Jump to ratings and reviews

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”.

228 pages, Hardcover

First published January 1, 2004

Loading...
Loading...

About the author

Ian Kerner

26 books307 followers
Ian Kerner is a nationally-recognized sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author of numerous books including the ever-popular She Comes First (Harper Collins). He writes a well known column for CNN and can often be seen on the TODAY Show and the Dr. Oz Show amongst others. He is regularly quoted as an expert in print and online media.

Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors (AASECT) and addresses issues that are common to the "American bedroom." He frequently lectures on topics related to human sexuality, with recent appearances at New York University, Yale and Princeton. Ian is the founder of Good in Bed, an online destination that brings together many of the country's leading sex and relationship experts. Ian was born and raised in New York City, where he lives with his wife and two sons.

Ratings & Reviews

What do you think?

Friends & Following

Create a free account to discover what your friends think of this book!

Community Reviews

5 stars
5,004 (37%)
4 stars
5,214 (39%)
3 stars
2,384 (17%)
2 stars
549 (4%)
1 star
197 (1%)
Displaying 1 - 4 of 4 reviews
Profile Image for Luca Lollobrigida.
224 reviews2 followers
November 11, 2021
Il libro è interessante, in base all'esperienza di ognuno può risultare più o meno utile e credo che, anche se dedicato ad un pubblico maschile e scritto da un uomo, risulti un'arma in più nella conoscenza del proprio corpo anche per una donna. Ma soprattutto è necessario diffondere certi tipi di lettura in quanto una vera educazione sessuale, sin dalle scuole, non può escludere anche una educazione al piacere nei confronti di chi condivide con noi questa esperienza, per arrivare a concentrarci sull'altro. In particolare nei confronti di una donna, vista troppo spesso come colei che deve procurare, ma mai ricevere piacere. La battaglia contro la società maschilista in cui viviamo passa, anche, attraverso libri come questo.
Profile Image for Elisa Vangelisti.
Author 6 books35 followers
Did Not Finish
March 14, 2018
Valutazione dell’estratto di amazon. Incipt illuminante (ci sono ancora cose che non so!), ma non abbastanza per programmarne l’acquisto. Ai giovani non farebbe male. Le conquiste ottenute al prezzo di anni forse arriverebbero prima. Carina la cover.
53 reviews3 followers
April 2, 2023
Interessante e intrattenente. Spero anche utile O.O
Displaying 1 - 4 of 4 reviews