Life lessons and wisdom from two women whose global adventures as budget travelers reveal how to live fearlessly at any age, how to hold onto joy and gratitude, and the power of female friendship.
Eleanor Hamby and Dr. Sandra Hazelip, the two irresistible women who have become known as the TikTok travelling grannies, deliver a book of life lessons drawn from their late-in-life friendship, and the daring and transformational adventures they've undertaken. Together, they have traveled to twenty countries since they turned 80.
Life on the road at their age has given them essential wisdom, and they have written this reflection with the goal of sharing their affirming and joyous insights with the world. Ellie and Sandy's life lessons come from the intersections of their discoveries about aging, their shared faith, and their deep friendship.
The photographer and doctor duo immerse themselves in the communities they visit, always learning more about themselves and the world around them. Boldly and independently traveling without a guide or staying at resorts, the fullness of Eleanor and Sandra's lives makes for a book you can return to in the face of loss, uncertainty, and to inspire new beginnings.
Book Review: Here We Go: Lessons for Living Fearlessly from Two Traveling Nanas by Eleanor Hamby & Sandra Hazelip Rating: 4.5/5
A Testament to Late-Life Reinvention Here We Go is a radiant celebration of resilience, friendship, and the audacity to pursue adventure at any age. Eleanor “Ellie” Hamby (an 80-year-old documentary photographer) and Dr. Sandra “Sandy” Hazelip (a geriatrician) redefine aging through their globe-trotting escapades, from Antarctica’s icy expanses to the Syrian desert’s starry skies. Their story—born from a serendipitous friendship forged in widowhood—transcends travelogue tropes, offering a manifesto for living with purpose and joy.
Reading this book felt like sharing a cup of tea with two wise, whip-smart grandmothers who’ve seen the world. Their chapter on navigating the Grand Canyon’s trails at 80—defying societal expectations of fragility—left me awestruck. The authors’ candidness about grief (losing spouses) and their refusal to let loss define them resonated deeply. One passage, where Sandy describes holding a Cambodian orphan’s hand during a medical mission, brought me to tears—not just for its tenderness, but for its proof that empathy transcends age.
Yet, the book’s greatest strength is its tonal balance: it’s neither saccharine nor preachy. Ellie’s wry humor (I packed my walker—just in case the pyramids were slippery) tempers Sandy’s poignant reflections on mortality.
Constructive Criticism While the book’s episodic structure mirrors their spontaneous travels, some chapters lack thematic depth. The Syria segment, for instance, glosses over geopolitical complexities in favor of awe-struck descriptions of landscapes. A deeper exploration of how they navigated cultural barriers (beyond the assumption that smiling solves everything) would have enriched their cross-cultural message. Additionally, the faith-based reflections, though organic to their journey, might alienate secular readers seeking purely adventure-driven narratives.
Summary Takeaways: - Here We Go is Eat Pray Love meets Thelma & Louise—with AARP cards and twice the wisdom. - Proof that wanderlust has no expiration date—and friendship is the ultimate passport. - A masterclass in aging audaciously, packed with laugh-out-loud mishaps and tear-jerking triumphs. - For fans of Wild and Tuesdays with Morrie—a roadmap to living fully, no matter your age.
Gratitude Thank you to Edelweiss and Penguin Random House for the review copy. Ellie and Sandy’s story is a gift—one that recalibrates our cultural obsession with youth and redefines what it means to thrive.
Final Verdict: A buoyant, big-hearted memoir that marries adventure with existential wisdom. Its minor flaws fade against its luminous message: Life’s second act can be its most dazzling. Essential for readers seeking inspiration across generations.
Why Read It? To remember that the best stories aren’t just about places—they’re about the people who dare to explore them, wrinkles and all.
This was a delightful, inspiring read. I could add that it includes the story of two world-traveling octogenarian best friends and you all would probably be set to add it to your TBR. 🙂 But I’d like say a little more.
🗺️ As an enthusiastic traveler in her 50s with lots of international destinations on my bucket list (and some hesitation about how well I’ll travel as I age), I knew I had to read this book.
I knew I’d be fascinated and likely learn more than a few travel tips, but I didn’t expect how much more I’d get, and I didn’t anticipate how much I’d be reminded of my own grandmother as I read.
❤️ My Nana was an incredible person, doing yard work, volunteering, and taking trips into her 90s. She flew in a plane for the first time at age 90. There is no way to describe how much I admired and learned from her. She didn’t travel internationally so at first it didn’t occur to me how much she had in common with Ellie and Sandy.
✨The comparisons and the joy in reading this book didn’t stop there. In addition to their travel report, the authors tell the story of their friendship and give a look at their backgrounds, inspirations, and motivations. Along the way, they definitely deliver on the promised lessons on living fearlessly.
🌍Ellie and Sandy became friends through medical mission work in Zambia and share the desire to make a difference in the world in addition to their love of travel. Nothing stops them for long. Not grief (both are widowed), not finishing medical school at 43 (Sandy), not language barriers, not a sore hip, not being stranded in the middle of nowhere. Their philosophy to “Just Say Yes” to adventures (within reason) is one of my favorite lessons they share.
I want to be active, adventurous, and a contributing citizen for many years to come, and these Traveling Nanas show me that it’s possible. They inspire me to keep my dreams. Just like my Nana did and still does.
Thank you Viking Penguin & NetGalley for the eARC in exchange for my honest review!
Here We Go: Lessons for Living Fearlessly from 2 Traveling Nanas is a warm, spirited blend of memoir and inspiration, offering readers a front-row seat to two grandmothers’ adventures across the globe and the wisdom they collect along the way. With humor, honesty, and a zest for discovery, the authors weave stories that are as much about embracing new cultures as they are about embracing courage in everyday life. Their message is clear and uplifting: it’s never too late to step outside your comfort zone, savor the moment, and live with boldness. This book is a joyful reminder that fearlessness isn’t about being without fear—it’s about moving forward anyway, with laughter and love as your compass.
Had to skim read, guess not as interested in their 80/Days travel around the world as their being in their 80’s while doing it. Loved that Sandy started college & med school @34, with a husband & children, his being her biggest supporter! For that generation, amazing. Females were wife’s/mothers only for the most part. Remarkable/brave women, remarkable lives!
3.5 stars. Admire these ladies. Part of the books were very well written and captured the sentiment they were trying to get across quiet eloquently, other parts read like a third grader's essay. Could have used a stronger editor but the story itself is a quick and touching read.
An inspirational book written by two women in their 80’s who set out to really experience travel the way it is meant to be-spending time with local people and being open to all people regardless of religion, race or lifestyle. From riding on a second class train in Russia to sleeping in a Bedouin tent in the Syrian desert, the writers are open to all people and experiences. They do not join tour groups and plan all their flights and stays whilst staying on a minimal budget. I think their average hotel price was $25 per night. The book gives hope to all of who love to travel and hope that we can continue to travel in our 80’s! A perfect gift for a fellow traveler!