I used to read Ruby the Copycat to my daycare students. I actually had one student in particular who behaved a lot like Ruby, constantly copying others, because she was afraid to be herself. Many times, she was also the only girl present, which made that need to fit in even more noticeable with the many boys. Because of that, this book felt very real to me and reflective of what young children experience socially in that age range.
I think this book is best suited for daycare through second grade and works especially well as a read-aloud. It naturally opens the door for classroom discussions and teachable moments. When I used this book with my students, I would ask questions such as why they thought Ruby copied others or how they believed Angela felt when she was being copied. These conversations helped students think about feelings, boundaries, and friendships in a way that made sense in those young minds.
The main themes that stood out to me were friendship and self-identity. At its core, this story is about learning to be yourself and understanding that you do not need to copy others in order to belong. It gently introduces the idea of self-identity at a young age and teaches children that it is okay to be different. It also encourages kids not to judge others for doing things differently, reminding them that just because something feels unfamiliar does not mean it is wrong.
This book teaches an important lesson in a very gentle way that children should be able to have fun, express themselves, and enjoy being who they are without being judged or judging others. In a classroom, Ruby the Copycat supports social skills, confidence-building, and learning how to form healthy friendships. Ones where children feel accepted without having to change themselves. While the book may not focus heavily on cultural diversity, it still promotes diversity in personality, individuality, and emotional expression. I would include this book in my classroom library because it is an engaging, meaningful read for younger students and supports important social and emotional learning during early childhood.