I meant to read this in 2023. And then again in 2024. But the holidays have a way of being too busy, too stressful, with limited down time, and so another year passed without this gem of a book being read. As I packed my Christmas books up for the year, I thought, why not? Every day can be Christmas. In fact, every day SHOULD be Christmas. We need more Christ in our lives every day.
Bytheway writes of three levels of Christmas:
1) fun, Santa Claus, presents, trees, etc.
2) "silent night" level, focus on the birth of Christ
3) the adult Christ, the Savior's gifts of lasting joy, lasting peace, lasting hope
(taken from chapter 1)
He proceeds to share thoughts on variations of joy—of giving, of receiving, of forgiving... I love the stories he shares and the concepts he teaches.
Some quotes:
"Nephi and Mary, in times of grief and in times of exultation, both look to God, the real, most reliable, and best source for appropriate feelings about ourselves. Nephi teaches us that we need not self-reliance but reliance on God when we're humbled by our own weakness." (p. 105-106)
After describing families (even ours) celebrating Christmas at a level one level, he writes:
"We see the joy in their faces, and we hope they will feel the genuine joy associated with the Saviors birth. At the same time, we ache for them—and for our own children and grandchildren—as our adult perspective informs us of what may come in their lives and in their lifetimes. But, like Nephi, we know in whom we have trusted, and, like Mary, our souls will magnify the Lord. Our testimonies of the adult Christ may be the best and most lasting gift we can leave our children so that they may know to what source they may look for the forgiveness of their sins and the healing of their hearts." (p. 112-113)
This is a book I will revisit, maybe not every year, but often.