Summary-
Very poor job communicating topics. Political ranting that doesn’t effectively emphasize its importance, or connect with the topic. Author highlights topics/vocab as important, then doesn’t explain why it’s relevant or even give a thoughtful definition. Odd jabs at men throughout the book that aren’t necessary or very relevant, or even a bit harmful imo. Not worth the read if you’re interested in learning about the biology and psychology of human sexuality, but OK if you want a quick overview.
It doesn’t feel like anything was ever discussed in detail, except for rants about stereotypes, race, feminism, etc throughout the textbook. All of these are very important factors when talking about sexuality, but I personally had a hard time finding her reasoning for the rants. She did a poor job connecting social ideas with the science of human sexuality.
The author would also make statements and not discuss further, for example she states one pelvic floor muscle is particularly important, and that it can be stretched during childbirth, or weak. However, it can be strengthened through pelvic floor exercises, which is recommended by therapists (a near exact paraphrase). She never states WHY this muscle is important or what its function was, or how it is relevant to the reading. This happens too often in the book, making it imo a pointless read.
There were also odd jabs at men in particular (after she rants about inclusion!) which sucks because, speaking as a woman, this should be educational and not feel exclusive for women readers.
For example, her first sentence in chapter 4, Sexual Anatomy, is the quote by Dave Berry: “It is a well-documented fact that guys will not ask for directions. This is a biological thing. This is why it takes several million sperm cells... to locate a female egg, despite the fact that the egg is, relative to them, the size of Wisconsin.”
Sure, it’s a bit funny, maybe for a TedTalk, but the author had not previously talked about the psychology or biology of men, and never discusses this quote. After the quote, it jumps into female anatomy. It feels like an unnecessary jab at men, and sets the tone for the chapter as a bit demeaning.
In a previous chapter, she made a statement that implies men are not victims of r**e, so this joke really didn’t fit right. I’m assuming she doesn’t actually think men cannot be victims, but really poor communication from the author.
Maybe I’m missing something, but it really was not a great book if you want to understand human sexuality