In Milwaukee, Isabelle Day had a house. And she had a father. This year, on Halloween, she has half of a house in Minneapolis, a mother at least as sad as she is, and a loss that’s too hard to think—let alone talk—about. It’s the Midwest in the early 1960s, and dads just don’t die . . . like that.
Hovering over Isabelle’s new world are the duplex’s too-attentive landladies, Miss Flora (“a lovely dried flower”) and her sister Miss Dora (“grim as roadkill”), who dwell in a sea of memories and doilies; the gleefully demonic Sister Mary Mercy, who rules a school awash in cigarette smoke; and classmates steady Margaret and edgy Grace, who hold out some hope of friendship. As Isabelle’s first tentative steps carry her through unfamiliar territory—classroom debacles and misadventures at home and beyond, time trapped in a storm-tossed cemetery and investigating an inhospitable hospital—she begins to discover that, when it comes to pain and loss, she might actually be in good company.
In light of the elderly sisters’ lives, Grace and Margaret’s friendship, and her father’s memory, she just might find the heart and humor to save herself. With characteristic sensitivity and wit, Jane St. Anthony reveals how a girl’s life clouded with grief can also hold a world of promise.
2.5 stars. I really wanted to like this book. The cover is beautiful and I've really been loving historical fiction lately, so I gave this book quite high expectations, which may have been wrong from me. However, this doesn't excuse quite how bad this book unfortunately was. My main complaint is just how boring this book was; literally nothing happened, and everything felt forced. This was disappointing.
This book was quite pleasant to read. It had an interesting theme and the way it was executed will certainly be well appreciated by its young readers. The book also has a varied cast of characters, my favorite one being the two elderly sisters who are the landladies to the main character and her mother. However, despite being enjoyable, the book did have a few flaws, hence the 3-star rating. The characters, though being very interesting, were a bit underdeveloped. Isabelle encounters many people during her initial days in her new town, most of whom readers will enjoy meeting, but unfortunately, we’re left with little to no further development of these characters. Another problem I had with the book is the lack of backstory regarding Isabelle, especially concerning her father. Considering the fact that the book’s main themes are coping with grief and healing, I think it would have been good to spend more pages explaining the events surrounding her father’s death. We are actually told what happened at some point in the book, but it’s done rather briefly. The main flaw this book had though, was definitely the ending. Unfortunately, the book ends rather abruptly. While cliffhangers and loose endings often work really well with books, in this particular case it felt way too abrupt. It’s almost as if the book had ended midsentence. We get this build-up that seemingly promises a certain level of closure for the character regarding her earlier issues, but, by the time we reach the end of the book, it’s all wrapped up rather hastily within a few pages. I honestly believe that this book could have used another 20 pages to wrap things up in more smoothly. Overall, it was quite enjoyable although it didn’t quite live up to its potential.
*I received a free arc of this book on NetGalley in exchange of an honest review*
3.5 stars // a bittersweet middle grade novel about a little girl and her mom, after her father’s death. It is set between Halloween and Christmas time in the 1960s. The novel isn’t very “full” (as in fleshed out and is a little more tell vs show) but I still enjoyed it and it’s message. I especially loved the neighborhood/community feel. (A gift from my sister-in-law.)
Isabelle Day Refuses to Die of a Broken Heart is the story of a young teenage girl whose world has been turned upside down. Isabelle’s dad died and then her mum decided they would move to Minneapolis for a new start, so Isabelle has not only lost her dad but also her home, her friends and the only life she had ever known.
Isabelle and her mum now rent a small apartment from two old ladies who live in the apartment downstairs. Flora and Dora immediately want to look after Isabelle and her mum. They start checking in on Isabelle when she’s on her own and they bring food for her. Isabelle just wants to be left alone though, she doesn’t want people fussing over her.
Isabelle is in eighth grade and at an age where she doesn’t want to be different from her peers, she just wants to make friends and feel normal. Once she starts her new school two girls, Margaret and Grace, befriend her but Isabelle has a hard time realising that these two girls really do like her.
Isabelle is desperately trying to find a way to hold on to her dad even though he has never been a part of the life she has now, he will never see their new home or meet her new friends and she’ll never again be able to tell him anything that happens to her. Isabelle’s pain is tangible at times.
This is a coming of age novel which is also about coming to terms with loss; it’s about how when someone dies you don’t just lose them but who you were to them. The writing in this novel is so subtle and beautiful, yet the small statements of grief feel like a punch in the gut. The simplicity of the writing belies the intensity of the grief. There are moments in this novel that took my breath away. Isabelle, who is only a young teenage girl, realising that nothing in her life will ever be as hard as finding her father dead; it’s such a powerful and sobering moment in the novel. The heartbreak that Flora and Dora have also gone through in their lives is first told so subtly that you could almost have missed it but when you realise what they are not saying, it just makes your heart ache.
Yet even though this is a novel about a bereaved girl, it’s in no way a depressing, downbeat novel. Isabelle is like any other teenage girl – she gets up to mischief and has fun with her friends. It’s a coming of age novel, it’s about how life can throw the worst things at you and yet you can still find yourself laughing at funny things and being silly with your friends. Isabelle slowly begins to understand that life moves on and while she still feels sad that her dad isn’t there, she realises that there is still a lot of happiness to be found in the world and that she won’t die of a broken heart.
This is a short novel but one to take your time reading, the subtly of the writing means so much of what is being said could easily be missed. This isn’t a fast-paced, action packed book, it’s a beautiful and moving account of one girl’s struggle to find a new normal. This book is for everyone but particularly good for a middle grade reader to help them understand grief and loss. It’s written in a way that doesn’t ever overwhelm, it’s a realistic but also very comforting read. It’s such a wonderful book though that whatever age you are, I highly recommend reading it.
I rate this book 10 out of 10.
I received this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review but I’m sure I’ll be buying my own copy of this in the future as I know I’ll want to re-read Isabelle’s story.
After her father's tragic death Isabelle and her mother move from Milwaukee to Minneapolis. What happened to him is too awful to talk about. Because her mother wanted to move Isabelle now has to start all over again. She has to make new friends and she has to get used to a new home, which is a duplex instead of a three-story house. There two old ladies who live in the same building who don't leave Isabelle alone. Their names are Flora and Dora and they are sisters. They are good at preparing food and they tell the most fascinating stories.
Fortunately Isabelle manages to make a new friend who is her own age as well. Her name is Margaret and she's very nice. Only Margaret has another friend already. Her name is Grace and she isn't as welcoming as Margaret and doesn't offer her friendship so easily. Isabelle doesn't want to be defeated and she tries to make the best of things. Together with her new friends she might be able to find some happiness again.
It's the 1960s and speaking of her father's death is difficult for Isabelle. She loved him very much. They lived in a perfect house and she had a good life. Now everything is uncertain. Isabelle is unhappy and she isn't ready to open up, but there are people who are reaching out to her. I liked that idea a lot, it's sweet and absolutely amazing. Isabelle is a strong girl and even though she's lost a lot she tries to keep going. I loved Dora and Flora, who are such wonderful old ladies and great friends. With Dora and Flora nothing is ever boring.
Isabelle Day Refuses to Die of a Broken Heart is a wonderful book about loss, hope and kindness. The writing is beautiful and I think both children and grown ups will love it. This book is very special, mainly because of the fantastic friendships. Even though there's sadness because of Isabelle's father there's also room to smile and to have adventures. This heartwarming story is a fabulous read.
This book felt like somewhere between middle grade and YA. There was nothing really wrong with it. It tells the story of Isabelle, a young girl struggling to cope with the unexpected death of her father. She and her mom move and Isabelle goes to a new school where she has to deal with mean nun teachers and new friends. She makes the acquaintance of her two elderly neighbor sisters who are a bit weird.
It was sweet and certainly moving in parts towards the end, but I just didn't really connect to it much. It was a rather slow story with almost no plot. I did like the characters and how quickly Isabelle made friends and how they welcomed her into thier circle.
I have to qualify that my rating is reflective of the fact that MY enjoyment reading this was at like a 3, but I would bank on my 10 or 11 yr old self giving this a 5. It's not the kind of YA that transcends age. It didn't engage me, it was just VERY sweet and expresses young grief in a lovely way.
But the BEST thing about it - as something meant to be read by youngsters - is that it's purely about friendship. It's about a teenage girl, and there's not one mention of romance. Which is super refreshing.
This might sound really weird, but this book felt to me what Coraline would have felt like if it was, well, normal. With two elderly landladies who want nothing more than to cook for Isabelle and to take her out and to have her help them bring flowers to their brother's grave (and getting locked in!), and two new friends who attend a strict Catholic school, Isabelle Day's new life is nothing but normal. She's not even allowed to grieve after her father's death, what with everyone wanting claims to her time.
This book was so subtle and calm and drenched with the sadness of someone who just wants to grieve. I've been there, and this book, I think, does a good job of showing what it feels like to have to support someone else through their grief while neglecting your own. It's a heartfelt, sweet book that is perfect for a rainy day.
Little meaningful story. Teenager Isabelle is living with her heart broken - her beloved father died (under certain circumstances), and she and her Mom moved. There is nothing and nobody to connect to - or Isabelle thinks. But life just goes on and maybe there is hope and light to be found.
The topic of sadness is explained simply yet beautifully - but maybe one has to experience something similar to Isabelle to understand how one just lives almost normally, but there is something bottled up under the surface. It needs kindness (like the elder sisters Flora and Dora or classmates Margaret and Grace have) to make the sadness go out bits by bit one step at time. And maybe you can learn to live again, changed yet still you.
I enjoyed this short read. It's more emotion driven than plot driven. To be honest, reading it is like coming into the middle of a story. Major events have already happened. At book's end, there are still a couple of puzzling large questions I would have liked to had answered. I wouldn't have minded another 100 pages, providing they tackled the unanswered bits. Three stars.
Young adult fiction; a good portrayal of how grief affects family members of the loved one lost, and how small acts of listening, loving and sharing can help.
Sweet melancholy short book about girl and her mom who move back to Mpls after father dies. How she makes friends with kids, neighbors and keeps moving forward.
Ten Second Synopsis: After Isabelle's father dies, she and her mother move to a new house shared with two elderly ladies. Isabelle tries to fit in with her new school and new friends, but is hampered by her secret grief and the old ladies from downstairs who keep trying to pry into her life.
This book features a leisurely pace and an authentic representation of a grieving young person trying to adjust to loss and a new environment. Nothing really bad happens in this story and there aren’t really flashpoints or dramatic upswings in action, but Isabelle certainly experiences some significant growth over the course of the book. This really reminded me of the impactful and gentle stories in Glenda Millard’s exceptional Kingdom of Silk series, that deal with difficult topics in an accessible way, but pitched at slightly older readers.
If you’re looking for an upper middle grade book that features familiar tropes and episodic action, this has neither. In the early reviews I’ve read for this book, a number of reviewers have noted the lack of action as a negative feature, and I agree that there is something that does feel lacking in the sense that there doesn’t seem to be a discernible climax.
I suspect that this is going to be a bit of a niche read, appealing to those who prefer relationship-driven tales to those featuring lots of action and the usual YA tropes of cliques, bullying and boys. I was quite impressed with the warmth and hope of the ending and while I wanted there to be more development in Isabelle’s relationship with her elderly neighbours, the ending sort of made up for that. I think the author has done a good job of authentically relaying Isabelle’s feelings of grief and disorientation and as this is at the crux of the story, younger readers who haven’t had these life experiences may find it hard to relate to Isabelle and the importance she places on milestones such as making a new friend.
Overall, I have to say I enjoyed Isabelle Day Refuses to Die of a Broken Heart and found it to be a solid upper middle grade choice for those young readers who are ready to explore a difficult life experience in narrative.
Isabelle Day is a character from another generation, but her story is one that will resonate with readers from today especially if they have dealt with the unexpected death of a loved one. I really enjoyed this book. Isabelle was a highly believable character, dealing with the loss of her father and the stress of moving away from her home in Milwaukee. She's nervous about upsetting her fragile mother, longing for the friends that she left behind and pining for new ones to surround herself with. She's suspicious of everyone's intentions from the old ladies that live below her and regularly try to bring her food, to the girl across the street that is just about the sweetest, most understanding friend that anyone could hope for. She suspects that everyone is just being sympathetic and insincere in their kindness and she needs to learn to trust again.
The setting was so realistic, from the description of the Minneapolis winters to the Catholic school that reminded me of what my mother described to me about her own school experience. While this book is meant to deal with a fairly serious topic, Isabelle's quick wit meant that there was a fair amount of humor thrown in for effect. Altogether, this was a heartfelt story about a character finding her way through the most difficult experience that's she's ever had. Despite it being set decades ago, the emotions that Isabelle experiences are timeless and honest enough that readers wouldn't feel at all out of place connecting to her.
I'm not entirely sure what audience this is written for, but I feel like under the right circumstances, this could fit in a tweens section of an elementary school and certainly in a middle school setting. The topic of suicide is one that parents might object to, but it is handled delicately and with all the gentle consideration that a book like this requires. I was very impressed with this book, and I wouldn't be uncomfortable at all with recommending it.
I thought this book had an interesting premise, but unfortunately it didn't really deliver for me. It's about Isabelle Day, a girl who has recently moved with her mother back to their hometown since her father has passed away. While there she makes a couple of new friends, deals with a new school, and tries her best to avoid her odd downstairs neighbors, two elderly sisters.
The unfortunate bit about this book is that it was just rather boring. Not a lot happened. It doesn't have to be full of action, but there was no real driving plot line to keep you interested and excited, and nothing terribly out of the ordinary. The other thing that struck me as odd was the time period in which this book was set. It takes place in the early 1960's, but there's no reason why this needs to be the case. The plot had nothing to do with the time period, and if anything I feel like the little details added (such as the Catholic school nun teacher and kids smoking at school) would just alienate today's kids. I think this book could have potentially been a little more impactful if it was set in a modern setting.
I just didn't care about any of the characters. There is one relatively interesting reveal at the end - . But then they don't really do anything with that information. They don't particularly explore how that impacts Isabelle and her mother in a way that is different than what we've seen so far, or the implications of that.
All around I just found it to be a mediocre book, and I just can't see kids being interested in it.
This book is what i call “a slice of life” sort of story. We get to see Isabelle and everyone around her as their lives develops and keeps going from where we first meet them.
There is no supernatural/science fiction thing to it at all, just life itself, so i wouldn’t recommend it for people expecting to find fast passing, incredible stories. They won’t get any of them in this book.
And yet, i found this book to be really charming, maybe it’s the way it was written, or the way the characters are. Because, i learned to love Isabelle and her friends very much, they were so innocent (well, they are young girls) and funny, it would be lovely to spend an afternoon with them.
Although for my current self this book didn’t work much, mostly because i’m already in another place in my reading life, i’m sure my younger self, the one that loved “Little Women” and “Daddy Long Legs” would had kissed this book as she finished and hugged it for a long while.
I would really recommend this book to younger than 14/15 years old kids, as the voice of the main character may echo to their own insecurities about what is friendship, social interaction and such. To be completely honest sometimes it echoed to me as a grown up too…
In conclusion, a nice reading, especially for the younger readers and for those looking for a sweet, slow passed “this is life” kind of story.
This is a slow thoughtful book about a girl trying to come to terms with her father's death. Following his death, Isabelle and her mother return to her mother's home town where her mother gets a teaching position. They live above the McCarthy sisters, a couple of elderly ladies, who do their best to help out.
Isabelle has a lot to cope with: a new school and new teachers, making new friends, and the meddling of the McCarthy sisters. She worries about her mother and whether or not Margaret, the girl across the road, really likes her or is just being kind to her. In spite of all this, Isabelle comes across as a strong person, capable of standing up for herself and admitting when she has made a mistake.
There is a sweetness to the idea of this book - learning how to grieve and move on from those who have lived it. I wanted to like it. Unfortunately, it doesn't quite work for me. I kept trying to place this book in some time frame and couldn't, and this frustrated me. The writing feels stilted and these characters and their interactions, aren't quite authentic.
That said, I can see some of my readers enjoying this easy to read book.
At first I was really off by the way the story was written. I couldn't connect to the mother-daughter relationship portrayed. I felt the writing was devoid of emotions but the fool that I am I continued reading because I torture myself that way and can't stand not having finished a book I started. Fortunately, it got better as the story moved along. The friendship angle salvaged the whole story. We get a glimpse of Isabelle Day's fears and inhibitions in "moving on" from grief at her Father's passing away. In that way, we get to understand her a bit as she is helped by her granny neighbors and her friends Margaret and Grace. I still gave it a 2 since I just dragged myself into finishing the book. I just didn't feel like the book was put together. It felt more of an excerpt rather than a stand-alone story in itself.
Note: This E-Book is free from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Isabelle Day Refuses to Die of a Broken Heart... but I felt like my heart was going to break quite a few times while reading the book. Isabelle's and her mum's grief, their sadness over loosing their dad/husband is so tangible, so real, as the reader you simply can't help but feel their pain quite physically. As if loosing her dad isn't hard enough, Isabelle is loosing everything else and everyone else she has known so far as she and her mum move to a new town, away from everything reminding them of the dad. No wonder Isabelle is suspicious at first of people being nice to her. She does not want anyone's pity. She does not believe that with time things will be okay again and yet through the power of friendship, a slither of hope appears on the horizon. The author has done a wonderful job dealing with an extremely tough topic with much sensitivity, empathy and compassion, while lightening the mood occasionally with a good sense of humor.
This story of Isabelle Day is spot on. Her dad died and her mom couldn't take living in the same house and town with all the reminders, so they moved to Minnesota. They lived in the upper floor of a house with two elderly ladies, Flora and Dora, living on the bottom floor. Isabelle didn't want to talk to anybody, let alone two old ladies. She missed her friends and was sure she wouldn't like her new school or be able to make friends. Then she met her next door neighbor Margaret. She couldn't believe someone liked her as a friend. Flora and Dora knew what Isabelle and her mother needed and forced their way into their lives.
The power of friendship and caring acts have power to heal grief. It should be put into the hands of any upper elementary to teenager who has lost a parent. I loved this book!
Liked this one a lot. The cover is cute and more sophisticated than the average chapter book. This is Elizabeth Berg for young women. Cleverly and beautifully written. Despite the length the author manages to tie up loose ends and bring it all to cozy conclusion without it feeling rushed. Characterization is thoroughly well done; Isabelle is one of the most interesting protagonists in children's fiction I've seen in a while: she's going through the loss of her dad (the author really makes you wait to find out what happened there) and you're inside her head most of the time but there's no whiny, angsty drama! She's strong, feisty and funny, as are the other characters. The only thing I didn't like was that it wasn't longer!
When Isabelle's father dies Isabelle and her mother move from Milwaukee to Minneapolis , they move into a duplex that has two elderly ladies living upstairs called Dora and Flora. These two women are no strangers to grief and so they do their best to look after young Isabelle who is struggling with losing her beloved father. At school Isabelle meets Margaret and Grace who help her get adjusted to life in a new area , through all this help she is beginning to get through each day taking it one step at a time.
This was a touching story about grief and the journey of how to survive it once you have lost a loved one. A beautiful story !
The story was just a story and I couldn’t relate to anything because everything felt rushed or fake. Isabelle’s dads death is sad, but you never feel sad about it because one moments her sadness is there, then the next moment she’s obsessing over her new friendship with Margaret. The shocking part of her dads death was underwhelming. Usually books build up suspense that has you thirsty for it. There was absolutely no build up. It was just like here…have it. I just wasn’t shocked.
Isabelle Day has a broken heart because her father died. As a result she and her mom move to another city where they won't have to face the memories of him everywhere.
The new place is the upstairs portion of a duplex and Isabelle misses the privacy of their older home with both her parents. Below them lives the owners, the McCarthy sisters, Flora and Dora.
Isabelle is having a hard time with the loss of her father and moving away from her friends. Now she will be going to a new school.
Fortunately she meets the girl who lives across the street, Margaret who is in her class. Day by day life becomes a little bit easier.
As Isabelle attempts to make peace with her father's death, an elderly neighbor, who is all to familiar with loss, explains how she persevered.
"Long ago, Dora came home with some lovely music by Mr. Dubussy--and she played it on the Victrola until it seemed I had used up a lifetime's supply of tears."
"Because of the music?"
"Yes, because the music found a little crack in me, and it dug into the hard knot of sorrow that had grown inside. I told myself, 'You have been hurt beyond measure.' Very gradually, I tried to work a little or care about someone else. I knew that I could always return to my sad moments, but that I wouldn't stay in them" (105-106).
It's okay for a book to have low-key action. It doesn't have to have explosions, vampires, or love at first sight to work. That being said, a book does need some action and Isabelle Day just doesn't have it.
The writing is stuffy and the anecdotes of Isabelle Day adjusting to her new school, town, and life after her father's death are all really boring. Even when they have the potential for excitement (breaking into a graveyard!) the snapshots are dull.
I'd have a hard time recommending this to any of my students.
I love middle grade books that also involve serious topics in a light hearted way! I believe Jane St. Anthony accomplished this and more!! This book was so cute and at times sad. I think it would be great for any pre-teen/teen who needs a laugh or is going through family issues. I give this book a full 5/5 stars!! The story line and characters were so loveable, and that made the read even better!! Looking forward to reading more books from this author!!
Isabella is very sad after the death of her father and a big move that changes the rest of her life. The book is set another decade but it don't see a purpose for that time setting. It was curious that we don't learn the details and importance of those details until very late in the story. I like the characters but they didn't grow enough or have enough activity in the story. It was sentimental and slow, and I can't think of more than just a couple of students who might enjoy reading it.