As I read the examples and context for each of the question, I begin to ask if there are parts of my life story that I can give as an example as well to every question? As each is being filled with different stories, during different parts of my life, I understand that I had been challenged and questioned by my character before. There are times where there is clarity, which I stood firm to my principles, perspective and values, there are times where I waiver. In situations where I waiver, I thought it was because of my weak conviction, instead today I understand that it could have been my higher self has been probed to review and relearn. Perspective can and will change only if I keep an open mind.
The chapter that stuck me the most was Chapter 1, and the story of "death of a salesman". Like the CEO in the author's class as he highlighted, "have we all not face and done something similar"? Which part was he referring doesn't matter, as in the simple synopsis given, I had to take deep breaths as the image of self was in it, both the role of Willy and Biff. Being stuck in illusion, becoming distant to the ones we earning and providing for, laying out expectations to others, neglecting one's environment, overrating self, seek acknowledgement.....it springs the additional question of what is and for whom am I living for? Do I encourage others to discover and follow their dream, or buy them over to fulfill mine? I feel this is where a root of transactional relationships are, buying others over to fulfil self-desires. A topic I will relook deeper.
What I am being highlighted, is that there are many great stories out there, in which I can learn values from, am I able to see it as I engaged into them. Likewise, as I write and express myself, am I able to convey my values in words? Is there something in which I would like to express? Or does it become a narrative piece? A reminder of putting my energy into my words, both written and spoken, as they are messages of my values and character.