What did I just read part of?
The book starts out much better than I expected: a ship of humans has just survived a skirmish with a ship of an alien species ("The Scorpio") they are at war with, and both ships have crash-landed on a hostile planet full of things that would like to eat them.
The lead character, Xera, is the human crew's translator. She's the only one who can communicate with the aliens - who outgun and outclass the humans - and, as the two crews seek shelter and survival together, in spite of their mutual animosity, Xera attempts to build a fragile alliance.
That first part is fine. Then the lead alien abducts her and the other humans and takes them to his home planet, where he is some kind of princeling. And everything gets incredibly weird.
Xera, it turns out, is not a modern lady spacefarer (as one might expect), but instead hails from an extremely conservative culture where remaining a virgin before marriage is of Taliban levels of importance. (But apparently also a culture where people are cool about unmarried ladies swanning around the galaxy having adventures..?)
And the culture of her kidnapper is "patriarchal and basically monotheistic", except it turns out that it is also a historical romance fantasy transplanted to space. The culture is obsessed with monogamy and sexual honor and women being chaste until marriage, except that the men are not really party to this agreement and sleep around a lot before marriage. (If you are wondering how this works, and who the women they sleep with are, if women are immediately rendered unfit by sex outside of marriage, you have too much logic for this book.)
On the alien world, Xera is turned, without asking, into Earth's ambassador to this culture. Also her alien captor marries her and has a lot of not-quite-sex with her (because virginity, you guys) and there a lot of segments about how bellydancing is so great for women and women should dress to be hot and should not sleep around (this goes in a couple of directions that are pretty weird) and so on and so forth, and Xera is eerily unconcerned about the fact that she's been kidnapped and has been coerced into a forced marriage and is involved in a sexual relationship that is, you know, semi-rapey.
So the sexual politics are super, super weird, and seem sufficiently unlikely for spacefaring cultures that I'd expect a ton more worldbuilding to explain how it is that these cultures wound up this way, and how it is that the women in the cultures are willing to put up with how things work. It's not that I'm just not willing to believe that these cultures could exist, it's that the author stakes out weird worldbuilding territory and doesn't back it up.
I also found the relationship between Xera and her alien boyfriend, Ryven (odd note: there's an early note about how the aliens can't pronounce the "V" sound - so one wonders what he calls himself) uncomfortable. It's not that I can't read about an off-kilter relationship with power imbalances, not at all. It's just that this one was really poorly done, so much so that I found it simultaneously creepy and dull. Xera so immediately accepts her barefoot-and-pregnant new status that she doesn't really struggle against Ryven's forced marriage scheme, or his insistence that women can only do this and that and certainly not be on starships or whatever. I found this very, very odd, that Xera went from a basically tough spacer to Betty Draper with hardly a complaint.
But the biggest thing is the difference in tone and quality and logic between the first section, on the hostile planet, and the next section, on the alien homeworld. It is literally as though one author started out writing a reasonably interesting science-fiction romance, and then a couple of chapters in, some other, lesser writer took over, and that author had a not-so-great unpublished historical romance about a forced marriage and cute outfits, and she just changed some details and crammed it onto the first chunk.
Very weird.