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208 pages, Hardcover
First published January 1, 2022
I'll never forget a group of us rooks chilling during some free time [at the Rookie Transition Program seminar]. We were talking about the caliber of women in our new respective cities and how well each of us were faring so far. When the attention got to Semi Ojeleye, he made a startling confession. "I'm not in to all that," he said. "I'm a virgin."The next passage I'd like to highlight requires some backstory to explain why I liked it so much. According to an article on Oprah's website oprahdaily.com, "positive affirmations are statements that can help brighten your outlook on the world when you say them to yourself regularly or write them down in a journal." I have tried speaking positive affirmations to myself in order to combat my negative, reproachful self talk, but "you're doing great!" and "you've got this!" never seem to silence my inner-critic. It dawned on me awhile ago that the reason positive affirmations don't work for me is because I don't believe. No matter how many times I tell myself, "you've got this!", deep down I still believe that I don't have this, and worse, that I am a failure. Jonathan Isaac's alternative to positive affirmations, therefore, really spoke to me:
The guys in our circle howled with laughter. I'm embarrassed to admit that I laughed along with them. I'm sure all of us were padding our stats to impress the guys next to us. I know I was. The last thing I wanted to do was come off as lame. But I was still stuck on what Semi said.
About the cacophony of tomfoolery, I turned toward him and asked, "Why?"
"I'm he Christian," he replied.
I respected Semi all the more as soon as the reason left his mouth, thinking back to my youth group desire to be authentic. I wasn't there yet. Frankly, I don't know if my life and headspace ever matched up to that desire. So not proud to say this, but I dove back into the lewd conversation. I was hellbent on experiencing what the NBA life had to offer, on and off the court. (pp 101-2).
If you're afraid, declare that God is with you (Psalm 118:6). If you're depressed about a situation or from a broken heart, remind yourself that God is near the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and weeping doesn't last forever! To me, reciting scripture is better than any positive statement about how amazing and capable I am. Scripture points me to how amazing and capable God is. (pp. 152-3, emphasis mine)Finally, this quote from the very last page of the book really hit me. Not only is it a powerful perspective I want to put into practice in my own life, but also it is a one-sentence summary of Isaac's entire journey as told in Why I Stand:
The presence of fear is just a sign to depend on something greater than yourself.