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336 pages, Paperback
Published June 3, 2025
“As many experts in the coercive control space will tell you, nobody joins a cult.”
“It’s not a comfortable reality to acknowledge that anyone, given the right circumstances both internally and externally, could be susceptible to brainwashing.”
“Often, people have heard the most absurd, outlandish, shocking parts of the story, and then a chasm of logic and reason opens up between these sensationalised details and the real human victim on the other side. It’s easier to write off the victim, to dismiss that gap as unbridgeable. ‘I could never do that.’”
“By the point you might even consider that you might not be safe, it will be too late. It is a psychological and social pressure cooker. They’ve planted thought-stopping psychological traps and phobias into your brain so that by the time that you’re deeply uncomfortable, your capacity for critical thought has already been disabled.”
“And now, though I’m still continually healing, I believe I have some hard-won knowledge and perspective to be able to look back on the intentions and actions of my former self. To be able to listen to that young woman with much-needed empathy. But also to view her with enough critical distance to see each stage of my indoctrination more clearly. And now I see indoctrination for the systematic, psychologically complex process that it is.”
“I want to educate readers and assist in the battle for legislation and policy in Australia and overseas to protect people from being abused, trafficked and enslaved through cult operations. Spot treating cults is an uphill battle and it is increasingly recognised that high level safeguards need to be instilled to restrict cult activity and coercive control. Enhancing public understanding of the spectrum of coercive control is a step in the right direction.”
“An expanded definition of coercive control that includes high demand groups, with an intersectional approach that considers the unique vulnerabilities of individuals within these groups, will help create a shared understanding of how to progress. Only then can legislative and policy frameworks be judiciously updated with the inclusion of coercive control in cults in the legal frameworks that currently address domestic violence.”