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What's Happening to Me?
Ce se intampla cu mine?
Maturizarea e mult mai usoara daca stii la ce sa te astepti. Aceasta carte descrie exact ce se va intampla cu corpul tau, intr-un mod direct, usor de inteles, si iti explica si unele dintre sentimentele tale – tot ce trebuie sa stii in aceasta perioada atat de importanta din viata ta.
Cum sa scap de cosuri?
Cand o sa am nevoie de sutien?
Cum sunt ciclurile?
De ce sunt indispusa?
Cum sa scap de cosuri?
Cand o sa am nevoie de sutien?
Cum sunt ciclurile?
De ce sunt indispusa?
48 pages, Paperback
Published January 1, 1970
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About the author
Susan Meredith
137 books7 followersSusan Meredith grew up in Yorkshire, and when she wasn't playing out or dancing, she was busy reading or making little books of her own, mainly about ballet. She's now written more than 20 real books for Usborne, on subjects ranging from saving the planet to playing football, from world religions to the human body. Her book Growing Up won the Times Educational Supplement's senior information book of the year award but her own personal favourite has to be Hamsters.
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February 1, 2016
I purchased this book looking for a way to introduce body changes to my almost 9 year old. As yet I think this book is to much - will keep on shelf and get out when I think she is ready - I really need a book that discusses the very early stages.
This is a suitable kids books for 9-10 year olds that are changing early, but there are a few pages that discuss the basics of sex, condoms, tampons etc. that my I feel my 8 year old doesn't need to know right now. But every child is different and day at different stages so it will defiantly be read by her in the future.
A great, educational/reference book with easy language and just enough detail to give a ready to learn child.
This is a suitable kids books for 9-10 year olds that are changing early, but there are a few pages that discuss the basics of sex, condoms, tampons etc. that my I feel my 8 year old doesn't need to know right now. But every child is different and day at different stages so it will defiantly be read by her in the future.
A great, educational/reference book with easy language and just enough detail to give a ready to learn child.
May 24, 2021
I read this book with my 8 -soon-to-be- 9 year old. Very informative about what is happening through puberty. Everything is explained in a simple manner. It was a good way for opening up conversation about other related topics because my daughter had lots of questions and was very intrigued by what she was learning. I found some parts inappropriate for an 8 year old, so we skipped over them and she can read them when she is a bit older. For parents of girls just starting puberty I recommend you read the whole book first by yourself first to decide which parts are appropriate for your child at that age.
November 8, 2021
This book help me so much!
January 5, 2019
This book will help you know what or what will happen to your body as you grow.
January 20, 2023
The world is moving fast, but I'd like to preserve the innocence of my girls all the way till they can make up their own minds about what they want to do. I don't think this book is appropriate for this age group. Heck! I don't think any book for kids should be teaching them about masturbation.
July 7, 2018
I'm probably going to get pilloried for this ... but here goes. I like a book that explains puberty and sex in simple, easy to understand terms, without flowery or secretive nonsense. This book does that very well and on that score, I'd highly recommend it. But ... it includes an illustration of "the act" which I really don't think is necessary. The description is more than enough - talking about what actually happens (including to a man's willy) is probably a bit too much for younger readers, which this book claims to target (8+). I'm not that much of a prude, but honestly, I think this book is better targeted to the 10+ age group.
April 13, 2018
A great way to start explaining growing up!
I bought this book for my 9 and a half year old daughter. She had begun puberty at 8 years and by 9.5 the questions started. She's very introverted and loves to read, so this was a wonderful resource for both of us to read. It explained things in reasonable terms for her to understand and helped answer her questions age appropriately. I would recommend it for many parents needing a little help.
I bought this book for my 9 and a half year old daughter. She had begun puberty at 8 years and by 9.5 the questions started. She's very introverted and loves to read, so this was a wonderful resource for both of us to read. It explained things in reasonable terms for her to understand and helped answer her questions age appropriately. I would recommend it for many parents needing a little help.
November 30, 2019
“What's Happening to Me? (Girl)” by Susan Meredith
Of all the books we looked at this one is the best. Mostly suitable for 11+ yrs. Full of encouragement, such as:
• same age, different stage (p4)
• Coping with periods, be confident (p29)
• Your feelings, friends (p30)
• Problems to avoid, body image (p47)
But I think ‘what is safe sex?’ and ‘STI’s’ are probably too early for this age group (p46)
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Of all the books we looked at this one is the best. Mostly suitable for 11+ yrs. Full of encouragement, such as:
• same age, different stage (p4)
• Coping with periods, be confident (p29)
• Your feelings, friends (p30)
• Problems to avoid, body image (p47)
But I think ‘what is safe sex?’ and ‘STI’s’ are probably too early for this age group (p46)
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May 17, 2018
The time has nearly come for the talk.... however I think this is a bit old for my 8 year old daughter - feels more appropriate for when she's 9 years old and beyond. I think 'Girl's Only' by Victoria Parker is a good book to start with for girls aged 8 upwards (especially as my 8 year old is already asking a lot of questions about periods).
January 24, 2009
A great resource for discussing maturation with your children. I highly recommend reading with your child to encourage discussion.
May 7, 2025
I read this book years ago. I remembered it out of the blue while I was lollygagging in my chair. It was okay.
March 8, 2025
Although I've surpassed the beginning of puberty, curiosity drew me into reading this book. I often wish that I had read something like this when I started puberty. I think this book was good because although it was targeted towards children, it has a mix of scientific language and facts to help us understand situations rather than just to empathise with us.
This book is really great for giving useful tips as well as informing us. I felt that the book was very engaging and easy to read.The fonts used were quite satisfying, and the colour scheme/imagery was quite attention-grabbing, it made it easier/nicer to read.
I like how she included a section on how to pop a spot correctly because it's more important than you realise , especially if you have acne. Although this book was made for girls , I like that it has a section on male anatomy because I believe it promotes gender equality and limits confusion that children may have half about puberty and the other gender.
This usually starts in sex ed classes. It makes you wonder, why are you separated?Why can't you just be treated equally?And shown the basic anatomy of your opposite sex? This sort of suggests that there's something wrong with wanting to learn about the opposite sex when actually there isn't.
I believe it's really important for children to know a basic anatomy of both genders. Because if something wrong to happen to them (be inappropriately engaged with), then they would know it's wrong because they have been taught their anatomy and that it is their right and no one else is to touch unless they have their permission.
Many cases of abuse go unreported or unhandled because the child never knew what was going on and that it was wrong. So i firmly believe that we should start teaching children at the start of puberty about each other. TW: s£xual @buse-
It's so sad to see and read about cases where a girl (or boy) didn't even know that a man (or woman) was making them touch them inappropriately, etc. But ask yourself this: How were they meant to know that it was their private area when they weren't taught it or even what it looks like?
A final thing I'd like to mention, although her tone seems supportive , is that there wasn't really anything in the book that suggested that pregnancy is her choice.
A lot of the things said, is that puberty changes is how the body prepares to give birth to babies "when you want to."
There wasn't anything that said you don't actually have to have any, which I believe should be talked about more because it would lead to a lot less unwanted pregnancies. Because many women have a baby with a false idea, and they don't actually want one, society that told them they did.
This book is really great for giving useful tips as well as informing us. I felt that the book was very engaging and easy to read.The fonts used were quite satisfying, and the colour scheme/imagery was quite attention-grabbing, it made it easier/nicer to read.
I like how she included a section on how to pop a spot correctly because it's more important than you realise , especially if you have acne. Although this book was made for girls , I like that it has a section on male anatomy because I believe it promotes gender equality and limits confusion that children may have half about puberty and the other gender.
This usually starts in sex ed classes. It makes you wonder, why are you separated?Why can't you just be treated equally?And shown the basic anatomy of your opposite sex? This sort of suggests that there's something wrong with wanting to learn about the opposite sex when actually there isn't.
I believe it's really important for children to know a basic anatomy of both genders. Because if something wrong to happen to them (be inappropriately engaged with), then they would know it's wrong because they have been taught their anatomy and that it is their right and no one else is to touch unless they have their permission.
Many cases of abuse go unreported or unhandled because the child never knew what was going on and that it was wrong. So i firmly believe that we should start teaching children at the start of puberty about each other. TW: s£xual @buse-
It's so sad to see and read about cases where a girl (or boy) didn't even know that a man (or woman) was making them touch them inappropriately, etc. But ask yourself this: How were they meant to know that it was their private area when they weren't taught it or even what it looks like?
A final thing I'd like to mention, although her tone seems supportive , is that there wasn't really anything in the book that suggested that pregnancy is her choice.
A lot of the things said, is that puberty changes is how the body prepares to give birth to babies "when you want to."
There wasn't anything that said you don't actually have to have any, which I believe should be talked about more because it would lead to a lot less unwanted pregnancies. Because many women have a baby with a false idea, and they don't actually want one, society that told them they did.
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March 8, 2025Although I've surpassed the beginning of puberty, curiosity drew me into reading this book. I often wish that I had read something like this when I started puberty. I think this book was good because although it was targeted towards children, it has a mix of scientific language and facts to help us understand situations rather than just to empathise with us.
This book is really great for giving useful tips as well as informing us. I felt that the book was very engaging and easy to read.The fonts used were quite satisfying, and the colour scheme/imagery was quite attention-grabbing, it made it easier/nicer to read.
I like how she included a section on how to pop a spot correctly because it's more important than you realise , especially if you have acne. Although this book was made for girls , I like that it has a section on male anatomy because I believe it promotes gender equality and limits confusion that children may have half about puberty and the other gender.
This usually starts in sex ed classes. It makes you wonder, why are you separated?Why can't you just be treated equally?And shown the basic anatomy of your opposite sex? This sort of suggests that there's something wrong with wanting to learn about the opposite sex when actually there isn't.
I believe it's really important for children to know a basic anatomy of both genders. Because if something wrong to happen to them (be inappropriately engaged with), then they would know it's wrong because they have been taught their anatomy and that it is their right and no one else is to touch unless they have their permission.
Many cases of abuse go unreported or unhandled because the child never knew what was going on and that it was wrong. So i firmly believe that we should start teaching children at the start of puberty about each other. TW: s£xual @buse-
It's so sad to see and read about cases where a girl (or boy) didn't even know that a man (or woman) was making them touch them inappropriately, etc. But ask yourself this: How were they meant to know that it was their private area when they weren't taught it or even what it looks like?
A final thing I'd like to mention, although her tone seems supportive , is that there wasn't really anything in the book that suggested that pregnancy is her choice.
A lot of the things said, is that puberty changes is how the body prepares to give birth to babies "when you want to."
There wasn't anything that said you don't actually have to have any, which I believe should be talked about more because it would lead to a lot less unwanted pregnancies. Because many women have a baby with a false idea, and they don't actually want one, society that told them they did.
This book is really great for giving useful tips as well as informing us. I felt that the book was very engaging and easy to read.The fonts used were quite satisfying, and the colour scheme/imagery was quite attention-grabbing, it made it easier/nicer to read.
I like how she included a section on how to pop a spot correctly because it's more important than you realise , especially if you have acne. Although this book was made for girls , I like that it has a section on male anatomy because I believe it promotes gender equality and limits confusion that children may have half about puberty and the other gender.
This usually starts in sex ed classes. It makes you wonder, why are you separated?Why can't you just be treated equally?And shown the basic anatomy of your opposite sex? This sort of suggests that there's something wrong with wanting to learn about the opposite sex when actually there isn't.
I believe it's really important for children to know a basic anatomy of both genders. Because if something wrong to happen to them (be inappropriately engaged with), then they would know it's wrong because they have been taught their anatomy and that it is their right and no one else is to touch unless they have their permission.
Many cases of abuse go unreported or unhandled because the child never knew what was going on and that it was wrong. So i firmly believe that we should start teaching children at the start of puberty about each other. TW: s£xual @buse-
It's so sad to see and read about cases where a girl (or boy) didn't even know that a man (or woman) was making them touch them inappropriately, etc. But ask yourself this: How were they meant to know that it was their private area when they weren't taught it or even what it looks like?
A final thing I'd like to mention, although her tone seems supportive , is that there wasn't really anything in the book that suggested that pregnancy is her choice.
A lot of the things said, is that puberty changes is how the body prepares to give birth to babies "when you want to."
There wasn't anything that said you don't actually have to have any, which I believe should be talked about more because it would lead to a lot less unwanted pregnancies. Because many women have a baby with a false idea, and they don't actually want one, society that told them they did.
May 11, 2022
This is a short, easy to read book that goes over, at a very high level, the basic aspects of puberty for girls. It also has a brief section that talks about boys' changes, too. I was really impressed with the quality of the information provided in such a short book.
1. It's very easy to read. I think I read it through in half an hour.
2. It's very easy to understand, uses simple but accurate language, and appropriate illustrations.
3. Topics are covered enough to answer the basic question (What's happening to me?), but if the reader has more in-depth questions about anything, they will probably need additional resources.
Some of the Topics covered (again at a very high level):
When does puberty start?
Signs of puberty
Parts of the body, correct names for anatomy, labeled illustrations - male and female
Bras (presented as optional)
Shaving (presented as optional)
Periods, pads, tampons (No mention of period underwear, menstrual cups or other alternatives to pads/tampons)
PMS
Moods, feelings
Developing feelings of sexual attraction, for either sex
Masturbation
Healthy eating, exercise
Skin care
Hygiene
Pregnancy, condoms (does not mention other forms of BC), STDs, eating disorders
Explanation of how sex works, consequences of sex
Honestly, it's amazing how much is included because again, it's a very short book. I think this is a great resource for girls approaching puberty to read as an intro. It will probably lead to good questions and conversations. It will probably not be the only resource a girl will want during the puberty years, but again, a GREAT intro. Everything is explained simply, non-judgmentally, and in a non-scary, matter-of-fact way.
1. It's very easy to read. I think I read it through in half an hour.
2. It's very easy to understand, uses simple but accurate language, and appropriate illustrations.
3. Topics are covered enough to answer the basic question (What's happening to me?), but if the reader has more in-depth questions about anything, they will probably need additional resources.
Some of the Topics covered (again at a very high level):
When does puberty start?
Signs of puberty
Parts of the body, correct names for anatomy, labeled illustrations - male and female
Bras (presented as optional)
Shaving (presented as optional)
Periods, pads, tampons (No mention of period underwear, menstrual cups or other alternatives to pads/tampons)
PMS
Moods, feelings
Developing feelings of sexual attraction, for either sex
Masturbation
Healthy eating, exercise
Skin care
Hygiene
Pregnancy, condoms (does not mention other forms of BC), STDs, eating disorders
Explanation of how sex works, consequences of sex
Honestly, it's amazing how much is included because again, it's a very short book. I think this is a great resource for girls approaching puberty to read as an intro. It will probably lead to good questions and conversations. It will probably not be the only resource a girl will want during the puberty years, but again, a GREAT intro. Everything is explained simply, non-judgmentally, and in a non-scary, matter-of-fact way.
January 26, 2023
Ese momento de empezar a planear las conversaciones que preparen a mi hija mayor, primero, para enfrentar su adolescencia y todas las inquietudes que devienen con ello.
Le voy a dar este libro, pero primero lo estoy leyendo yo para que no me agarre en curva con preguntas después. Hasta ahora veo que sí les habla de sexo en el contexto de cómo se procrean hijos, que se tiene sexo por razones ajenas a la procreación y de la anticoncepción, condones específicamente. En lo sexual, les habla también de la autoexploración y del orgasmo. Además, les explica los cambios de los niños en la adolescencia y la anatomía de los hombres. Y que durante esta edad pueden empezar a sentir atracción por otras personas (del sexo opuesto, mismo sexo o ambas).
Habla varias páginas del periodo de una forma muy simple. Les dice cómo usar toallas y tampones, incluso habla del síndrome de choque tóxico ligado a los tampones y la necesidad de cambiarlos de forma constante y de no usarlos en la noche.
Les platica bien sobre el auto cuidado: higiene personal, dieta saludable y ejercicio. Además, les habla de los riesgos: drogas, desórdenes alimenticios, imagen corporal, bullying y el derecho a decir NO.
Creo que presenta la información de forma puntual, objetiva y muy digerible para una pre-adolescente.
Me hubiera gustado tener toda esta información cuando también me está preguntando qué le estaba pasando a mi cuerpo, mente y emociones.
Si eres una mamá o un papá progresista, este libro es muy recomendable. Para gente conservadora, recomiendo, irónicamente, abstenerse.
Le voy a dar este libro, pero primero lo estoy leyendo yo para que no me agarre en curva con preguntas después. Hasta ahora veo que sí les habla de sexo en el contexto de cómo se procrean hijos, que se tiene sexo por razones ajenas a la procreación y de la anticoncepción, condones específicamente. En lo sexual, les habla también de la autoexploración y del orgasmo. Además, les explica los cambios de los niños en la adolescencia y la anatomía de los hombres. Y que durante esta edad pueden empezar a sentir atracción por otras personas (del sexo opuesto, mismo sexo o ambas).
Habla varias páginas del periodo de una forma muy simple. Les dice cómo usar toallas y tampones, incluso habla del síndrome de choque tóxico ligado a los tampones y la necesidad de cambiarlos de forma constante y de no usarlos en la noche.
Les platica bien sobre el auto cuidado: higiene personal, dieta saludable y ejercicio. Además, les habla de los riesgos: drogas, desórdenes alimenticios, imagen corporal, bullying y el derecho a decir NO.
Creo que presenta la información de forma puntual, objetiva y muy digerible para una pre-adolescente.
Me hubiera gustado tener toda esta información cuando también me está preguntando qué le estaba pasando a mi cuerpo, mente y emociones.
Si eres una mamá o un papá progresista, este libro es muy recomendable. Para gente conservadora, recomiendo, irónicamente, abstenerse.
June 20, 2025
Aufklärung, kindgerecht und verständlich
Ein wunderbar aufbereitetes Aufklärungsbuch für Mädchen. Es behandelt viele wichtige Themen: Körperveränderungen, Menstruation, Gefühle, Sex, Hygiene, aber auch kurz die Jungen-Pubertät, Mobbing und sogar Drogen.
Besonders positiv ist die klare, leicht verständliche Sprache – unterstützt von vielen Bildern – wodurch das Buch ideal zum eigenständigen Lesen ist. Ich schenke es meiner 8-jährigen Tochter zum Zeugnis. Soll natürlich nicht das persönliche Gespräch ersetzen, aber als Ergänzung perfekt. Denn manchmal hilft es, Dinge auch in Ruhe nachlesen zu können, wenn Fragen vielleicht (noch) nicht so leicht auszusprechen sind. Oder vielleicht ist es gerade umgekehrt: Das Buch stößt Gedanken an – und genau daraus entsteht dann ein Gespräch. Mit Fragen, die Mama am besten beantworten kann.
Einziger kleiner Minuspunkt: Umweltfreundlichere Alternativen wie Menstruationstassen oder Periodenunterwäsche werden (noch) nicht erwähnt – aber da das Buch 2008 erschienen ist, kann man das gut einordnen. Heute würde man solche Möglichkeiten vielleicht ergänzen, gerade weil viele Mädchen so ein gutes Backup zur ersten Periode bekommen könnten.
Ein sehr empfehlenswertes Buch, das Mädchen stärkt, aufklärt und auf Augenhöhe begegnet.
Ein wunderbar aufbereitetes Aufklärungsbuch für Mädchen. Es behandelt viele wichtige Themen: Körperveränderungen, Menstruation, Gefühle, Sex, Hygiene, aber auch kurz die Jungen-Pubertät, Mobbing und sogar Drogen.
Besonders positiv ist die klare, leicht verständliche Sprache – unterstützt von vielen Bildern – wodurch das Buch ideal zum eigenständigen Lesen ist. Ich schenke es meiner 8-jährigen Tochter zum Zeugnis. Soll natürlich nicht das persönliche Gespräch ersetzen, aber als Ergänzung perfekt. Denn manchmal hilft es, Dinge auch in Ruhe nachlesen zu können, wenn Fragen vielleicht (noch) nicht so leicht auszusprechen sind. Oder vielleicht ist es gerade umgekehrt: Das Buch stößt Gedanken an – und genau daraus entsteht dann ein Gespräch. Mit Fragen, die Mama am besten beantworten kann.
Einziger kleiner Minuspunkt: Umweltfreundlichere Alternativen wie Menstruationstassen oder Periodenunterwäsche werden (noch) nicht erwähnt – aber da das Buch 2008 erschienen ist, kann man das gut einordnen. Heute würde man solche Möglichkeiten vielleicht ergänzen, gerade weil viele Mädchen so ein gutes Backup zur ersten Periode bekommen könnten.
Ein sehr empfehlenswertes Buch, das Mädchen stärkt, aufklärt und auf Augenhöhe begegnet.
January 18, 2022
Some parts explained well. Others not so much. Suggesting that no matter what size or shape your boobs are, someone will find them attractive just objectifies girls in my opinion. Talking about bras and what looks best under a top? Surely what’s comfortable and what you feel happy in is best. Also using tissue paper or a sock in an emergency if you forget your pads while on your period. How about not trying to hide the fact women and girls get periods and encourage open conversations. Where is the guidance on going to the school nurse or asking a friend or teacher rather than suggesting a sock!! I won’t be giving this to my daughter to read.
December 28, 2024
"Why are you reading this at 15?"
You should always be learning as much as you can about your body, no matter your age.
This book doesn't feel like it's talking down to you (aka your child), nearly all of the information is helpful, and it's an informative guide to puberty. There are a few sections I'd recommend leaving until your daughter is 12-14 (sex and boys' puberty + genitalia) and you've already given them The Talk.
You should always be learning as much as you can about your body, no matter your age.
This book doesn't feel like it's talking down to you (aka your child), nearly all of the information is helpful, and it's an informative guide to puberty. There are a few sections I'd recommend leaving until your daughter is 12-14 (sex and boys' puberty + genitalia) and you've already given them The Talk.
August 1, 2017
I found this to be a very helpful tool in discussing the topics associated with growing up. As a Christian I appreciated that there was very little secular worldview presented. I also like the length (only 50 pages) and straightforward presentation of facts.
August 30, 2018
Bought this for my 10 year old daughter. We read it together and discussed it. She's also read it with her friends. More comprehensive than I expected or really wanted it to be in some areas but pitched at the right level of explanation. Thought the cartoon pictures were helpful.
March 14, 2020
A good introduction
Bought for my little girl. Clear and simple terminology which covers the changes that happen during puberty. Also discussed healthy diet which I was pleased about.
Bought for my little girl. Clear and simple terminology which covers the changes that happen during puberty. Also discussed healthy diet which I was pleased about.
November 1, 2020
It really helped me understand puberty and how things work in the human body.
1.I chose this rating because it really helps me with growing up.
2.I liked the entire book it's brilliant.
3.I would suggest/reccomend this book to other 8-15 year old kids like me.
1.I chose this rating because it really helps me with growing up.
2.I liked the entire book it's brilliant.
3.I would suggest/reccomend this book to other 8-15 year old kids like me.
July 2, 2017
While I may not be fully ready to talk to my daughter about what's in this book, it's going to be a great place for her to start.
February 4, 2018
Bought this for my 10yr old daughter. Very informative in a non scary way.
April 24, 2019
It's a good book
Want to read
June 16, 2019I love this book.it helped me a lot!
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July 16, 2019Good book
August 2, 2020
It's knowledge book for girls
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August 22, 2020This book really helped me with the understanding of my body and how to treat it.
September 1, 2020
This really helped me expect what will happen to me as I grow up!!!
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