“A loving, adventurous, and rewarding life is possible when we are STUBBORNLY POSITIVE.” - Fred the Afghan
This was the book of my summer, the book of my year, & the story of a lifetime. In fairness, it did combine two of the elements closest to my heart & easiest to ignite my internal water-works system - dogs & the U.S. military. Sooo it did have that going for it right off the bat from the title & cover picture.
But as my Aunt said when we finished reading it - (which yes, it was so amazing that I read the physical book, myself, annnnd then promptly made my family download the audiobook, which I then excitedly listened to the whole thing again with them on our summer road trip a few days after I started / finished the physical book, myself. THAT’s how good it was. I could listen to / read it often, like a music album or watching a tv show or movie.) As my Aunt said when we finished the audiobook with tears in all our eyes, this book appeals to so many people at so many ages and levels in life. Fortunately, there’s even an adaptation of it that’s been released for younger readers.
I just, I don’t even know where to begin in raving about this book. Craig comes off as a classy, humble, honorable hero, especially when it’s so evident in his tone, (BONUS - He, himself, actually narrates the audiobook, ya’ll!) throughout that he’s trying to deflect the praise, honor, and credit to so many others.
The book is about people (and dogs) loving people (and dogs). At its most basic level, it truly is. Human kindness, grit, integrity, selflessness, and true heroism to absolute strangers at its most fundamental level, and sometimes in the most difficult, stressful, and tragic situations. And all for the love of one extremely special dog uniting people of all different countries, cultures, backgrounds, belief systems, creeds, and ethnicities. As it should be.
It will make you laugh out loud. Cry a river of sad, heartbreaking tears. Cry a river of happy, joyous celebration tears. And re-think your entire outlook on life - especially if it’s not a typically optimistic outlook.
I honestly can’t think of what I would’ve really changed about this book.
I’ve read people complain about its format - which my family & myself actually really loved a lot. The story bounces back and forth between basically three timelines. A present day road trip with Craig, Fred and their amputee Army buddy, (who I adore, by the way!), Josh. The next timeline is Afghanistan during Craig’s deployment and all of the origins and backstory of how he met “Sgt.” Fred. The last timeline is kind of a ‘fill in the blank’ of other various info and stories throughout Craig’s (and Fred’s, of course!) life - lessons, struggles, love, duty, friendships, growing up, etc.
Another complaint I actually read more than once in reviews is people complaining about Craig’s foul language-use throughout the book. I’m sorry, but that’s just laughable. Literally - are you f-ing kidding me?! Sorry, but ... not sorry. HE’S A MARINE! He barely cussed throughout the book except for when describing high-tense situations in which the vast majority of us would most definitely be swearing, OR when he’s describing situations where he’s like, sitting around a bar with his military friends swapping stories. How would ANYONE believe the validity of military conversations where they’re saying stuff like, “oh, golly, gee whiz, darn those silly IEDs that blew up my buddy!” What? If you couldn’t get past the minimal use of foul language used throughout this book for the FAR greater message of heroism, patriotism, family, friends, dogs, love, life, fun, life’s meaning, etc., then I am sorry, but you are living a sad little life in your book choices because you are missing the far bigger picture of a truly incredible real life story of man and his best friend.
He was a little repetitive a few times, but other than that, I honestly can’t think of anything negative I would say about this book at all. Seriously. I always try to find something to fairly judge, challenge, be critical on, or that I would change in any book I read, but I honestly just love Craig, Fred, and everyone that joined their cast of characters along the way.
I also really loved how through highlighting the tragedies of war, the bearocracy of government, the patriotism and heroism of our military, etc, Craig also did two extraordinary things - at no point throughout this book was it ever at ALL politically tilted one way or another, and at the same time as explaining how horrifically evil the Taliban are, Craig also managed to highlight wonderfully beautiful stories of the villagers, farmers, teachers, and just basic, every day civilians over there who are hardworking, loving, family people with, (as I believe Craig, himself so eloquently put it), so little to give that they give so freely. I really did love how he was able to highlight some amazing stories of friendships, comraderies, trust building, sacrifice, and even just basic humanity in these remarkable people that we were actually supposed to be over there helping fight for a better, fairer life, which so often gets completely swept under the rug and misinterpreted, miscommunicated, and misunderstood.
Another thing I loved about this book is a really interesting and weird one to try to explain. - I really respected that Craig clearly explained why he also understands and respects the strict military rules on why soldiers can’t have pets, such as rabies and distractions that can be caused by pets, which risks the success of a mission and the lives of the soldiers involved in it, etc. I absolutely see both sides of it too and while I feel this was a different, extremely unique case and situation, I also agree with the military rules and why they stand, (although I don’t fully agree with the immediate euthanization of caught dogs), and I just really loved that although he bended and broke rules, cut some corners, etc, he also tried not to lie, he was very clear about his understanding and respect for the military rules and why they exist, and he even felt such a guilty conscious for forging the veterinary signature on Fred’s travel forms, that he took the risk of going to a British vet on Leatherneck anyways.
The in-memoriam part at the very end was also SUPER classy. And everyone should also read through the acknowledgments because both Craig AND Fred had “thank yous” to give out.
Also, at the beginning of the audio book, Craig apologizes for any random nosies you hear during his reading because Fred was in-studio with him the entire time he recorded. MAJOR score! I was crying earlier into the audio book than I even was when I actually read the book - and that’s a feat!
I am SO thankful for the angel to ‘his’ marines &, of course, Craig, that Fred has been, & I am SO thankful for Craig’s heart and soul and his and SO many others selfless, giving, loving, open hearts that have helped saved Fred / helped them along their journey through all of the miraculous fate pieces of this incredible story.
Following ‘Fred the Afghan’s Facebook page for me now is such a joy - seeing what an amazing life he, Craig, and Nora are living together and all of the people they’re helping along they way, also never forgetting / leaving behind all of those who sacrificed so much to help them along their way too.
I think that any & ALL dog lovers, American patriots, and ... oh yeah, ALL human beings in general should read, ponder, analyze, understand, and let this story really sink in. ... you’ll probably start living a more fulfilled life if you do.