This book was given me by a friend in a box of romances. I hadn't realized when I started it, that I'd also read another book by the same author, "On Strike for Christmas," some years ago. I preferred "On Strike for Christmas." It was so funny that it made it's rounds throughout our family, and even though it was supposed to be a women's book, my husband noticed us all laughing over it and enjoyed reading it himself.
I had a hard time getting into this book, "Starting Over..." at first. Probably part of that is because it's the middle of a series, and there are so many characters to get to know all at once. It helped that there's a character listing at the front of the book, but it didn't list all the characters.
Also, it started out with one of the protagonists running from her problems with the house (a caving in roof) to alcohol rather than problem-solving. Another character seemed to run to food for her problems.
One of the characters made a stellar observation, which I liked, and I wondered if it would frame the rest of the story, "I'm guessing it's his one besetting sin. Every man has something that makes him human. Just as we do." True, true, too true. Characters, like people, all have differing temptations, but they can grow and change and mature.
I know that people have real issues with these things, but this book doesn't really address them or overcoming them, and watching these people hit the booze was not what I wanted to do...
So, I read one of my teens' books and then came back to see if these characters had gotten any more interesting.
The story got better, with the plots revolving around several romances. Of those, the one that interested me most was the one about the married couple that separated over home-repairs. They both had good points, and they both were stubborn and unwilling to concede that the other side also had good points, or try for any form of compromise or understanding.
Although I wouldn't want to torture him with this "girly" book, (without quite as much humor as "On Strike for Christmas" had) I am curious what my husband would think of that conflict... Actually, I think my husband would be harder on the husband in the story than I would be. He tends to have high standards for how men should behave towards their wives, and has surprised me before by not sticking up for his gender. But I know (generalizing) that men tend to be more sensitive to a lack of respect from their wives, and women tend to be more sensitive to not having their feelings validated. Both of which happened in this conflict. And I guess that's what I would ask him - would he also interpret these things as a lack of respect? Well, some of it was over-the-top obvious, but some of it may have not really been disrespectful.
Apart from that, this book was low on plot. Mainly, it had character descriptions, and people just ogling each other. Lots of ogling. Chapters and chapters of ogling.
I don't think this book was worth me finding and reading any of the others in the series.
I did have, however, some favorite quotes from it:
"My mother always said that things taste so much better when they're served in something pretty."
"They were supposed to be skinny jeans, but with thirty extra pounds, they were more like I-wish-I-was-skinny-jeans."
"He's being completely unreasonable."
"People often are when they're hurt."
"That's how it went with grown kids. You shared [them with their friends.] If you got them to yourself for even a short amount of time, you felt lucky."
"Show your man you've got some faith in him."