I actually quite enjoyed this book! And learned that perhaps my memory is not as bad as I think. (Many minor lapses and small bouts of forgetfulness are quite normal.) Memory, like other qualities, requires practice -- strength training, if you will. Often one forgets if one didn't pay attention in the first place. Stay present and *try* to remember; when that intentional encoding takes place, coupled with reinforcement over time, the memory becomes cemented. Memories are also susceptible to manipulation -- one would be surprised at how many false memories were believed to be real, just by showing the person a photograph or telling them as much. (Cue Orwellian fears of propaganda, collective societal manipulation). Memories are also tied to identity -- think Alzheimer's -- without a memory of one's past, imagination about one's future -- at what point are you no longer yourself?
P.S. -- Napping, fiction novels, and dark chocolate are approved!
(This book truly reignited my interest in fiction; while for so long, particularly after law school, I lost interest in fiction because I loathed the opportunity cost in missing out on learning something "real," I lost sight of the real value of fiction. But imagining in the mind's eye a fictional universe, paying attention to plot devices, characters, and interactions -- it is a real exercise in working memory. Not to mention, I've enjoyed the escape much more than I realized I would. Thanks, Restak!
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Reading novels, incidentally, provides an especially helpful exercise in working memory. Why is fiction preferred over non-fiction? Because nonfiction works are often organized in ways that allow the reader to skip around a bit according to personal interests and previous familiarity with the subject. Fiction, on the other hand, requires the reader to proceed from beginning to end while retaining in working memory the various characters and plot developments.
The automated performance of procedural memory provides both promise and peril. Once something has been practiced and learned to the extent that conscious awareness isn't necessary, introducing conscious awareness can prove an extreme liability. Once you've learned that new dance step, you better resist the temptation to further improve it by becoming aware of your feet movements, lest you segue from a smooth operator to a clumsy klutz.
The take-home message from the Forgotten Baby Syndrome and the bus driver’s near catastrophic experience is that you should be wary whenever you are deviating from your usual routine. At such times, monitor yourself, lest your procedural memory routines take over. Think of procedural memory and the habits thus formed as a default state. If you don't self monitor, you'll do what you've always done previously. This can lead to unexpected and unnecessarily tragic disasters. Be alert to this potential memory peril.
Memories can be altered to include different details, depending on the motivation of those suggesting we remember things in ways discordant with how they really happened. Unfortunately, we have to live with the fact that our brain is constructed in such a way as to be a susceptible to mistaken perceptions and the expression of false information. But by increasing our memory power, we can counteract this.
While a picture may be worth a thousand words, it may also result in grievous distortions. As with my parrot-on-the-balcony experience, a picture can be modified to produce a deep fake, depicting us in situations that never occurred. Since memories are fragile, they can be modified by influences exerted by technological devices and other people.
In 2002, according to a Washington Post poll, 55% of America said the country had changed for the better in response to September 11, 2001. Ten years later, in 2011, we were roughly divided on this question. Today, nearly half (46%) believe the events of 9/11 changed our country for the worse, while only 33% say September 11, 2001 changed the country for the better. Some commentators, like New York Times colonist James Poniewozik, attempt to provide an explanation for this alteration in our historical memory: “The attacks set off a chain of action and changes—military quagmires, suspicion, and racism at home, the loss of trusted institutions—that demagogues used to undermine democracy, and that fulfilled Osama bin Laden's goal of dividing and weakening America.”
Disagreements about how past events should be interpreted and incorporated into our current memory become further complicated by misinformation campaigns aimed at modifying perceptions of present events and thereby affect how these events will be remembered.
Fighting falsehood with falsehood adversely affects not only current interpretations of world affairs, but more to the point, it affects the ways these false perceptions will influence how we will remember past events. If this sounds like the description of a war, welcome to the world of memory wars, and their inevitable sequel, memory laws.
Quote from a 19th century confusion scholar: “To destroy a country, you must first eradicate history.”
Our collective memory, just like our individual memory, can be subtly altered by enforced agendas. Whatever version of history you were exposed to in school and media, if accepted, will become your memory. To this extent, memory is hostage to whatever we're willing to accept as true. This is especially perilous if someone is exerting subtle pressure on us to favor one interpretation of history rather than another. Our acceptance of their interpretation will form the basis of our future memory. That's why we have to remain all the more astute at evaluating and asking ourselves how we will remember and what we wish to remember about our collective past, especially given current political and social forces and altering our views and, by implication, our memories.
Memory is very much like physical attributes, such as strength, endurance, and agility. Like them, a superior memory requires practice.
Memory is a natural extension of attention. Just by attending to something, you increase your chances of remembering it.
Along with attention, concentration and imagination formed the three key elements in establishing a memory.
Strengthening your memory lead leads to an increase in crystallized intelligence—the intelligence that isn't affected by aging.
Working memory is the most important memory type. It is linked to intelligence, concentration, and achievement. Working memory exercises should be hounded daily.