This book really touched me in a way that is hard to explain. It doesn't have the strongest plot, but that's because it's a story about life, it's not a romance novel or an action book. And while occasionally distracting, I loved the beautiful detail that really transported me to all of the places - Siam, Bangkok, Rome, Paris, etc. Most important to me though was the premise about choice. For the importance of this book to my life, I give it 5 stars.
I can see where this book would be less exciting to someone who hasn't struggled in quite the same way with religion, love, marriage and independence. However, for me personally, I felt like I could really understand the main character, who I was delighted to find out was a real person, and the paths she followed. I also loved the author's incorporation of the main character's struggles with religion. Her comparisons were interesting and forced some deeper thought on my part. I was later shocked to find out though that this book was classified as a Christian novel. I found the book to have an interesting spiritual debate within it, but I didn't think it was Christian, so much as it was about personal beliefs and faith, regardless of religion.
I do agree with some other reviewers that the Epilogue was a bit strange. Yet at the same time, I could understand where the author was coming from and how her personal views were written into this final chapter of the book.
Any book that makes you think long and hard about love, marriage, independence, world history, religion and politics is a great novel! This is a story that will sweep you off your feet, carry you to far-away places, and yet will strike you close to home. Well written and beautiful! Thank you to the author for sharing this enlightening story about her grandmother!