“What Happened to You?” by James Catchpole (2021) and illustrated in gouache paint and colored pencils by Karen George, is a picture book about a little boy named Joe who has one leg. The story is based on the author’s real experiences. Joe loves to play in the playground as a pirate, but the other kids repeatedly ask him, “What happened to you?” Joe is tired and frustrated with people asking these questions. He wants to play. I checked this book out of my school’s library. In 2023, the book was named a “Kirkus Best Picture Book of the Year.” In 2024, it was honored with the Schneider Family Book Award Honor Winner for outstanding artistic expression of the disability experience in children’s books.
Similar to a discussion within our class reading, “Just Like Me, Just Like You,” some books do not reveal or wait until the end to expose a character’s disability; however, this book reveals Joe’s disability throughout the entire book and is not a secret to the reader. The other kids are consumed with Joe’s missing leg; they are not playing, which is a problem. Nearing the end of the story, one child stops asking questions and starts imagining they are pirates fighting off alligators with Joe. This child stopped focusing on how Joe was different and switched to having fun, like all kids enjoy doing.
As the author points out through the storyline and in the author’s note, it is “not polite to ask people you don’t know personal questions.” This is not only a matter of good manners but also empathy for that person: “Just imagine how boring it would be having to answer the same question all the time!”
For primary-aged students, a discussion about Joe’s feelings, accompanied by a chart, could be used after a read-aloud. Another teachable point is regarding privacy (even for older kids). One way could be to divide students into small groups of 2-3 and distribute cards to sort between “OK to ask” and “Not OK to ask.” Sample cards could be “Do you want to go on the swings with me?” and, conversely, “Why does your shirt look like that?” I think kids need to understand and practice the importance of boundaries and how to exhibit good manners.