It's been a while since I have read a novel which is so full of warmth and humour, with all its details of getting older, losing confidence, becoming invisible, taken for granted, fear of losing independence, the increasing frailties of the physical body and those memories that become ever so more elusive. 79 year old Peggy Smart is still grieving the loss of her beloved husband, Ted, and having to face the interference of her children, David and Jenny watching closely for signs of dementia and possibilities of falls, with Peggy terrified of being placed in a nursing home by them. Peggy's life is organised and remembered around her need to take numerous pills, and her eternal vexation with her weak bladder, an affliction from childhood. Her life and wardrobe is beige in every sense, all colour has leached out, her beloved elderly pooch, Basil, is under threat of being removed from her as a complaint has been received at the Jacaranda Retirement Village. This is a moving story where a group of geriatrics with apparently little in common other than the same final address begin to develop an increasingly special bond with each other as they begin to laugh, obsess over sex and behave disgracefully with glee, thanks to the forceful hurricane of glamorous fashionista that is Angie Valentine as she enters their lives.
It has been over fifty years since Peggy has seen her best friend of childhood, Angie, last seen at Peggy and Ted's wedding. Angie was confident and unafraid of standing up for the young, and bullied Peggy, taking her under her wing. Peggy loved her, wishing she could emulate her friend's qualities and sex appeal, with every man finding himself drawn to her. Out of the blue, the 4 times married Angie becomes a resident of the retirement village, taking no prisoners as she begins to turn Peggy's life upside down, although Peggy puts up a fight, doesn't Angie know they are too old? Before long, Peggy's wardrobe is replaced with clothes she could only dream about, and a hairstyle that swiftly changes her image of herself as she channels her inner Helen Mirren. And it doesn't stop there, Peggy is breaking the habits of a lifetime, beginning to swear, dreaming of sex with Brian, swimming, challenging the traditions of the Annual Dinner Dance, eating Angie's rather special brownies and more. For the first time, she is part of the cool crowd with her fellow oldies, but all the change has her children worrying about her mental health and thinking she is going gaga. Peggy is going to have to learn to assert herself with David and Jenny, and readjust what she knows about Angie, a woman with her own heartbreak and secrets.
The book begins with a poem I have loved since childhood, the Dylan Thomas's famous Do Not Go Gentle in to that Good Night, and it is so apt as our cast of characters take up the challenges in life and rage against the dying of the light. This is a glorious read, with its beautiful touches of authenticity with Peggy's morass of emotions including jealousy, and her petty rivalries and competitive behaviour. The loneliness of old age, the tide of physical and mental health issues, problematic family members, the fear of loss of independence are no reason to stop living, beginning new friendships, and recognising the value of old friendships irrespective of the challenges they may present. It took me a little while to get engaged in this gem of a novel, but once I did, I was enthralled. The characters of Peggy and the unapologetic Angie were so compelling, and the wit, comic humour, and fun were a tonic, balancing the numerous adversities of getting older. A read that worms its way into your heart and comes highly recommended! Many thanks to Hodder and Stoughton for an ARC.