I feel like they were close to something insightful. It’s tragic that Kanji spent so long denying himself and his passions for “feminine” stuff just because he’d been made fun of for it. It’s really gross that the writers took this scenario as an excuse to depict someone who thought he was gay, but then concludes he was just “confused.” It would’ve been fine if Kanji was gay - actively denying that adds nothing to this story, and actively makes it worse. Very, very frustrating.