A beautiful history of the Argentinian tango, the poetic meanings behind each step, and its sociocultural significance. The author grounds the dance's history in early twentieth century Buenos Aires, where a flood of young immigrant men learned to dance to gain the attention of comparatively few women. These conditions shaped the postures and intentions of the dance.
"Tango evolved in a society where loneliness and isolation were the norm, where many people were forced to live on their own, and where attention and true intimacy were rare and precious. Naturally, then, Tango dancers chose the most intimate, personal, and perhaps even emotionally challenging position possible in which to dance. Tango dancers of the Golden Age danced with the shoulders parallel, and the centres of their bodies aligned. They danced heart to heart."
Maintaining this close embrace is prioritized above other technical considerations. Should the follow move in a way which the lead did not initiate, or the lead choose steps which would be uncomfortable for the follow, this would violate the partner's trust and respect, would "destroy the relationship between the two hearts" and thus "the whole meaning of the dance was lost". The two must move together as one.
In order to let the lead truly lead, a follow must "abandon the left-brain activity that normally keeps us safe" and entrust their safety to the lead. The follow must relinquish control and enter an "active meditative state" wherein the follow is fully focused on the lead: "the follower had to be able to trust the leader completely, and the leader needed constantly to deserve that trust." In turn, the lead was entrusted to choose movements that will be pleasant for the follower, express the music fully, look aesthetically pleasing, and make use of available space on the dance floor.
"The principle that one receives most pleasure by abandoning thoughts of one's own pleasure, and concentrating on giving pleasure to one's partner instead, is one that is familiar to students of Yogic and Taoist theories of relationships. With no apparent knowledge of these ancient spiritual traditions, Tango dancers discovered in the practicas and milongas of Buenos Aires that the best dance came not from focusing on one's own dancing pleasure, but from abandoning oneself into one's partner."
If you dance Tango or simply appreciate the dance, you will enjoy this short, sweet read. Denniston provides a nuanced understanding of many familiar sequences and dance traditions. Highly recommend!
"[Tango] offers an investigation of the nature of relationships, of the meaning of intimacy, and of what it is to be human and a social creature in a world that is often lonely and isolating. The great choreographic possibilities of Tango spring from the intimate connection between the two people dancing it."