From bestselling author Amanda Prowse comes a spellbinding story about two sisters, one choice—and a lifetime of consequences…
For identical twins Remy and Ashleigh, everything changes with one childhood decision. A simple act of love that unwittingly alters the paths they will both walk—an act of love that will echo through decades…
As the years unfold, their lives take dramatically different courses. Ashleigh soars through a glittering London career with the perfect house and family, but beneath her success lies a gnawing her whole life is built on a lie. Meanwhile, Remy stays close to home, finding joy in simple pleasures, yet forever feeling the weight of being ‘the other twin’—the one who didn’t shine.
Both sisters long for the uncomplicated closeness they once shared, but can they find their way back to each other? And after a lifetime shaped by that single childhood choice, is it too late to become the people they were meant to be?
This emotionally compelling story asks challenging questions about paths not taken, and about making peace with the life you have, rather than the one you might have expected.
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Amanda Prowse is an International Bestselling author whose thirty-two novels, two non-fiction titles and ten novellas have been published in dozens of languages around the world. Published by Lake Union, Amanda is the most prolific writer of bestselling contemporary fiction in the UK today; her titles also consistently score the highest online review approval ratings across several genres. Her books, including the chart topping No.1 titles 'What Have I Done?', 'Perfect Daughter', 'My Husband's Wife', 'The Girl in the Corner' and ‘The Things I Know’ have sold millions of copies across the globe.
A popular TV and radio personality, Amanda has appeared on numerous shows where her views on family and social issues strike a chord with viewers. She also makes countless guest appearances on BBC national and independent Radio stations including LBC, Times Radio and Talk FM, where she is well known for her insightful observations and her infectious humour. Described by the Daily Mail as ‘The queen of family drama’ Amanda’s novel, 'A Mother's Story' won the coveted Sainsbury's eBook of the year Award and she has had two books selected as World Book Night titles, 'Perfect Daughter' in 2016 and 'The Boy Between' in 2022.
Amanda is a huge supporter of libraries and having become a proud ambassador for The Reading Agency, works tirelessly to promote reading, especially in disadvantaged areas. Amanda's ambition is to create stories that keep people from turning the bedside lamp off at night, great characters that ensure you take every step with them and tales that fill your head so you can't possibly read another book until the memory fades...
Praise for Amanda Prowse:
'A powerful and emotional work of fiction' - Piers Morgan
'Deeply moving and emotional, Amanda Prowse handles her explosive subjects with delicate skill' - Daily Mail
'Uplifting and positive, but you will still need a box of tissues' - Hello!
'A gut-wrenching and absolutely brilliant read' - The Irish Sun
'You'll fall in love with this...' - Cosmopolitan
'Deeply moving and eye opening. Powerful and emotional drama that packs a real punch.' - Heat
Amanda Prowse writes a very poignant and emotional story about twins Remy and Ashleigh. The twins' lives are drastically changed by a childhood choice. Years later, the difference between them is apparent: Ashleigh has a big career and family success in London, and Remy feels she is in the shadow of Ashleigh's success and feels she is the twin who is "less than."
Amanda Prowse is the reigning queen of family drama. The book follows the twins through the decades with plenty of emotional depth and deals with the choices we make. The book asks some important questions about paths we decided not to take and dealing with the ramifications of the lies we tell. Prowse writes relatable characters, and the sisters' relationship is raw and honest. They both wish they still had the same closeness as when they were children, even though secrets and jealousy are in the way. This is a very complex family relationship. I like how the author showed the fast-paced life of London against the slower pace of Remy at home.
The most important part that I took away from the story is forgiveness. Above all else, these sisters love each other and are trying to make peace with their past. It's an important reminder that it's never too late.
Even though the pacing in the middle of the book slows down to a crawl and there is a lot of internal dialogue to digest, this is a lovely read that makes you think. It's about how one moment of your life can leave a lasting impression and linger through the decades. It is handled with Prowse's sensitivity, and I highly recommend it.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.
This is a very heartfelt story about two sisters and how the decisions they make pull them apart, but their love for each other pulls them back together. It was emotionally charged and their struggles felt very realistic. There was a strong theme of forgiveness, as well as family, love, relationships, self-image, and healing. I did find one sister more likable than the other, but I could also relate to the less likable character in some ways, which helped me to feel for her situation too.
At times, the language was a bit repetitive, but it makes sense within the story. When something weighs on a character, they will think about it often and those thoughts are repeated in the story. However, there were times when I felt repetition this slowed the story a little for me.
Overall, this was a slow moving, emotional read and I recommend it for readers who really want to get into the nitty gritty with their characters. 4+ stars
I listened to the audio version narrated by the author. I really enjoy Prowse's narration. I feel that she knows exactly how she wants her characters represented and how to relay those emotions.
Thank you to NetGalley and Brilliance Publishing | Brilliance Audio for providing me with a complimentary electronic copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
Thanks to Netgally and the publisher for an advanced copy of the audio book in exchange for an honest review! This was a beautiful, heart warming, gut wrenching story about life, love, relationships, loss, and personal growth. I loved every second of the audio book and i didn't want it to end. I will admit i was skeptical when I learned the author would be narrating, but she honestly did an amazing job. I think this story could be enjoyed whatever your preferred way of consuming books might br I can't believe this is the first book I've read by this author. I guess my tbr is about to grow lol
4.5 stars If you enjoyed The Names by Florence Knapp then there's a good chance you will also enjoy this one. A split decision made by one of the twins when they were 10yrs old has repercussions thats will affect them both for the rest of their lives. We follow the identical twin girls Ashley and Remy throughout their entire lives dipping in and out as their lives are split into different paths. and different outcomes. A touching story that will leave you feeling a range of emotions throughout just like real life. Which sister you associate more with is up to you. Personally I felt for Ashley a lot. Highly recommended.
Many thanks to Brilliance Publishing who provided me with the audiobook via NetGalley for review. All opinions are my own.
Simply? This novel needed editing. It likely could have been several hundred pages shorter. With each chapter that chronicled the sisters' lives? We didn't need verbatim that told us what the chapters said before. I was also challenged to understand the progress of the story line, as when (SPOILERS) Remy was pregnant and brought her child home to her parents, before we got the story line that explained how that happened. Why did it take an interminably long time for anyone to explain why Remy took the exam for Ashleigh, and at the end of day, why did it even matter?
Like a few other novels I've read of late, I feel as though the authors need to introduce social expressions to be aligned with current events, such that Evie (Ashleigh's daughter) is gay and gets married to a 'woman,' to the consternation of her grandmother. And yet we hear nothing from her father. And why is that even an issue in a book written now? But then, of course, we also do not know what her decision factors were that set her on the path to be LGBTQ, other than she kept saying she had to babysit for her step-siblings? Umm.. where was the story line that led us to her hiding (??) if that's the word, her preferences? Just 'all of a sudden, ' she's married to a woman, and grandma doesn't like it.
The understory of Ashleigh sleeping with Jamie (Remi's ex)? Totally unnecessary. Honestly it would have made more of a story line if it had been a stranger? And keeping Jamie in the narrative for as long as he was? Ick. Get past it. Lots of people have divorces where they need to manage blended families. We didn't need page over page of why he was still in the picture.
The other grating factor of two doves formed from one egg, repeated, again, and again, and again? Give it up. We know they were twins from the beginning and that's how their parents saw them and considered their interpretation of the girls' lives. But please, as a reader? I don't need to hear this time and again.
It was okay. I honestly didn't think I would finish the book, because I kept hoping for something that was of interest as they aged. It didn't appear.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
Absolutely beautiful book. I haven’t given a 5* in a while but I will be for this book. I couldn’t put it down, the pages flowed so easily and every sentence of the book it could simply be your own life. Whilst I’m not a twin, I could easily see Remy’s and Ashleigh’s relationship as my own sibling relationship or a relationship with a best friend.
Amandas style of writing is so easy to read, fall in love with and simply adore. Thank you so much for the lovely pleasure of reading “Life as Planned” early
Thank you NetGalley and Brilliance Publishing for the ARC of this audiobook.
This book was a little bit slow only because there is a lot of detail between the twins' lives. There was also a lot of repetitive words and sentences. I think you could cut down some of the chapters if that was taken off.
The author did a great job bringing up emotional situations, but I wish she showed us more depth and emotion. I didn't feel anything deep for the twins, but I felt as a spectator on strangers lives until probably 80% in. The ending was perfect, even though it was so so sad.
I didn't understand why the twins were so stressed out about a dang test they took at 10?
A negative was how long the chapters were. I would prefer more, shorter chapters than 1 chapter being almost 2 hours long.
This is a warm and emotional read that really makes you reflect on what happiness actually means. It’s a great story that shows you don’t need the best of everything or lots of material things to become the happiest version of yourself. The characters feel real and relatable, and the message about redefining success and contentment stays with you long after you finish. A thoughtful and uplifting read!
such a beautiful story that really shows that one small decision can shape the entirety of your life.
we follow remy and ashleigh, a set of twins, as they grow up and experience completely different lives as a result of a choice that remy made for them when they were 10.
this is very character driven, and its exploration of growing up, love, grief and family is so beautiful. i really enjoyed seeing how remy & ash’s relationship changed and grew throughout the years.
i think that the choice that was made when they were kids wasn’t that big of a deal, and so that made me disconnect from the story and characters, especially when they told their family, as i thought it was a bit silly!
i loved the overarching message, that life moves so fast and we should treasure those we love, and the life we live, above everything, and it really made me feel so lucky 🫶🏼
“treasure every second. no one really tells you just how quickly it goes by. but it does! we all need to appreciate the now and waste less time!”
What a gorgeous way to begin a story. From the very first pages I was swept away down memory lane with mentions of Cindy Dolls, White Musk perfume and Heather Shimmer Lipstick. I adore a hit of nostalgia, and for me this was done to perfection.
Life as planned is a beautifully heartwarming novel about twins Ashleigh and Remy, and how one spur of the moment decision made at the age of 10, made out of love, sends them down completely different paths. That single moment shapes the rest of their lives.
Following the sisters over 70years, we see how that choice leads to decades of guilt, resentment and fractured bonds.
The characters felt incredibly real. The relationships deeply relatable. I was especially drawn to Remy, I connected so strongly with her worries for her anxious daughter Harper which are achingly familiar.
I felt the story was quietly powerful, raw, emotional and thought provoking, capturing how complex family and love can be.
This is a very cleverly written, emotional story of the lives of twins, who begin life very close, but grow and change and very much lead their own lives. The story covers poignant times in their lives, from something that happened in childhood that would stay with them, and potentially change the course of both of their lives, right through until old age.
The story is told from both twins point of view and follows them into adulthood, through tragic events, marriages, children, careers and the breakdown of various relationships.
There is a lot of emotion carried through this book, between all the different characters and it’s interesting to see the differing points of view from the two main characters.
Both of the twins grew on me through the book as did their children as they grew older. Also Midge and the twins parents, they are all there through thick and thin, even if it doesn’t always come across that way.
All in all a really lovely read. It’s rare you get to see so much of a characters life, so it was something different to experience this style of story. It was moving, thought provoking and heart warming.
Life as Planned was such an emotional and moving story. The characters were developed slowly and completely as Amanda Prowse does so well. The story follows identical twins, Remy and Ashleigh from the age of 10 and into adulthood, getting each of their perspectives. A secret they have kept from the age of 10 will follow them and eat away at their relationship for years to come. I laughed and cried and rooted for one or the other of them at different times in their lives while being frustrated with them in others. I felt for these women and their families as I became intertwined in their story. I listened to an audio version and was so thrilled with Amanda’s gift for narration. She did a spectacular job. I would definitely recommend.
Many thanks to NetGalley, Lake Union Publishing, and the author for an ARC of this book which I had the pleasure of reading. All opinions are my own. Publication date: Jan 6, 2026
This was a pretty good read that I also listened to on audio. Identical twins Remy and Ashleigh lives are changed with one childhood decision. An act of love that alters the paths of both of them act of love that will echo through decades. As the years go by their lives take dramatically different turns. Ashleigh has a career in London with a house and family, but beneath her success is all lies. Meanwhile, Remy stays close to home, finding joy in simple pleasures, yet forever feeling the weight of being "the other twin" the one who didn’t shine. I really enjoyed this book it was my first time reading this author. This book was well written with no errors in grammar or spelling. I also liked that the author narrated this book. I am looking forward to reading more from this author.
fabulous story of how we our lives change through time and how families differ.
Another emotional roller coaster by Amanda Prowse. Beautifully narrated and such well thought out characters and plot. Loved the way this went through time and how the one decision made affected the course of the twin’s lives.
I absolutely love every one of Amanda's book, and this one didn't disappoint, a wonderful story with some lovely charecters, I laughed out loud and this one made me cry too
Life as Planned by Amanda Prowse is a contemporary novel and I absolutely loved this book. I may have definitely had a soft spot for one twin over the other, but what I loved most was getting to follow their individual journeys alongside the evolution of their relationship with each other.
There were moments where I wished we got a little more detail in some chapters because I kept thinking ‘what happens next?’, but at the same time it made me even more invested. The ending completely wrecked me. As soon as I read the chapter title I knew what was coming and somehow it still hurt just as much.
This story is genuinely beautiful and I loved being taken on such an emotional journey with the sisters. I don’t think I’ve read another book with a similar concept when it comes to the usage of time. In the end, the characters are what truly made the book shine. Remy and Ashleigh felt like two opposite ends of the same stick and watching them try to work through their issues felt raw and real.
I’m firmly in the mindset of wanting to read more books by Amanda Prowse now, just to fill the little gap this one left in my heart.
📚Life as Planned ✍🏻Amanda Prowse Blurb: From bestselling author Amanda Prowse comes a spellbinding story about two sisters, one choice—and a lifetime of consequences…
For identical twins Remy and Ashleigh, everything changes with one childhood decision. A simple act of love that unwittingly alters the paths they will both walk—an act of love that will echo through decades…
As the years unfold, their lives take dramatically different courses. Ashleigh soars through a glittering London career with the perfect house and family, but beneath her success lies a gnawing her whole life is built on a lie. Meanwhile, Remy stays close to home, finding joy in simple pleasures, yet forever feeling the weight of being ‘the other twin’—the one who didn’t shine.
Both sisters long for the uncomplicated closeness they once shared, but can they find their way back to each other? And after a lifetime shaped by that single childhood choice, is it too late to become the people they were meant to be?
This emotionally compelling story asks challenging questions about paths not taken, and about making peace with the life you have, rather than the one you might have expected. My Thoughts: Life as Planned was such an emotional and moving story, it is a very heartfelt story about two sisters and how the decisions they make pull them apart, but their love for each other pulls them back together. It was emotionally charged and their struggles felt very realistic. Remy and Ashleigh are identical twins of which a decision when they are ten years old sets the course of their lives.. how a childhood secret altered their lives, and the paths they would follow for decades to come. we first meet the twins at the age of 10 and are with them on a journey throughout their whole lives. .We meet their family and friends, watch their relationships develop, and go through a whole range of emotions with them as they love, laugh, and hope, but also cope with tragedy, loss and guilt. A secret they have kept from the age of 10 will follow them and eat away at their relationship for years to come.. It was an entrance exam for a scholarship to a prestigious school. One got the scholarship, the other didn't. One entered a world of privilege, although she felt herself an imposter, the other lived in the world her parents had. Lower middle class. Both girls were loved, but one was more admired. A great story about the decisions we make and how affect the people around us and our own life. Regret, forgiveness, family, friendship, love, loss and so much more in this beautiful story. Thanks NetGalley, Lake Union Publishing and Author Amanda Prowse for the advanced copy of "Life as Planned" I am leaving my voluntary review in appreciation. #NetGalley #LakeUnionPublishing #AmandaProwse #LifeasPlanned ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
It's the seventies and identical twins Remy and Ashleigh are ten years old, with their whole lives ahead of them when one of them makes a huge decision, a decision that she made out of love for her twin, not realising that it would change the course of their lives forever. As the years roll by Ashleigh has a fabulous life, a wealthy husband and the perfect house, but she struggles with imposter syndrome, while Remy leads a simple, yet sometimes, hard life and always in the shadow of her twin. They both miss the closeness they once had, but has too much happened for them to get back to where they once were?
Life as Planned is the latest womens fiction by the inimitable Queen of Drama herself. Prowse, once again, takes an idea and turns it into an emotional and relatable story that will resonate with many people. It's a tale of split second decision making, of choices we make whether they be the right or wrong one and how we deal with the fallout that will follow, and how the people around us deal with it when the truth is finally revealed. This is, as always, a beautifully written story following the lives of Remy and Ashleigh starting in the seventies and flowing through the decades. I grew up in this same era and life seemed so simple then, how I sometimes wish I could turn back the clock, but life is what you make it, governed by the choices you make and this is what the twins came to realise as their lives moved on. An intense, compelling read which brought a tear to my eye on many occasions, in particular the ending which had so many memories wrapped up in it. This is another heartwarming read from an author whose stories always make me feel like I've just slipped into that favourite cardigan and wrapped myself in love and warmth.
I'd like to thank Amazon Publishing UK and Netgalley for the approval, I will post my review on Goodreads now and Amazon on publication day.
Life As Planned follows twins Ashleigh and Remy from the age of ten right through the next 70 years. It all begins when a “simple act of love unwittingly alters the paths they both will walk – an act of love that will echo through the decades.” And echo it does.
Think Sliding Doors - sisters’ edition - told through dual POV. You see how both sisters’ lives are shaped by this single choice, a secret kept between them, and just how different they really are. I really liked the structure of this story, offering such a clear insight into how two people, two very different people, who come from the same egg, can go on to live such polar opposite lives. Their ideas of success and failure, right and wrong, couldn’t be more different. It very much shines a light on the old cliché of being rich in wealth versus rich in heart and love.
The novel unfolds through the two sisters perspectives, with each chapter jumping forward into a new time in their lives. It felt like returning to your favourite TV show for a reunion, catching up on where the last five or ten years have taken each character. The story is filled with emotion and reflection, and at times it’s deeply bittersweet. It explores how one seemingly “small” decision can shape an entire lifetime - how it can pull you away from the people you love and leave you feeling like you’re never quite good enough, no matter what you have around you. This book is the very definition of facing the consequences of your actions.
Both sisters carry regrets. Both are reminded by their own stubbornness. Both long for what once was - and the question lingers throughout: is it ever too late to get it back?
The message I took from reading this, is that it’s fine to know what you want from life. You might have a five year plan, a ten year plan, or you might just be taking things one day at a time. But the truth is, you never really know what’s around the corner, and you can’t plan for every moment. Life keeps moving, through the good times and the bad, whether you’re ready for it or not.
Ultimately, Life As Planned is a raw, real, and emotive story. It’s a heartwarming exploration of two sisters pulled apart by a decision made from love, and who spend their lifetimes trying to find their way back to each other. It highlights the power of love, family, forgiveness - and just how strong those bonds can truly be.
Thank you to Amanda Prowse and Tandem Collective UK for sending me a copy and letting me be a part of the readalong.
Can one decision change the entire trajectory of your life?
This book follows the lives of identical twins Remy and Ashleigh from birth through to their eighties. It exposes the bond that is quietly fractured when one action taken at age 10 splits their lives in ways neither of them could have ever predicted.
One sister seemingly has it all, a prestigious career, the beautiful house in London, and the picture perfect family. But the underlying guilt she feels is ever present. The other sister’s path is not quite so successful with missteps taken and the constant feeling of being the disappointment of the family.
As the years pass, their relationship evolves but under the weight of love, resentment, regret, and shared history. Some moments pull them back together, while others threaten to push them even further apart.
This is an emotional roller coaster of a read and I needed to reach for a tissue on more than a few occasions, never more so than at the conclusion. The characters and family dynamics are raw, messy, and all too relatable.
This book will linger, making you think about the choices that you make and how they have altered your own path in life. And when you reach the end, it leaves you with the simple yet powerful question: when you look back, what truly mattered, did you put family where it belonged?
The author does an excellent job in narrating the audiobook. There are no fancy sound effects or accents but the simplicity of the single narrator makes the story feel even more impactful. Thanks to NetGalley for an advance audio copy of this book in exchange for my honest opinion.
I look back on my life and see it like a giant lake. Even the most spontaneous of decisions, the simplest and seemingly most matter-of-fact choices, all caused ripples that had the power to change the course and rhythm of my life in ways I could never have imagined. ~ Remy
I'm awarding four stars to this thought-provoking tale of two twins -- Ashleigh and Remy.👯♀️
A split second decision made by one sister when they are ten ripples through their days.
What did I enjoy about this identical twin read?
👭As a fraternal twin myself, I do enjoy reading about twins. Ashleigh and Remy were identical and thus came from the same egg. This was repeated a few too many times for my liking, but that did add something to their experience that I will never have. To look at their twin was like looking in a mirror. How strange that would be as you grow old together. 📚The chapter headings were very helpful. Each included the current name of the two twins and their age. To look at the Table of Contents was a summary of where they had been and where they were headed. Not a spoiler, but a teaser of things to come. 💖My Goodreads friend SHELLEY was a huge fan of this read. Her amazing review convinced me to give the book a try. While I don't think I will read more of the author, I did enjoy this book. 📔The cover is gorgeous with the umbrella a looking a bit unmoored. That image reflects how the twins feel as they navigate life after that life-changing event -- one that happened when they were just ten.
Thank you to Amazon Publishing UK, Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley for a DRC in exchange for an honest review.
Remy and Ashleigh are identical twins of which a decision when they are ten years old sets the course of their lives. It was really interesting to see how this one decision impacts both their lives. It made me wonder how different their lives would be if they hadn’t chosen that path. What follows is a moving and emotional journey through the course of their lives.
I loved both the main characters and there is no denying how different their lives turn out. Ashleigh has the nicer things in life and is doing well for herself and is work focused where as Remy’s life choices are very different and whilst she has had a rough patch, even though she doesn’t have money, she is happy with the things that really matter. Family is very much at the forefront of this story and it was sad to see how the differences between the sisters keep pushing them apart.
Their parents are the most sweetest of people but I did feel sad that they had put Ashleigh on a pedestal for how well she was doing and has done which of course makes things harder for Remy. I found myself feeling more for Remy than Ashleigh at times but Ashleigh has aways been eaten up by the secret that they both keep which has had an affect on her mentally.
Life as Planned was such a bitter sweet read. It was captivating seeing the lives of these two characters evolve over time. It’s a reminder to us all that we only get one life and not to waste it by holding onto the past. Life is so precious and it was heart-breaking seeing Remy and Ashleigh missing out on so much of each others lives. There are some funny moments which were so endearing but I won’t lie, the ending had me in tears. A wonderfully poignant read!
I always love picking up a book by this author as you know there’s going to be a great story waiting for you between the pages. This one was my favourite so far. 🩷
It’s the story of identical twins - Remy and Ashleigh - and how a childhood secret altered their lives, and the paths they would follow for decades to come. What I really loved about this book is that we first meet the twins at the age of 10 and are with them on a journey throughout their whole lives.
We meet their family and friends, watch their relationships develop, and go through a whole range of emotions with them as they love, laugh, and hope, but also cope with tragedy, loss and guilt.
Each chapter moves forward a few years and is told from both Remy and Ashleigh’s POV. Both sisters experience completely different lives. They have different careers, lifestyles and dreams, but they both regret their actions which meant keeping a secret from everyone they hold dear.
I do love how Amanda brings all the characters to life within her stories; it makes you feel like you really know them. You can laugh with them, sympathise with them, want to give them advice, and shed a tear with them too.
This book really pulled at my heartstrings as the main theme running throughout it is to shelve any regrets you may have, if it’s too late to do anything about them, and to take joy in every little moment you can. I really empathised with the twins, especially when they were older, and know only too well the value of this advice.
With thanks to the author for this gifted copy. All opinions are my own.
Life As Planned is one of those deceptively simple novels that carries far more emotional weight than you expect going in.
Amanda Prowse’s prose is clean, reflective, and emotionally precise. She doesn’t rely on dramatic twists — instead, she lets the story unfold through small, intimate moments that feel deeply authentic. The pacing is steady, allowing the characters to grow naturally, which made their struggles and triumphs feel earned.
The strength of this book lies in its character work. The women at the center of the story feel real — conflicted, vulnerable, and relatable. Their relationships are messy in the way real life is messy, filled with love, resentment, sacrifice, and quiet understanding. I especially appreciated how motherhood, friendship, and marriage were explored without romanticizing the difficult parts.
The setting acts as a calm backdrop to the emotional turbulence, grounding the story and giving it a lived-in feel. The dialogue and banter are subtle but meaningful, often revealing more in what’s left unsaid than what’s spoken aloud.
This is a thoughtful, emotionally resonant read about expectations, identity, and learning to accept a life that looks different than the one you planned — but isn’t any less meaningful.
Highly recommended for readers who enjoy character-driven, reflective fiction with heart.
I anticipated coming into this novel that author Amanda Prowse would weave a distinctly original tale with characters who have emotional depth and realistic issues to weather. Ashleigh and Remy's life story provided all that as it followed the identical twins through the highs and lows of seven decades of their lives, loves and family gatherings, starting with the seminal event in their childhood that sent them on divergent paths. I really enjoyed getting to know them and their ever-expanding family. My favorite characters: Remy and her lovely protector/saviour Midge.
There's a sort of dance that brings the sisters close at times, hardly able to stand each other sometimes, in an uneasy truce at still others, yet joined for life by that one egg that produced them both and the parents who want them to be there for each other.
For me, the story slowed significantly in the last few chapters and seemed to linger too long there. But those last glimpses of Remy's memories of their lives and those she's lost were some of the most moving.
Glad to have read it.
Thanks to Amazon Publishing UK, Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley for sharing a complimentary advance copy of the book; this is my voluntary and honest opinion.
The story of twins - two from the same egg. For so long they were so close, until a choice that seemed to split them apart. We journey with them from about age eleven into their eighties. Every so often we jump ahead in their lives, as one thing ends and another stage begins. A single choice made when young colours their whole lives. How it all pans out would make a wonderful book club choice as all aspects are thought about and discussed.
It was so sad to see Remy and Ashleigh so close, gradually shift and change. Remy experiences a very stressful experience that will haunt her for a lot of her life, Ashleigh experiences challenges that might be a little more her fault but nevertheless have huge impact.
I liked both Remy and Ashleigh, possibly Remy a little more, her life seemed more normal and her values I liked. Yet both their stories touched my heart and I felt sad by the end, not for the end but the beauty of family and love and life and loss.
Amanda Prowse narrates the story herself and she does it so well. She brought the characters alive, and infused her story with emotion. I didn't know how the story would end - I don't cheat and look at the end when I am listening to a book. Suffice it to say it ended beautifully yet tinged with a very real picture of life as it is.
This was my first Amanda Prowse book and the blurb instantly pulled me in. I went in expecting a deeply emotional story about two sisters and their lives unfolding over the years. While I can see the heart behind the story, it didn’t fully work for me in the way I hoped it would.
The chapters move across different years, each one capturing a particular phase of their lives. I understand why it was written that way, but it left me feeling a little disconnected. A lot seems to happen in the spaces between chapters, and I often found myself wishing I could see those missing moments. I wanted to understand the emotional shifts more deeply instead of just being told where the characters had ended up.
I found myself especially drawn to Remy. I would have loved to spend more time in her world, to see the small details between the big milestones, her wedding, her children growing up, the everyday pieces of her life. She was the reason I kept turning the pages.
Ashleigh, on the other hand, was harder for me to connect with. I don’t know why exactly, but I often felt frustrated with her and struggled to fully understand her perspective.
Overall, this wasn’t a bad read. It just left me wanting more depth and more time with the characters. I’m still open to reading more from Amanda Prowse because there’s clearly emotion in her writing. This one just didn’t completely land for me.
Many thanks to NetGalley, Amazon Publishing UK | Lake Union Publishing, and Brilliance Audio for gifting me both a digital and audio ARC of the new book by Amanda Prowse, with the audiobook narrated by the author. All opinions expressed in this review are my own – 4.5 stars!
The trajectory of the lives of identical twins Remy and Ashleigh with one childhood decision. It’s an act of love, but one that will affect their lives for decades. As the years go by, their lives take very different paths. Ashleigh has a big career, the perfect house and family, but things may be different between the scenes. Remy stays close to home, very happy with her more simple life, but weighed down with the expectations others had for her. Can they find their way back together?
Amanda Prowse has the gift of writing relatable characters and situations in her family dramas. I really liked how this book played out – it followed the twins by decade, showing the changes in their lives and of those around them. This one will make you think about those small decisions we make that have the potential to be life altering. You’ll also think about the power of forgiveness and of the bonds of family, especially twins. The author did a wonderful job of narrating the audiobook as well.
Life As Planned by Amanda Prowse is a tender, emotionally rich exploration of sisterhood, identity, and the quiet weight of choices that follow us through a lifetime. Through the lives of identical twins Remy and Ashleigh, Prowse shows how one childhood decision, made out of love, can ripple through decades in ways neither could have imagined. Watching their lives unfold side by side is both fascinating and heartbreaking. Ashleigh appears to have it all: success, stability, and a polished London life. Yet beneath that shine is a persistent ache, the sense that everything she’s built rests on something untrue. Remy, on the other hand, finds comfort in a simpler life, but carries the unspoken burden of always feeling like the twin who came second. What makes this story so compelling is how deeply human it feels. There are no villains here...just two women shaped by circumstance, love, and longing. Prowse captures the complicated bond between sisters with such care, showing how closeness can fracture quietly over time, not from cruelty but from silence and sacrifice. This book lingers long after the final page, asking powerful questions about who we become when life doesn’t unfold as planned...and whether it’s ever too late to reclaim parts of ourselves we thought were lost.