Deacon Thorpe was well-known for his career as a tv-chef and the owner of an elite restaurant in NYC. Deacon was equally known for his social life as he was his career. He’s been married 3 times and had a child with each wife. Deacon struggled with alcohol and substance abuse and the fidelity of marriage. When Deacon passes away unexpectedly, his best friend and agent, Buck, is left to handle his affairs. To make matters worse, Deacon had more money troubles than he ever lead on, and now it’s Buck’s responsibility to break the news to Deacon’s family.
Deacon’s wives, kids and Buck all stay together in Deacon’s Nantucket home to spread his ashes. All hell breaks loose when the three wives—Laurel, Belinda and Scarlett—are under one roof. It’s safe to say that the 3 wives don’t get along and they couldn’t be more different. Laurel, Deacon’s high school sweetheart. Belinda, a scandalous actress. Scarlett, a southern debutante, and Belinda’s ex-nanny.
Deacon’s older children, Hayes and Angie, are almost as messed up as Deacon. Angie is sleeping with a married man and Hayes can’t go more than 12-hours without getting his heroin fix. For the sake of the children and to respect Deacon, the wives attempt to keep the peace in Deacon’s most cherished place, his Nantucket home—American Paradise.
But when Buck breaks the news that Deacon left the house to all 3 of his wives, split equally, everyone is quite shocked. And to make matters worse, the house is so behind in payments (over half a million dollars worth), that it’s going to be foreclosed on.
Deacon’s death brought his unconventional family together in a way that never would’ve happened otherwise. They’re all facing their own sets of problems in their personal lives and find it within themselves to forgive for the sake of Deacon.
Through the memories of Deacon’s wives and his children, it’s revealed that Deacon was far from a saint. He made mistake after mistake. He couldn’t abide by the vows of marriage to save his life. But one thing is for certain—Deacon loved his kids unconditionally and wholly until the very end. And as much as his family holds transgressions against him, they can’t help but look past his flaws and love him whole-heartedly, too.
A story about a seriously messed up family, Here’s to Us by Elin Hilderbrand is about the importance of family, the rebuilding of trust and forgiving mistakes, no matter how hard that may be. I enjoyed getting to know these highly flawed characters. By the end, I felt like I truly got to know Deacon, even though I only learned about him second hand, for the most part. Some characters were easy to like, while others were quite rough around the edges. It’s a story about grief and a family coming together to celebrate a man they all loved. I enjoyed this story, but not as much as my first Elin Hilderbrand read—3.75/5 stars.