So...I liked Erico. Jay was so-so. Ethan I didn't like at all. I had long drawn out rants about this book, written in my mind, but now a few days have passed and I'm just not sure I care anymore. But I'll try.
Having only picked up a book or two previously in this series, I have no idea how the characters were portrayed in other books. But I wasn't really getting the vibe that Erico had ever been an asshole, just that he didn't do relationships, only hook-ups. Most everyone seemed to like him, so it seemed really crappy how they all treated him like he was an abusive jerk when it came to his interest in Jay. And what was with the judging him by the amount of people he had slept with? Not cool. Not cool at all. What the hell has that to do with what kind of person he is? Especially coming from Jay, who calls himself a slut. Where does he get off being okay that he likes to have a lot of sex but it isn't okay for Erico, who is much older than him, to have lots of sex. It wasn't like he was out there making promises and breaking hearts.
Which brings us to Ethan. Soooo...a guy you know doesn't do relationships, only hookups, says "hey, let's f*ck" and you turn that into twue wuv and wedding bells and white picket fences and then when, shockingly *sarcasm* all he wanted was to f*ck, you turn all hater on him and bad mouth him to other people, and basically act like he led you on AND raped you, when you were twisting things in your mind and not willing to take responsibility for your own actions. Now, I'm also supposed to feel sorry for Ethan because he thought Erico was interested in him but it turned out he only wanted to find out about Jay. What exactly did Erico do that led Ethan to think he was so interested in him? Did he take him out on dates? Did he bring him flowers and candy? Did he tell him he was in love with him? Maybe I missed the book where Erico was telling Ethan he wanted a future with him all the while using him for info on Jay?
I just felt so much frustration while reading this book. For all I could see, Erico was a nice guy that almost everyone who wasn't feeling sorry for themselves liked. Added to that he is having heart surgery and all anyone can do, even while he is lying in his hospital bed is warn him away from Jay and act like Jay is 8 years old and Erico is the creeper pedophile down the street.
Honestly, I don't know what Erico saw in Jay, there just wasn't much to him. This whole thing has been odd for me because generally I would be much more likely to empathize/sympathize with Jay or Ethan but here I just felt like everyone was vilifying Erico for no reason. There was some serious judgment and intent to shame because he had had lots of lovers.
Ugh, I'm getting peeved just thinking about it, so I'm going to stop before I'm even grumpier. *stomps off*