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474 pages, Paperback
First published May 1, 2004
fear of the possibility of cancer, of susceptibility to it, never left her. This fear of a life-threatening disease was greater than any fear she’d ever contended with. Thereafter, the magnitude of that fear split Lorde’s life in two. Though she continued to evolve as a writer, activist, and woman, fear of cancer seeded Lorde’s second life. (193)
Lorde tried to turn her attraction to Rich and Cliff into opportunities to bed them, separately She once told Rich she could not, in principle, trust a white woman she had not slept with. Neither Rich nor Cliff was interested in Lorde sexually and both resisted her persistent attempts at seduction. (182)
As Lorde spent more time in the Caribbean, and she and Joseph took a subsequent trip to Anguilla, she grew to feel that being in the Caribbean with Gloria Joseph was especially affirming—not simply because she felt like a Caribbean woman at home, but because she was there with a black woman who was also at home, and more so than she. Joseph’s ease in the Caribbean, her familiarity with island peoples and customs, shaped Lorde’s own sense of being familiar, of being taken for local. And the Caribbean became a place where she felt, “I am one among many.” Gloria embodied the spiritual medicine she needed: sunlight, laughter, healthy living, a shared political life, a black female centered emotional space that was soul-satisfying. (359)