is based on a true event: the Swedish government arranged for 500 Jewish children from Germany, Austria, and Czechoslovakia to seek refuge in Sweden. Stephie and Nellie were supposed to be two of those children. But there is almost no Judaism in this book.
I am Jewish myself, and it was one of the reasons I decided to read this book. I forgot to mention that at the beginning because Stephie and Nellie being Jewish is so insignificant in the story that I do not think of this as a Jewish book.
In church, Stephie cries during one of the prayers (remember that she does not even speak Swedish, so she can not understand the prayers) because maybe they remind her of Jewish prayers. Aunt Märta and Aunt Alma notice and declare her “redeemed”, proceeding to make very insulting remarks about the religion. The girls are later baptized. I understand that the author was trying to show how the Christians felt about Judaism, but the comments are disgusting and scary. I respect Christianity, but the Christians in this book are portrayed to be kind of stupid when it comes to their religion. The author is Jewish, and it almost feels like she just does not understand Christianity and was trying to make a satire or something. (I say this with all due respect, I do not mean to hurt or offend anyone). After that, the girls pretty much conform to Christianity. Or, at least, they never actually stand up for their religion. This disappointed me. As much as I complain about Stephie being stupid, I thought that she was better than this. And if she was so upset about cutting her hair short (which she did herself, by the way) it does not make sense to me why she would be so undisturbed about forcefully being converted.
Stephie is the only character in this book who appears to have complex feelings. The other characters feel fake, almost facades, just beings in Stephie’s world. Maybe it was supposed to be that way, but for me it felt kind of creepy, like those dystopian stories where someone wakes up and finds out that they are the only person in the world. At the end, suddenly all of the characters become real people. Aunt Märta stands up for Stephie (it’s about time!) and we find out that Aunt Märta has a secret! Oooh!
Things get a lot better for Stephie and she makes friends with one of the bully girls. But then, she meets Sven, a 16 year old who is nice to her and she falls in love with. It was nice that things got a little bit better for Stephie, but it makes me uncomfortable that the guy she ends up with is four years older than her.
The ending felt rushed, as if the author suddenly realized too late that she should have used those 50 pages of bullying to develop a better ending, but that’s what a sequel is for!
Also, this book feels like an Anne of Green Gables rip off. The stories are very similar, but Anne of Green Gables (one of my favorite books) has well developed characters from the start, humor, and Anne does not make you want to scream because she does not make aggravating decisions like Stephie (Anne can sometimes be annoying in her own way, but it is very different).
Obviously, I did not like this book. Books should make you feel good, and this one made me feel sad and lonely like Stephie. It was depressing. But, anyway, thank you for reading my review.