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Keep Pain in the Past: Getting Over Trauma, Grief and the Worst That's Ever Happened to You

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Heal Psychological Wounds on Your OwnMove on from the emotional trauma of your Contrary to what many people believe, we can recover from emotional trauma relatively quickly and completely on our own, without thousands of dollars spent on therapists. Whether it's extreme trauma such as sexual abuse or the horrors of war or less dramatic shame and guilt, we don't need to spend years in intensive therapy to recover. Keep Pain in the Past provides a process that enables you to do most, if not all, of the recovery on your own.

Train yourself in psychological While most people know what can be done to treat physical ills--like using ice on a muscle sprain--they don't realize they can apply certain psychological principles to treat anxiety, depression and other conditions. Keep Pain in the Past teaches you the critical 21st century skill of treating psychological wounds on your own.

Treat yourself and heal old People may suspect that trauma from their past is affecting them negatively, but they take refuge in denial because honestly, surfacing that pain hurts. Keep Pain in the Past helps you identify and face pain, and find closure on your own.

Learn from the success of Discover how Sheri, a 37-year-old attorney, recovered from panic attacks that seemed to come out of nowhere. Follow the journey of Mark, a 29-year-old Army veteran who experienced the horror of war in Afghanistan, as he healed from the downward spiral that had caused him to lose his job and become increasingly uncommunicative with his family. Explore how Melinda, a 42-year-old professor who struggled to sustain a romantic relationship, confronted her torturous childhood and has now found love that is still going strong after three years.

Keep Pain in the Past achieves what conventional therapy does not. After reading this book, you will be able


Confront your emotional baggage
Reach closure
Discover a life unhaunted by the trauma of your past

274 pages, Kindle Edition

First published January 1, 2018

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238 reviews73 followers
December 9, 2021
Keep Pain in the Past: Getting Over Trauma, Grief and the Worst that's Ever Happened to You by Christopher Cortman, Joseph Walden, narrated by Jack de Golia, an Audible release. At the beginning of the edition, the author speaks about how vital psychotherapy is. On the contrary that I have heard and read about psychiatric treatment, this book is stressed that medications do not function without talking therapy. The steps are discussed and look suitable for the adept of the subject. However, the considerable portions of this book describe different patients and their experiences. All their stories subsisted a compelling listening.
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79 reviews1 follower
February 13, 2024
I’d give 3.75 stars if I could. I like most of this book. I actually decided not to listen to it at all after the first five minutes, something he said… but then I came back around to it mostly due to a lack of other options. It got better, not great. It was eye opening. And, it could have been half the length or even shorter, very repetitive. Somewhat insightful.
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153 reviews6 followers
May 3, 2020
I found this very helpful, very insightful and very useful for understanding how to work through painful and challenging feelings.
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17 reviews
October 8, 2022
Trauma, PTSD and health issues

Superficial. I would like to see someone deal with the intersection of PTSD and OSA (obstructive sleep apnea) and comment on the author's methods.
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38 reviews
June 23, 2023
Simple and easy to read, a good starter to anyone who wants to keep their pain in the past.
25 reviews
February 3, 2025
He really helps you and stares a lot of tips. It's cool bc he shares real-life stories with permission, but he shares them, analyzes, and shares how they lived thru it.
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December 27, 2019
Audible:I found the information to be good.I enjoyed listening to the stories of other in similar situations. Jack de Golia was a very good narrator.I was given this free review copy audiobook at my request and have voluntarily left this review.' 
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December 27, 2019
I found the information to be good.I enjoyed listening to the stories of other in similar situations. Jack de Golia was a very good narrator.I was given this free review copy audiobook at my request and have voluntarily left this review.' 
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Author 73 books71 followers
October 23, 2019
I could somewhat relate and there were some good tips but not my favorite.
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