There are three types of habits that you should add to a routine:
1. Keystone habits
2. Support habits
3. Elephant habits
1. Keystone Habits
A keystone habit can have a positive impact on multiple areas
of your life—even if you’re not intentionally trying to improve
them.
2. Support Habits
Not every habit can be a priority. In fact, you can only focus on
a handful of keystone habits before you’ll feel overwhelmed,
which is why it’s important to form “support habits.” These
habits support the achievement of an important keystone
habit.
3. Elephant Habits
The idea here is that whenever you’re faced with a large,
complex goal, all you need to do is chip away at it in small
chunks using elephant habits.
1. Attach the stack to an existing habit.
The simplest way to remember a stack is to do it right before or after a habit. This should be something you do without fail, every single day—like eating, brushing your teeth, or checking your phone. This is important because you’re going to piggyback on this habit by creating what’s called an “if-then plan.”
2. Complete each habit in five minutes or less (usually).
I recommend five minutes because it’s a basic unit of time in which you can accomplish a surprising number of things, while being short enough that you can stack each action on top of another.
3. The entire routine should take under thirty minutes.
The “thirty-minute rule” is a sweet spot where you can complete many habits without it interfering with everything else in your life. You’d be surprised at many “little things” can be squeezed into a half hours’ time.
4. Build daily, weekly, and monthly stacks.
My advice is simple: not only should you build daily stacks, but you should also schedule time once a week and once a month to complete those important but not urgent activities. For the weekly review, you could schedule this activity late
Sunday night as a way to prepare for the work week. And for the monthly review, you could schedule it for the first Saturday of each month.
9 Rules to Build at Stacking Routine
5. Each small habit should be a complete action.
There should be an obvious starting and stopping point. You should avoid habits where you could easily do more of it if you had time (like exercising, writing, or anything related to your job). It’s better to schedule these activities for a different part of the day when you can devote more time. There is one major exception to this rule. You could add the occasional “elephant habit” to your daily stack to make forward progress on an unpleasant task.
6. Pick simple-to-complete activities.
Each small action should be easy to complete without requiring a lot of brainpower. Do it quickly and then immediately move on to the next action.
7. Map out a logical progression for each routine.
The entire routine should flow like a well-oiled machine. This is key because you want to avoid wasting time and moving from room to room.
8. Use a checklist to manage the process.
A stack should be a set of actions that you determine ahead of time that are personally important. This means putting each habit into a step-by-step checklist that you’ll refer to constantly. This checklist should be a set of actions done the same way, in the same order each day.
9 Rules to Build aHabit Stacking Routine
9. Include habits that relate to your priorities.
Remember, the benefit of habit stacking is to take action on your important, personal goals. These should be outcomes you want to achieve—not what others want from you. The simplest way to identify habits is to make sure they relate to a goal from one of these seven areas:
1. Career
2. Finance
3. Health
4. Organizing
5. Passions
6. Relationships
7. Spirituality
13 Steps for Building a
Habit Stacking Routine
Step 1: Start with a Five-Minute Block
Start with five minutes, picking one or two habits, and then add more as this routine becomes an automatic action.
Step 2: Focus on Small Wins
Build your routine around habits that don’t require a lot of effort and willpower. These are the small wins that will build “emotional momentum” because they’re easy to remember and complete.
Step 3: Pick a Time and Location
Every stack should be anchored to a trigger related to a location, time of day, or combination of both.
Step 4: Anchor Your Stack to a Trigger
There are two basic types of triggers.
1. External triggers (like a cell phone alarm, a push notification, or a Post-it note on your refrigerator) work because they create a Pavlovian response that when the alarm goes off, you complete a specific task.
2. Internal triggers are the feelings, thoughts, and emotions that you relate to an established habit. These are like a scratch that you must itch.
13 Steps for Building aHabit Stacking Routine
Step 5: Create a Logical Checklist
It should include the sequence of the actions, how long it takes to complete each one, and where you’ll do them.
Step 6: Be Accountable
You need accountability to stick to a major goal. It’s not enough to make a personal commitment.
1. Coach.me is a great tool for maintaining and sticking to new habits. It’s like having a coach in your pocket, both for better and worse.
2. Having an accountability partner with whom you share your breakthroughs, challenges, and future plans is a great way to get a kick in the butt whenever you feel a wane in motivation, and someone you can confide in whenever you have a challenge that requires a second opinion.
Step 7: Create Small, Enjoyable Rewards
Giving yourself a reward can be a great motivator to complete a daily routine. This can include anything, like watching your favorite TV show, eating a healthy snack, or even relaxing for a few minutes, but avoid any reward that eliminates the benefit of a specific habit.
Check out: 155 Ways to Reward Yourself
Step 8: Focus on Repetition
Repetition is key for the first few weeks when building a stack. It’s crucial that you stick to the routine—even if you must skip one or two small actions. Consistency is more important than anything else. Repetition builds muscle memory. And when you complete the routine often enough, it’ll become an ingrained part of your day.
Step 9: Don’t Break the Chain
Jerry Seinfeld’s advice: Set aside time every day to create new material. The key here is to never miss a day, even if you’re not in the mood. Create a doable daily goal that can be achieved no matter what happens, and don’t let yourself be talked out of it. Perhaps you’ll set a small goal where you only complete two or three actions. The important thing is to set a goal that can be achieved even when you have an off day.
Step 10: Expect Setbacks
Even the most consistent habits will experience the occasional setback or challenge. You should expect challenges to come up with this routine. When they do, you have one of two choices: give up or find a way to overcome them.
it Staking Routine
Step 11: Schedule the Frequency of a Stack
As we’ve discussed before, some stacks only need to be completed on an irregular basis:
I. Daily
II. Weekly
III. Monthly
At first, you should get started with a small daily habit stack. But as you become comfortable with the strategy, create a stack for each of the above three times.
Step 12: Scale Up Your Stack
Do this in an incremental manner. In the first week, your routine will last five minutes. The second week will be ten minutes, then up fifteen minutes for week three. Repeat this process until the routine is thirty minutes with a handful of small actions.
Step 13: Build One Routine at a Time
You shouldn’t try to build more than one habit at a time because each additional new action will make it increasingly difficult to stick with your stacks. When you feel that a stack has become a permanent behaviour that is when you can add a new habit to your daily routine.
Part I is the current section you’re reading, which provides an overview of habit stacking and why small actions matter.
Part II talks about goals. Specifically, why they are important, how to create ones that match what you want from life, and how they relate to the three types of habits we’ll cover in this book.
Part III briefly covers the psychology behind habit stacking and how you can use it to remember all those small life-changing actions.
Part IV shows you how to get started with habit stacking. Here, I provide nine rules for creating a stack and the thirteen-step process for building your first routine.
Part V is the beginning of the seven sections that cover the 127 habits. We’ll start with career goals, which will focus on improving your productivity, increasing your business revenue, and implementing the habits that help you do better at your job.
Part VI will cover the finance habits, which will include topics like saving for retirement, improving your credit score, eliminating your credit card debt, and investing to build long-term wealth.”
Part VII goes over the health habits that are important for maintaining a balance of physical fitness, eating the right foods, and practicing specific routines that ensure the safety of you and your family.
Part IIX discusses the leisure habits that might not seem immediately important but are vital for improving the quality of your life.
Part IX talks about the organizing habits that provide structure to your surroundings in a mindful way where you don’t feel overwhelmed by the “stuff” in your life.
Part X will cover the relationship goals that help you enhance interactions with the important individuals in your life, while encouraging you to meet new people.
Part XI includes spiritual habits, which covers a wide range of topics like meditation, prayer, yoga, helping others, or reciting affirmations.
Part XII provides nine examples of habit stacks you can build and how to overcome the six challenges you might encounter when building a routine, and then we’ll wrap up the book.”