Audiobook....11 hours and 47 minutes....
....stories inspired by Dorothea Benton Frank....
by Elin Hilderbrand, Adriana Trigiani, Patti Callahan Henry, Cassandra King, Natalie Dupree, Marjory Wentworth, and Mary Alice Monroe....
narrated by Susan Bennett
CONFESSION....
I haven’t read any of *Dorothea Benton Frank’s* books.
And...I’ve only read one book by Erin Hilderbrand.....and no books by any of these other bestselling authors.
I chose to read this (listen to the audiobook), out of love&friendship with my friend (sister-type friend), Toni.
TONI....not sure what I’m going to write here — but whatever it is ....however it comes out — winging it from the hip— I dedicate this review to YOU....with my deepest love ....treasuring ‘you’....treasuring ‘us’.
I LEARNED A LOT ABOUT THE WOMAN & AUTHOR Dorothea Benton Frank. ( friends, fans, and family called her Dot or Dottie)...
For a woman I never knew, never read, ......I feel privileged to have been invited to THIS PARTY CELEBRATION of her life, her stories, and the joy of meeting her friends, her tribe, her writing buddies, her family, her husband, best friends, and fans. I truthfully feel honored to have been a guest —
Dottie, I miss you too ....I may never have met you, read you, ( until now: I loved your sections in this book)....
but in just 11 hours and 46 minutes.....you taught me the value of laugher, happiness, ( the color ‘red’ )....How did you know it was my favorite color?....
you taught me the value of true friendships....the joy of CELEBRATIONS....and taking it upon yourself to to do whatever it took to make sure people were happy, that people were having fun no matter what they were doing— you lifted people’s spirits.....PEOPLE MATTERED TO YOU.....[I can relate so deeply]....but Dottie....you were REMARKABLE....(I don’t know how you did all that you did....but HOT DAMN your SUPER-BEING HUMANITY had me in tears.
I’m sad for all my own flaws....for losing friends ( whom I still think about and miss)....because I made thoughtless mistakes... I was too harsh, too opinionated, wrong, too rude, too righteous.....( perhaps threatened but that’s no excuse)....
I too value people with all my heart —-but at times I put my foot in my mouth and mess things up.....( it’s rare if I’m fully forgiven- but if I am- I’m thankful more than anyone knows)....
Dottie.....
you saw an element missing in life — THE VALUE of TRUE JOY— you found ways to have joy & happiness as a LIFE PURPOSE ....SO AS TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE in others lives!!!
I don’t think ( until now- this book - 68 years old/ 69 later this month)....the POWERFUL UPLIFTING ‘choice’ lightness 'is' over darkness....(Choosing and creating lightness)
And I’m clear — you were no pushover—and happiness was not a panacea to you...
YOU WERE A VERY WISE WOMAN....
sure you saw all the meanness- ugliness - grief - injustice in life - you’d talk authentically and honestly with your friends and family about all these things....... but meanness and ugliness was not where you lived....
A few sentences that struck a cord with me:
“Good manners are the moisturizers of life”
“How do you know when it’s time to stop changing the world, and start writing?”
“It’s more important for dialogue to ring true then be grammatically correct”
“When you’re at peace, you see everything differently”.
“Getting sick is not worth the time, it keeps you from doing the things you wanna do”.
I BELIEVE FULLY WHAT YOUR DAUGHTER, *Victoria*, SAID ABOUT YOU....
“She turned humor into an art form and taught the world how to laugh”
“Mom was at heart a teacher and storyteller”
“When mom was in your corner, you couldn’t lose”.
“People mattered to mom. She could take a random person and speak to them for 30 seconds and make them her best friend. I think that’s why she was so successful as a writer”
“In this warm and moving anthology, a group of best-selling authos and writers pay tribute to legendary, larger-than-life New York Times best-selling Dorothea Benton Frank and her literary legacy”
AMEN! Beautiful!
....stories, essays, and poems...( set in Lowcountry of South Carolina), conflicts, arguments and resolution, marriages, divorce, more marriages, illnesses, deaths, friendships, and colleagues, food, recipes, wine, beach pleasures, fashion, aesthetic beautiful things, ( saying goodbye to those things no longer needed), awesome friendship bonding, (always with great food and drinks, sometimes a little weed), tidbits about her books, writing, and the business of the book world, and downright heartwarming vibrancy!
This novel’s achievement is pretty special to many people....
It delights, it’s hilarious, and deeply affecting.