At various times in my life people have given me some of the books written by Thich Nhat Hanh, who has more than 70 books to his credit. I was always proud of them; they look nice on my shelf and I hoped they might indicate to guests in my house that I have Buddhist inclinations. I have no idea why people who knew and love me gave me these books, but it occurred to me in listening to Hanh’s voice in reading this series of reflections and meditations that they may have thought I could actually benefit from actually reading them and putting their wisdom into practice! Presumptuous of them!
But really, I never cracked any of these books until now. I was too busy, I needed to get things done, needed to advance my career, keep writing and accomplishing things! When I slow down, I’ll read these books. Maybe. When I have time I'll do it!
Hanh is very accessible, folksy, sometimes humorous, certainly sweet and wise in this audio. It occurred to me that his approach to mindfulness as attending to the “present moment” seemed akin to existentialism or the ideas of this Benedictine monk I heard last week on Krista Tippett’s On Being podcast, connecting monastic practice with Buddhism as Thomas Merton had done. Hanh takes on (some) psychotherapeutic emphases on dealing with the past (focusing too much on hurt, regret, anger, guilt), or the future (as in traditional Christianity with its eye to Heaven over one's present miseries, fears, pain). Live in the now!
“The present moment is the substance with which the future is made. Therefore, the best way to take care of the future is to take care of the present moment. What else can you do?”
He talks about becoming a flower, living like a mountain, living selflessly, gaining control over your emotions, becoming more conscious/mindful of yourself so you can be more present for others, understanding yourself so you can understand how you can be better with others:
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“Love has no meaning without understanding.”
I liked this; when I have time, maybe when I am close to death, maybe I will take it seriously. (For real, I am meditating every day now and trying to live more consciously; this helps).
“There is no way to happiness, happiness is the way. There is no way to peace, peace is the way. There is no way to enlightenment, enlightenment is the way.”
Yes, we need t fight for justice in the world, we need to heal and end the violence, but one component of that process is ourselves. We need to begin with ourselves as we begin to try to create more loving relationships with our family, with our neighbors, and the world.