de ce bărbații sunt neglijenți, iar femeile, mereu prevăzătoare

by Allan Pease, Barbara Pease

De sarbatori, spiritele se trebuie cumparate daruri, pregatita masa pentru musafiri si sa fii o gazda perfecta. Cu atatea griji pe cap, cu atatea probleme de rezolvat, cum sa mai reusim sa ne simtim bine? Barbatii si femeile functioneaza diferit — acesta este un lucru stiut deja de toata lumea. Ce nu se stie inca este cum pot fi respectate aceste diferente, ba chiar transformate in atuuri. Femeile sunt stresate de cumparaturi, dar barbatii se descurca foarte bine daca sunt inarmati cu o lista detaliata. Femeile nu spun exact ce vor sa faca barbatii, iar acestia nu inteleg limbajul indirect al partenerelor lor. Comunicarea in cuplu este un continuu vals, la care, daca nu respectati pasii de dans, o sa ajungeti mereu sa va calcati pe picioare. Sau sa va cicaliti. Sau, mai rau, sa va despartiti. Autorii considera ca secretul armoniei consta in impartirea rezonabila a responsabilitatilor in cuplu, in comunicare si in intelegerea reciproca a partenerilor. Despre musafiri, despre cadouri, despre petreceri si despre cum sa evitati ca sarbatoarea sa fie un dezastru, cititi mai multe in De ce barbatii sunt neglijenti, iar femeile, mereu prevazatoare. O carte amuzanta, ce ofera solutii usor de pus in aplicare, numai buna pentru sarbatori fericite!

Genres: Psychology, Self Help, Humor

277 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2007

About the author

Allan Pease is an Australian author and motivational speaker. Despite having no education in psychology, neuroscience, or psychiatry, he has managed to establish himself as an "expert on relationships".

Originally a musician, he became a successful life insurance salesman, he started a career as a speaker and trainer in sales and latterly in body language. This resulted in a popular sideline of audio tapes, many of which feature his irreverent wit.

His best-selling book Body Language brought him international recognition. It has been followed by several others. He is quite well known in Australia and during the 1980s he was an occasional TV analyst for political debates where he would analyze the body language and overall performance of the contestants.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allan_Pease

Reviews

[Michelle · Rating 1 out of 5]

This felt like a lot of nonsense to me. I could get on board with some of the stuff he said in his other book but not this one.

One star.

[Arhewin · Rating 2 out of 5]

I bought this book, when I was soo upset with my husband. I considered him incompetent of doing anything right.
Thanks to this book, my husband didn't have to sleep in the sofa anymore :). Not because he's done things right, but because I learn to understand him better.

[Nur Raudhah · Rating 3 out of 5]

Sejujurnya buku ini mengenai krismas, bagaimana keluarga menghadapi krismas dengan kesibukkan masa setiap pasangan ahli keluarga, bagaimana untuk merasa tenang di celah-celah kesibukkan melampau.

saya pernah menggunakan teknik di dalam buku ini, iaitu semasa shopping bersama abah di mall, dalam buku ini mengatakan seorang insan yang bernama lelaki tidak suka menunggu semasa shopping, terutamanya semasa kita sibuk membeli baju. Apa yang buku ini berikan ialah, sebelum kita shopping sediakan satu paket kecil gula-gula atau makanan ringan yang boleh dijadikan kudapan untuk mereka. Downloadkan siap2 aplikasi di dalam handphone supaya mereka tidak merasa bosan semasa menunggu kita! (Ada banyak lagi solusi)

Dan bagaimana untuk membawa abah kita merasa seronok untuk shopping? dan apa kah caranya untuk menanyakan pendapat kepada kaum adam tanpa membuatkan mereka stress dengan soalan kita? semuanya ada di dalam buku ini.

This book is not just for special occasions only but it can be used in daily life. The first thought when I bought this book is this suits for my mom. Allan and Barbara Pease never disappointed us with their psychological books.

[Shirin Abdel Rahman · Rating 3 out of 5]

They are funny and rational when it comes to dating/love and marriage, I really love Allan & Barbara pease approach.

[Sian Powell · Rating 3 out of 5]

This is a fun little book that goes some way to explain the differences between the way men and women react to Christmas. There are lots of different anecdotes to illustrate the writers' ideas. The book seemed to be harder on men than women (maybe more women read this type of book?) but it was enjoyable. It does only deal with Christmas issues; for in-depth analysis of why men and women behave differently in other situations you would have to read their other books. If a simple book like this can help men and women get along together at a stressful time of year then what's not to like?

[Brandon · Rating 5 out of 5]

just loving this! a fun read with som insights.
i have heard that some consider reading relationshp books a sign of having troubles.
i consider reading relationship books as learning about life.
cos when you deal with your emotions, it's not a sign of weaknes but a will to grow! <3

[Norah · Rating 3 out of 5]

A useful pre-Christmas read which I got too late to read last year!

[Bookmaniac70 · Rating 3 out of 5]

Забавна:-)).

[Kinda · Rating 4 out of 5]

Am a big fan of offering real life cases as examples to handle such topics. I think the book is a valuable guide for any couple & would definitely help both understand each other more & more .

[Doris · Rating 3 out of 5]

O carte vesela, pozitiva, care scoate in evidenta cumplit diferentele dintre barbat si femeie. Un capitol 7, despre soacre, fabulos! Ala merita 5 :))

[August A.P.]

later, if I really want to read this book again.

[Roxanne Norman · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good - informative