I love reading autobiographies of inspiring people. Drew Brees had everything going for him until injury and doubt took over. This is his story of how he came back stronger. I am a Drew Brees fan and this book only made me like him more. Yes, I'll be cheering for him, unless he's playing the Broncos. I loved reading about New Orleans and their comeback from Hurricane Katrina.
There is lots of references to his faith in Christ. I liked that, and I appreciate that there's still people in the world who will not be afraid to admit that they pray and rely on God for help.
This book really uplifted me and has given me new perspective on hope and dealing with adversity.
It does get a little redundant. The book could have been about 100 pages less and still had the same effect. Even if you are not interested in the NFL or football, you would still like this book. It's more focused on trusting in God's plan, have hope, be a good person, and work hard. Football is just the platform, very applicable to any situation.
No swearing, or adult content. (There is one part when he admits he drank too much, and was only 20 years old).
Favorite Quotes:
pg 12- Was I going to quit or come back stronger? I chose to come back.
pg 14- Life finally made sense- this was not some random existence here on earth. God had a plan for me, and he wanted me to be in a relationship with him. If I would cultivate that relationship, good things would spill over to others in my life.
pg. 19 “Do what you are supposed to do, when you are supposed to do it. And do it that way every time. He also emphasized that if you do things the right way, good things will happen to you. They might not happen today or tomorrow, but eventually they will.” Joe Tiller, Purdue Coach
pg 43-Sometimes it’s not how you get to your destination that’s most important. The key is ending up in the right place- on the right team, in the right situation, with the right opportunity.
pg 53- The truth is, you don’t learn much from winning, but losing can make you a lot stronger. Some say experience is what you gain when you don’t get what you want.
pg 61- You’re only as strong as your weakest link.
pg 66- Forget all the doubters. Forget all the critics. Is there satisfaction in proving them wrong? Sure, but I don’t’ want to give those people the gratification of even dwelling on their words that long. There’s a motivator much more powerful than doubt. I play in honor of those who believe in me.
pg. 79- A good friend of mine once told me that each morning when you wake up, think about winning the day. Don’t worry about a week from now or a month from now- just think about one day at a time. If you are worried about the mountain in the distance, you might trip over the molehill right in front of you. Win the day!
pg. 120- Whether you’re talking in terms of the physical, the emotional, or the spiritual, healing has its own timetable. When there is a tragedy in your life- perhaps a health crisis or the death of a family member or something else that upends you world- there’s a mourning period you have to go through in order to cope with it and come out on the other side healthy and mentally whole. You have to work through the emotions and deal with the fallout. God has designed our bodies and hearts to need rest and recovery when we’ve been wounded, and you can’t rush that. You have to give it time. There’s no way around it. One of the worst things you can do when you’ve been laid low is to try to come back too quickly. You have to see the truth about your situation and accept it in order to heal right and return stronger. You need to learn the lessons while you’re still down in order to put yourself in the position to make a comeback. The painful things we go through have a way of teaching us things we can’t learn any other way. Pain is a gift I sure don’t want, but I believe God used it for a purpose in my life.
pg 134 He allowed some of these things to happen in our lives so he could shape us and mold us and give us the opportunity to come back stronger. Without adversity, there would be no opportunity. Faith is a gift from God, but it’s also a responsibility. It’s not enough to have it. You’ve got to live it out, even when times are tough.
pg 137- “It is amazing how much you can accomplish in life if you don’t mind who gets the credit.” –President Harry Truman
pg 136-138 “F-A-I-T-H. F- fortitude. Fighting for something you know is there but you might not be able to see it yet. A- attitude, speaks to the way you approach life. I- integrity. A person with integrity does what he says he’s going to do. T- trust. Trust is the cornerstone of every meaningful relationship. H- humility. Sums up the meaning of teamwork.
pg. 188- The next time you’re up against one of those difficult times, you might not be able to see it as an opportunity to gain power and confidence, but it is- you can bank on it. You have to prepare now to trust and have faith that it’s happening for a reason. And when it comes, you can lean into the adversity, put your shoulder down, push through it and learn from it. Through those experiences, God will mold you into the person he wants you to be. The person you’re meant to be .
pg 210- But when you succeed, you have to realize that just because you did it once doesn’t make it any easier the second time. It’s human nature to relax and feel entitled. If you want to win consistently, you have to fight the tendency with everything in you. When you reach the top of the mountain, don’t forget how hard it was to get there in the first place.
pg 227- One of the strangest things about life is the way our deepest sorrows can coexist with our greatest joys. Sometimes the good is woven in so tightly with the difficult times that it’s almost impossible to separate the two.
pg 242- “Allow yourself to grieve. You don’t’ ever want to look back and realize you didn’t let yourself feel what you needed to feel.” –Sean Payton
pg 272- “Sometimes you focus so much on the result that you lose track of the process. You’re thinking so much about winning, winning, winning that you forget the process it takes to win. There are certainly times when you can care too little. But there are also times when you can care too much.” –Tom House
pg 300- My desire was to have you turn the last page and become excited about waking up tomorrow. You will undoubtedly have challenges ahead that you will have to face and overcome. But don’t forget that adversity is not your enemy. It can unleash a power in your life that will make you stronger and help you achieve amazing things- things you may have never thought were possible…until now.
pg 300-302 Find a mentor. Don’t give up- The worst thing that could happen in life is not getting knocked down; it’s getting knocked down and then staying down. Commitment is when you refuse to give yourself an excuse. Turn your defeats into triumphs- the greatest opportunities in life are the ones that test us the most. Dream- If your mind can conceive it, you can acheieve it. Hope- In order to come back after a disappointment and accomplish something great, you have to believe in something bigger than yourself. Be flexible- coincidence is usually God working anonymously. See adversity as an opportunity. Don’t be afraid of taking a few steps back- a step back is not necessarily a setback. Sometimes you have to take a few steps backward before you can get the momentum to jump over a chasm in your life. Don’t spectate- be ready. Remember who you are- God created each one of us for a purpose. You will find that purpose in doing the small things well, in taking things one day at a time. Finish strong- it’s not where you start in life, but rather how you finish. Keep it simple: in everything you do, make your last rep your best rep.
pg 303- If you take away only one thing from this book, never forget that sometimes your greatest victories can come from your greatest defeats. The next time adversity knocks on your door, stand up tall and do the right thing. You can do more than just survive. You can come back- stronger.