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Combating Cult Mind Control: The Guide to Protection, Rescue and Recovery from Destructive Cults
If you're reading CCMC for the first time, please know that you've found a safe, respectful, compassionate place. This book can help you protect-or regain-your sanity, freedom, and health. It can also help you protect others from the use of mind-control techniques. In this 25th anniversary volume you'll find:
• New stories of people who fell under the sway of cults and other forms of undue influence but who were able to break free.
• New information on the many sophisticated ways social media are now used for mind control.
• Updates on the many types of organizations that use mind control
• Information on the neuroscience behind mind control.
• A look at what legislators, courts, mental health professionals, and ordinary citizens can do to resist mind control and make our world a safer place.
The techniques of undue influence have evolved dramatically, and continue to do so. Today, a vast array of methods exist to deceive, manipulate, and indoctrinate people into closed systems of obedience and dependency. Sadly, the essential information in this book is still not widely known or understood. People around the world remain largely unprepared for the new realities of mind control. But you are far from helpless. There is a great deal you can do to stay safe, sane, and whole-and to help the people you care about to do the same. And if someone you love is already part of a mind-control group, there is much you can do to help them break free and rebuild their life. This book will give you the tools you need. As you read this book, you'll learn to develop, use, and trust your critical thinking skills; your intuition; your bodily and emotional awareness; your ability to ask the right questions; and your skill at doing quick, useful research. You'll also learn to create a healthy balance of openness and skepticism. As you will see, the entire process begins and ends with discernment.
• New stories of people who fell under the sway of cults and other forms of undue influence but who were able to break free.
• New information on the many sophisticated ways social media are now used for mind control.
• Updates on the many types of organizations that use mind control
• Information on the neuroscience behind mind control.
• A look at what legislators, courts, mental health professionals, and ordinary citizens can do to resist mind control and make our world a safer place.
The techniques of undue influence have evolved dramatically, and continue to do so. Today, a vast array of methods exist to deceive, manipulate, and indoctrinate people into closed systems of obedience and dependency. Sadly, the essential information in this book is still not widely known or understood. People around the world remain largely unprepared for the new realities of mind control. But you are far from helpless. There is a great deal you can do to stay safe, sane, and whole-and to help the people you care about to do the same. And if someone you love is already part of a mind-control group, there is much you can do to help them break free and rebuild their life. This book will give you the tools you need. As you read this book, you'll learn to develop, use, and trust your critical thinking skills; your intuition; your bodily and emotional awareness; your ability to ask the right questions; and your skill at doing quick, useful research. You'll also learn to create a healthy balance of openness and skepticism. As you will see, the entire process begins and ends with discernment.
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First published November 1, 1988
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About the author
Steven Hassan
10 books353 followersDr. Steven Hassan is one of the world's foremost experts on undue influence. Licensed mental health counselor and an exit counselor. Hassan was an early advocate of exit counseling, and is the author of two books on the subject of "cults", and what he describes as their use of mind control, thought reform, and the psychology of influence in order to recruit and retain members.
Himself a former member of the Unification Church, after spending one year assisting with involuntary deprogrammings, he developed what he describes as his own non-coercive methods for helping members of alleged cults to leave their groups, and developed therapeutic approaches for counseling former members in order to help them overcome the purported effects of cult membership.
Himself a former member of the Unification Church, after spending one year assisting with involuntary deprogrammings, he developed what he describes as his own non-coercive methods for helping members of alleged cults to leave their groups, and developed therapeutic approaches for counseling former members in order to help them overcome the purported effects of cult membership.
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October 15, 2012
Very interesting and thought provoking book on cults. Most of the focus was on religious cults but the author covered political cults, educational cults, and commercial cults as well. Topics of mind control, behavior modification, the influence of conformity, phobia indoctrination and obedience to authority are addressed in this thoughtful, well-written book.
Favorite quotes from the book: "I told him that any group that told its members not to think, but rather to obey their leaders blindly, was dangerous. I told him that any organization that told members not to talk to former members or read critical information was exercising information control--an essential component of mind control." p.161
(This so articulates what I was taught in Mormonism: "When the prophet speaks, the thinking has been done." is a mantra repeated time and time again in the Mormon church and among the members. I still find it difficult to understand how I could have believed this way for decades of my life. This book has been helpful in explaining WHY.)
"Every person in a cult has been programmed to stop all "negative" thoughts about the leader, the doctrine, or the organization, and has also been indoctrinated to believe that his group is superior to all other groups and different from all other groups." p. 165
"It was also important for him to see that there are other groups who are led by people claiming to be spiritually superior. When I eventually told him that there were some three thousand cult groups, and that if one of them was in fact led by the one legitimate great leader then the odds that he would have found the right one on the first pick were three thousand to one. Not very good odds." p. 167
"I wanted to challenge his indoctrination that people who leave the group do so for the wrong reasons--because they are weak or undisciplined or want to indulge in materialism. I wanted him to know that I left the group out of strength and integrity." p.167
"I left the group because I came to see objectively what I had been doing. I had devoted myself to a fantasy." p.167
"Once I was able to realize that even though I WANTED to believe it was true, MY BELIEF DIDN'T MAKE IT TRUE, I saw that even if I remained in the group for another fifty years, the fantasy I was sacrificing myself for would never come true." p.167
"By being given some clear definitions of mind control, I was able to see clearly how I had been victimized and how I had learned to victimize others. I personally had to come to terms with my own values, beliefs, and ideals. Once I did that, even though I had invested so much of myself in the group, become a leader, and developed close bonds with many members, I had to walk away. I could never go back to becoming a 'true believer' again."
(The hardest and yet the most freeing time of my life was to realize the truth that the Mormon church was a fraud produced by a con man and to walk away from being a 6th generation Mormon.)
Favorite quotes from the book: "I told him that any group that told its members not to think, but rather to obey their leaders blindly, was dangerous. I told him that any organization that told members not to talk to former members or read critical information was exercising information control--an essential component of mind control." p.161
(This so articulates what I was taught in Mormonism: "When the prophet speaks, the thinking has been done." is a mantra repeated time and time again in the Mormon church and among the members. I still find it difficult to understand how I could have believed this way for decades of my life. This book has been helpful in explaining WHY.)
"Every person in a cult has been programmed to stop all "negative" thoughts about the leader, the doctrine, or the organization, and has also been indoctrinated to believe that his group is superior to all other groups and different from all other groups." p. 165
"It was also important for him to see that there are other groups who are led by people claiming to be spiritually superior. When I eventually told him that there were some three thousand cult groups, and that if one of them was in fact led by the one legitimate great leader then the odds that he would have found the right one on the first pick were three thousand to one. Not very good odds." p. 167
"I wanted to challenge his indoctrination that people who leave the group do so for the wrong reasons--because they are weak or undisciplined or want to indulge in materialism. I wanted him to know that I left the group out of strength and integrity." p.167
"I left the group because I came to see objectively what I had been doing. I had devoted myself to a fantasy." p.167
"Once I was able to realize that even though I WANTED to believe it was true, MY BELIEF DIDN'T MAKE IT TRUE, I saw that even if I remained in the group for another fifty years, the fantasy I was sacrificing myself for would never come true." p.167
"By being given some clear definitions of mind control, I was able to see clearly how I had been victimized and how I had learned to victimize others. I personally had to come to terms with my own values, beliefs, and ideals. Once I did that, even though I had invested so much of myself in the group, become a leader, and developed close bonds with many members, I had to walk away. I could never go back to becoming a 'true believer' again."
(The hardest and yet the most freeing time of my life was to realize the truth that the Mormon church was a fraud produced by a con man and to walk away from being a 6th generation Mormon.)
September 8, 2016
This is an excellent book on how cult indoctrination works and details the common yet effective methods they use: "deceptive recruiting", "love-bombing", "loaded language" - "isolation" - "dogmatism", etc. For those that think, it can't happen to me, Hassan points out the Unification Church preferred to target "capable people", i.e. smart, energetic, idealistic... and they often succeeded.
Although not mentioned except in the expanded bibliography of the later edition, the methods used eerily identical to those practiced by the Jehovah's Witnesses.
A couple things to note: 1.) NO cult self-identifies as a cult; they all poo-poo the idea and see it as an affirming example of outside persecution. 2.) No cult uses all the control techniques presented. So it's not like you can say "Well, we don't shave our heads like the Krishnas so we can't be a cult".
There are a short series of short questions in the book that will either send cult recruiters fleeing or make them very uncomfortable, be they Witnesses, Krishnas, etc. The book is worth it just for the questions. (i.e. Can you name 3 things you don't like about your organization or its leaders?) Since most cults indoctrinate their members with the idea they ( the organization and its leaders) are the ultimate good, the "Truth", in Witness terminology, they are unable/unwilling to criticize their organization for fear of being punished or feeling guilt for opposing God's (Jehovah's) one true church.
Although not mentioned except in the expanded bibliography of the later edition, the methods used eerily identical to those practiced by the Jehovah's Witnesses.
A couple things to note: 1.) NO cult self-identifies as a cult; they all poo-poo the idea and see it as an affirming example of outside persecution. 2.) No cult uses all the control techniques presented. So it's not like you can say "Well, we don't shave our heads like the Krishnas so we can't be a cult".
There are a short series of short questions in the book that will either send cult recruiters fleeing or make them very uncomfortable, be they Witnesses, Krishnas, etc. The book is worth it just for the questions. (i.e. Can you name 3 things you don't like about your organization or its leaders?) Since most cults indoctrinate their members with the idea they ( the organization and its leaders) are the ultimate good, the "Truth", in Witness terminology, they are unable/unwilling to criticize their organization for fear of being punished or feeling guilt for opposing God's (Jehovah's) one true church.
October 8, 2023
I loved this book. I was introduced to a group by a friend years back and was an active member, even though a lot of it creeped me out. I decided to leave on my own, but by using this book, I was able to discover that the group I belonged to was actually a cult. It wasn't as horrendous as many cults but it had all the warning signs, including the use of mind control techniques. This book is a great read for anyone. It helps you to realize that most cults use deception to get you to join. They tell you they want to share a new way of thinking or new meditation techniques (and many others). They are warm and welcoming, and no one, even the people actively in the group, thinks they are in a cult. Because of this, it is easy for anyone to get sucked in. The author also gives extensive advice for helping a friend or family member you believe has gotten into a cult lifestyle. I recommend it even if just to keep the public more aware of what is truly going on in the world.
May 20, 2019
I had actually hesitated in reading this book based on the title. My thinking was that I'm not in a cult and at very low risk of being recruited into one, so I don't need this book. Not only was I wrong, but more than anything, this book is about recognizing and protecting yourself from manipulative tactics.
Here are some of my corrected misconceptions of what cults are and aren't:
- Strange doctrine doesn't make you a cult. First off, "strange" is relative. Virgin birth may sound strange to non-Christians, but that doesn't make all Christian religions cults.
- People who get recruited into cults aren't dumb, naive, gullible, etc. Cults benefit from having wealthy, well adjusted, intelligent members. Not only are they the best workers, but they add credibility to an organization. They put incredible amounts of time and effort into recruiting wonderful people. In fact, the people most likely to be recruited are those with a burning desire to make the world a better place. Many don't even realize they're working for a religious organization until they're completely entrenched. WE NEED TO KILL THIS STIGMA. Otherwise it makes it even harder for smart people to leave!
- Cults don't need to be religious. There are plenty of deity-free cults, including businesses, charities, MLM's, and self-help trainings.
- No one in a cult knows they're in a cult
- Just because a person doesn't have a gun to their head, doesn't mean they're not being controlled, or at least unduly influenced. Yes they can physically walk away, but they will often lose their friends, family, status, and sometimes even livelihood. They typically have long reinforced phobias making them think that if they leave, they'll become addicts, go to hell, never find true happiness, etc.
- Bad cults sometimes do good things. Just because a group does some good charity work doesn't mean that they're not a cult. Charity is a great way to recruit and to buy good PR. Just watch for red flags. What percentage of time and money is spent on charity (not including recruiting)? What's the ratio of branding and PR vs. work actually accomplished?
- Cults don't have a specific size. There are cults that have a tiny handful of members and cults that are millions strong.
- Being mainstream doesn't preclude you from being a cult. Cults are about harmful tactics, not societal acceptance or age.
- Cult is a spectrum, not a binary. Obviously a Jim Jones or Charles Manson cult is far more harmful than a cult that lets its members live and work among non members. There are also decent organizations that, sometimes unintentionally, use cult tactics.
Actions:
- Do people call your organization a cult? Read this book and prove them wrong or find out they're right. Either way, it's a win/win.
- Are you thinking of joining an organization? Do your research! Make sure that their claims match reality. "Milk before meat" is NOT a valid excuse to lie to new and potential members.
- Stop mocking, yelling at, debating cult members. That just reinforces their fear of the world outside the cult. Most of them are victims. Please be kind.
Here are some of my corrected misconceptions of what cults are and aren't:
- Strange doctrine doesn't make you a cult. First off, "strange" is relative. Virgin birth may sound strange to non-Christians, but that doesn't make all Christian religions cults.
- People who get recruited into cults aren't dumb, naive, gullible, etc. Cults benefit from having wealthy, well adjusted, intelligent members. Not only are they the best workers, but they add credibility to an organization. They put incredible amounts of time and effort into recruiting wonderful people. In fact, the people most likely to be recruited are those with a burning desire to make the world a better place. Many don't even realize they're working for a religious organization until they're completely entrenched. WE NEED TO KILL THIS STIGMA. Otherwise it makes it even harder for smart people to leave!
- Cults don't need to be religious. There are plenty of deity-free cults, including businesses, charities, MLM's, and self-help trainings.
- No one in a cult knows they're in a cult
- Just because a person doesn't have a gun to their head, doesn't mean they're not being controlled, or at least unduly influenced. Yes they can physically walk away, but they will often lose their friends, family, status, and sometimes even livelihood. They typically have long reinforced phobias making them think that if they leave, they'll become addicts, go to hell, never find true happiness, etc.
- Bad cults sometimes do good things. Just because a group does some good charity work doesn't mean that they're not a cult. Charity is a great way to recruit and to buy good PR. Just watch for red flags. What percentage of time and money is spent on charity (not including recruiting)? What's the ratio of branding and PR vs. work actually accomplished?
- Cults don't have a specific size. There are cults that have a tiny handful of members and cults that are millions strong.
- Being mainstream doesn't preclude you from being a cult. Cults are about harmful tactics, not societal acceptance or age.
- Cult is a spectrum, not a binary. Obviously a Jim Jones or Charles Manson cult is far more harmful than a cult that lets its members live and work among non members. There are also decent organizations that, sometimes unintentionally, use cult tactics.
Actions:
- Do people call your organization a cult? Read this book and prove them wrong or find out they're right. Either way, it's a win/win.
- Are you thinking of joining an organization? Do your research! Make sure that their claims match reality. "Milk before meat" is NOT a valid excuse to lie to new and potential members.
- Stop mocking, yelling at, debating cult members. That just reinforces their fear of the world outside the cult. Most of them are victims. Please be kind.
September 29, 2020
It it very easy to trust the words of a self-proclaimed "cult-expert" and immediately fall into the trap of assuming that everything he writes is factual.
Looking a little deeper into the author's past, certain troubling issues arise - the author's lack of any real psychiatric qualification, for one. His past as a Deprogrammer (kidnapping people from group he arbitrarily calls cults) is another.
The fact that he performed these deprogramings as a referral kickback service for The Cult Awareness Network (now thankfully defunct after a kidnapping trial), which made a veritable fortune listing New Religious Groups as cults, scaring relatives into spending a fortune to recommend the services of deprogrammers such as Hassan in exchange for a cut of the fees.
None of Hassan's work is peer-reviewed, and it relies on pseudo-scientific theories by authors such as Jean-Marie Abgrall or the disgraced Margaret Singer who tried (and failed) to promote brainwashing as a real scientific theory.
So before trusting the writings of a self-proclaimed expert, do a little research - the book's cover, for example, carries a recommendation by Louis Jolyon West, the man who killed an elephant by administering too much LSD, and who worked with the CIA on top-secret projects involving administering LSD to unwitting civilians (the MKUltra project)
The book is therefore highly biased, self-serving, and un-scientific, everything it professes not to be. I would not recommend it as a credible source for information about so-called cults.
Beware self-proclaimed experts - these are the real cult leaders.
Looking a little deeper into the author's past, certain troubling issues arise - the author's lack of any real psychiatric qualification, for one. His past as a Deprogrammer (kidnapping people from group he arbitrarily calls cults) is another.
The fact that he performed these deprogramings as a referral kickback service for The Cult Awareness Network (now thankfully defunct after a kidnapping trial), which made a veritable fortune listing New Religious Groups as cults, scaring relatives into spending a fortune to recommend the services of deprogrammers such as Hassan in exchange for a cut of the fees.
None of Hassan's work is peer-reviewed, and it relies on pseudo-scientific theories by authors such as Jean-Marie Abgrall or the disgraced Margaret Singer who tried (and failed) to promote brainwashing as a real scientific theory.
So before trusting the writings of a self-proclaimed expert, do a little research - the book's cover, for example, carries a recommendation by Louis Jolyon West, the man who killed an elephant by administering too much LSD, and who worked with the CIA on top-secret projects involving administering LSD to unwitting civilians (the MKUltra project)
The book is therefore highly biased, self-serving, and un-scientific, everything it professes not to be. I would not recommend it as a credible source for information about so-called cults.
Beware self-proclaimed experts - these are the real cult leaders.
May 17, 2015
Undue influence is real
This book was really eye opening. I was raised Jehovah's Witness and this book has helped me to see that I was raised in a cult and how they influenced me. Steven Hassan is a great teacher and the book was an easy and uplifting read. I encourage "everyone" to read this book. This book gives perspective to cults which is something no one is talking about. This book has vital information that anyone can benefit from.
This book was really eye opening. I was raised Jehovah's Witness and this book has helped me to see that I was raised in a cult and how they influenced me. Steven Hassan is a great teacher and the book was an easy and uplifting read. I encourage "everyone" to read this book. This book gives perspective to cults which is something no one is talking about. This book has vital information that anyone can benefit from.
June 15, 2018
Disclaimer: This review was originally posted on the website Ex-JW Sisters
As I mentioned to the Editor of this blog, as a book reviewer I would love to contribute some articles about books written by or for Jehovah’s Witnesses. There are a number of books available, I hope to help give a quick general overview of these books so that you can decide which you’d like to read.
I chose this book as the first to review because it marked the beginning of my journey out of “the truth”. As such, it is a personal favorite of mine. It is the first book I read when I finally realized that “the truth” was in fact… not truth at all. Usually I don’t get particularly personal when writing a book review for my blog, but it’s impossible to divorce my feelings and impressions of this book from my own “waking up” story. So I will try to keep it short and to the point but you know how it is. I mean… we are all sisters here right?
As it is for many, my waking up process was stretched out over a series of years. I liken it to a crack in the windshield of a car, it starts tiny. I gained more cracks over the years for a multiple of reasons, some doctrinal some personal. I could feel the religion slipping away from me little by little, but it was as though my brain refused to acknowledge the reality. One afternoon, July 28, 2016 to be precise, I drove home from work listening to a podcast interview with a Mormon who had left his church. I heard a voice in my head saying, “that’s what you’re doing, you’re leaving.” I was stunned at this thought. It was too much to think about and it made me feel afraid. I turned the podcast off, and searched online for a recording of the Watchtower but found I couldn’t concentrate. It was boring and unbearable. I reached a local pizza place and walked in half in a daze, ordered dinner to-go for my family and sat down at a table to wait. I searched my phone, desperate for an article, a talk, something from Watchtower to restore my equanimity.
Google. *tap*
Watchtower… just pick something. *tap*
JW Facts? *tap*
United Nations… oh my god… United Nations.
The windshield of my faith shattered in an instant. I collected my pizza, made my way home and explained to my mother that it was all over.
As you all know, that moment is not the end of the story but the beginning. Now is the hard part. Now is when we pick up the pieces and try to understand what has happened to us. I asked, how could this happen to me? I’m a bright woman, I’m not stupid. How did I allow an organization to deceive and control me to this extent for so long? Why did I not see it? I needed to understand, first, why I had let Watchtower exert control over me to begin with, and second, how to extricate myself from the disaster of my faith now that I’d pulled it all down.
Thankfully I found this book pretty quickly. It helped me to regain a measure of understanding. I imagined that reading about Mr. Hassan’s personal experiences with cult indoctrination was inoculating me against further manipulation. I was frightened by the prospect of returning to a state of indoctrination. How can I keep from going back? How do I keep other groups from taking advantage of me? I know that my inclination will probably be to allow others to reinsert a measure of control into my life so how do I prevent that? This book helped me to understand that all the questions I was asking and the sense of insecurity I felt was a natural part of being subjected to undue influence for so many years.
I’m sure I’m not telling you anything new when it comes to the B.I.T.E. model. This model is used to explain the ways in which a cult asserts its power over you. I touched on these points in a review for another book, but I think they really belong here with this book, where I found them to begin with:
Behavior – The lives of JW’s are highly controlled. Their dress and grooming, what jobs they perform, their entertainment, the amount of time they spend studying Witness publications and witnessing to outsiders is all highly controlled. And then there is their prohibition of holidays and their stand on blood transfusions.
Information – JW’s are not allowed to listen to any information about the Jehovah’s Witnesses unless it comes directly from Watchtower. This includes anything on the internet or from the news media. JW’s are not allowed to speak with people who have left the organization. You cannot even acknowledge that persons existence. Needless to say, lack of un-biased information is dangerous.
Thoughts – All thoughts are to be regulated. Doubts about the religion are not tolerated. You can be brought before a Judicial Committee and expelled from the congregation for holding a different opinion from the Governing Body. If you voice that opinion then watch out!
Emotional – Guilt and fear figure mightily in this religion. No matter what you do in service of this religion, it is never, ever enough. JW’s are encouraged to spy and tattle on each other to the elders in the congregation for even minor offenses. JW’s are not allowed to speak with anyone who is expelled (disfellowshipped or disassociated), even if it is an immediate family member.
This synopsis is admittedly superficial, there is much more information to be found in Mr. Hassan’s book. If you are newly awake to your time within the Watchtower organization this is an excellent book to read. It is the first that I recommend to anyone who is leaving the Jehovah’s Witness religion.
If you are finding it difficult to understand why the cracks in the windshield can make you feel so free and so lost all at once, allow the examples in the book to assure you, these feelings are temporary and you can regain the control you once relinquished to The Cult. With understanding you can start to live the life you were meant to live.
“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.” Khalil Gibran
Song for this book: Level up by Vienna Teng
As I mentioned to the Editor of this blog, as a book reviewer I would love to contribute some articles about books written by or for Jehovah’s Witnesses. There are a number of books available, I hope to help give a quick general overview of these books so that you can decide which you’d like to read.
I chose this book as the first to review because it marked the beginning of my journey out of “the truth”. As such, it is a personal favorite of mine. It is the first book I read when I finally realized that “the truth” was in fact… not truth at all. Usually I don’t get particularly personal when writing a book review for my blog, but it’s impossible to divorce my feelings and impressions of this book from my own “waking up” story. So I will try to keep it short and to the point but you know how it is. I mean… we are all sisters here right?
As it is for many, my waking up process was stretched out over a series of years. I liken it to a crack in the windshield of a car, it starts tiny. I gained more cracks over the years for a multiple of reasons, some doctrinal some personal. I could feel the religion slipping away from me little by little, but it was as though my brain refused to acknowledge the reality. One afternoon, July 28, 2016 to be precise, I drove home from work listening to a podcast interview with a Mormon who had left his church. I heard a voice in my head saying, “that’s what you’re doing, you’re leaving.” I was stunned at this thought. It was too much to think about and it made me feel afraid. I turned the podcast off, and searched online for a recording of the Watchtower but found I couldn’t concentrate. It was boring and unbearable. I reached a local pizza place and walked in half in a daze, ordered dinner to-go for my family and sat down at a table to wait. I searched my phone, desperate for an article, a talk, something from Watchtower to restore my equanimity.
Google. *tap*
Watchtower… just pick something. *tap*
JW Facts? *tap*
United Nations… oh my god… United Nations.
The windshield of my faith shattered in an instant. I collected my pizza, made my way home and explained to my mother that it was all over.
As you all know, that moment is not the end of the story but the beginning. Now is the hard part. Now is when we pick up the pieces and try to understand what has happened to us. I asked, how could this happen to me? I’m a bright woman, I’m not stupid. How did I allow an organization to deceive and control me to this extent for so long? Why did I not see it? I needed to understand, first, why I had let Watchtower exert control over me to begin with, and second, how to extricate myself from the disaster of my faith now that I’d pulled it all down.
Thankfully I found this book pretty quickly. It helped me to regain a measure of understanding. I imagined that reading about Mr. Hassan’s personal experiences with cult indoctrination was inoculating me against further manipulation. I was frightened by the prospect of returning to a state of indoctrination. How can I keep from going back? How do I keep other groups from taking advantage of me? I know that my inclination will probably be to allow others to reinsert a measure of control into my life so how do I prevent that? This book helped me to understand that all the questions I was asking and the sense of insecurity I felt was a natural part of being subjected to undue influence for so many years.
I’m sure I’m not telling you anything new when it comes to the B.I.T.E. model. This model is used to explain the ways in which a cult asserts its power over you. I touched on these points in a review for another book, but I think they really belong here with this book, where I found them to begin with:
Behavior – The lives of JW’s are highly controlled. Their dress and grooming, what jobs they perform, their entertainment, the amount of time they spend studying Witness publications and witnessing to outsiders is all highly controlled. And then there is their prohibition of holidays and their stand on blood transfusions.
Information – JW’s are not allowed to listen to any information about the Jehovah’s Witnesses unless it comes directly from Watchtower. This includes anything on the internet or from the news media. JW’s are not allowed to speak with people who have left the organization. You cannot even acknowledge that persons existence. Needless to say, lack of un-biased information is dangerous.
Thoughts – All thoughts are to be regulated. Doubts about the religion are not tolerated. You can be brought before a Judicial Committee and expelled from the congregation for holding a different opinion from the Governing Body. If you voice that opinion then watch out!
Emotional – Guilt and fear figure mightily in this religion. No matter what you do in service of this religion, it is never, ever enough. JW’s are encouraged to spy and tattle on each other to the elders in the congregation for even minor offenses. JW’s are not allowed to speak with anyone who is expelled (disfellowshipped or disassociated), even if it is an immediate family member.
This synopsis is admittedly superficial, there is much more information to be found in Mr. Hassan’s book. If you are newly awake to your time within the Watchtower organization this is an excellent book to read. It is the first that I recommend to anyone who is leaving the Jehovah’s Witness religion.
If you are finding it difficult to understand why the cracks in the windshield can make you feel so free and so lost all at once, allow the examples in the book to assure you, these feelings are temporary and you can regain the control you once relinquished to The Cult. With understanding you can start to live the life you were meant to live.
“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.” Khalil Gibran
Song for this book: Level up by Vienna Teng
February 15, 2021
This book absolutely blew me away. I had no idea how prevalent cults are in the world today. Every single one of us knows somebody in a cult, or is unknowingly part of one ourselves. Groups or individuals that use mind control tactics can be found in every type of organization. Politicians or political organizations use them all of the time (and use the internet and cable news/talk radio pundits to reinforce ideals). Multi-Level Marketing companies wouldn't exist without mind control. Abusive husbands, mothers, and grandmothers control adult family members with mind control tactics. And, of course, plenty of religious organizations, both fringe and main-stream, use these tactics to keep the flock in line.
Cults use the following four main types of mind-control:
BEHAVIOR CONTROL (with examples!)
-Control types of hairstyles and clothing
-Regulate members diet: what they eat and drink/fasting
-Financial manipulation. Members are told their salvation, personal fulfillment, standing in the group, etc is derived from monetary donations.
-Major time spent participating in group indoctrination programs
-Permission required for major decisions such as marriages, health decisions, and many others.
-Discourage individualism, promote group-think
-Impose rigid rules and regulations
-Dictate when and how members are allowed to have sex
THOUGHT CONTROL (with examples!)
-Forbid critical questions about leader, doctrine, or policy
-Label alternative belief systems as illegitimate, evil, or not useful-Require members to internalize the groups doctrine as truth
-Adopting the groups 'map of reality' as actual reality
-Instill black and white thinking (it's either right or wrong, true or untrue)
-Instill "us vs them" thinking (us vs 'the world', us vs the devil, us vs the media, us vs the government, us vs other religions etc)
-Use of loaded language and clichés which constrict knowledge, stop critical thoughts and reduce complexities into platitudinous buzz words
-Encourage only 'good and proper' thoughts
-Rejection of rational analysis, critical thinking, constructive criticism
INFORMATION CONTROL (with examples!)
-Deliberately withhold information from members
-Distort information to make cult ideals appear more acceptable
-Have a "milk before meat" mentality. New recruits don't learn what the group actually believes until they are in too deep to turn back.
-Minimize or discourage access to non-cult sources of information including: Internet, TV, radio, books, articles, newspapers, magazines, media
-Dismiss critical information as lies/from the devil
-Keep members busy so they don’t have time to think and investigate
-Compartmentalize information into Outsider vs. Insider doctrines
-Ensure that information is not freely accessible
-Control information at different levels and missions within group (lower level members have no idea how big group decisions are made)
-Allow only leadership to decide who needs to know what and when
-Report deviant thoughts, feelings and actions to leadership
-Extensive use of cult-generated information and propaganda, including: Newsletters, magazines, journals, audiotapes, videotapes, YouTube, movies and other media
EMOTION CONTROL (with examples!)
-Change members responsibilities within the group frequently, suddenly, and without notice. Often promoting or demoting members without explanation. This keeps members feeling off balance and increases dependence on the cult.
-Seek out recruits who have recently experienced a life-changing event (birth, death in the family, marriage, or recent move).
-Seek out members during vulnerable ages, such as teenagers or college students.
-Teach emotion-stopping techniques to block feelings of homesickness, anger, doubt
-Make the person feel that problems are always their own fault, never the leader’s or the group’s fault
-Promote feelings of guilt or unworthiness
-Instill fear, such as fear of: The outside world, the group's "enemies", losing one’s salvation, leaving or being shunned by the group, other’s disapproval.
-Phobia indoctrination
-Inculcating irrational fears about leaving the group or questioning the leader’s authority
-No happiness or fulfillment possible outside of the group
-Terrible consequences if you leave (hell, demon possession, incurable diseases, accidents, suicide, etc),
-Shunning of those who leave; fear of being rejected by friends and family if you do,
-Never a legitimate reason to leave
-Those who leave are weak, undisciplined, unspiritual, worldly, brainwashed by family or counselor, or seduced by money, sex, or the "ways of the world"
Cults use the following four main types of mind-control:
BEHAVIOR CONTROL (with examples!)
-Control types of hairstyles and clothing
-Regulate members diet: what they eat and drink/fasting
-Financial manipulation. Members are told their salvation, personal fulfillment, standing in the group, etc is derived from monetary donations.
-Major time spent participating in group indoctrination programs
-Permission required for major decisions such as marriages, health decisions, and many others.
-Discourage individualism, promote group-think
-Impose rigid rules and regulations
-Dictate when and how members are allowed to have sex
THOUGHT CONTROL (with examples!)
-Forbid critical questions about leader, doctrine, or policy
-Label alternative belief systems as illegitimate, evil, or not useful-Require members to internalize the groups doctrine as truth
-Adopting the groups 'map of reality' as actual reality
-Instill black and white thinking (it's either right or wrong, true or untrue)
-Instill "us vs them" thinking (us vs 'the world', us vs the devil, us vs the media, us vs the government, us vs other religions etc)
-Use of loaded language and clichés which constrict knowledge, stop critical thoughts and reduce complexities into platitudinous buzz words
-Encourage only 'good and proper' thoughts
-Rejection of rational analysis, critical thinking, constructive criticism
INFORMATION CONTROL (with examples!)
-Deliberately withhold information from members
-Distort information to make cult ideals appear more acceptable
-Have a "milk before meat" mentality. New recruits don't learn what the group actually believes until they are in too deep to turn back.
-Minimize or discourage access to non-cult sources of information including: Internet, TV, radio, books, articles, newspapers, magazines, media
-Dismiss critical information as lies/from the devil
-Keep members busy so they don’t have time to think and investigate
-Compartmentalize information into Outsider vs. Insider doctrines
-Ensure that information is not freely accessible
-Control information at different levels and missions within group (lower level members have no idea how big group decisions are made)
-Allow only leadership to decide who needs to know what and when
-Report deviant thoughts, feelings and actions to leadership
-Extensive use of cult-generated information and propaganda, including: Newsletters, magazines, journals, audiotapes, videotapes, YouTube, movies and other media
EMOTION CONTROL (with examples!)
-Change members responsibilities within the group frequently, suddenly, and without notice. Often promoting or demoting members without explanation. This keeps members feeling off balance and increases dependence on the cult.
-Seek out recruits who have recently experienced a life-changing event (birth, death in the family, marriage, or recent move).
-Seek out members during vulnerable ages, such as teenagers or college students.
-Teach emotion-stopping techniques to block feelings of homesickness, anger, doubt
-Make the person feel that problems are always their own fault, never the leader’s or the group’s fault
-Promote feelings of guilt or unworthiness
-Instill fear, such as fear of: The outside world, the group's "enemies", losing one’s salvation, leaving or being shunned by the group, other’s disapproval.
-Phobia indoctrination
-Inculcating irrational fears about leaving the group or questioning the leader’s authority
-No happiness or fulfillment possible outside of the group
-Terrible consequences if you leave (hell, demon possession, incurable diseases, accidents, suicide, etc),
-Shunning of those who leave; fear of being rejected by friends and family if you do,
-Never a legitimate reason to leave
-Those who leave are weak, undisciplined, unspiritual, worldly, brainwashed by family or counselor, or seduced by money, sex, or the "ways of the world"
March 31, 2022
Finished 3/30/2022
I listened to the audiobook version of Steven Hassan’s Combatting Mind Control. I was interested in the book because I thought it would help me understand and thus be in a better position to help victims of domestic violence. The author even relates in this book that domestic abusers are absolutely using mind control tactics on their victims. With that in mind, I think the response to victim support may not be helpful. Reminding a domestic violence victim of who they were before the manipulative relationship and encouraging them to imagine who they would like to be may be infinitely more productive. It’s also clear to me that the after care for victims is clearly not enough. They are cycled out of support services and quickly expected to turn their lives around without ever addressing the damage done to their minds. It is a problem.
But as I continued with the work elements became alarmingly relevant to my work situation within law enforcement.
My work instills an absolute fear of the outside world to keep their workers. Things I have heard concerning my desire to leave include, “You can’t leave! What will you do?” “You won’t be able to earn as much money outside of this.” “What about insurance?” “What about your child? How will you pay for his school?” “How will you take care of your child?” This tactic is so pervasive, the average life expectancy of a police officer is 63. That means that when someone leaves the department, their lives are in fact over. And only about 5% of officers die by suicide or in the line of duty. They just die. Usually just after retiring.
Another thing I’ve observed is the constant barrage of depreciation. “You are replaceable,” is the pervasive mantra of many officers. I myself have been constantly told that I am unworthy and not good enough; even though I have done everything asked of me and earned awards for my service. This is a common tactic of cults to dangle rewards and praise while keeping up an onslaught of degradation. The victim keeps pushing themselves to meet unrealistic goals for a few morsels of praise.
Interestingly enough malignant cults use sleep deprivation, and food deprivation, and long hours of labor without rest periods, to effectively reduce the cognitive functions of their victims. I have worked 12-18 hour days for 22 days in a row with work so grueling I had to purposely dehydrate myself so I would not have to use the bathroom. Eating was a luxury - there simply wasn’t time.
Finally, cults put the blame on the victim. If you are unable to meet their standards, you are the one who is weak and flawed. “Make this job work for you,” I am told over and over again. Well, I can’t. So, I’m the one who is worthless. I’m the one who is broken. I’m a lazy coward. I’m to blame. It’s my fault.
For the record, I don’t think I’m in a cult. But it is cult-like and my organization IS absolutely effectively using mind control tactics.
If we truly want police reform, perhaps getting rid of these dangerous mind control tactics which have become the standard in law enforcement is a place to start.
I listened to the audiobook version of Steven Hassan’s Combatting Mind Control. I was interested in the book because I thought it would help me understand and thus be in a better position to help victims of domestic violence. The author even relates in this book that domestic abusers are absolutely using mind control tactics on their victims. With that in mind, I think the response to victim support may not be helpful. Reminding a domestic violence victim of who they were before the manipulative relationship and encouraging them to imagine who they would like to be may be infinitely more productive. It’s also clear to me that the after care for victims is clearly not enough. They are cycled out of support services and quickly expected to turn their lives around without ever addressing the damage done to their minds. It is a problem.
But as I continued with the work elements became alarmingly relevant to my work situation within law enforcement.
My work instills an absolute fear of the outside world to keep their workers. Things I have heard concerning my desire to leave include, “You can’t leave! What will you do?” “You won’t be able to earn as much money outside of this.” “What about insurance?” “What about your child? How will you pay for his school?” “How will you take care of your child?” This tactic is so pervasive, the average life expectancy of a police officer is 63. That means that when someone leaves the department, their lives are in fact over. And only about 5% of officers die by suicide or in the line of duty. They just die. Usually just after retiring.
Another thing I’ve observed is the constant barrage of depreciation. “You are replaceable,” is the pervasive mantra of many officers. I myself have been constantly told that I am unworthy and not good enough; even though I have done everything asked of me and earned awards for my service. This is a common tactic of cults to dangle rewards and praise while keeping up an onslaught of degradation. The victim keeps pushing themselves to meet unrealistic goals for a few morsels of praise.
Interestingly enough malignant cults use sleep deprivation, and food deprivation, and long hours of labor without rest periods, to effectively reduce the cognitive functions of their victims. I have worked 12-18 hour days for 22 days in a row with work so grueling I had to purposely dehydrate myself so I would not have to use the bathroom. Eating was a luxury - there simply wasn’t time.
Finally, cults put the blame on the victim. If you are unable to meet their standards, you are the one who is weak and flawed. “Make this job work for you,” I am told over and over again. Well, I can’t. So, I’m the one who is worthless. I’m the one who is broken. I’m a lazy coward. I’m to blame. It’s my fault.
For the record, I don’t think I’m in a cult. But it is cult-like and my organization IS absolutely effectively using mind control tactics.
If we truly want police reform, perhaps getting rid of these dangerous mind control tactics which have become the standard in law enforcement is a place to start.
December 17, 2022
First, my Official Rating. In my view, given what the author aimed for, to what degree was that accomplished?
Steven Hassan has written such a superb how-to, it has become (to my knowledge) The Definitive Guide to exiting cults.
Now, I'll follow up with a review that shares a second kind of rating, my Personal Rating. Here's where I'll give a second number of stars according to my current opinion... and my personal values. *****
Personally, Oboy! Do I Ever Have Good Reason
To Be Grateful to Mr. Hassan for this Superb Book
Is it possible to fall into cult mind control and not know it?
Heck, that's standard! No cult that I've ever heard of makes a candid announcement to all newcomers, "Warning: This is a cult."
Exiting a Cult Works. Leaving a Cult Doesn't.
"Combatting Cult Mind Control" will show you the difference, and not just as some theoretical exercise. Steven Hassan can help you to truly EXIT that former cult you've belonged to.
His. Approach. Works.
Look, since 1991, I've been free from a cult that had consumed my entire adult life... up to that point.
Over the years I've been in touch with some of my former cult friends. (Not that we called ourselves that.)
Tragically, I've seen a classic pattern, a pattern first pointed out to me when I read this magnificent, compassionate book by Steven Hassan.
Cult Members Who Quit... Wind up Joining a Similar Cult.
Usually One that's Even Worse.
Friends don't let friends stay in cults without offering them some help.
Might I suggest? Give this book to friends you know who are so very proud of their "Movement."
At a minimum, you'll be planting a seed. Much like my late mother, who never dared to discuss directly my slavish allegiance to Maharishi and his TM. But in her zany way she planted a seed through a rare malopropism.
Although I used to refer to TM, what did Mom always call it? MT.
Steven Hassan has written such a superb how-to, it has become (to my knowledge) The Definitive Guide to exiting cults.
Now, I'll follow up with a review that shares a second kind of rating, my Personal Rating. Here's where I'll give a second number of stars according to my current opinion... and my personal values. *****
Personally, Oboy! Do I Ever Have Good Reason
To Be Grateful to Mr. Hassan for this Superb Book
Is it possible to fall into cult mind control and not know it?
Heck, that's standard! No cult that I've ever heard of makes a candid announcement to all newcomers, "Warning: This is a cult."
Exiting a Cult Works. Leaving a Cult Doesn't.
"Combatting Cult Mind Control" will show you the difference, and not just as some theoretical exercise. Steven Hassan can help you to truly EXIT that former cult you've belonged to.
His. Approach. Works.
Look, since 1991, I've been free from a cult that had consumed my entire adult life... up to that point.
Over the years I've been in touch with some of my former cult friends. (Not that we called ourselves that.)
Tragically, I've seen a classic pattern, a pattern first pointed out to me when I read this magnificent, compassionate book by Steven Hassan.
Cult Members Who Quit... Wind up Joining a Similar Cult.
Usually One that's Even Worse.
Friends don't let friends stay in cults without offering them some help.
Might I suggest? Give this book to friends you know who are so very proud of their "Movement."
At a minimum, you'll be planting a seed. Much like my late mother, who never dared to discuss directly my slavish allegiance to Maharishi and his TM. But in her zany way she planted a seed through a rare malopropism.
Although I used to refer to TM, what did Mom always call it? MT.
April 22, 2021
Excellent overview of how cults operate. Some information is quite dated (and narrowly focused on adult indoctrination), but that's to be expected with a book written in 1990. Even Hassan himself has evolved his understanding since its publication. However, this book has helped countless individuals who have been subjected to cult indoctrination or have had family and friends in such situations. It reminds us that we're all capable of being influenced by unscrupulous forces, and we're also capable of taking that control back with the right help.
May 26, 2021
Valuable. Useful. Horrifying. I recommend this book.
October 5, 2017
Combating Cult Mind Control
2016 Edition
It was harder than anticipated to find a book on cults and cult recovery. The information is largely scattered in biographic anecdotal books, there being a dearth of information from the professional psychology community. This is one of the points Steve Hassan makes, thus he became one of the foremost experts on cult influence and escaping entrapment.
A little background. Well documented research on mind control goes back to Nazi Germany and particularly Mao’s China with their efforts to reeducate and control populations. The terms brain-washing, thought reform, propaganda, thought termination and totalism come from this era. Interviews by Jay Lifton of US soldiers who had been held captive during the Korean War yielded the seminal book on this subject back in 1961, (Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism: A Study of "Brainwashing" in China) but for whatever reasons this did not lead to widespread recognition and standardized treatment of such abuses in the general population. In fact interventions in the mid 20th century were crude and forced. “Deprogramming” was typically begun with a kidnaping of the cult member followed by various types of coersive deconversion. While this worked in many cases it was a painful, perhaps psychologically damaging process that reinforced exactly what the cults taught members—that outside family and friends were enemies who would treat them in such forceful and cruel manners. Religious cults could take this one step further, invoking demons, devils and the enmity of God. Post-traumatic stress became common, a result of both the cult experience and the deprogramming.
Hassan was a Moonie, a member of Sun Myung Moon’s Unification Church. He escaped after an injury created the access for his family to intervene, separating him from the group long enough to allow him to question what he had been taught. He eventually became a cult-escape consultant, including work helping those whom he had originally recruited to Moon’s organization.
The scope of this book is impressive, covering everything from being taken in to post-escape recovery. He explains the intentions of mind-control cults (he prefers the term “undue influence”), the thoughts of those within innocently recruiting the next victims, and most importantly how those within are often unable to escape. Being put into the shoes of a believer you will no longer doubt the strength of influencers, or our susceptibility to being influenced.
The book is missing one important issue—the question of overlap between cult and religion—though he does speak of religious cults. I remain on the lookout for such a book.
For the reader who truly wants to understand cult I recommend this book followed by Lawrence Wright’s “Going Clear.” Also consider Sam Brower’s “Prophet’s Prey.”
2016 Edition
It was harder than anticipated to find a book on cults and cult recovery. The information is largely scattered in biographic anecdotal books, there being a dearth of information from the professional psychology community. This is one of the points Steve Hassan makes, thus he became one of the foremost experts on cult influence and escaping entrapment.
A little background. Well documented research on mind control goes back to Nazi Germany and particularly Mao’s China with their efforts to reeducate and control populations. The terms brain-washing, thought reform, propaganda, thought termination and totalism come from this era. Interviews by Jay Lifton of US soldiers who had been held captive during the Korean War yielded the seminal book on this subject back in 1961, (Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism: A Study of "Brainwashing" in China) but for whatever reasons this did not lead to widespread recognition and standardized treatment of such abuses in the general population. In fact interventions in the mid 20th century were crude and forced. “Deprogramming” was typically begun with a kidnaping of the cult member followed by various types of coersive deconversion. While this worked in many cases it was a painful, perhaps psychologically damaging process that reinforced exactly what the cults taught members—that outside family and friends were enemies who would treat them in such forceful and cruel manners. Religious cults could take this one step further, invoking demons, devils and the enmity of God. Post-traumatic stress became common, a result of both the cult experience and the deprogramming.
Hassan was a Moonie, a member of Sun Myung Moon’s Unification Church. He escaped after an injury created the access for his family to intervene, separating him from the group long enough to allow him to question what he had been taught. He eventually became a cult-escape consultant, including work helping those whom he had originally recruited to Moon’s organization.
The scope of this book is impressive, covering everything from being taken in to post-escape recovery. He explains the intentions of mind-control cults (he prefers the term “undue influence”), the thoughts of those within innocently recruiting the next victims, and most importantly how those within are often unable to escape. Being put into the shoes of a believer you will no longer doubt the strength of influencers, or our susceptibility to being influenced.
The book is missing one important issue—the question of overlap between cult and religion—though he does speak of religious cults. I remain on the lookout for such a book.
For the reader who truly wants to understand cult I recommend this book followed by Lawrence Wright’s “Going Clear.” Also consider Sam Brower’s “Prophet’s Prey.”
December 14, 2015
We are all vulnerable to indoctrination, either directly or indirectly. Directly: almost anyone can be indoctrinated under the right circumstances, even if most of us are lucky enough to only face such circumstances rarely, if at all.
Indirectly: the threat posed to civilization by destructive mind control is much broader, and can be properly called existential. Consider the middle-class professional who suddenly becomes "radicalized", a once mild-mannered neighbor is now a thug, ready at any moment, if tapped by his superiors, to blow himself up for Allah. Or for unborn babies. Or for socialism. Or whatever. We ignore these victims -- and yes, they are victims, whether or not they also become perpetrators -- at our peril.
This book will thoroughly convince you that the dark practices of mind control are not random but strikingly homogenous, having been coldly developed and refined by their practitioners - who themselves come in clerical, civilian and military flavours, among others.
This book lays claim to the beginnings of what may one day become a fully developed science of deprogramming (although the author doesn't like to use that specific word) for the victims of mind control. Mind control is itself a difficult term for what goes on in destructive groups, because it seems to strip away agency from those who get involved in practices that should, in many (but by no means all) cases be rightly condemned and punished. Still, there's evidence that this is at least in some ways a valid lens that explains how people of any level of prior education and intelligence can suddenly become closed off, glassy-eyed and ready to throw away everything for reasons that seem elusive to even their closest friends and family. Most importantly, it seems to actually work, and its author claims that he has succeeded in rescuing hundreds of victims from every kind of emotional prison, including religious cults, human trafficking rings, and political guerrilla squads. Let's hope for humanity's sake that these methods get further refined, accepted and taught broadly to health professionals and laypeople everywhere.
Indirectly: the threat posed to civilization by destructive mind control is much broader, and can be properly called existential. Consider the middle-class professional who suddenly becomes "radicalized", a once mild-mannered neighbor is now a thug, ready at any moment, if tapped by his superiors, to blow himself up for Allah. Or for unborn babies. Or for socialism. Or whatever. We ignore these victims -- and yes, they are victims, whether or not they also become perpetrators -- at our peril.
This book will thoroughly convince you that the dark practices of mind control are not random but strikingly homogenous, having been coldly developed and refined by their practitioners - who themselves come in clerical, civilian and military flavours, among others.
This book lays claim to the beginnings of what may one day become a fully developed science of deprogramming (although the author doesn't like to use that specific word) for the victims of mind control. Mind control is itself a difficult term for what goes on in destructive groups, because it seems to strip away agency from those who get involved in practices that should, in many (but by no means all) cases be rightly condemned and punished. Still, there's evidence that this is at least in some ways a valid lens that explains how people of any level of prior education and intelligence can suddenly become closed off, glassy-eyed and ready to throw away everything for reasons that seem elusive to even their closest friends and family. Most importantly, it seems to actually work, and its author claims that he has succeeded in rescuing hundreds of victims from every kind of emotional prison, including religious cults, human trafficking rings, and political guerrilla squads. Let's hope for humanity's sake that these methods get further refined, accepted and taught broadly to health professionals and laypeople everywhere.
June 13, 2009
this book helped change my perspective and learn my way out of my upbringing.
July 11, 2025
Yes!! Justo esto le faltaba al libro anterior que reseñé, el reconocimiento de que algunas creencias, por muy tradicionales y autóctonas que sean, pueden ser parte de grupos coercitivos o fomentar el pensamiento mágico que te hace aún más vulnerable.
Pero ambos (este libro y el anterior que reseñé, el de Decolonizing Therapy) están de acuerdo en que un factor protector anti sectas es una comunidad sólida y saludable que permita la expresión de dudas, el respeto y la autonomía. Especialmente la autonomía.
Esta edición es viejita, tal vez valga la pena leer la más reciente.
Por cierto, este libro describe bien el OTDE-2. Es justo esto.
Pero ambos (este libro y el anterior que reseñé, el de Decolonizing Therapy) están de acuerdo en que un factor protector anti sectas es una comunidad sólida y saludable que permita la expresión de dudas, el respeto y la autonomía. Especialmente la autonomía.
Esta edición es viejita, tal vez valga la pena leer la más reciente.
Por cierto, este libro describe bien el OTDE-2. Es justo esto.
October 21, 2023
So so good, and so important!!! I recognized my family of origin and prior religion throughout the book (Baptist, Bill Gothard, Mennonite, SIM missionary, etc). I knew it, but it’s always affirming to have it reinforced in my mind.
This book also has excellent tips on how to help others get out of mind controlling organizations.
This book also has excellent tips on how to help others get out of mind controlling organizations.
June 8, 2023
This book is a must read for two types of people:
1. ANY mental health professional -- more people than you realize are impacted by mind control. If you don't understand its unique attributes, you won't be able to help them in the way they really need. OR, you may end up causing more harm than good through your lack of awareness.
2. Anyone in recovery from mind control -- Steve Hassan talks about the "spectrum of control," with cults operating at the far end of the spectrum. Even if you weren't in a organized "cult," you have still experienced a unique type of trauma if you've experienced mind control. This book will help you make sense of your experience.
I think Steve addressing the rise of "mini cults" is incredibly important. A mini cult could be a family, an intimate partnership, or a pimp and his victims.
While the churches I was raised in probably wouldn't be classified as a "cult," my mom created a mini cult in our family by homeschooling us with a faith-based curriculum, disconnecting our TV and not allowing access to any mainstream media, controlling our behavior in very specific ways and withholding her love when we did not follow "the rules."
I am now a mental health therapist who specializes in helping people "de-doctrinate" from oppressive religious experiences. This book will be a resource I turn to time and time again!
1. ANY mental health professional -- more people than you realize are impacted by mind control. If you don't understand its unique attributes, you won't be able to help them in the way they really need. OR, you may end up causing more harm than good through your lack of awareness.
2. Anyone in recovery from mind control -- Steve Hassan talks about the "spectrum of control," with cults operating at the far end of the spectrum. Even if you weren't in a organized "cult," you have still experienced a unique type of trauma if you've experienced mind control. This book will help you make sense of your experience.
I think Steve addressing the rise of "mini cults" is incredibly important. A mini cult could be a family, an intimate partnership, or a pimp and his victims.
While the churches I was raised in probably wouldn't be classified as a "cult," my mom created a mini cult in our family by homeschooling us with a faith-based curriculum, disconnecting our TV and not allowing access to any mainstream media, controlling our behavior in very specific ways and withholding her love when we did not follow "the rules."
I am now a mental health therapist who specializes in helping people "de-doctrinate" from oppressive religious experiences. This book will be a resource I turn to time and time again!
April 6, 2020
(This is the 2nd time I've read this book. I recommend the 30 year anniversary edition which is updated)
This is an excellent resource for anyone who has been a member of a destructive cult; has a family member or friend in one; is worried about a family member or friend getting close to one; or for general education and preparedness about a phenomenon that most people have been or will be affected by.
Lots of people are recruited into destructive cults. You can probably name 1 person you know who was, or is presently, in one. The reason cults are so prevalent is because people don't know what they are or how they operate. Mind Control tactics, which became scientific around the 1950s to 1960s, can be employed to change your personality. With the right timing, anyone can be seduced into a mind control relationship.
I was recruited by a destructive cult. Lyndon LaRouche Presidential campaign. I was a member from 1999-2011. I didn't know, consciously, I was in a cult that entire time, though friends and family attempted to inform me. It didn't dawn on me until 4 months after escaping that group, when this book was sent to me. My wife at the time and I both read this, then, and it blew our minds. "What?" we thought, "Everything in here Hassan says are tactics of a destructive cult, LaRouche did!!"
Things like convincing you that:
Family and friends are enemies to progress of your mission or belief
The leader is the only one who has the truth. Everyone else is unaware
An intense language known only to the membership, usually coded, which members use
Heavy pressure to not communicate with former members
Heavy pressure and negativity associated with leaving (you will lose your creativity, your soul, your integrity, your value, your purpose, etc)
A limited source of information to the outside world, all provided or censored by the group itself
How does anyone, like me, get into such an oppressive group environment to begin with? Hassan, a former Moonie cult member himself, and for the last decades an experienced cult-exit counselor, does a clear study, with many informative case examples, to show how it happens to individuals and families from all walks and places.
In my case, I was young, rebellious, politically charged, idealistic, sexually confused, depressed, and lonely (most 19 year olds can relate to at least 3 of those). I was searching for community of like minded people. LaRouche spoke to many of these issues in me. He lit up my mind with answers and viewpoints I'd been looking for. And I was willing to accept the things I was unsure of, to gain the benefits of joining such an idealistic cause. Next, I was asserting things I'd never read or thought much about for myself. The adrenaline, the high stakes, the urgency of saving the world, and the idea that the reason I was so lonely and alienated BEFORE meeting LaRouche, was because the society was fundamentally perverted, this all roped me into a lifelong commitment. I imagined myself doing that, without a doubt, until I died.
I attacked my family, lost previous friendships, accepted making little to no money for overtime weekly hours, declined dating or forming friends who were not members of the campaign, all this while believing I, we, had the only solution to an impending collapse of the global financial system. I would save us all!!
Anyways, my former wife and I, thank God, broke out. We have each recovered from that. It's painful for anyone to do this. And painful for the family as well. Me, slowly, have put the pieces of what happened together. I have learned a lot about group psychology, human vulnerability, mind control, delusion, and recovery. I read this book now for the second time, to revisit the issues, and check up again on my mental health and where I am with the whole thing. It was well worth reading.
The best thing to do to avoid cults is be informed how they operate. If you're a parent of teenagers, I'd read this book. Not unlikely it will come in handy. If not for your own kids, maybe for your kids' friends. And if you know someone in a cult, there's no shame in it! Get people involved, get professional help, get educated. Dont be embarrassed or worried that, oh what will people think of me if they know my (kid, spouse, partner, sibling) joined a cult!? It's unfortunately common, and we all can help each other, and grow stronger, in the process.
This is an excellent resource for anyone who has been a member of a destructive cult; has a family member or friend in one; is worried about a family member or friend getting close to one; or for general education and preparedness about a phenomenon that most people have been or will be affected by.
Lots of people are recruited into destructive cults. You can probably name 1 person you know who was, or is presently, in one. The reason cults are so prevalent is because people don't know what they are or how they operate. Mind Control tactics, which became scientific around the 1950s to 1960s, can be employed to change your personality. With the right timing, anyone can be seduced into a mind control relationship.
I was recruited by a destructive cult. Lyndon LaRouche Presidential campaign. I was a member from 1999-2011. I didn't know, consciously, I was in a cult that entire time, though friends and family attempted to inform me. It didn't dawn on me until 4 months after escaping that group, when this book was sent to me. My wife at the time and I both read this, then, and it blew our minds. "What?" we thought, "Everything in here Hassan says are tactics of a destructive cult, LaRouche did!!"
Things like convincing you that:
Family and friends are enemies to progress of your mission or belief
The leader is the only one who has the truth. Everyone else is unaware
An intense language known only to the membership, usually coded, which members use
Heavy pressure to not communicate with former members
Heavy pressure and negativity associated with leaving (you will lose your creativity, your soul, your integrity, your value, your purpose, etc)
A limited source of information to the outside world, all provided or censored by the group itself
How does anyone, like me, get into such an oppressive group environment to begin with? Hassan, a former Moonie cult member himself, and for the last decades an experienced cult-exit counselor, does a clear study, with many informative case examples, to show how it happens to individuals and families from all walks and places.
In my case, I was young, rebellious, politically charged, idealistic, sexually confused, depressed, and lonely (most 19 year olds can relate to at least 3 of those). I was searching for community of like minded people. LaRouche spoke to many of these issues in me. He lit up my mind with answers and viewpoints I'd been looking for. And I was willing to accept the things I was unsure of, to gain the benefits of joining such an idealistic cause. Next, I was asserting things I'd never read or thought much about for myself. The adrenaline, the high stakes, the urgency of saving the world, and the idea that the reason I was so lonely and alienated BEFORE meeting LaRouche, was because the society was fundamentally perverted, this all roped me into a lifelong commitment. I imagined myself doing that, without a doubt, until I died.
I attacked my family, lost previous friendships, accepted making little to no money for overtime weekly hours, declined dating or forming friends who were not members of the campaign, all this while believing I, we, had the only solution to an impending collapse of the global financial system. I would save us all!!
Anyways, my former wife and I, thank God, broke out. We have each recovered from that. It's painful for anyone to do this. And painful for the family as well. Me, slowly, have put the pieces of what happened together. I have learned a lot about group psychology, human vulnerability, mind control, delusion, and recovery. I read this book now for the second time, to revisit the issues, and check up again on my mental health and where I am with the whole thing. It was well worth reading.
The best thing to do to avoid cults is be informed how they operate. If you're a parent of teenagers, I'd read this book. Not unlikely it will come in handy. If not for your own kids, maybe for your kids' friends. And if you know someone in a cult, there's no shame in it! Get people involved, get professional help, get educated. Dont be embarrassed or worried that, oh what will people think of me if they know my (kid, spouse, partner, sibling) joined a cult!? It's unfortunately common, and we all can help each other, and grow stronger, in the process.
July 10, 2020
The only thing I liked was the BITE model. I think it's actually really really good.
Hassan's a hypocrite. One of the ways he identifies cults is that they often believe that "the means justifies the ends" and goes on and on about how this is a bad mentality to have (agree with him so far). THEN, he gets families to kidnap cult members, where he can force them to undergo 'deprogramming'.
This is wrong! How does he know that the deprogrammed individual is truly deprogrammed and not suffering from a form of Stockholm's syndrome?
He makes it seem like deprogramming people like this is moral like this:
Hassan says that cult members are afraid of deprogrammers, I mean, there's absolutely nothing terrifying about having someone kidnap you with the goal to change all your beliefs. He says that cult members believe that deprogrammers are evil; they'll sexually and physically abuse you in order to change your mind. Since he doesn't sexually and physically abuse them, then therefore cult members' fears are unfounded--irrational. This still involves kidnapping! Just because it could be worse, doesn't mean it's not f*cking awful! Damn, this whole book is a logical fallacy.
The science throughout is questionable, though I cannot say for certain whether it's actually good or bad. He's spoken about Freud and evoked one of his theories as an explanation for legitimate 'mind control'. 99% of Freud's theories are BS, though I know there is that 1% that is legitimate, and don't know whether the one he mentioned in this book falls under than 1%. I'm skeptical of the whole trance-like states etc. Again, I am not qualified enough to judge the scientific backing, but know enough to question what he says.
Urgh I just feel scammed for actually having to pay for this book so I'm going to return it.
Hassan's a hypocrite. One of the ways he identifies cults is that they often believe that "the means justifies the ends" and goes on and on about how this is a bad mentality to have (agree with him so far). THEN, he gets families to kidnap cult members, where he can force them to undergo 'deprogramming'.
This is wrong! How does he know that the deprogrammed individual is truly deprogrammed and not suffering from a form of Stockholm's syndrome?
He makes it seem like deprogramming people like this is moral like this:
Hassan says that cult members are afraid of deprogrammers, I mean, there's absolutely nothing terrifying about having someone kidnap you with the goal to change all your beliefs. He says that cult members believe that deprogrammers are evil; they'll sexually and physically abuse you in order to change your mind. Since he doesn't sexually and physically abuse them, then therefore cult members' fears are unfounded--irrational. This still involves kidnapping! Just because it could be worse, doesn't mean it's not f*cking awful! Damn, this whole book is a logical fallacy.
The science throughout is questionable, though I cannot say for certain whether it's actually good or bad. He's spoken about Freud and evoked one of his theories as an explanation for legitimate 'mind control'. 99% of Freud's theories are BS, though I know there is that 1% that is legitimate, and don't know whether the one he mentioned in this book falls under than 1%. I'm skeptical of the whole trance-like states etc. Again, I am not qualified enough to judge the scientific backing, but know enough to question what he says.
Urgh I just feel scammed for actually having to pay for this book so I'm going to return it.
May 16, 2012
I've purchased this book as a 'self help' in recognising how mind control has been used emotionally, mentally and spiritually in my life. Although a lot of the 'examples' are given from the authors experience with 'The Moonies' this isn't a book merely for those who have been in such recognisable and extreme 'cult' movements.
What I have found, especially in the sections explaining mind control and the manipulative ways it is harnessed, is that I've been able to recognise and identify ways I have been influenced by them. In recognising, checklisting and facing up to the fact these techniques have been used to control and manipulate, I can then start to move on and heal in positive ways.
Sometimes we need more than just time and a mental attitude of moving forward from the 'movement' you have come out of. Because the fact remains that abuse has taken place, that that abuse has affected you in many ways and on many 'levels'. Different people move on in different ways and mine has come to learning through people who have been through similar circumstances, people who have took time and effort to pass on their 'wisdom' with an open outlook. It also helps to recognise that this goes even in this day and age when it is possible people think they are immune to such ideas.
A great help for those who have been in a 'cult' or abusive 'church' and also for the families outside of it with concerns for their loved ones
What I have found, especially in the sections explaining mind control and the manipulative ways it is harnessed, is that I've been able to recognise and identify ways I have been influenced by them. In recognising, checklisting and facing up to the fact these techniques have been used to control and manipulate, I can then start to move on and heal in positive ways.
Sometimes we need more than just time and a mental attitude of moving forward from the 'movement' you have come out of. Because the fact remains that abuse has taken place, that that abuse has affected you in many ways and on many 'levels'. Different people move on in different ways and mine has come to learning through people who have been through similar circumstances, people who have took time and effort to pass on their 'wisdom' with an open outlook. It also helps to recognise that this goes even in this day and age when it is possible people think they are immune to such ideas.
A great help for those who have been in a 'cult' or abusive 'church' and also for the families outside of it with concerns for their loved ones
January 12, 2009
I have had this book for awhile and just finished it. With thousands of cults in America, this is a great resource. The only thing lacking in this book, is that Hassen does not address SGA (Second generation Adult) members of cults, but he corrects that in his later books and there are other good books now on that as well. I think many people do not realize the need to study and be aware of mind control but understanding its mechanisms and how humans can become slaves to an ideology and organization is worth the time to become aware. This book does a great job of that, as Hassans describes own experience entering, participating and finally being deprogrammed (forcefully) from the Moonies. He does not advocate that approach but is able to help people think for themselves which is the biggest part of cult rescue. SGA's have it much harder as they have no pre-cult identity and so the challenge of rescue and recovery is huge. Hassan does a great job of showing how very intelligent people never believe they are in or could be victims of a cult and that cults reject dummies, they want to recruit intelligent and well rounded people for their cause, breaking the stereo-types of who cult members are. This is a great read and his many examples are entertaining.
June 25, 2013
The TomKat divorce, scientology and recent experiences prompted me to read this. Informative and Very interesting (and scary) to think how many people are manipulated into joining these groups.
I wish more families/friends had the perseverance, strength and knowledge needed to rescue someone from these groups so that these cults would eventually die out.
I wish more families/friends had the perseverance, strength and knowledge needed to rescue someone from these groups so that these cults would eventually die out.
December 15, 2022
¿Hasta dónde debemos confiarnos de los grupos religiosos, afectivos y comerciales a los que nos unimos? ¿Dónde termina la libertad de seguir un líder o un ideal y comienza el control mental? Todo queda explicado en esta maravillosa obra de Steven Hassan. Imperdible.
May 22, 2025
Cult life as a reality in 80s/90s America is an interesting topic that is worth your time to read about.
March 11, 2020
Fascinating book! Ever since the Trump nightmare I have been trying to understand the cult follower mind more and this completely helps!
August 3, 2020
Cults and all things related are a special interest of mine, and Hassan's seminal (but well updated) tome is probably the most detailed and thorough book I've read.
The topics range from Hassan's personal experience, summarizing cult tactics, how to oppose them and then other points of concern still highly relevant right this second in 2020.
I recommend this book to anyone like me interested, and most definitely for anyone concerned about or working in the area. Something that stood out is that Hassan poses a range of questions for people to confront whether a group they are in, or linked to could be considered a cult. The questions while confronting are non-judgmental and honest and are useful ways of discussing the topic.
What I did find disturbing is Hassan's points about cults and political power. Due to their nature cults are often politically powerful (e.g. they often are made up of large numbers of people who have the time and motivation to act politically, which is intimidating to politicians) and economically strong (due to ripping off their members). This explains why cults are often protected and/or perhaps not as confronted on a state level, despite being potentially incredibly destructive and problematic.
Overall a scary but good read.
The topics range from Hassan's personal experience, summarizing cult tactics, how to oppose them and then other points of concern still highly relevant right this second in 2020.
I recommend this book to anyone like me interested, and most definitely for anyone concerned about or working in the area. Something that stood out is that Hassan poses a range of questions for people to confront whether a group they are in, or linked to could be considered a cult. The questions while confronting are non-judgmental and honest and are useful ways of discussing the topic.
What I did find disturbing is Hassan's points about cults and political power. Due to their nature cults are often politically powerful (e.g. they often are made up of large numbers of people who have the time and motivation to act politically, which is intimidating to politicians) and economically strong (due to ripping off their members). This explains why cults are often protected and/or perhaps not as confronted on a state level, despite being potentially incredibly destructive and problematic.
Overall a scary but good read.
November 30, 2025
When Steve Hassan broke his leg in an automobile accident, his parents took the opportunity to persuade him, with some difficulty, to leave the Unification Church (“Moonies” is the term he uses throughout). His subsequent life has been dedicated to getting others out of similar predicaments, chipping away at the manufactured cult personality to reach the original person submerged beneath. His argument is that destructive cults control behaviour, information, thought and emotion to ensure members are subservient to them.
It always takes me a long time to read non-fiction because I bounce off and read up on things mentioned sometimes only in passing; here, because I am trying to write a work of fiction about cults, I also kept thinking about how I might apply my learning to my own work. While I’m not always completely sold on what he’s selling, or the way he writes it, there’s no doubting the expertise or the energy with which he communicates his points.
It always takes me a long time to read non-fiction because I bounce off and read up on things mentioned sometimes only in passing; here, because I am trying to write a work of fiction about cults, I also kept thinking about how I might apply my learning to my own work. While I’m not always completely sold on what he’s selling, or the way he writes it, there’s no doubting the expertise or the energy with which he communicates his points.
October 7, 2023
This book was written and published in the 1980s. And The principles, concepts, and vulnerabilities described in this book are as, or more, vital than ever—described by someone who has experienced all of them, both as a well known licensed psychologist and exit counselor and as a former cult member. In an age where leadership actively fans the fire of divisiveness to maintain power more than ever, and the prevalence of unregulated coercive persuasive psychology tactics built into social media platform and other algorithms, I’d say understanding and practicing mind control awareness and prevention for oneself is an essential skill to learn about and practice to protect one’s mental well being.
October 13, 2021
A fantastic starting point for understanding the use and abuse of undue influence and responding to mind control. Importantly in the most recent edition it expands on how these techniques are not just abused in religious groups but also in political and corporate settings. So even if you are not unfortunate enough to have been in or have close ones in a high control and highly manipulative group – or even relationship this book will be invaluable in helping you spot red flags and respond appropriately.
Significantly as well it shows the varieties of hypnotic techniques are abused to influence people and how hypnosis isn't just something that happens when a person swings a watch in front of a person.
For a convenient overview of his proposed model for identifying abusive groups see https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-c....
Significantly as well it shows the varieties of hypnotic techniques are abused to influence people and how hypnosis isn't just something that happens when a person swings a watch in front of a person.
For a convenient overview of his proposed model for identifying abusive groups see https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-c....
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