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If Mr. Darcy had met Elizabeth Bennet in his beloved Derbyshire, would he have recognized her as the love of his life instead of dismissing her as someone “not handsome enough to tempt” him? This alteration of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice adds a little spirit, flirtation, and charm to everyone’s favorite characters. Early in the summer of 1811, Elizabeth Bennet travels to Derbyshire to help her aunt and uncle settle in as new owners of Saphrinbrooke. Elizabeth is soon introduced to the estate’s nearest Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy and his sister, Georgiana, who is suffering the results of a fateful trip to Ramsgate. Having endured several life tragedies herself, Elizabeth reaches out to the young lady of Pemberley. Under her radiant influence, both Darcy and Georgiana begin to look for help outside of themselves. To Refine Like Silver is a romantic and spiritual journey where more than one of our favorite Regency characters must learn to fully rely on God. Their trials bring depth to the beloved story, and Mr. Darcy ultimately learns that our trials do not define us; rather they refine us.

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First published October 3, 2014

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Jeanna Ellsworth

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Jeanna is a mother of three daughters, all of whom are well versed in all things Pride and Prejudice. She most definitely would say they are her best friends. She shares her best and worst days with them and they share theirs with her. She also proudly states she is the eighth of thirteen children. When she isn’t scrapbooking, quilting, or cooking, she is thoroughly ignoring her house for a few hours at a time in order to read yet another fan fiction novel. Somewhere between being a mom, a sister, a cook, and a best friend, she squeezes in three 12 hour shifts a week as a Registered Nurse in a Neurological ICU. She raises chickens, helps her daughter run a rabbitry, and gardens as much as she can. In all her still-under-forty years, she has never claimed to be as happy as she is now. Out of this mindset came a surge of creativity that simply had to be written down. Since she finished Mr. Darcy’s Promise, she has stated several times that she has gained something no one can take away from her; hope for her own Mr. Darcy. More than anything, she hopes to prepare her three best friends to look for their own Mr. Darcy and to settle for nothing less.

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September 25, 2015
Have you ever thought Pride and Prejudice would be so much better if it was written by an Evangelical Christian? No, me neither.

In the P&P what if Mr. Bennet was a minister before retiring when he inherits Longbourn. Trauma, horrendous trauma is abundant. And getting right with Jesus is the major plot point.


In this variation the Gardiners have inherited an estate in Derbyshire and Lizzy has accompanied them to help set it up. It is quickly revealed that Georgiana is deeply depressed (clinically depressed) from her experiences with Wickham. We further learn that Lizzy had suffered similarly.

Lizzie is full of bible quotes and sermons. She makes the guests at dinner sit through a long Grace. Of course Mr. Darcy is all but instantly in love with this devout young lady. She is full of bible passages and lectures of forgiveness. Its like Mary and with Lizzy's personality.

Of course she saves Georgiana and makes Darcy love her more. And through her Darcy is 'saved' as he becomes a devout Evangelical as well. Lizzie says there is good in everyone and we must learn to forgive people who have harmed us.


Now if the over the top proselytizing was the only problem with this book I could have dealt, but there are so many others. Mrs. Bennet is a mewling quim and Mr. Bennet says "she's good for the girls" is he nuts? She's beyond TOXIC. He should have packed her off to Bedlam and let his daughters be raised by wolves. This is a man of God? He's weak, spineless and worse than useless.

The title of the book refers to a Bible quote. Malachi 3:3 "He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver." So Annoying Evangelical Lizzy challenges Darcy to find out what this means. And to this end the author eventually has us sitting in a Hertfordshire Blacksmith's shop watching him refine silver,and this guy is smart. He knows the melting point of the various metals that contaminate silver in Celsius. Which is incredible because no one else in the world knew that...

Of course in the end forgiveness wins and the people all show their goodness and kindness and Good triumphs over evil

In the forward the author explains that she had suffered from depression and is a devout Christian. She has taken these experiences and applied them to Pride and Prejudice.



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October 19, 2014
This book is completely different to any other book I have read before. It is also very unique in the world of Jane Austen fan fiction and a really interesting take on Jane's beloved characters. They are taken on a very different journey than we know, but it was fascinating to see the characters we love given such a different journey and I really enjoyed it. What surprised me the most with this book was how much the story touched me as I read; this is a very spiritual book. It doesn't preach 'at' you, but many of the characters go on a spiritual journey, but it didn't feel like you were reading a sermon or being told what to do, it was very enlightening and sweet to follow the characters on their journeys. But more on this later!

As I said, the story and backgrounds to many characters, particularly the Bennet family, is very, very different. Elizabeth has had may trials to deal with in this story, but as a result she is an amazing character. She is so strong and positive. She has many of the good traits we love in Elizabeth, but they are magnified, as it were, because of her experiences. You can't help but love this Lizzy. She needs this extra strength of character as during the first half of the book she is a real help to both the Darcys, but in very different ways. How she helps them is amazing and a really wonderful journey to read and feel apart of. Of course, I mentioned Lizzy has had some horrible experiences in her past and they do come to haunt her in the second half of this book, but then it is lovely as the tables are turned and we see Darcy helping Lizzy! But I don't want to spoil all the good bits for you and give away the plot so you'll have to read it yourself for the details!

I don't know where to start with Darcy! He is such a charming character in this story. As Elizabeth meets him in Derbyshire, he is relaxed and at ease and they get off to a much better start, and immediately Darcy is interested in Elizabeth. You will love him! He is more flirty and fun and even quite bold and forward with Elizabeth! It was lovely to see the side of him we begin to see in canon at Pemberley and when they are engaged, right from the start. As well as the fun and flirtatious side, Darcy also goes on a journey through the story and you get to know him and his character really well. Watching him trying to deal with what has happened to Georgiana - which is much worse than in canon! - is heartbreaking and you feel so much compassion towards him. Seeing so many different sides to Darcy and his true nature means you can't help but love him! And as he falls more and more in love with Elizabeth he is just adorable.
And for me, Darcy's journey I found the most touching to read and follow.

Individually Darcy and Lizzy are brilliant characters in this tale, but their relationship together is just perfect. As I said, they meet in much better circumstances and get off to a better start and immediately like each other - Lizzy even claims that "He was going to be a good neighbour"! It is very different to hear Lizzy say as much about Mr Darcy straight away, but it is quite refreshing! They both start falling for each other very quickly and have such a delightful courtship - they are so flirtatious with each other and it is adorable! (For example when Lizzy asks "Are you calling me impertinent?", Darcy responds "Does it rain in England in November?" - I love it!) They quickly become very easy and open with each other as well, which is due to how Lizzy helps Darcy in this story. As I said, the spiritual aspect of this book is just great. Lizzy starts to teach the rather cynical Darcy, due to events in the recent past, about how to forgive and remember the past only as it gives you pleasure! It really was amazing watching how Lizzy helped him, and then how he helps Lizzy later on in the story. You will really love Lizzy and Darcy, I know you will!

The other major character in this story is Georgiana. It is hard to explain what she goes through without giving away the story, but poor Georgiana has suffered and is not coping well. Until Elizabeth comes along. Lizzy really has a task with helping bring Georgiana out of her saddened state.
Georgiana really is very altered and not in a good state, and so the journey she experiences is the most dramatic and I found myself very emotional involved in her journey and just willing her to become herself again. The relationship the two of them build up as a result is just wonderful and so... pleasing to read. Also, what was very sweet was how the relationship forming between Darcy and Lizzy helped Georgiana as she wished to see her brother happy. When the three of them were together it made for some of my favourite scenes!

As I said, this is sort of a book in two halves, and in the second half the past comes back to torture poor Lizzy, but luckily Darcy is around to help! Again, I don't want to give away all the juicy details but suffice to say that seeing Darcy help Lizzy in a similar way to how she helped him was really lovely and really seems to strengthen their relationship. Ok, a word of warning, you will not like Mrs Bennet. At all. But just roll with it! Mr Bennet had an interesting alteration, being an ex-clergyman, and he had a really interesting roll throughout the story and I liked this twist to his character.

Where would we be without Mr Wickham! He makes plenty of appearances and... well let's just say there are some surprising and... moving situations and conversions involving him.

While Bingley never let Netherfield, he meets Lizzy (and his Jane!) in Derbyshire and is as amiable as we expect! We also get to see more of his almost brotherly relationship with Darcy which was nice. However, don't even get me started on Caroline Bingley who still manages to cause problems! She is not at all happy with this Miss Bennet who seems to have caught Darcy's eye and she does all in her power to get her out of the picture and made me very angry in the process! But, she receives her due, eventually, and that is all I shall say on the matter!

I mentioned the spiritual theme to this book and how it touched me and affected me reading it, not only due to the characters' journeys, but also on a personal level. What I was delighted to find when I got to the end of the book was a section entitled 'Darcy's Prayer Book'; in the story Elizabeth gives Darcy a prayer book which she has written of praises to help her which she feels will help him in a similar way to overcome his struggles, and he copies some of her prayer book into one of his own. Many of her little mottos she lives her life by were great and important for everyone to remember, and I had wished I had jotted some of them down as I read, and so when I found the prayer book nicely printed for me at the end I was thrilled! It is a lovely addition and the perfect ending to such a touching and emotional story.

One last thing I must mention is Jeanna's wonderful talent with metaphors which is aways a brilliant running theme through her stories - it is very unique as I have never come across anything similar. In this story, as suggested by the title, the ongoing metaphor is about refining silver, and how the process of refining ourselves is similar. Darcy spends the book listening to Lizzy's clues about it and works to find out the full meaning behind this metaphor and it is just brilliant. I won't give it away as it is so great to see it unfold through the story, and how a variety of different characters are refined through the story! I always love this aspect to Jeanna's novels.

As you can see, this is a very different and unique book. It is emotionally very touching and I was completely drawn into it as I read. It was a book where reaching the 'happy ending' - and not just for Lizzy and Darcy - has never felt more satisfying!
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January 23, 2018
I read most of this story as a WIP on a blog but never read the ending. I did buy the book and now have read it completely through. This is a romantic Christian take-off of P&P. There are numerous prayers and sermonettes shared throughout the story. The title is taken from a Bible verse: Malachi 3:3.

Fitzwilliam Darcy, Elizabeth Bennet, Mrs. Bennet, Mr. Bennet, Georgiana Darcy, Caroline Bingley and George Wickham are all part of the focus to interpret that verse's meaning in life's struggles.

This story is not an echo of canon; although you can see from the list of names that the characters are still with us. Darcy and Elizabeth fall in love rather easily when she travels with her aunt and uncle to organize and manage a newly inherited estate in Derbyshire, which borders on Pemberley.

As the neighbors begin to know each other and visit back and forth family histories come into play and certain players not only take great strides in helping each other but also in learning from very difficult situations. We do have a HEA for ODC and an epilogue.

This book will not appeal to some: if you don't want to read lessons from this author's faith and beliefs then this book is not for you. I would not enjoy reading this type of story regularly but today it touched my heart and elicited many tears.
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December 12, 2014
If you weren’t already aware, To Refine Like Silver, is a Pride and Prejudice variation that includes themes of a spiritual and religious nature. Similar to authors Robin Helm and Debra White Smith, Jeanna Ellsworth has crafted a story filled with faith, prayer, and the importance of developing a relationship with God. This kind of religious integration with Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice might not be everyone’s cup of tea. (Just like paranormal novels aren’t everyone’s cup of tea!) But if you enjoy inspiring tales of finding faith and spiritual journeys, read on…

In this variation of Pride and Prejudice Georgiana does not easily recover from her experiences in Ramsgate. Three months later finds her in a very dark place emotionally and mentally, a shell of her former self, and suffering from deep depression. While visiting her Aunt and Uncle Gardiner in their newly inherited estate near Lambton, Elizabeth Bennet meets Fitzwilliam and Georgiana Darcy and immediately recognizes and understands the deep sadness she sees in Georgiana’s eyes. It is then she realizes her true reason for being in Derbyshire is to help Georgiana through the darkness and share her own experiences and journey.

What impressed me most about this novel was how author Jeanna Ellsworth capably tackled the serious and difficult subject of depression with such bravery, skill, and honesty. She wanted to send an important message with this story to people who suffer from or have had experience with depression and I felt she chose her character and premise perfectly. (It makes sense that Georgiana would feel this way after having such a traumatic experience with Wickham) And the emotional sadness and difficulties Georgiana faced were portrayed in my opinion realistically, with great understanding and sympathy. But before you think this story is filled with darkness and hard subjects, let me just say that Ms. Ellsworth includes just as much light, uplifting joy, and healing. Brava, Jeanna Ellsworth! I’m sure writing this wasn’t easy to do!

As mentioned above, this story stresses the importance of having a relationship with God. A message that Elizabeth knows and shares with both Georgiana and Fitzwilliam. As with other Christian-inspired Austenesque novels I read, I enjoyed the spiritual content and themes Ms. Ellsworth highlighted in this tale. I personally, did not find them to be heavy-handed or preachy… Some may feel that Darcy’s spiritual journey received too much focus, but I enjoyed seeing Darcy go through these unique and different set of obstacles for a change. His determination to heed Elizabeth’s words and make himself a better man was inspiring to witness. Darcy was, as usual, adorable and irresistible, I loved seeing his love for Elizabeth and Georgiana. The only thing I would want to quibble over is that Darcy did steal some of the focus from Georgiana and her healing midway through the novel…but too much Darcy is not the kind of thing one really complains about. ;)

If you are familiar with Jeanna Ellsworth’s works than you know she has a penchant for using symbolism and metaphors to help carry her themes across. I loved the refining silver metaphor! What a perfect representation how and why we are given trials. I enjoyed seeing Darcy challenged with the passage in Malachi 3:3 and observing him learn all he can about mining silver and the refining process. It was enlightening for me too! In addition, I loved Elizabeth and her frogs! So adorable!

To Refine Like Silver is an inspiring and thought-provoking tale of three Pride and Prejudice characters and their walks of faith. This story is filled with difficult trials, inspiring words, heart-fluttering romance, and an uplifting message that brings peace. For fans of Christian Fiction and Inspirational Romance this is not one to you will want to miss!
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October 28, 2014
"It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife."

But what if that isn't the case? What if a certain single gentleman of ten thousand a year has no thoughts of matrimony, but only to live peaceably and happily with his young and healing sister? Until one day he crosses paths with a most unusual and bright-eyed young lady who just so happens to be the witty and perfectly tolerable Elizabeth Bennet?

Thus we are reintroduced to our dear old friends of Pemberley and Longbourne - but in an entirely new and brilliant light.

Now full of life and a desire to help others, Elizabeth Bennet had dealt with much pain and sorrow in the past, struggling with pain and depression for years; however, she has learned to rejoice and grow in the trials that are brought her way- Fully Relying On God to use these situations to purify and refine her into the woman He wants her to be, and to help her view them as milestones, rather than millstones.

This concept of relying on God is a bit harder to grasp for someone who has never seen the benefits and significance of refinement; Elizabeth knows as soon as she sets eyes on Georgiana Darcy that God has called her to be the short-term neighbor to this Darcy-sibling-duo for a reason.

Both William and Georgiana are challenged and encouraged by Lizzie (and by a few others they meet along the way) in lessons of forgiveness, unconditional love, the importance of molding their wills to Gods', and, ultimately, refinement through trials.

Something I want mention in agreement with a fellow reviewer and in appreciation to Jeanna, would be her lovely way with words- particularly in her use of metaphors; written simply yet profoundly, they are thought-provoking and encouraging.

Also- on the topic of appreciation: I'd like to specifically thank the author for writing in that bookshop scene (she knows the one)- it truly did my bookish heart good, my friend. ^_^

Regency and Inspirational Romance fans do not want to miss this work of literary art!
Jeanna has a vibrant and vivid way of capturing the English countryside and sophisticated regency era, customs, and manners that would make Jane Austen proud.

A hot cup of tea and a large comfy sweater compliment this novel to perfection (and take my word for it and clear up your schedule, because you won't be able to put it down)!

"Sadness is just a feeling; it cannot consume you."
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January 11, 2015
This review was first posted on Babblings of a Bookworm: http://babblingsofabookworm.blogspot....

When I saw there was a blog tour for this book I was quick to sign up for it, having read and enjoyed this author’s book Mr Darcy’s Promise and the story of Pride & Persistence when it was being posted online. However, I didn’t realise at that time that this book touches on some really dark issues, depression and sexual violence. Usually I would avoid at all costs reading a book that relates to sexual violence. I know it happens, the world can be a sad and dark place but I don’t look for a realistic level of sadness in my reading, I read to escape that. Oscar Wilde once wrote: ‘The good ended happily, and the bad unhappily. That is what Fiction means.’ I think that's pretty true, and it’s one reason that I read fiction! The last time I read any JAFF with sexual violence I only read the sample and I am not exaggerating when I tell you that it gave me nightmares. Roughly knowing subject matter I put off starting it, because I was worried I’d find it a heavy read. However, once I started reading this book and got into it I was glad that I’d signed up to review it, as I unexpectedly found it very uplifting to read and not a sad book, although sad things have happened.

The story begins in Derbyshire. It’s the summer of 1811 and Darcy hasn’t yet gone to Meryton. He is still at home, and incredibly worried about Georgiana who appears to have fallen into a deep melancholy, following the events of Ramsgate. Darcy goes to visit a new neighbour, a Mr Gardiner, whose wife has inherited an estate close to Pemberley. One of Mr Gardiner’s nieces, a Miss Elizabeth Bennet, is staying with the Gardiners while they adjust to estate ownership. Meeting Elizabeth under more favourable circumstances – in his own environment rather than in society he’s looking down on, and her family not around to cause any embarrassment, Darcy feels immediately attracted to her. Not so much her looks, but an unusual quality she has, almost like an inner brightness. Mr Gardiner invites Mr Darcy and his sister to dine with them that evening and Darcy accepts, hoping that Georgiana will feel able to attend. Meeting in this way starts off Darcy & Elizabeth’s relationship on a much better footing.

‘She found Mr. Darcy quite interesting. She was curious why he didn’t have a wife. He seemed kind and was fairly amiable. She did sense a certain amount of pride, but only because he was so focused on presenting himself well.’

What Darcy doesn’t realise is that Georgiana is in a much worse mental state than he knows. She is depressed and doesn’t care whether she lives or dies. In fact, her only outlet is horse riding, which she does recklessly, semi-hoping that she will have an accident that ends her unhappiness for good. However, Georgiana isn’t entirely unable to focus on anything other than the feelings that are crushing her and she recognises that Darcy has met somebody who could potentially be important to him. Making a huge effort, she goes to the Gardiners and Elizabeth immediately recognises the sad, lost look in Georgiana’s eyes. The reason that she recognises it is that Elizabeth was suffering a similar sadness, but she finally managed to come through it with the love of her father and Jane, and now she is desperate to help Georgiana do the same. She offers Georgiana friendship, and Darcy is only too happy to further the friendship as he is keen to do anything that will aid Georgiana’s recovery, particularly once he realises the depth of Georgiana’s despair.

In this variation, one of the changes is Mr Bennet’s background. He only inherited Longbourn about a decade before the events unfolding, having previously been a clergyman. Partly as a result of this, but mostly because of the trials Elizabeth has faced, Elizabeth’s faith is a big part of her life and there is a strong reliance on believing in God and relying on him, thanking him and following his lessons of forgiveness. This spiritual aspect is something I hadn’t seen in Austenesque stories before. I should imagine that some people would love it and others would be turned right off by it. I was on the fence, although I read Christian fiction (sometimes referred to as inspirational fiction) and I enjoy the positive messages of many of the books I’ve read in the genre, as indeed I enjoyed the positive messages found in this book. The spiritual aspect is very strong, and comes through in nearly all Elizabeth’s thoughts and conversations. In canon there is not much that Elizabeth said or did that was overtly religious so for me it led to a significant change in her character and it took me a while to get to know her.

One of the passages of the Bible that Elizabeth refers to when talking to Darcy talks about refining people as silver is refined, and she challenges him to find out what is special about the refining of silver. The refining of silver is a metaphor here. Usually, being a plain-spoken person who says what they mean, I am not a fan of metaphors, but when the process was described I found this metaphor quite profound and I thought it really underlined the themes of forgiveness and the reasons that we have trials to bear which are explored throughout the book.

I have a tendency to be distracted by stray details in a story and there were a few here, such as some words and turns of phrase which were too modern or American, a blacksmith who seemed too well-educated and some period details that didn’t seem quite right to me. I was also a little surprised by some of the behaviour exhibited by the Bennets. Elizabeth is quite over-familiar with the Darcys when they first meet, particularly with Georgiana, and it seemed unlikely behaviour to me, because she had been determined to make a good impression for her uncle’s sake. Also, since Mr Bennet is a former clergyman, and clearly a much more active father than in canon I would have expected Elizabeth’s younger siblings to be altered from the characters we know, since their upbringing would have been very different.

One thing that made this book really stand out for me is the way that Elizabeth helps Georgiana work through her depression. How your trials in life shape you and make you stronger, and that you need to make positive steps towards healing. Elizabeth keeps a notebook of inspirational quotes, (many of which are summarised in the back of the book). The thought that this book might be useful for people who have been touched by situational depression either by experiencing it themselves or trying to support a loved one, struck me many times.

I’ve had real difficulty trying to pin down in words my feelings towards this book but it’s one I’m glad I read, despite the difficult subject matter. I found it both uplifting and inspiring. I almost felt like a better person for having read it, even though I’m doubtful that I would be capable of the forgiveness the characters in this book bestow. Over time, some books merge into others in your mind, but this was so unlike other variations, that I’ve read that I’m sure I’ll remember it. I would recommend reading this book, as long as you do not object to a strong Christian message and I would rate it as 4½ stars.

*I received a copy of this book from the author for my honest review.
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June 30, 2016
To Refine Like Silver

This is my second time, reading this Truly Inspiring Pride and Prejudice Variation. All the regular characters are in it but the backdrop is God is the guiding force of our lives! I truly liked this version of Lizzie! Thanks!
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January 2, 2018
Deeper, a little darker, definitely more spiritual is this Pride and Prejudice variation story by a new to me author.

I won a copy of To Refine Like Silver a few years ago and sadly, I didn't get to it right away. I found the excerpts I had read at the time and the author's posts on it appealing, but... sigh... I got distracted. Finally, I picked it up and gave it a read.

As a family case worker and a person who enjoys pondering the spiritual side of life, I was eager to see how the author tied in a spiritual journey for the Darcys, clinical depression and the dark acts that brought them on, people suffering still from grief and loss and a plot that included the evil machinations of others. I thought the author was able to temper the darkness with some light and hope so its not a depressing story. It had an intriguing set up with the Gardiners being new land owners in Derbyshire, Mr. Bennet a retired clergyman with a truly neurotic wife and children with deep-seated issues as a result of family loss and Lizzy's dark secret. The Darcy's are given a dark secret and Wickham and Caroline Bingley are quite wicked in this one. Though, that said, this is a redemptive story where many people grow and get a new lease on life. I think I found this all interesting and curious, more than anything because Gothic and atmospheric tales will always pull me in and this one has a mild flavoring of that.

This leads me to say, I had mixed feelings about this book. While I was curious by it wide variation from the original, I also spent the whole book off balance as a result. I am not one who minds variations that carry me a little wide of the original, but sometimes I do get the sense that a book would have been better served to have just been a regular Regency or Victorian Romance rather than associated with a particular novel like P&P.

Another issue for me was the heroine, Lizzy. I found her somewhat unappealing. She's sweet, nearly saintly, and felt wholly improbable at best for a girl of her age, circumstances, and time. There isn't anything this young girl wasn't accomplished or well-versed in. She was a fount of wisdom and experience. Sadly, it made me see her as sanctimonious rather than truly good. Other characters had areas of growth, but not she which made the romance partners feel lopsided to me. This was where I missed Austen's lively, spirited, and deeply flawed Elizabeth Bennet.

But, that said, I didn't hate this book. I found it mildly engaging, deeply touching, thought-provoking at times. This would not be a book that I would recommend universally. The reader has to be fine with a heavily religious book and a wide variation plot for P&P. But yes, for those who fall into that niche, I think they would find this one enjoyable.

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November 21, 2021
a good read

I love all stories about Darcy and Elizabeth especially ones that take a different direction. This story has so much emotion I felt their pain. Well written and kelp my interest. For those who want something different this is one to read.
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January 13, 2015
This latest release by Jeanna Ellsworth, To Refine Like Silver, is in keeping with her other works. It has a good story, is thought provoking and well-written as well as entertaining. As to be expected by anyone familiar with her writing, Ms. Ellsworth does another fabulous job of incorporating metaphors in her story. I am always fascinated with her ability to bring in the metaphor and tie it together with her story so that the thread runs seamlessly throughout her book giving it depth of thought and meaning, as well as conveying a certain relationship or theme. This one is no exception as suggested by the title.

The novel begins with Elizabeth Bennet and Fitzwilliam Darcy meeting in Derbyshire thus sparing them the disastrous first impressions of pride and prejudice at the Meryton Assembly. The Gardiners have become land owners in Derbyshire having inherited an estate and are neighbors to Mr. Darcy. Elizabeth is there to help them as she has helped her father run his estate. This allows for the meeting of Darcy and Elizabeth on more equal ground and gets them off to a much better start with less misunderstood feelings.

Elizabeth is a very strong character with much insight. Darcy is the caring and loving brother that we know him to be. He is a good man and cares deeply for Elizabeth. The Gardiner’s are lovely characters and good to Elizabeth. Mr. Bennet is a better father and manager of his estate. Mrs. Bennet is not a nice lady but even the hardest hearts can be softened. Caroline Bingley does not have any redemptive qualities (and even stoops to a new low) but Mr. Wickham is allowed a few, surprisingly.

This book is the most different Pride & Prejudice retelling or variation that I have ever read. It is religious in tone without being ‘preachy’ and has much spiritual awakening and development by the main characters. Georgiana Darcy is in a very dark place, in depression and despair from her encounter with George Wickham at Ramsgate. She is having a difficult time coming to grips with the situation and living with it. Elizabeth recognizes that dark empty stare in Georgiana’s eyes remembering a time from her past when she had that same blank stare. Because of Elizabeth’s strength and courage, aided by the patience of her father and Jane, she was eventually able to dig herself out of the despair and to learn and grow spiritually. That enables her to help Georgiana where no one else has been able to in the past. Darcy sees the changes that are taking place and that makes his already strong feelings even stronger. There is also much spiritual progression for him too.


I enjoyed the relationship between Georgiana, Elizabeth and Darcy and their growth as individuals. As I already mentioned, this is a very different book, a very good book and one that gave me pause for thought and some soul searching. Jeanna Ellsworth did a brilliant job of bringing home the points that she wanted to make with her story without overpowering the reader. The subject is a serious one that deals with depression and healing and is done in a way that gives the story much meaning, wisdom and hope…hope being the key word. I am glad to have experienced this novel as I feel it is not one that is just read but is experienced with the characters. Thank you, Ms. Ellworth for another excellent book.
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147 reviews
December 10, 2014
I think the most disappointing thing for me is that this book was not sold to me as what it mainly was: a religious book. I don't have anything against Christian books, but I do not usually enjoy reading them, and this book was sold in Amazon with just the description: "What if Mr. Darcy had met Elizabeth before going to Hartfordshire?" I thought that would be an interesting variation to the story, but it turned out the book's main variation was that Elizabeth is very Christian and converts Mr. Darcy into Christianity. The author basically uses the story of Pride and Prejudice and changes it to preach about God. Again, which is fine by me, but if I had known about this I would definitely not have read it.

**SPOILERS** Another big issue is that I found the description of her characters unrealistic. Mr. Wickam, who has raped women and is basically disliked by all, changes drastically when Mr. Darcy decides to forgive him. I am not saying that people cannot change, but I would have found this more believable if it had happened with many interactions with Mr. Darcy or over the course of time, not in just what must have been about 10 minutes. Same with Elizabeth's mother, who not only had a change of heart out of nowhere (the book doesn't even describe what was the catalyst for her drastic change in attitude), but the way she acted and treated Elizabeth before that was so extreme it was really hard to believe. There was a similar problem with the characterization of Bingley's sister. In sum, the author tried to depict complex characters but she only ended up with extremely black and white characterizations, where extremely bad people would suddenly become extremely good people. I did not find this believable.**END OF SPOILERS**

Finally, Elizabeth's character was very know-it-all and preachy; I would not say I found her completely annoying, but she was definitely not the character that Austen wrote. In the end, this book is more about Darcy, Elizabeth et al. discovering God and how that makes their life better. If you like reading about this kind of journey, then you might enjoy the book. I for my part will probably not be reading this author again.
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204 reviews32 followers
November 1, 2014
Ugh! SPOILER ALERT- This book tackles a tough subject of depression and I applaud that. I also appreciate the author bringing the love of God into the equation of how to overcome depression. But what left me EXTREMELY unhappy was the idea that child molesters and rapists should go free without being held accountable for their actions. The naive idea that if you just forgive them they will change their evil ways, turn to God, and even become ordained ministers! Yuck, Yuck, Yuck and utter nonsense. I'm just so disgusted with this book. Sorry!
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155 reviews47 followers
March 5, 2016
Wish I had seen this marked as Christian fiction - never occurred to me that someone would waste Pride and Prejudice in this way. All the characters were extremely OUT of character (would not have recognized this as P&P if they had different names). Unless you like evangelical sermons masquerading as decent literature, I wouldn't recommend wasting your time with this.
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411 reviews32 followers
May 24, 2019
2.5 stars. too preachy for me, and that made it way unbelieveable.
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471 reviews13 followers
August 3, 2018
Great book

Have read this book before but decided to leave a review this time. This was a great book that used a 200 year old story to show how life can be changed by the act of prayer and forgiveness,
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607 reviews28 followers
March 16, 2015
To Refine Like Silver

Very enjoyable Pride and Prejudice variation. Lizzy's Aunt and Uncle Gardiner have inherited a modest country home, Saphrinbrooke, one mile from Lambton where Mrs. Gardiner grew up. Lizzy comes along to get the estate up and running, because she has been running Longbourn for years. The first gentleman that visits his new neighbors is none other than Fitzwilliam Darcy. He is talking with Mr. Gardiner about planting Fall/Winter crops. He tells Gardiner it is too late to plant winter wheat when impertinent Lizzy intrudes asking why? Tells her it is too cold to plant now. He is intrigued that Lizzy knows so much about running an estate, in fact he is enchanted. They ask him to dinner, but he says his sister is at home. They include her in their invitation. Georgiana is in a bad place,, because of her treatment by Wickham. Darcy asks her to please accompany him to dinner with the new neighbors. He already recognizes that Lizzy's happy personality might help Georgiana. She agrees because she recognizes that her brother hasn't stopped talking about Lizzy. When Lizzy sees her, she knows Georgiana is depressed and hurting. She knows since she had gone through a similar situation for four years. Takes Georgiana under her wing and manages to get a little smile out of her. She asks Darcy if she may visit tomorrow and share her thoughts about Georgiana with Darcy. She tells him to watch for signs that she's thinking about hurting herself. Mr. Darcy mask in place, he tells her that Georgiana is a Darcy, and she'll pull out of it. Several days later when Darcy heads a commotion at the stables, he finds Georgiana hitting the groom because he will not saddle and young horse that is not tamed. Darcy is embarrassed by her actions, and she tells him she wants to talk with Lizzy. Darcy admits he was wrong, and Georgiana agrees to tell her the entire sordid tale. They both cry and hug, and Lizzy tells her the same thing happened to her so she understands what Georgiana is dealing with. In the meantime, Mrs. Bennet (oh, she's a piece of work in this variation) sends Jane so she can meet Mr. Darcy. The Bingleys visit and Charles immediately is drawn to Jane. Jane is smart enough that Darcy isn't for her, because she can see that he's interested in Elizabeth. Throughout this entire story Religion plays a dominant part. Caroline tried to eliminate Lizzy, but Darcy's belief in Wickham changed Wickham forever. When Darcy figured out what the metaphor of Malachi 3: 3 meant, he finally proposed.
1,021 reviews1 follower
February 20, 2017
P&P variation. First, the cover. Elizabeth is not blonde! (just a pet peeve of mine). As I was reading this book, I was enjoying it, but felt it was somewhat preachy. However, as stated in the book, we have to turn things over to God. As I was reading about trials, I received some devastating news about a very good friend of mine. God's timing is so perfect, the words in this book brought me such comfort at exactly the right time.
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429 reviews24 followers
April 19, 2023
I've tried reading "Christian romances," and the vast, vast majority of them are so heavy-handed or so syrupy-sweet that they take all of the sparkle out of the characters and the plot.

But this variation of Pride and Prejudice marries true Christianity lived in the life of Elizabeth Bennet who has suffered great tragedy during her short life. Her father is a retired pastor, now a country gentleman after inheriting Longbourn, and Elizabeth shines with light and joy as she comes to Derbyshire to help her Aunt and Uncle Gardiner to settle into the small estate which they have just inherited--and their estate is near Pemberley. When Darcy comes to meet his neighbors, he is immediately taken by Elizabeth's joy and peace (and impertinence, of course!) and wants her to befriend Georgiana who is in the depth of depression after Ramsgate. Elizabeth's wise and practical faith brings both Darcys hard-won peace...and while Georgiana finds herself a friend for life, Darcy discovers that he is falling in love with this unusual and impertinent young woman who, with a wink and a smile, challenges him to discover the meaning of Malachi 3:3. And Darcy also finds out what happens when one small (but extremely difficult!) act of forgiveness and grace affects another character so profoundly that he saves the reputations of the woman Darcy has come to love.

This book is definitely written for a Christian audience with faith issues abounding on nearly every page. Its approach of unapologetic apologetics is refreshing, and Elizabeth's various sayings and quotations affect not only the characters in the story but faithful readers as well. A truly wonderful and thought-provoking novel that I loved reading!!
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168 reviews7 followers
September 14, 2016
Very interesting!

First of all, this is very well written. It takes our characters somewhere else entirely, and it focuses a great deal on love and influence and trust of/in Christ. I did truly enjoy the story, although I did hesitate a little at first at so many religious references, worrying it would be preachy. I love the messages and relationships built here. It was enlightening, fortifying and emotional. All of that being said, I feel like the true Elizabeth was lost in this portrayal, though honestly, she was the only one. This was still inspiring and worth the read. I do not regret it at all, and may read it again one day simply for the insights.

If you are struggling with accepting bad things that have happened to you, maybe this will be therapeutic for you. If you are particular about what would and wouldn't be done at the time, some of the treatment of the women may bother you..forgiveness/acceptance being the actual issue. I cannot truly hope that a woman would still be given the opportunities the women here are given in light of such compromises, even by sincerely good men. BUT don't let that ruin the story for you. It has been written as things should be, not as they might have been, and I appreciate the chances for redemption and unconditional love written here.
12 reviews1 follower
July 4, 2016
I read this (as I've done all of Jeanna Ellsworth's stories that I've read so far) in a single sitting. I got the book through Kindle Unlimited and it is the first time that I've finished an Unlimited book and wanted to immediately purchase it. I seriously loved this story so much.

There is a lot of discussion on Christianity and faith (pretty explicitly Christian as there is such focus on the Holy Trinity) so if that offends you/is not your cup of tea, the novel is probably not your best choice. However, if you have interests or are a current/former Christian- the story will truly make you think on your faith and consider your thoughts of God. Very thought-provoking with interesting, unique insights.

This is a very different universe, but our characters are certainly recognizable and the story is very enjoyable. My only critique/complaint is that upon reflection after a little distance, the ending was a little hurried. Not in the typical sense, as you see the ending coming, but in that some of the long standing issues are resolved towards the end rather quickly and you don't have much time to accept/adjust to the changes before the novel is over. Regardless, it's a minor complaint and the story is well worth a read!
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108 reviews
July 10, 2015
I picked this up because of the glowing reviews, but I'm afraid I can't add to them. First, you must understand that this isn't a re-telling of P&P. The author took the names and skeletons of the characters from P&P and fashioned a new book out of whole cloth. I think she would have done better to change the names and not make any reference to Austin's masterpiece.

However, even if she would have done that, I could only say that this book was OK. I read a lot of Christian historical fiction, so it wasn't the themes that turned me off. I had a problem with the assertion by 'Elizabeth' that all people are inherently good. I'm afraid the Bible I read doesn't back that up.

Also, there were multiple instances where a modern reference pulled me out of the story. Things like fashion shows, melting chocolate, and the main characters holding on to each other at church made me stop and think 'wait...they wouldn't have had that or done that then, would they?' It really disrupted the story.

So while I give the author credit for completing a book with a decent plot, I can't recommend the book to others.
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219 reviews
March 13, 2015
I am so torn on how I should rate this book. I was ready to give up after the first few chapters but then it picked up speed and became enjoyable. I loved the Refining like silver analogy. I will try and remember it always as it will help me to live a better life. I liked that Darcy met Elizabeth before her mother and sisters and their love story was touching. Now what I didn't like.... The first part dragged on way too long. Without giving anything away, "Georgianna's dilemma" could have been covered in much less time. Mrs. Bennett was portrayed as extremely abusive and cruel towards Elizabeth, while Mr. Bennett, a prior clergyman, stood by and allowed it. Even Jane Austen's Mr. Bennett would never tolerate such cruelty towards his beloved Lizzy. The book was longer than it needed to be and I found myself skipping sentences as it dragged. Even the ending dragged... Gosh, maybe it doesn't deserve 3 stars but Since I took away some valuable lessons and inspirational quotes, and the story was enjoyable for the most part I will give it 3.5 stars.
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41 reviews
January 11, 2019
I knew that this was a faith-based variation so I had no problem with that going into this book. I felt it could be a very interesting exploration considering the trauma experienced by some of the characters. However, this is not a gentle spiritual journey rather you are clobbered over the head with sermon and prayer. There is no subtlety whatsoever.

Elizabeth seems to have a rigid faith in, well, her faith. I feel as though she has the monopoly on both pride and prejudice in this story. She's sanctimonious and judgmental and does not exhibit any true humility. She is righteous that her way, and not just in her faith and the manner in which she pursues it, is best.

I stopped reading at 48% when Darcy states, "It is hard for me to share my feelings" to which Elizabeth replies "No, sir, it is not. You start by saying, 'I feel," and then you finish the sentence. Try it." It was just so rudely dismissive, lacking in tact and understanding, that it made me realize I wasn't looking forward to a HEA for this Elizabeth.
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189 reviews41 followers
November 26, 2025
**Triggers**


This novel was hard for me. There was no trigger warnings when jumping into it, which hello, this is 2025, but even with it having been published in 2014, it’s just unacceptable. I don’t like just walking into a story and being smacked by a rape plotline without a heads up, and silly me, I’ve stopped reading JAFF reviews before reading because people can get so up in arms about canon and characterizations that it colors their thoughts. Yes, there is an acknowledgements section before the story, which does make some mentions to depression, but who actually cares to read those 90% of the time, it’s like the dedication and only means anything to the author and who they name, not to normal readers. There should’ve been some kind of warnings, at least for the rape plotline if nothing else, as it’s the most prevalent.

I have to say, this made me feel like a bad Christian until I realized it was an Evangelical sect of the religion that I don’t practice. That being said, from a Christianity stand point, there were quite a few thought provoking passages that have started conversation in our bible studies. If you aren’t Christian and have no interest in reading the scripture and it’s interpretations, then definitely stay away from this novel, as it’s more sermon than JAFF.



Mrs. Bennet is absolutely awful. Beyond awful. She’s downright cruel and vicious in her speech to Lizzy, and Mr. Bennet just accepts it because she won’t listen to anyone. Why can he not use his Pastor Powers to sit her down and make her settle? Who knows. Then she 180s on a dime and is kind and loving again? Really, I get the faith aspect of things, but sometimes it just really stretches the constructs of reality, which is why Evangelical Christianity doesn’t work for me. It’s one thing to believe, it’s another to let that belief turn you into a doormat. I understand the arguments on why they believe what they do, but I just can’t handle such weakness.

There is also a large theme of forgiveness, which would be a lot easier to handle had it been set up differently. The way it is displayed, is as “forgiveness is a must or you’re a bad Christian, now be a doormat and forgive all the things!” when really it should be set up more as a “forgiveness is for you, not for them. Forgive, don’t forget, and while you can pray for them to reform, be wary about trusting them later”, but I am also a “when someone shows you who they are, believe them” type of person. There really are such situations where you cannot forgive, and I believe it’s not a weakness or a sin to hold others responsible for their actions. I would very much be the sort to forgive someone, but they would never know of it. I would be willing to forgive a rapist because it’s exhausting to hold onto anger. However, forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciliation, which really feels like something this Lizzy would encourage. This was a time period where women were already treated less than people. For Lizzy to be willing to just deal with this… sure she came through the depression and fell back into her faith to help make it happen, but too much of the forgiveness theme felt horribly out of character for her.

The best part of the story for me was actually the sermon side plot. Lizzy brings about the metaphor of Malachi 3:3, which I had to look up because while it’s not one I remembered well. Sure, they summarize it in the story, but I wanted to read it as well. I actually really loved the message of Malachi 3:3, enough so that I emailed my pastor to suggest it as a sermon for later. The metaphor was beautiful and poetic, so I enjoyed it a lot.
46 reviews4 followers
June 19, 2016
This story left me speechless. This is another beautiful and spiritually uplifting story from Ms. Ellsworth. I loved how she has cleverly interwoven spiritual teachings/reminders with the main love story between our favourite couple. The story really spoke to me how Elizabeth helped Georgiana out of her depression and especially how she helped Darcy understand the purpose of trials and sufferings as I asked those same questions myself a long time ago. This has become one of my favourite JAFF and she has become one of my favourite authors as well.
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154 reviews4 followers
July 4, 2016
Absolutely LOVED this book. I know that I have become a better person through reading it and will be recommending it to everyone. Fully Rely On God, F.R.O.G., is not a new concept to me but it is one that should be reminded of from time to time.
The extra piece after the epilogue was precious!
We all love to read, why not put our own thoughts and epiphanies on paper?
My favorite bit from this story is the parable the Elizabeth told Mr. Darcy about time being water in a river; the same water can never be touched twice.
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Author 24 books159 followers
January 24, 2018
Religous themed, unique, deep and thoughtful novel that also has sweet and romantic moments.
There is very little drama but the issues that are reflected upon and described includes rape.
This novel diviate a lot from Canon and the usual misunderstandings are not present.
It's more about developing as a human being and a Christian.

It gave me a lot of food for thought.
Recommend this book.
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