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The book contained a good breadth of info, but lacked much depth. This would have been a nice series of 5 or 6 web or magazine articles, but when I read a non-fiction book, I expect more. References to actual other resources (beyond quoting a dictionary for a definition), examples of the advice given in action, etc.
There is some useful advice (and a few smile out loud moments in reading), but while the author says he kept his book brief to cut the signal to noise ratio he found in most books, I found it was a bit TOO shallow for a book. He kept referencing how introverts like to go deeper, and yet seemed to eschew that in his actual writing. Most of the advice, also, is pretty simplistic to anyone who's done any reading (or self-analyzing!) on the topic.
All this said, I'd recommend this to a younger person (teens/college age) struggling with figuring out why they don't fit a stereotypical social model that assumes everyone WANTS to be an extrovert, but for adults who've lived with themselves for a significant amount of time, there's little that you haven't already figured out through trial and error and self-reflection.
If your questioning certain aspects of your life that you can't exactly grasp, then your most likely an introvert. Don't jump in to the book and read it full through, but read a chapter and if you feel a breakthrough... Stop reading. Ponder on what that breakthrough means to you.
This is not dazzling prose and it is a bit derivative of other books on the subject of introversion. Better to read Susan Cain's excellent book on the subject.