My stream of consciousness notes:
I want the team to grow and the business to grow.
I want to keep my house in order and have a firm grips on my job: delivering results expected, do i know my business and out (be honest of knowledge gaps), organized and prepared for interactions with my boss so they see that you are intentional with your time, are you brining the attitude that you hope to be reciprocated, purposeful support (go to player).
Keep your boss informed (as much as they want to be) (idea: split 1:1 what you need to know. What I need from you)
Ask boss what is overwhelming them now and how to help. Take more things off their plate, then on it.
Praise your boss quietly to other people.
It is ok to disagree with the boss when called for for the business: 1) I want to remind you that I respect you but I have a different view and this is why. Discuss intent before content 2)
Understand the middle
The middle is messy
Scope of responsibility is unclear, so messy. Figuring out what that scope is.
Clear self identity to switch roles fatigue due depending on situation. Collaborative. Automany. Direct.
Not scared of conflict: Resist. Lack of interest.
Conflict: shurk . Shrink or shine
Resourceful
Conflict: I want Healthy debate. Not quick agreement
Worried: aligned objectives; being a bottle neck. I want to keep my teams flow.
Tradeoffs: there is a cost of knowing. I can ask the right questions and delegate the tasks. The details should be known by the smes. should I know everything or build a knowledge system of someone that knows.
I am present and engaged and know the fundamentals.
Leading from the middle can take a toll because it is stressful. Give example of how I manage stress better now because I have gotten sick
Filter. Not need fire drills.
I want my coworkers to know they can vent so we can connect and understand how to build bridges.
Always in control of my attitude
Know you can’t make a plan in a silo
I learn quickly because Critical of what I Learn and hear. I am skeptical. I look for what is missing
I admit mistakes
Champion ideas of team
It is not about me. It is about the ecosystem. Not the egosystem. Advocating for the team.
Team grows. Get the business needs achieved and
Not fear of the use of authority.
Figure out what kind of praise the each person needs
Explaining the WHY and not dictating the HOW
zeal of mother bear protecting her cubs. Helping them achieve their personal and professional goals
AM I ASSISTING SUCCESS OR AVOIDING FAILURE
This is a way for me to grow.
Be Vulnerable
Health surveys. Ask and act about how people are doing and ask about their needs and concerns
Make a list of things the team doesn’t want to waste time on
ADAPTABILITY
Pre approval to move fast when the time comes
Ask what they have recently learned?
Keep the Big picture
I willl encounter: egos, rivalries, comp for resources, pet projects
Identifying constraints.
Ask why three times to get to the true constraint.
Types of employees
1. Rising star: learn quickly and adapt and influence personal, not position. Listen. Consistently solid decisions.
2. Everyday heroes
3. Unchecked underperformed: maybe the don’t know why, how, or why, or no positive outcome
Toxic behaviors:
1. Pay attention to how you allocate your resources. What is your race horse? How are you getting it resources
2. Promoting people only like me
3. Give credit when credit is due and evenly.
4. Underestimated the power of information flow. Think “would this help employees do their job better and understand
5. Reality vs. hope
6. Role model work life boundary
Be transparent
Be clear about your agenda
Be clear and concise
Sharp
SHARP
Pause
Hit man idea quickly
Add details sparklingly. Don’t over explains.
Relate to Audnce. Know what they want and put their needs first. What is in it for them. Say we. Be passionate and explain why you are
Prepare. Don’t wing it.
Ways to speak sharply
Quick short sentence to convey urgency.
Talk In 3s
Use stories to get the story across
Remove redundancy
Brett is my partner, for a successful relationship
Chase authenticity. Not approval. Don’t derive all my value from my boss
Understand the asks clearly.
Questions to help clarify the ask.
1. What does good vs great performance look like?
2. Let’s assume I get the results. What kind of behaviors do you want to see?
3. What business metrics are the most important to you and why?
4. This is how I am spending time? Does this feel like it is it is on the right things?
5. What measures does your boss discuss most with you?
6. What specifically will get you promoted?
7. What should I stop, start and consume doing to better succeed?
8. Think of the most effective employee you have had work for you. What did they do well?
Style awareness of your boss.
1. How do you prefer to communicate? Email or in person
2. Bosses want updates and more info
3. How do you like to make decisions? Do you like options or a firm recommendations
4. If you boss like conflict, equip them with data and arguments
5. Understand pressures, hopes, and fears of your boss and ask what they like most about their work day and what they like the least
6. What motives you and what drains you
7. What are your pet peeves
Look up the notes for giving feedback
Give feedback early, frequently and often
Be prepared
Tackle one pieces of feedback at a time
Teach at teachable moments
Transparency and Truth reign
Team needs to know its purpose
Your emergency is not their emergency
Make it their idea