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An Unsuitable Match
Rose Woodrowe is getting married to Tyler Masson—a wonderful, sensitive man who is head-over-heels in love with her. The only problem? This isn’t the first time for either of them. And when you marry later in life there are a lot more people to consider. Like Rose’s daughter, Laura, who remembers her mom’s first marriage and doesn’t want her to get hurt again. Or the twins, Emmy and Nat, who are used to their mom being there for them whenever and for whatever they need. And then there’s Tyler’s Mallory, a young actress who craves her father’s attention; and Seth, whose San Francisco bakery is just taking off and needs all the money he can get. Rose and Tyler are determined to get it right this time, but in trying to make everyone happy, can they ever be happy themselves?
304 pages, Hardcover
First published February 8, 2018
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Joanna Trollope
155 books596 followersJoanna Trollope Potter Curteis (aka Caroline Harvey)
Joanna Trollope was born on 9 December 1943 in her grandfather's rectory in Minchinhampton, Gloucestershire, England, daughter of Rosemary Hodson and Arthur George Cecil Trollope. She is the eldest of three siblings. She is a fifth-generation niece of the Victorian novelist Anthony Trollope and is a cousin of the writer and broadcaster James Trollope. She was educated at Reigate County School for Girls followed by St Hugh's College, Oxford. On 14 May 1966, she married the banker David Roger William Potter, they had two daughters, Antonia and Louise, and on 1983 they divorced. In 1985, she remarried to the television dramatist Ian Curteis, and became the stepmother of two stepsons; they divorced in 2001. Today, she is a grandmother and lives on her own in London.
From 1965 to 1967, she worked at the Foreign Office. From 1967 to 1979, she was employed in a number of teaching posts before she became a writer full-time in 1980. Her novel Parson Harding's Daughter won in 1980 the Romantic Novel of the Year Award by the Romantic Novelists' Association.
Joanna Trollope was born on 9 December 1943 in her grandfather's rectory in Minchinhampton, Gloucestershire, England, daughter of Rosemary Hodson and Arthur George Cecil Trollope. She is the eldest of three siblings. She is a fifth-generation niece of the Victorian novelist Anthony Trollope and is a cousin of the writer and broadcaster James Trollope. She was educated at Reigate County School for Girls followed by St Hugh's College, Oxford. On 14 May 1966, she married the banker David Roger William Potter, they had two daughters, Antonia and Louise, and on 1983 they divorced. In 1985, she remarried to the television dramatist Ian Curteis, and became the stepmother of two stepsons; they divorced in 2001. Today, she is a grandmother and lives on her own in London.
From 1965 to 1967, she worked at the Foreign Office. From 1967 to 1979, she was employed in a number of teaching posts before she became a writer full-time in 1980. Her novel Parson Harding's Daughter won in 1980 the Romantic Novel of the Year Award by the Romantic Novelists' Association.
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April 13, 2018
I think I have read all of this author's books, although some of them long ago and before I had even heard of Goodreads! I enjoy the way she writes and, being English, I like all the settings in London and in the countryside.
Most of Joanna Trollope's books are about families and the issues that they have. An Unsuitable Match considers the topic of remarriage, in this case a couple in their sixties, one widowed and one divorced. In the beginning everything seems wonderful but there are a number of adult children on both sides and thus the problems begin.
Trollope's books always meander and this is no exception. However she really understands people and what makes them tick and their reactions and the resultant events ring true. The ending is unsatisfying but then so, frequently, is real life.
Not a book that sends you away saying "Gosh that was good" but one which you can feel comfortable while reading and which leaves you with lots to think about afterwards.
Most of Joanna Trollope's books are about families and the issues that they have. An Unsuitable Match considers the topic of remarriage, in this case a couple in their sixties, one widowed and one divorced. In the beginning everything seems wonderful but there are a number of adult children on both sides and thus the problems begin.
Trollope's books always meander and this is no exception. However she really understands people and what makes them tick and their reactions and the resultant events ring true. The ending is unsatisfying but then so, frequently, is real life.
Not a book that sends you away saying "Gosh that was good" but one which you can feel comfortable while reading and which leaves you with lots to think about afterwards.
March 12, 2018
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British author Joanna Trollope has just released her twenty first novel, An Unsuitable Match. This number one bestselling author tackles the difficult ground of second chance love for a mature aged couple. Within this readable relationship focussed story, Trollope raises issues of love, trust, betrayal and emotion, all in the one involving novel.
At the heart of Joanna Trollope’s latest novel, An Unsuitable Match, is Rose Woodrowe. After connecting with Tyler Masson, a charming man who is everything she could ever wish for in a partner, the two decide to marry. This second chance romance hits a number of stumbling blocks. The first problem being the couple’s five offspring, who despite being adults leading their own lives, have plenty to oppose. With echoes of the past haunting this couple, such as divorce, trust, childhood grievances and financial concerns, Rose and Tyler must settle these problems before launching into their own happy ever after.
It amazed me when I was sent An Unsuitable Match for review that I have never read a novel before by Joanna Trollope. Trollope is a highly acclaimed and established author and after reading her latest book, I can see her appeal.
An Unsuitable Match examines a common and relatable situation. In this novel, the central couple in question, Rose and Tyler, are faced with more than their fair share of problems in cementing their new found love. Despite Rose and Tyler representing a couple in their sixties, I am confident many readers, of all ages, will be able to relate to their predicament. Trollope presents their relationship with a sense of insight and realism which will be sure to draw readers in.
Trollope has a confident approach to her characters that populate this novel. The major and minor players in this novel are well rounded and their personality traits are very clear. I found that I was crossing all fingers in the hope that Rose and Tyler could overcome the problems impacting on their new relationship and find future happiness. Their children on the other hand were highly unlikeable, often immature and their rather overly opinionated reactions to situations really got under my skin. The book was saved by the main couple and Rose’s sister Prue, who was one of the only characters I liked in this book!
An Unsuitable Match is paced at a meandering rate. Trollope throws in plenty of plot problematics to keep things interesting. Trollope gives the reader a thoughtful glimpse into a mature age relationship defined by issues of ageing, divorce, property, financial concerns and high family emotions. I appreciated how the final turn of events had hints of realism. Trollope’s style of writing also came across as very sincere.
A heartfelt exploration into the contentious issues involved when a couple in their sixties remarries, An Unsuitable Match offers an introspective spin on relationships between families and lovers. Keen followers of women’s fiction and chick lit will be sure to lap up the latest book by Joanna Trollope.
*I wish to thank Pan Macmillan for providing me with a free copy of this book for review purposes.
British author Joanna Trollope has just released her twenty first novel, An Unsuitable Match. This number one bestselling author tackles the difficult ground of second chance love for a mature aged couple. Within this readable relationship focussed story, Trollope raises issues of love, trust, betrayal and emotion, all in the one involving novel.
At the heart of Joanna Trollope’s latest novel, An Unsuitable Match, is Rose Woodrowe. After connecting with Tyler Masson, a charming man who is everything she could ever wish for in a partner, the two decide to marry. This second chance romance hits a number of stumbling blocks. The first problem being the couple’s five offspring, who despite being adults leading their own lives, have plenty to oppose. With echoes of the past haunting this couple, such as divorce, trust, childhood grievances and financial concerns, Rose and Tyler must settle these problems before launching into their own happy ever after.
It amazed me when I was sent An Unsuitable Match for review that I have never read a novel before by Joanna Trollope. Trollope is a highly acclaimed and established author and after reading her latest book, I can see her appeal.
An Unsuitable Match examines a common and relatable situation. In this novel, the central couple in question, Rose and Tyler, are faced with more than their fair share of problems in cementing their new found love. Despite Rose and Tyler representing a couple in their sixties, I am confident many readers, of all ages, will be able to relate to their predicament. Trollope presents their relationship with a sense of insight and realism which will be sure to draw readers in.
Trollope has a confident approach to her characters that populate this novel. The major and minor players in this novel are well rounded and their personality traits are very clear. I found that I was crossing all fingers in the hope that Rose and Tyler could overcome the problems impacting on their new relationship and find future happiness. Their children on the other hand were highly unlikeable, often immature and their rather overly opinionated reactions to situations really got under my skin. The book was saved by the main couple and Rose’s sister Prue, who was one of the only characters I liked in this book!
An Unsuitable Match is paced at a meandering rate. Trollope throws in plenty of plot problematics to keep things interesting. Trollope gives the reader a thoughtful glimpse into a mature age relationship defined by issues of ageing, divorce, property, financial concerns and high family emotions. I appreciated how the final turn of events had hints of realism. Trollope’s style of writing also came across as very sincere.
A heartfelt exploration into the contentious issues involved when a couple in their sixties remarries, An Unsuitable Match offers an introspective spin on relationships between families and lovers. Keen followers of women’s fiction and chick lit will be sure to lap up the latest book by Joanna Trollope.
*I wish to thank Pan Macmillan for providing me with a free copy of this book for review purposes.
October 24, 2018
Getting married should be a happy time, but for Rose Woodrowe and Tyler Masson that doesn't appear to be the case. Having both been married before they both thought their second time around should go somewhat smoothly, but sadly they were both wrong.
Rose and Tyler's love for one another couldn't be stronger, but the troubles are with their children. Rose's daughter, Laura, is worried that her mother might get hurt like she did in her first marriage and twins Emmy and Nat are used to having their mother at their beck and call. And then there's Tyler's children, Mallory and Seth to consider as well. Keeping everyone happy is pretty much impossible, so is Rose and Tyler's love for one another strong enough to get them to the aisle or is there trouble just around the corner?
I don't remember having read anything by this author before, so I must say I was pleasantly surprised at how much I enjoyed this book. I look forward to reading more books by this author. Recommended.
Rose and Tyler's love for one another couldn't be stronger, but the troubles are with their children. Rose's daughter, Laura, is worried that her mother might get hurt like she did in her first marriage and twins Emmy and Nat are used to having their mother at their beck and call. And then there's Tyler's children, Mallory and Seth to consider as well. Keeping everyone happy is pretty much impossible, so is Rose and Tyler's love for one another strong enough to get them to the aisle or is there trouble just around the corner?
I don't remember having read anything by this author before, so I must say I was pleasantly surprised at how much I enjoyed this book. I look forward to reading more books by this author. Recommended.
April 16, 2018
When Rose Woodrowe’s husband of many years, William, declared he wanted a divorce, Rose was her usual quiet, stoic self. She didn’t make a fuss except for declaring the mews in central London was to be hers once their home was sold. He baulked but in the face of Rose’s strength, he ended up capitulating. Rose’s burgeoning independence; supporting herself, turning the house into a home, gave her great satisfaction. Seven years later, and at sixty-six years of age, she was content.
When Rose unexpectedly ran into a person she hadn’t seen in forty years, she was shocked and a little delighted. Tyler Masson was a handsome man and he proceeded to woo Rose – and within a matter of only four months, Tyler had proposed. But it wasn’t as easy as that – Rose’s three children, Laura with husband Andrew and two small children; and twins Nat and Emmy – were completely against the new man in their mother’s life. And Tyler’s daughter Mallory and son Seth had family issues themselves.
When Rose’s sister Prue became involved with a voice of reason, the family were at odds. What would happen to this woman who wanted and deserved some happiness in her later life? In trying to make her children happy, was it possible for Rose herself to be happy as well?
An Unsuitable Match is my first by author Joanna Trollope and I was impressed. My disgust and anger at the twins was such that I realized it takes a good author to evoke that kind of emotion in her reader! Emotion, drama and childish behaviour bordering on sulking and tantrums from adults who should know better filled this novel. I am assured there are probably families out there such as this one – I hope I never have to meet them! My favourite character was Prue, who certainly wasn’t a main focus, but she was important. I have no problem recommending An Unsuitable Match to fans of the author, as well as of contemporary fiction.
With thanks to Pan Macmillan Australia for my ARC to read and review.
When Rose unexpectedly ran into a person she hadn’t seen in forty years, she was shocked and a little delighted. Tyler Masson was a handsome man and he proceeded to woo Rose – and within a matter of only four months, Tyler had proposed. But it wasn’t as easy as that – Rose’s three children, Laura with husband Andrew and two small children; and twins Nat and Emmy – were completely against the new man in their mother’s life. And Tyler’s daughter Mallory and son Seth had family issues themselves.
When Rose’s sister Prue became involved with a voice of reason, the family were at odds. What would happen to this woman who wanted and deserved some happiness in her later life? In trying to make her children happy, was it possible for Rose herself to be happy as well?
An Unsuitable Match is my first by author Joanna Trollope and I was impressed. My disgust and anger at the twins was such that I realized it takes a good author to evoke that kind of emotion in her reader! Emotion, drama and childish behaviour bordering on sulking and tantrums from adults who should know better filled this novel. I am assured there are probably families out there such as this one – I hope I never have to meet them! My favourite character was Prue, who certainly wasn’t a main focus, but she was important. I have no problem recommending An Unsuitable Match to fans of the author, as well as of contemporary fiction.
With thanks to Pan Macmillan Australia for my ARC to read and review.
July 20, 2019
I follow Joanna Trollope. And I'm always on the look out for a new title by her.
Joanna Trollope has always beebeen my favourite author and her stories about family problems never fail me. This story I particularly liked because it involved a generation of elderly characters. Mother and Grandmother Rose at sixty-four, since her divorced moved into a little house on her own which she loved. But when Rose falls in love with Sixty- three year old Tyler Masson, he starts to make plans for them to get married, sell the mews for a little cottage. Daughter Laura and the twins Emmy and Nat don’t seem to like Tyler, further more they are certainly not happy their mother selling her mews for a cottage. I loved reading the chapters with tension building up through the whole family. So much more happens in the story, that I certainly recommend reading An Unsuitable Match.
Joanna Trollope has always beebeen my favourite author and her stories about family problems never fail me. This story I particularly liked because it involved a generation of elderly characters. Mother and Grandmother Rose at sixty-four, since her divorced moved into a little house on her own which she loved. But when Rose falls in love with Sixty- three year old Tyler Masson, he starts to make plans for them to get married, sell the mews for a little cottage. Daughter Laura and the twins Emmy and Nat don’t seem to like Tyler, further more they are certainly not happy their mother selling her mews for a cottage. I loved reading the chapters with tension building up through the whole family. So much more happens in the story, that I certainly recommend reading An Unsuitable Match.
April 11, 2018
As much as I hate to do it, I think it’s time for me to part ways with Joanna Trollope. I’ve enjoyed many of her books through the years and always looked forward to her latest look at the trials and tribulations of family life and friendships. Her last few books have been a disappointment. I’m not sure if she has changed or if I have changed, but whatever the case, it just isn’t working for me. Whereas her characters used to strike me as being very realistic and her portrayal of family life relatable in all its ups and downs, I now find her characters mostly very childish, petty and simply unlikeable. This was particularly the case with An Unsuitable Match. There wasn’t much to like amongst these family members, right down to the obnoxious 4-year old grandson. All the adult children acted liked spoiled brats, and the mother had major issues dealing with the lot of them.
Sorry, Joanna, but I think this is good-bye.
Sorry, Joanna, but I think this is good-bye.
March 29, 2018
Insightful, sincere, and absorbing!
An Unsuitable Match is a heartfelt, domestic story about relationships, new and old, and all the complexities, drama, and emotion that surround them.
The prose is polished and astute. The characters are well-developed, genuine, and troubled. And the plot is a compelling, heartwarming ride of life, love, self-discovery, familial dynamics, second-chance romance, aging, support, honesty, and friendship.
Overall, An Unsuitable Match is a sophisticated, moving, relatable tale that highlights the highs-and-lows of committing later in life and reminds us of all the struggles and challenges of trying to combine and blend families together.
Thank you to Publishers Group Canada for providing me with a copy in exchange for an honest review.
All my reviews can be found on my blog at https://whatsbetterthanbooks.com
An Unsuitable Match is a heartfelt, domestic story about relationships, new and old, and all the complexities, drama, and emotion that surround them.
The prose is polished and astute. The characters are well-developed, genuine, and troubled. And the plot is a compelling, heartwarming ride of life, love, self-discovery, familial dynamics, second-chance romance, aging, support, honesty, and friendship.
Overall, An Unsuitable Match is a sophisticated, moving, relatable tale that highlights the highs-and-lows of committing later in life and reminds us of all the struggles and challenges of trying to combine and blend families together.
Thank you to Publishers Group Canada for providing me with a copy in exchange for an honest review.
All my reviews can be found on my blog at https://whatsbetterthanbooks.com
March 20, 2018
This is the first Joanna Trollope book I've ever read and I wasn't that impressed.
Rose is a divorced mum of three. Now in her late 50s - early 60s she meets an old high school friend Tyler, a widower and father of two - they hit it off and quickly decide to get engaged.
That's when the kids decide to be little selfish shits and completely mind fuck their mum. Rose is a pushover who wants desperately to please her little turds (I don't know why, they are all adults who clearly need to grow the F up). Tyler's two kids are lost in their own world and really don't seem to give a damn one way or the other - It sounds like Tyler's been phoning in the dad thing most of their lives - now he wants to participate and neither of them care. Rose's kids are saying they just want to protect her assets (she has a house in central London) but really they just can't stand mum having a life (At the end their dad announces he's marrying his mistress (the chick he left their mum for) and no-one wonders if she's just a gold digger.
If you have watched British TV show 'Last Tango in Halifax' it will all seem a bit familiar.
I just felt that a lot of the drama was forced, but then again I don't have divorced parents who have remarried and I don't have kids I want to bend over backwards to please so I just found it really hard to relate to any of the characters. These people are selfish, unsympathetic and just awful.
I hate spending time with awful people, in books or in real life. I spent most of the book hoping that Rose would sell her London house and take all the money to spend on a round the world cruise to learn naked belly dancing - or anything else that would shock and fuck the kids off a lot.
If something were to happen to my parents and my mum found herself an new man that made her happy after being alone for 7 years I hope I would be a decent enough human being to give them both a hug and say "congratulations, I'm so happy" and actually mean it.
I like the idea of this book and the issues raised are of genuine concern at any age and are of particular concern to older women (money / retirement / financial independence / trust) but the selfishness of pretty much all of the characters just got me so annoyed I struggled to focus on the good bits. I can't help but feel that if they just sat down and had an honest discussion (Tyler just can't seem to understand why everyone is obsessed with money - he is very selfish in that respect) most of the problems between Rose and Tyler would be sorted and then they could tell all the kids to butt out.
Rose is a divorced mum of three. Now in her late 50s - early 60s she meets an old high school friend Tyler, a widower and father of two - they hit it off and quickly decide to get engaged.
That's when the kids decide to be little selfish shits and completely mind fuck their mum. Rose is a pushover who wants desperately to please her little turds (I don't know why, they are all adults who clearly need to grow the F up). Tyler's two kids are lost in their own world and really don't seem to give a damn one way or the other - It sounds like Tyler's been phoning in the dad thing most of their lives - now he wants to participate and neither of them care. Rose's kids are saying they just want to protect her assets (she has a house in central London) but really they just can't stand mum having a life (At the end their dad announces he's marrying his mistress (the chick he left their mum for) and no-one wonders if she's just a gold digger.
If you have watched British TV show 'Last Tango in Halifax' it will all seem a bit familiar.
I just felt that a lot of the drama was forced, but then again I don't have divorced parents who have remarried and I don't have kids I want to bend over backwards to please so I just found it really hard to relate to any of the characters. These people are selfish, unsympathetic and just awful.
I hate spending time with awful people, in books or in real life. I spent most of the book hoping that Rose would sell her London house and take all the money to spend on a round the world cruise to learn naked belly dancing - or anything else that would shock and fuck the kids off a lot.
If something were to happen to my parents and my mum found herself an new man that made her happy after being alone for 7 years I hope I would be a decent enough human being to give them both a hug and say "congratulations, I'm so happy" and actually mean it.
I like the idea of this book and the issues raised are of genuine concern at any age and are of particular concern to older women (money / retirement / financial independence / trust) but the selfishness of pretty much all of the characters just got me so annoyed I struggled to focus on the good bits. I can't help but feel that if they just sat down and had an honest discussion (Tyler just can't seem to understand why everyone is obsessed with money - he is very selfish in that respect) most of the problems between Rose and Tyler would be sorted and then they could tell all the kids to butt out.
May 3, 2018
When Rose Woodrowe meets Tyler Masson, she cannot believe how lucky she is to find an attentive, sensitive man later in life. He is everything her ex-husband William, who took off years before with his nurse, isn’t. But not everyone is happy when this older couple’s joy in meeting each other and falling in love, especially when they decide to marry. Rose has three children. Laura and the twins Nat and Emmy. The twins in particular are dead set against this marriage happening. Laura is more ambivalent. Tyler’s son Seth is too involved in his own life with his partner and bakery in San Francisco and his daughter Mallory with her aspiring acting career has lingering issues from her childhood.
Characters are what make this novel and what involved me. I liked that the two main characters were older and had some experience of life. Nat and Emmy are selfish. I could happily have knocked their bratty heads together. Rose cannot understand why they are so lacking in support for her and are behaving so appallingly. However, a couple of lines make it appear Rose may be partly to blame, for she says at one stage to her children, ‘I never asked for anything. I refused you nothing.’ Maybe therein was the problem. They have been spoiled into getting whatever they want without thought for others, especially their mother. At one stage when she shouts at them, it brings home how amenable and accommodating she has been the rest of the time. Tyler too has often subverted his own desires to accommodate his first wife, Cindy who died and her father and to an extent his children as well.
This is a highly readable and engaging story about family relationships. I adore character driven novels and this is certainly that. I read it quickly and loved it right up to the end, which I found disappointing. However, depending on your outlook, others may well think this is the best and appropriate ending.
Characters are what make this novel and what involved me. I liked that the two main characters were older and had some experience of life. Nat and Emmy are selfish. I could happily have knocked their bratty heads together. Rose cannot understand why they are so lacking in support for her and are behaving so appallingly. However, a couple of lines make it appear Rose may be partly to blame, for she says at one stage to her children, ‘I never asked for anything. I refused you nothing.’ Maybe therein was the problem. They have been spoiled into getting whatever they want without thought for others, especially their mother. At one stage when she shouts at them, it brings home how amenable and accommodating she has been the rest of the time. Tyler too has often subverted his own desires to accommodate his first wife, Cindy who died and her father and to an extent his children as well.
This is a highly readable and engaging story about family relationships. I adore character driven novels and this is certainly that. I read it quickly and loved it right up to the end, which I found disappointing. However, depending on your outlook, others may well think this is the best and appropriate ending.
March 30, 2018
I used to enjoy Joanna Trollope's books, but the last 2 or 3 have been disappointing. This one was so boring, and the characters so unlikeable that I gave up after about Chapter 4. Rose is 64 and letting her repulsive children run her life, her new man Tyler is 63 and doesn't seem to have a life, his kids basically have nothing in common with him or each other, so it was all quite depressing.
July 25, 2020
This was my first Trollope novel. She's quite prolific, so her books keep coming up on my GR feed.
When sixty-three-year-old, divorced Rose Woodrowe falls in love and plans to marry Tyler Masson, their respective kids - now adults - have different reactions to the news. They worry that Rose is taken advantage of since she's financially better off than her new beau.
This wasn't bad, like most domestic contemporary novels it had lots of things to relate to and/or empathise with and there weren't any scenarios that were preposterous. The characterisations were solid. In saying all that, it wasn't an exceptional novel. It may be that I've reached domestic drama novel saturation.
When sixty-three-year-old, divorced Rose Woodrowe falls in love and plans to marry Tyler Masson, their respective kids - now adults - have different reactions to the news. They worry that Rose is taken advantage of since she's financially better off than her new beau.
This wasn't bad, like most domestic contemporary novels it had lots of things to relate to and/or empathise with and there weren't any scenarios that were preposterous. The characterisations were solid. In saying all that, it wasn't an exceptional novel. It may be that I've reached domestic drama novel saturation.
July 29, 2024
Trollope shows such subtlety and insight in her portrayal of Tyler and Rose, the two sixty somethings at the heart of this novel. World-class fiction. She captures the zeitgeist, explaining and defining it with wit and compassion.
March 19, 2018
This is the story of Rose and Tyler - in their 60s, one is divorced, the other is a widower and both are looking at another chance at love. In their case, a revisiting of a long ago past flirtation.
Being a relationship later in life, they both bring a little baggage - and in the case of this book, that would be their children: Laura, Nat, Emmy, Seth and Mallory.
What results is a gaggle of characters who seem infantile and immature - including Tyler and Rose! The tantrums and sulks that result in interactions between siblings or parents and children really didn't feel very authentic.
I have read Joanna Trollope novels in the past and have enjoyed her storytelling ability, but found this book was lacking a believable quality. It also wrapped itself up a little too nicely.
Not my favourite recent read - it was ok because Trollope is a competent author - but the plot and the characters left a bit of a sour taste in my mouth.
Thank you Netgalley for the advanced read in return for an honest review.
Being a relationship later in life, they both bring a little baggage - and in the case of this book, that would be their children: Laura, Nat, Emmy, Seth and Mallory.
What results is a gaggle of characters who seem infantile and immature - including Tyler and Rose! The tantrums and sulks that result in interactions between siblings or parents and children really didn't feel very authentic.
I have read Joanna Trollope novels in the past and have enjoyed her storytelling ability, but found this book was lacking a believable quality. It also wrapped itself up a little too nicely.
Not my favourite recent read - it was ok because Trollope is a competent author - but the plot and the characters left a bit of a sour taste in my mouth.
Thank you Netgalley for the advanced read in return for an honest review.
March 7, 2018
I like Joanna Trollope’s style of writing, it’s very readable and overall I enjoyed this book although it meanders along at quite a slow pace. I thought the characters were well portrayed , the dynamics between them interesting and definitely felt a slight building of tension as the story progressed. The ending though was disappointing, it just seemed to fizzle out and left me feeling dissatisfied.
3-4 stars
3-4 stars
February 22, 2018
Joanna Trollope is a great chronicler of the British middle-class zeitgeist and here she explores the over-sixties marriage phenomenon in her usual highly readable style. This novel tackles the thorny ramifications of re-marrying later in life, when there are financial implications and adult offspring with their own concerns to take into account.
Anyone who has been involved in a situation like this will relate to the couple at the heart of the story and I am pleased to find the author still on form after so many enjoyable best sellers.
Many thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the ARC
Anyone who has been involved in a situation like this will relate to the couple at the heart of the story and I am pleased to find the author still on form after so many enjoyable best sellers.
Many thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the ARC
March 19, 2018
This is a very odd book. I once read straight through Joanna Trollope’s books, but have not read one in a long time now. I was sharing them then with someone who has since died, too young, and I think that the way I felt then and the way I feel now are different. I remember us then talking about how daring the author was, revealing the snarkiness and the infighting that can happen in marriages and families. Now, the mean-spirited and selfish behavior just seem to me to be gossip, a kind of literary bump up from the tabloids, and it seems believable but very sad. The characters are each so flawed, but rather childishly so. And the resolution seems too easy.
September 23, 2023
Plot is OK, but the only way to describe ALL the characters in this book is ... well, tiresome. If I ever met them, I'd ditch them in the pub and leave out the back door. It's the story of what happens when you're a doormat your whole life and your adult children never grow up. I'm sure the ending was intended to be uplifting (I guess?) but personally, I couldn't wait to reach the last page....
April 3, 2020
First time reading a Joanna Trollope book and never again after this.
At the end of it all, what was the point of the book?
At the end of it all, what was the point of the book?
December 6, 2017
This is a really lovely novel. I believe that no matter what age you are when you get married it really is a hard struggle to make every single person you love happy. But I’m making everyone else happy, your own happiness gets forgotten. Sometimes it’s eady to forget that the two most important people on this day are the two people getting married and in doing so you need to make sure that everything that you want comes true. For once the people you love need to set their own feelings aside and concentrate on what’s most important. This is a great book for people pleasers like myself. I for one found this ringing true on lots of occasions. It is also a really lovely and romantic book. That chicklit and romance fans will adore. I for one really enjoyed reading this great book.
April 20, 2018
Rose Woodrowe has just got engaged to Tyler Masson, a wonderful, sensitive man who is head over heels in love with her. The only problem is this is not their first marriage and between them they have five headstrong, grown-up children with strong opinions. Rose's daughter, Laura, remembers her parents' painful divorce and does not want to see her mother hurt again. The twins, Emmy and Nat, simply do not trust Tyler. Then there is Tyler's children; Seth who is too busy with his San Francisco sourdough bakery and Mallory, the aspiring actress, who is still wrestling with issues from her childhood. Rose and Tyler are determined to get it right this time but at the same time, want to make everyone happy.
I have to admit I liked the premise for this, it sounded intriguing with interesting characters in the midst and I was relishing getting to read about the two families joining. Sadly this really does not deliver, I was not interested in this one bit and I rushed through it simply to get to the end.
My main issue with this book is one that is hard to talk about here without revealing what it is but I shall try. There is something wrong about the character of Tyler, again I will not specify. The worst thing is I am not sure Trollope realised, it feels like that is the vibe she was going for and then it is even more concerning. Put simply, I could not enjoy a book where I did not like one of the main characters, especially when the plot revolves around him!
The plot itself was okay but again I found this disappointing. Just over half way through when the plot direction is changed I found myself wondering what is the point of this story, the events that unfurl really did make me think this is a very badly organised book and the plot becomes pointless in the end.
As you can tell, I really did not enjoy this book and there is not much else I can say.
I have to admit I liked the premise for this, it sounded intriguing with interesting characters in the midst and I was relishing getting to read about the two families joining. Sadly this really does not deliver, I was not interested in this one bit and I rushed through it simply to get to the end.
My main issue with this book is one that is hard to talk about here without revealing what it is but I shall try. There is something wrong about the character of Tyler, again I will not specify. The worst thing is I am not sure Trollope realised, it feels like that is the vibe she was going for and then it is even more concerning. Put simply, I could not enjoy a book where I did not like one of the main characters, especially when the plot revolves around him!
The plot itself was okay but again I found this disappointing. Just over half way through when the plot direction is changed I found myself wondering what is the point of this story, the events that unfurl really did make me think this is a very badly organised book and the plot becomes pointless in the end.
As you can tell, I really did not enjoy this book and there is not much else I can say.
February 5, 2018
I am loathe to admit that Joanna Trollope has never been a big hit for me as I know she is a hugely successful author. I liked the idea of this book, a couple in their later years finding love again and all the problems that such a relationship can create; Families being forced into close proximity in unnatural surroundings.
I loved Rose's character, a quietly tough cookie who had been taken for granted for many years in her first marriage. I was her personal cheerleader when her children weren't the most supportive of her decision to try and make a life with Tyler, who I felt was just too good to be true after the pompous horror of her first husband. I found all her children to be rather spoilt in their own way and wanted to give them all a good shake. Tyler's family wasn't much better with both of his children being selfish in the extreme. Rose's spinster sister Prue I thought was a great character. A stereotypical school teacher in her dress sense and attitude, she was a no nonsense, down to earth straight talker with nothing but her family's well being at heart even if she had a strange way of showing it.
As much as I really wanted things to work out for Rose and Tyler I felt the author really portrayed well the sense of awkwardness which lurked in the background of every scene. The story could only pan out one way realistically and I was pleased that Rose had the courage to trust her gut instinct in the end. The author could easily have gone down the happily ever after route for all the characters but I feel she took the right option plot-wise rather than the easy one.
The self-centredness of the majority of the characters spoiled what was otherwise an enjoyable story.
My review will appear on my blog at www.sandiesbookshelves.blogspot.co.uk
I loved Rose's character, a quietly tough cookie who had been taken for granted for many years in her first marriage. I was her personal cheerleader when her children weren't the most supportive of her decision to try and make a life with Tyler, who I felt was just too good to be true after the pompous horror of her first husband. I found all her children to be rather spoilt in their own way and wanted to give them all a good shake. Tyler's family wasn't much better with both of his children being selfish in the extreme. Rose's spinster sister Prue I thought was a great character. A stereotypical school teacher in her dress sense and attitude, she was a no nonsense, down to earth straight talker with nothing but her family's well being at heart even if she had a strange way of showing it.
As much as I really wanted things to work out for Rose and Tyler I felt the author really portrayed well the sense of awkwardness which lurked in the background of every scene. The story could only pan out one way realistically and I was pleased that Rose had the courage to trust her gut instinct in the end. The author could easily have gone down the happily ever after route for all the characters but I feel she took the right option plot-wise rather than the easy one.
The self-centredness of the majority of the characters spoiled what was otherwise an enjoyable story.
My review will appear on my blog at www.sandiesbookshelves.blogspot.co.uk
April 2, 2018
Finished reading ... An Unsuitable Match / Joanna Trollope ... 31 March 2018
ISBN: 9781509823499 … 328 pp.
It was good to get back to an Aga Saga after quite a break.
A second marriage for both, in their 60s. Tyler isn't the man for me – too pushy and manipulative, or maybe that's my jaundiced view. But will he be the man for Rose?
This novel raises all sorts of questions about later marriages, equality of assets, where to live, treating your own children fairly, your adult children treating you – with respect? like a child?, all getting along together, or not.
A flaw in this tale is that the time frame is compact, giving us a whirlwind romance. Would the children have acted differently had it been a more leisurely paced acquaintance that developed into friendship, then love? Two of Rose's children are obnoxiously over-protective but is that because they need to act quickly? Rose's oldest child drifts through her own world while Tyler's two are equally self-absorbed but in different ways. A more expansive approach might give a different, more thoughtful perspective.
Nevertheless, this is vintage Trollope. Within her set parameters she covers the territory well and brings her latest offering to a, to me, satisfying conclusion.
A good read for an Aga Saga lover.
ISBN: 9781509823499 … 328 pp.
It was good to get back to an Aga Saga after quite a break.
A second marriage for both, in their 60s. Tyler isn't the man for me – too pushy and manipulative, or maybe that's my jaundiced view. But will he be the man for Rose?
This novel raises all sorts of questions about later marriages, equality of assets, where to live, treating your own children fairly, your adult children treating you – with respect? like a child?, all getting along together, or not.
A flaw in this tale is that the time frame is compact, giving us a whirlwind romance. Would the children have acted differently had it been a more leisurely paced acquaintance that developed into friendship, then love? Two of Rose's children are obnoxiously over-protective but is that because they need to act quickly? Rose's oldest child drifts through her own world while Tyler's two are equally self-absorbed but in different ways. A more expansive approach might give a different, more thoughtful perspective.
Nevertheless, this is vintage Trollope. Within her set parameters she covers the territory well and brings her latest offering to a, to me, satisfying conclusion.
A good read for an Aga Saga lover.
March 30, 2018
Thanks to Pan Macmillan and Beauty & Lace Book Club, I have read Joanna Trollope's work for the first time.
The author thoroughly explores the characters feelings throughout this story, unfortunately, I was unable to connect with any of them and found them to be very annoying and generally unlikeable. I just wanted to shake the 'adult' children for their thoroughly selfish and self-absorbed reactions towards their mother in particular and life in general. I also wanted to shake the mother for pandering to her children as much as she did and tell her to grow a backbone and get some independence.
Although I didn't really enjoy this story, I can see how it would appeal to other readers. 3/5 stars.
The author thoroughly explores the characters feelings throughout this story, unfortunately, I was unable to connect with any of them and found them to be very annoying and generally unlikeable. I just wanted to shake the 'adult' children for their thoroughly selfish and self-absorbed reactions towards their mother in particular and life in general. I also wanted to shake the mother for pandering to her children as much as she did and tell her to grow a backbone and get some independence.
Although I didn't really enjoy this story, I can see how it would appeal to other readers. 3/5 stars.
April 15, 2018
This author could be said to write in a formulaic, predictable manner - but, although she's been doing it for decades, I'll never leave her. As her work continues to sell well to devoted followers, she has no real need to deviate far away from her template. I've been hooked on her for decades and starting on her latest was akin to snuggling down, under the doona, on a chilly winter's afternoon.
It is decidedly more of the same with Joanna Trollope's 'An Unsuitable Match' as she introduces the reader to sixty-something Rose Woodrowe, whose hubby has just taken up with a much younger model and scarpered off to Oz. Soon into the book she encounters the charming Tyler, who is not backward in admitting he is smitten by her and she, seemingly, with him. But is Tyler the real deal? Rose's offspring have their doubts – and then there's Tyler's two to consider as well. The new beau very quickly seems to have his and Rose's future together all mapped out - but will Rose go with the flow despite the objections of the family. Some of these are quite needy in the love department too. Ms Trollope ensures we fully get to know them and their foibles as well. This is all magnified as the pair prepare to marry and questions arise over money – or the lack thereof for one. Just what is Tyler bringing to the party? Rose considers him a keeper, but at what cost.
And I lapped it all up, as I always do. That it deals with romance in later life is a bonus. 'An Unsuitable Match' is Ms T's twenty-first novel – all of them aimed at her legion of women fans – and just quietly (Shhhh), me.
It is decidedly more of the same with Joanna Trollope's 'An Unsuitable Match' as she introduces the reader to sixty-something Rose Woodrowe, whose hubby has just taken up with a much younger model and scarpered off to Oz. Soon into the book she encounters the charming Tyler, who is not backward in admitting he is smitten by her and she, seemingly, with him. But is Tyler the real deal? Rose's offspring have their doubts – and then there's Tyler's two to consider as well. The new beau very quickly seems to have his and Rose's future together all mapped out - but will Rose go with the flow despite the objections of the family. Some of these are quite needy in the love department too. Ms Trollope ensures we fully get to know them and their foibles as well. This is all magnified as the pair prepare to marry and questions arise over money – or the lack thereof for one. Just what is Tyler bringing to the party? Rose considers him a keeper, but at what cost.
And I lapped it all up, as I always do. That it deals with romance in later life is a bonus. 'An Unsuitable Match' is Ms T's twenty-first novel – all of them aimed at her legion of women fans – and just quietly (Shhhh), me.
November 27, 2019
I liked the story. The book speaks to the intricacies of human connection and how we respond to the dynamics within a relationship. It speaks to family ties and the obligations that we may or may not feel. The ending was a bit underwhelming maybe. I rather enjoyed the description of the one cottage, so much so that I had to Google images of it online. Good read.
April 13, 2023
Nice little easy read to break up the heavy stuff. Very human characters that are flawed but likeable. Makes me want to call my dad
April 15, 2018
Somewhat irritating families with odd dynamics. However, this is charming in a way I’d say is slightly annoying. Easy, diverting reading
March 22, 2018
Rose Woodrowe is getting married to Tyler Masson—a wonderful, sensitive man who is head-over-heels in love with her. The only problem? This isn’t the first time for either of them. And when you marry later in life there are a lot more people to consider. Like Rose’s daughter, Laura, who remembers her mom’s first marriage and doesn’t want her to get hurt again. Or the twins, Emmy and Nat, who are used to their mom being there for them whenever and for whatever they need.
And then there’s Tyler’s children: Mallory, a young actress who craves her father’s attention; and Seth, whose San Francisco bakery is just taking off and needs all the money he can get. Rose and Tyler are determined to get it right this time, but in trying to make everyone happy, can they ever be happy themselves?
MY THOUGHTS:
I received this book in exchange for my honest review.
Okay, this reads like my mom’s life lol. She was married to my dad for over 30 years when he passed from cancer. Then, she met another man who had seven, yup seven adult children. I learned after they’d been married for twenty years, that the daughters, all grown with lives and kids of their own, ruined his second marriage with their conniving and cruelty. (note: first wife also died from cancer). So instead of being happy for dad in finding a great lady like my mom, they had set out to make her life hell so that she’d cave and leave their dad too, and then, he’d be all theirs (sick I know).
Well, they don’t know my mom so well after all. lol It didn’t happen and whew, thankfully, mom is now having a peaceful life in her 80s as she should. I really hate that adult children act like spoiled babies when they can’t get their way. I was happy for them. My mom had gone through so much while dad was sick and when she was alone afterwards, I was just happy she found someone who loved her for her.
This book reads just like someone had sat down and interviewed us. lol
You absolutely hate the beggars… hate how they interfere with their mom’s life and decisions by messing with her head and laying on the guilt trip extra thick.
I must admit Joanna Trollope has a way of writing about people, family dynamics and family drama so with such a clear and precise voice. I was impressed. There’s so many things going on with these overgrown brats that you wanted to reach into the pages and throttle them. I think it’s wonderful that a couple in their sixties can find love again. No one wants to go through life alone.
Shame selfish, inconsiderate brats don’t share this idea… wait until they’re in their sixties lol
So let’s take a closer look. All the characters are developed carefully and realistically. Their arcs move slowly as the book progresses and not entirely in a positive light. They are hard to like, not just because of the similarities I see lol, but because they are just down right worthy of a kick in the pants. In the end, Joanna developed some really strong and viable characters, that through emotional reactions, caused the reader to become invested in the story, even if it was just to see what else they could do to upset the apple cart. 😉
There’s so many issues surrounding family, relationships, trust, respect, stepchildren, elder living/finance/love… many, many more.
I can see this book making people angry. I just kept shaking my head and thinking, “been there, seen that, done that, just “kick em to the curb.” lol
I loved it!
It amazes me how much adult children seem to think they are entitled to an inheritance and that their parent’s life ends when they are born and that everything, E V E R Y T H I N G! revolves around them. ESSSSSH! These adults need to get their own lives.
The setting is useful to the story, written as a tool to driving the plot forward in a steady pace that doesn’t stall or jump around. The plot itself is also filled with twists and turns to keep you invested in the story.
I enjoyed the book and think it’s one of her better ones. Highly recommend that you pick it up and give it a read!
And then there’s Tyler’s children: Mallory, a young actress who craves her father’s attention; and Seth, whose San Francisco bakery is just taking off and needs all the money he can get. Rose and Tyler are determined to get it right this time, but in trying to make everyone happy, can they ever be happy themselves?
MY THOUGHTS:
I received this book in exchange for my honest review.
Okay, this reads like my mom’s life lol. She was married to my dad for over 30 years when he passed from cancer. Then, she met another man who had seven, yup seven adult children. I learned after they’d been married for twenty years, that the daughters, all grown with lives and kids of their own, ruined his second marriage with their conniving and cruelty. (note: first wife also died from cancer). So instead of being happy for dad in finding a great lady like my mom, they had set out to make her life hell so that she’d cave and leave their dad too, and then, he’d be all theirs (sick I know).
Well, they don’t know my mom so well after all. lol It didn’t happen and whew, thankfully, mom is now having a peaceful life in her 80s as she should. I really hate that adult children act like spoiled babies when they can’t get their way. I was happy for them. My mom had gone through so much while dad was sick and when she was alone afterwards, I was just happy she found someone who loved her for her.
This book reads just like someone had sat down and interviewed us. lol
You absolutely hate the beggars… hate how they interfere with their mom’s life and decisions by messing with her head and laying on the guilt trip extra thick.
I must admit Joanna Trollope has a way of writing about people, family dynamics and family drama so with such a clear and precise voice. I was impressed. There’s so many things going on with these overgrown brats that you wanted to reach into the pages and throttle them. I think it’s wonderful that a couple in their sixties can find love again. No one wants to go through life alone.
Shame selfish, inconsiderate brats don’t share this idea… wait until they’re in their sixties lol
So let’s take a closer look. All the characters are developed carefully and realistically. Their arcs move slowly as the book progresses and not entirely in a positive light. They are hard to like, not just because of the similarities I see lol, but because they are just down right worthy of a kick in the pants. In the end, Joanna developed some really strong and viable characters, that through emotional reactions, caused the reader to become invested in the story, even if it was just to see what else they could do to upset the apple cart. 😉
There’s so many issues surrounding family, relationships, trust, respect, stepchildren, elder living/finance/love… many, many more.
I can see this book making people angry. I just kept shaking my head and thinking, “been there, seen that, done that, just “kick em to the curb.” lol
I loved it!
It amazes me how much adult children seem to think they are entitled to an inheritance and that their parent’s life ends when they are born and that everything, E V E R Y T H I N G! revolves around them. ESSSSSH! These adults need to get their own lives.
The setting is useful to the story, written as a tool to driving the plot forward in a steady pace that doesn’t stall or jump around. The plot itself is also filled with twists and turns to keep you invested in the story.
I enjoyed the book and think it’s one of her better ones. Highly recommend that you pick it up and give it a read!
February 21, 2019
Rose is a 64-year-old divorced woman living in a multi-million dollar house (paid for by her ex), in the heart of London. She is living on a salary of a part-time translator(!) Her three children also live in London all in homes whose down payments were paid by their father. And there is the theme of this book...everything comes back to money.
Rose is often described as a lovely person, but there is very little that we actually know about her other than her spoiling her three grown kids to the point that they expect everything to be handed to them.
When Rose meet Tyler, their love for each other cannot conquer the overall greed inherent her family. Tyler’s two kids have little to no interest in what their father is up to. These are terribly disfunctional families.
Not a move can be made by the couple without a round robin discussion of costs incurred, whether it’s buying a ring, going out to dinner or throwing a party. Unfortunately, this includes Rose, and love him as she might, she nevertheless sends him packing.
Very little happens in the course of this book...conversation, texting and emails about Rose and Tyler and will they or won’t they and everyone’s reactions and overreactions to the latest news...to the point you don’t care anymore. Should we be happy that Rose ends up in a small, cramped flat? Is this a sign of her independence?!
I’ve read many of Trollope’s novels and this is the first that disappointed.
Rose is often described as a lovely person, but there is very little that we actually know about her other than her spoiling her three grown kids to the point that they expect everything to be handed to them.
When Rose meet Tyler, their love for each other cannot conquer the overall greed inherent her family. Tyler’s two kids have little to no interest in what their father is up to. These are terribly disfunctional families.
Not a move can be made by the couple without a round robin discussion of costs incurred, whether it’s buying a ring, going out to dinner or throwing a party. Unfortunately, this includes Rose, and love him as she might, she nevertheless sends him packing.
Very little happens in the course of this book...conversation, texting and emails about Rose and Tyler and will they or won’t they and everyone’s reactions and overreactions to the latest news...to the point you don’t care anymore. Should we be happy that Rose ends up in a small, cramped flat? Is this a sign of her independence?!
I’ve read many of Trollope’s novels and this is the first that disappointed.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
October 14, 2019
I generally enjoy Joanna Trollope's stories of family life. But this one was not one of her best. The premise is interesting : a divorcee and a widower fall in love and want to marry. But their kids are another matter. Rose's kids are worried that Tyler is after her money. Tyler's kids are too busy with their own careers and lives to really care all that much. As Rose and Tyler move towards a marriage proposal and the idea of selling Rose's lovely house to move into a modest country cottage, various alliances form and shift between the siblings and their parents. Rose resents being told what to do by her son Nate. Nate's twin sister feels abandoned when Nate falls in love. And Laura, Rose's oldest child, finally manages to wrench her attention away from her busy GP practice to get involved in the family drama.
What I didn't understand was, what all the fuss was about, or how the fuss was allowed to happen. Rose and Tyler are drifting towards major changes in their lives without discussing finances, and then when things do come up, it's a major blowout that I didn't understand. I couldn't figure out what Rose wanted, and why she made the decisions that she made in the end. Perhaps I read the book too fast and missed some subtle psychological indicators, but to me the end of the story did not make much sense. That's too bad, because I enjoyed most of the book up until the end.
What I didn't understand was, what all the fuss was about, or how the fuss was allowed to happen. Rose and Tyler are drifting towards major changes in their lives without discussing finances, and then when things do come up, it's a major blowout that I didn't understand. I couldn't figure out what Rose wanted, and why she made the decisions that she made in the end. Perhaps I read the book too fast and missed some subtle psychological indicators, but to me the end of the story did not make much sense. That's too bad, because I enjoyed most of the book up until the end.
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