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A Very Hungry Girl: How I Filled Up on Life...and How You Can, Too!

A Very Hungry Girl chronicles the journey of Jessica Weiner, who spent most of her life hungering to be someone else. She was so desperate to be accepted and valued that she spiraled into an eating disorder, experiencing the attendant lack of self-esteem that rules—and almost ruined—her life.

This compelling book relates Jessica's very personal story, and also captures her unique persona as she travels the country as a performer and motivational speaker listening to thousands of other people's stories. Through her work, Jessica has become the voice of her generation and speaks with a relatable and realistic point of view. Jessica's work has received national attention by The Washington Post, CNN, MTV and Teen People Magazine.

260 pages, Paperback

First published September 1, 2003

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Profile Image for Tracy.
249 reviews
January 26, 2010
In the first part of the book, the author tells her own story (so interesting and well-written). The second part is full of stories from the road and is a bit preachy. The third covers steps you can take today to help people around you with eating disorders, addictions, and depression. They aren't lofty ideas. They are very practical things a person can do today to make a difference. I would like to hang out with the author and that isn't something I typically say after reading an autobiography. I would have given the book 4 stars but really struggled through the second part of the book.
Profile Image for Kirsten Dee.
5 reviews
July 30, 2007
this book contained three sections: one about the author, another about her fellowships, and finally a self help section. i found the self help section to be a bit fortune cookie, however the rest was enthralling. self image issues seem to run rampant in everyone, not just women...and this book definately addressed this. i do not suffer from an eating disorder, but after finishing "a very hungry girl" i feel like i can better relate to women and men alike.
Profile Image for Sarah.
24 reviews
January 4, 2010
Wonderful! I gives me joy to know there are people like Jessica out there using their creativity, doing what they love, and changing the world at the same time. Especially for parents, present and future, books like these really help uncover the pressures on college students, teenagers, and even young ones. Honestly, times (and social pressures) change so quickly that if I am not making an effort to keep up I will have NO IDEA what it's like!
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90 reviews10 followers
May 29, 2008
The author was an acquaintance of mine from my college days. She was an amazing young woman and I can remember seeing her one-woman show in the theatre department. I knew she was headed for big things...but imagine my surprise when I saw her on a talk show recently!!!!! The book was raw and honest with great insight.
Profile Image for Gato Negro.
1,251 reviews2 followers
January 13, 2016
Decent book on self acceptance but there are better ones out there. This might be a good read for middle school counselors who haven't taken a continuing ed course on girls and eating disorders and peer pressure in a long time.
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2 reviews3 followers
October 10, 2007
She's my moms cousin. We didn't know this is how she felt. We bought her book to support her. Its very good however and I it represtents me and how I feel about myself.
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12 reviews1 follower
December 21, 2012
As a former eating disorder woman I understood the body image issues whole heartedly, did get a little to preachy and somewhat self congratulatory. Good dialogue opener for anyone who is suffering
Profile Image for Christine.
263 reviews2 followers
July 4, 2020
I thought this was going to be about disordered eating, but it’s so much more than that. It’s an acknowledgment of pain, of shared traumas that need to be voiced. Why are we so self-critical? Can we tell the difference between actual healing and cycling through the ups and downs of emotion? This is a book that fosters conversation and changed thinking. I’d recommend processing reading this with someone who has a strong skill set for emotional health.
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22 reviews2 followers
September 9, 2025
Jess is one of the most intuitive and intelligent women I have the pleasure of knowing.
This book is more than a memoir, it's a roadmap for women (and all) filled with gumption and hunger for a creative life. But most importantly, I feel, it serves as testament to how living a life of integrity and nurturing a loving relationship with the self will build the right road for you.

Jess, I am filled with pride to call you a kindred spirit.

Eres una maravilla. xx
Profile Image for Jan Tisdale.
395 reviews1 follower
January 19, 2024
Ophra talked about this book and thought it would help me better understand eating disorders. This is Jessica’s story.
Book helped me understand we need to be a better listener and person won’t change until they hit rock bottom.
A must read if this title interests you.
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Author 3 books12 followers
September 5, 2010
Really inspiring, just what I needed! I can't wait to read her next one!
Profile Image for Heidi.
286 reviews13 followers
August 27, 2008
Not a great book. It was distracting with the jumping around.
2 reviews
August 20, 2010
i enjoyed the stories. the inspirational self-help crap, not so much.
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