My wife and I (expecting parents) were so glad that we laid our hands on this book. The provides a sort of synthesis of research literature on the birthing and parenting process for infants. I really enjoyed the way the author provides a well-rounded review of studies pertaining to each area of child birth and growth.
**SPOILERS**
Below are some of our key takeaways from the book (please bear in mind that the author does not always recommend one method over the other, so this is our takeaway from the book, and others may disagree).
1. Don't cut the umbilical cord until it stops pulsating; or wait for at least until 60 seconds have passed.
2. Child should be given Vitamin K shot (intramuscular), preferably during breast feeding stage.
3. Eye drops (Erythromycin) should be administered.
4. Baby should be allowed to breast crawl immediately after birth. Baby can be bathed/cleaned after he feeds and is ready for a nap.
5. Preferable if mothers don't bathe for 24 hours, so baby can use senses such as smell to feed.
6. Don't overstimulate your baby after it's born. Follow the baby's lead; be sensitive and caring.
7. Talk to your baby regularly and touch gently.
8. Breast milk is best but formula is good too.
9. No bed sharing/co-sleeping all night. Take extreme care during the first four months to avoid SIDS.
10. No feeding on chair or couch at night.
11. Beware of pillows and blankets when baby is in bed. Place baby in crib after feeding.
12. Room sharing recommended up to 6 months.
13. No stuff toys in crib.
14. Don't cover baby's head. Recommended house temperature (if possible) - 67 to 79 F
Baby Sleep:
15. Newborn babies sleep 16 to 18 hours of the day
16. Breastfeeding mothers are encouraged to breastfeed frequently during the first few weeks of life.
17. At night, keep house lights dim and environment quiet.
18. During day, let baby be part of the activity of the house. Keep baby in a well-lit room during the day.
19. Create a soothing ritual
20. Put baby in bed while he is sleepy but awake. You can quietly soothe the baby by sitting next to him and talking to him, patting him, etc. Offer support to the baby, but don't jump in to take over every time the baby cries.
21. When baby wakes in the night, wait a few minutes before responding.
22. Offer baby a lovey.
23. Every baby is different and responds differently, observe your baby to see what works best for him.
24. Be consistent with sleep training
Vaccination
25. Vaccinate baby ON SCHEDULE!
Food
26. Don't feed baby cow's milk until 1 year old
27. Start solids between 4 to 6 months. (rice, barley, oats, meat, veg - all cooked and fruits)
28. A good indication on when to start solids is when your baby can sit up right with no neck support. Also, try to see how baby reacts to solid food, if it disagrees with him, try later.
28. Follow up breast feeding with solids such as wheat, eggs, peanut, tree nut, and fish
29. Introduce new foods one at a time, symptoms of allergy can be seen in a few hours such as swollen and/or itchy eyes and mouth, nasal congestion, diarrhea, vomiting.
30. Let baby decide how much he wants to eat. Don't force or cajole.
31. Choking risks:
- Always supervised feeding with baby sitting up right (until 4 years of age)
- No feeding in car
- Cut break down grapes, pop corn, hard candy, etc.
- learn the difference between gagging and choking
Food to eat
32. Meat is good for your baby.
- cooked liver once or twice a week
- Feed cooked egg yolk/beef/clams/turkey/chicken/fish, etc. when they start solid foods every day
- at least 4 egg yolks a week, preferablyOmega 3 + DHA fortified eggs
- Can also include dairy products as snacks
33. Infant fortified cereal is also good
- cereals fortified with iron, zinc, vitamin C
- fortified cereals are a good substitute for meat when not available or traveling
34. Feed good sources of Vitamin C such as kiwi, citrus fruit, berries, pineapple, mango, etc.
35. Cereals, fruits and veggies are all good
36. Variety of food is good for your baby - sometimes baby may take 6 or 7 tries of a food to enjoy it.
37. Cook veggies are better than uncooked
38. AVOID HONEY up to 12 months
39. No need to give sugary drinks. If giving baby juice, mix it with water and give it in a cup.
40. No need to add salt to food until year 1.
41. Finally, try one food item at a time to see how your baby reacts, especially to see if your baby has any allergic reaction.