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Honestly: My Life and Stryper Revealed
“Honestly” coincides with the release of Michael’s log awaited solo album “I’m Not Your Suicide”. Michael Sweet, in this – his first autobiography – chronicles his life as the founding member, songwriter, singer, and guitarist of the pioneering Christian rock band Stryper. The first Christian rock band to see chart-topping success on MTV, Stryper went on to see over 10 million albums and has sold out arenas all over the world. Sweet gives and honest an moving account of the unexpected highs and lows throughout his tumultuous path to success. It’s especially fitting to find the intensely personal nature of these musical expressions supplementing the vastly thorough and revealing subject matter of the book Honestly, titled ever so poignantly after the chart-topping Stryper song of the same name. Not only does Sweet delve further into his rarely discussed youth, but offers a full array of rock n’ roll antidotes, plus several surprises from his family and faith journeys.
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First published January 1, 2014
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July 1, 2017
Wow, what a page turner - for me at least. I have been a Stryper fan since finding their first album in the record bin about 3 months after it hit the shelves. I have seen them multiple times in their heyday of the 80's, evening meeting them before and after shows a few times (the photos are on Facebook to prove it), as well as the very first reunion show in 2003 (meeting them before the show again). I have been a fan all through the years of everything the band and individual band members have released. So obviously when vocalist Michael Sweet released this bio, I pre-ordered it immediately. Upon receiving it in the mail, I began devouring it, and finished it quite quickly for my normal schedule.
I have had the pleasure of doing a couple interviews with Michael over the years while writing for Heaven's Metal magazine, one phone interview being about a year after his wife passed. I was able to share my experience of losing a loved one - my oldest son - just two months after his wife passed, and we had some discussion of grief. He was a pleasant man and I gained even more respect for him.
The book revealed so many of the stories behind what I thought was smooth sailing for the band - but now understand what was actually happening. I found the book near impossible to put down - I just craved to learn more. All the while I was reading, I was pulling up Stryper and solo project albums on my playlist and living through the music time period a little. Oftentimes I found myself going through Michael's emotions with him. I found myself feeling depressed, then mad, and even tearful as I was reading. In the past few years, I have read quite a few biographies from some of my favorite bands, and love learning the background stories to songs, albums, and life experiences, and this one ranks up high with them.
The early stories of the band's beginnings and finally hearing an official story of how C.C. DeVille fit into the Roxx Regime days was cool. To hear the stories behind the scenes as we follow the band through the early glory days as they continued to grow in popularity was great, but hearing the truth behind the eventual decline that led to the "Against the Law" era (still one of my favorite albums) was truly to see how the stress and craziness of rock and roll life can begin to chip away and drag things down. I had only heard rumors of life at this time (hey, the internet wasn't around then), so on one hand it was interesting to hear the truth of how bad things really got, and on the other hand it was good to hear it had not gotten as bad as some have said over the years. As Michael mentions in the book, he was surprised too that it did not blow up to be a bigger media scandal for them.
While this book has plenty of Stryper stories, the bulk of it of course is a focus on the struggles, trials and blessing that Michael dealt with through it all. The rags to riches to rags to stability story of a young boy becoming a rock star and losing it all and life afterward. Michael holds little back and discussing the inner turmoil within the band - the personal issues between band members that linger some even to this day. For those of us on the outside, all seemed fine and sunny, but the truth is, they are people too and there are issues as would be expected within any group of people that work together closely like this. Glory to God for the fact that they are still together and doing an amazing job bringing us amazing music still.
Stryper was the first Christian rock band I ever bought - during a time in life (1984) when I listened solely to heavy metal. In 1985 when I made the decision to rededicate my life to a closer walk with God, I literally trashed hundreds of albums, and all that I kept was the first two Stryper albums that I owned at the time (and quickly went out to the record store and snatched up the very few available other related releases at the time - Messiah Prophet, Leviticus, Saint, and Barnabas).
Stryper has always been a love of mine - and I have a band room plastered with their posters to show others that love too. I have their "Loud and Clear" biographical material from years back, which was a look into the world of Stryper, but this book was a much more personal journey and makes me feel like I know Michael much more personally now. I find much in him I can relate to, and would have loved to have been a friend to him for comfort during some of the many trials he faced. Thanks for writing this book Mr. Sweet, it was a real pleasure to read.
One thing he failed to cover that leaves me wondering is how Tim came back into the band. He discusses his departure and the bringing in of Tracy Ferrie but totally skips how he then departed and Tim came back. Also missing was why he only toured with Boston for that one year - why did he not continue working with them after the death of his wife. Oh well, maybe I can dig those answers up elsewhere (we have the internet now after all).
I have had the pleasure of doing a couple interviews with Michael over the years while writing for Heaven's Metal magazine, one phone interview being about a year after his wife passed. I was able to share my experience of losing a loved one - my oldest son - just two months after his wife passed, and we had some discussion of grief. He was a pleasant man and I gained even more respect for him.
The book revealed so many of the stories behind what I thought was smooth sailing for the band - but now understand what was actually happening. I found the book near impossible to put down - I just craved to learn more. All the while I was reading, I was pulling up Stryper and solo project albums on my playlist and living through the music time period a little. Oftentimes I found myself going through Michael's emotions with him. I found myself feeling depressed, then mad, and even tearful as I was reading. In the past few years, I have read quite a few biographies from some of my favorite bands, and love learning the background stories to songs, albums, and life experiences, and this one ranks up high with them.
The early stories of the band's beginnings and finally hearing an official story of how C.C. DeVille fit into the Roxx Regime days was cool. To hear the stories behind the scenes as we follow the band through the early glory days as they continued to grow in popularity was great, but hearing the truth behind the eventual decline that led to the "Against the Law" era (still one of my favorite albums) was truly to see how the stress and craziness of rock and roll life can begin to chip away and drag things down. I had only heard rumors of life at this time (hey, the internet wasn't around then), so on one hand it was interesting to hear the truth of how bad things really got, and on the other hand it was good to hear it had not gotten as bad as some have said over the years. As Michael mentions in the book, he was surprised too that it did not blow up to be a bigger media scandal for them.
While this book has plenty of Stryper stories, the bulk of it of course is a focus on the struggles, trials and blessing that Michael dealt with through it all. The rags to riches to rags to stability story of a young boy becoming a rock star and losing it all and life afterward. Michael holds little back and discussing the inner turmoil within the band - the personal issues between band members that linger some even to this day. For those of us on the outside, all seemed fine and sunny, but the truth is, they are people too and there are issues as would be expected within any group of people that work together closely like this. Glory to God for the fact that they are still together and doing an amazing job bringing us amazing music still.
Stryper was the first Christian rock band I ever bought - during a time in life (1984) when I listened solely to heavy metal. In 1985 when I made the decision to rededicate my life to a closer walk with God, I literally trashed hundreds of albums, and all that I kept was the first two Stryper albums that I owned at the time (and quickly went out to the record store and snatched up the very few available other related releases at the time - Messiah Prophet, Leviticus, Saint, and Barnabas).
Stryper has always been a love of mine - and I have a band room plastered with their posters to show others that love too. I have their "Loud and Clear" biographical material from years back, which was a look into the world of Stryper, but this book was a much more personal journey and makes me feel like I know Michael much more personally now. I find much in him I can relate to, and would have loved to have been a friend to him for comfort during some of the many trials he faced. Thanks for writing this book Mr. Sweet, it was a real pleasure to read.
One thing he failed to cover that leaves me wondering is how Tim came back into the band. He discusses his departure and the bringing in of Tracy Ferrie but totally skips how he then departed and Tim came back. Also missing was why he only toured with Boston for that one year - why did he not continue working with them after the death of his wife. Oh well, maybe I can dig those answers up elsewhere (we have the internet now after all).
January 1, 2018
To see that Michael Sweet wrote a book about himself and Stryper was such a gift to behold. During the mid to late 80's, I was knee deep into the hair metal bands, subscribing to Hit Parader, Rip, Creem and other metal magazines. I initially latched onto Bon Jovi as my fave hair metal band, but was really smitten and intrigued by Stryper. What a unique concept it was to crossover into the mainstream metal scene while still being a Christian band. They achieved this by clever lyrics that had messages of faith, but could also apply to life in general. Not only that, they were visually arresting, not to mention cute. One of my all time favorite metal albums is "To Hell With the Devil" by Stryper. What a great album! I've followed lead singer Michael Sweet's progress all these years, and have many of his solo efforts. He re-records Stryper songs (most of which he penned anyway) on many of his solo offerings and does a beautiful job reinterpreting them. Being in a Christian band, I wondered if Michael had fallen in his personal life and sinned like most of the rest of us. I was quite tickled in the first chapter where he listed all his life experiences and failings as a Christian. He truly was "Honestly" writing that he was like all of us. He has the same temptations to liquor, sex, etc. like any other man, especially one exposed to and inside of the rock scene.
Michael tells the story of his childhood, creation and evolution of his band, and his marital lives. Of course, he details his first wife's cancer journey and eventual death. He also covers meeting his current wife and that relationship.
One of the shocking revelations I encountered throughout the book was his (and apparently, the band's) criticism of bassist Tim Gaines' musical prowess. They chose to hire and use other bassists on certain albums while still retaining Tim in the band. I can't imagine how Tim felt enduring that shame and yet choosing to stay in the band. Yet, when they recruited him into Stryper they likened him to an unattainable girlfriend, wooing him from his successful band Stormer and feeling grateful to have done so. The criticism of Tim's bass playing while in Stryper was a bit of an oxymoron, considering that they wanted his services so badly initially.
There were other revelations of not so Christian behavior when the band became successful. So, I heartily appreciate Michael's honesty in this book. I thoroughly enjoyed this book, devouring it at lightening speed when I usually savor books quite slowly.
My only complaint (for which I left off a star) was that there were grammatical mistakes throughout the book. It needs someone to go through it again and edit out the mistakes. Perhaps they rushed it out too quickly. Otherwise, this is a great read.
Michael tells the story of his childhood, creation and evolution of his band, and his marital lives. Of course, he details his first wife's cancer journey and eventual death. He also covers meeting his current wife and that relationship.
One of the shocking revelations I encountered throughout the book was his (and apparently, the band's) criticism of bassist Tim Gaines' musical prowess. They chose to hire and use other bassists on certain albums while still retaining Tim in the band. I can't imagine how Tim felt enduring that shame and yet choosing to stay in the band. Yet, when they recruited him into Stryper they likened him to an unattainable girlfriend, wooing him from his successful band Stormer and feeling grateful to have done so. The criticism of Tim's bass playing while in Stryper was a bit of an oxymoron, considering that they wanted his services so badly initially.
There were other revelations of not so Christian behavior when the band became successful. So, I heartily appreciate Michael's honesty in this book. I thoroughly enjoyed this book, devouring it at lightening speed when I usually savor books quite slowly.
My only complaint (for which I left off a star) was that there were grammatical mistakes throughout the book. It needs someone to go through it again and edit out the mistakes. Perhaps they rushed it out too quickly. Otherwise, this is a great read.
June 30, 2020
Growing up in the 1980s I loved metal music of all types, listened to all the heavy and hair metal bands, but I never really got into Stryper. Of course, I knew of them, recall friends (mainly girls) gushing over them at school, and did listen to a few of their songs here or there; problem was they just weren’t really memorable for me personally. Fast forward to this century: I’ve become a fan of their new releases, so this look at the band’s rise and fall and it’s lead singer’s post-Stryper struggles was a good read. I doubt it would be of much interest to anyone outside of fans of Stryper or Michael Sweet though, as it isn’t detailed enough about the music industry and isn’t a tell all about 80s metal dirt. As always, it should also be mentioned you should read this type of book at your own risk if you are a fan, because Michael Sweet is pretty honest here and doesn’t come across as a saint; his decision to tour with Boston during his wife’s terminal illness then his quick relationship after her death (He finds his soul mate within a couple weeks of his wife’s death and is engaged in a couple months, but attempts to explain it as God’s intervention into his life.) not seemingly matching up with his words of undying love for his deceased spouse.
August 8, 2014
HONESTLY is as informative as anything I could have hoped for, though there are certain aspects of Stryper (the jealousy, the infighting) of which I'd almost prefer to remain ignorant. Michael Sweet bares his soul here almost to a fault, even when he knows the unvarnished truth might make him look petty, vain, and/or hypocritical. It's not every day a Christian singer starts off a book by admitting to drinking, swearing too much, and enjoying the occasional smoke--all within the very first paragraph!
There are two different angles by which to judge this book. The first relates to its overall entertainment value and quality. From that angle, HONESTLY is everything you could ask for in a Christian rock memoir, and I don't expect to come across its like anytime soon. As a pioneering Christian metal band that was signed to a secular label and played alongside such groups as Anthrax and White Lion, their position within the annals of rock history is particularly unique. As Michael Sweet points out, Stryper was attacked by the secular community for their overt Christian lyrics, and attacked by the Christian community for their glam metal fashion and musical sensibilities. Michael Sweet also managed to embark on a fairly successful solo career, and, in recent years, toured as lead singer for the legendary band Boston. The book also deals with some weighty issues, such as the band's spiritual backsliding, and Michael's struggle to hold onto his faith in the wake of his wife's death from cancer.
The second angle by which to judge this book has to do with Michael Sweet himself and how trustworthy you find his perspective. Personally, Michael strikes me as being both a bit of a control freak and a highly sensitive individual who is constantly feeling betrayed or slighted by the people in his life. He reminds me of a roommate I once had, a guy who once roused me out of bed at three in the morning because he was annoyed I left my Nintendo out on the floor in front of the TV. A few days later, he sat me down for a very serious discussion about the proper way to load the dishwasher. Needless to say, that relationship didn't end well. Not because we argued about anything important, but because he blew everything way out of proportion.
Maybe Michael Sweet really isn't really like that at all. That's just the impression I got from this book. Michael has very little positive to say about his band mates and often belittles their contributions. Michael seemingly implies that his band mates hold him back, and that he must remain ever-vigilant in protecting Stryper from their lousy ideas, poor business sense, and sub-par songwriting contributions. There is no doubt that Stryper is mostly Michael's brainchild and that he is by far the most accomplished musician in the group, yet he's also the kind of guy who insists on doing everything himself and then complains about the extra work. According to HONESTLY, there is no trust in this band and very little camaraderie--which is sad considering all they've been through together. If any of Michael's band mates ever read this book, it will likely make their already-strained relationship even worse!
The reasons Michael gives for being bitter toward Stryper just don't seem that earth-shattering to me. Again, that's just my opinion, and other people will disagree. Hopefully, one of the other band members will write a book so we can get a different perspective. It's clear that Michael doesn't always know (or even care, sometimes) what their side of the story is. Musically, I feel the other guys must be bringing something important to the table, because I've loved the last couple of Stryper albums but haven't cared for any of Michael's solo work apart from TRUTH. (This is despite Michael's claims that the differences between a Stryper album and his own solo work is "subtle.")
If you are a big Stryper fan, parts of HONESTLY may be unpleasant to read. As they say, the truth sometimes hurts. In terms of being an entertaining rock memoir, however, the book succeeds on almost every count. My only real criticism is that the band's most recent three albums--which are far and away my favorite--go largely ignored for whatever reason. MURDER BY PRIDE and THE COVERING barely get a mention, and NO MORE HELL TO PAY doesn't even get that. Man, I would have liked to hear more about the making of those albums, especially since I'm not a fan of Stryper's early stuff apart from AGAINST THE LAW, which was their least successful record. All in all, though, HONESTLY is an amazing memoir from one of the most impressive musicians I've ever seen in concert. Even if he is a pain in the neck to work with.
(If you're unfamiliar with Stryper, I especially recommend you check out their songs "Murder by Pride," "God," and "Legacy.")
There are two different angles by which to judge this book. The first relates to its overall entertainment value and quality. From that angle, HONESTLY is everything you could ask for in a Christian rock memoir, and I don't expect to come across its like anytime soon. As a pioneering Christian metal band that was signed to a secular label and played alongside such groups as Anthrax and White Lion, their position within the annals of rock history is particularly unique. As Michael Sweet points out, Stryper was attacked by the secular community for their overt Christian lyrics, and attacked by the Christian community for their glam metal fashion and musical sensibilities. Michael Sweet also managed to embark on a fairly successful solo career, and, in recent years, toured as lead singer for the legendary band Boston. The book also deals with some weighty issues, such as the band's spiritual backsliding, and Michael's struggle to hold onto his faith in the wake of his wife's death from cancer.
The second angle by which to judge this book has to do with Michael Sweet himself and how trustworthy you find his perspective. Personally, Michael strikes me as being both a bit of a control freak and a highly sensitive individual who is constantly feeling betrayed or slighted by the people in his life. He reminds me of a roommate I once had, a guy who once roused me out of bed at three in the morning because he was annoyed I left my Nintendo out on the floor in front of the TV. A few days later, he sat me down for a very serious discussion about the proper way to load the dishwasher. Needless to say, that relationship didn't end well. Not because we argued about anything important, but because he blew everything way out of proportion.
Maybe Michael Sweet really isn't really like that at all. That's just the impression I got from this book. Michael has very little positive to say about his band mates and often belittles their contributions. Michael seemingly implies that his band mates hold him back, and that he must remain ever-vigilant in protecting Stryper from their lousy ideas, poor business sense, and sub-par songwriting contributions. There is no doubt that Stryper is mostly Michael's brainchild and that he is by far the most accomplished musician in the group, yet he's also the kind of guy who insists on doing everything himself and then complains about the extra work. According to HONESTLY, there is no trust in this band and very little camaraderie--which is sad considering all they've been through together. If any of Michael's band mates ever read this book, it will likely make their already-strained relationship even worse!
The reasons Michael gives for being bitter toward Stryper just don't seem that earth-shattering to me. Again, that's just my opinion, and other people will disagree. Hopefully, one of the other band members will write a book so we can get a different perspective. It's clear that Michael doesn't always know (or even care, sometimes) what their side of the story is. Musically, I feel the other guys must be bringing something important to the table, because I've loved the last couple of Stryper albums but haven't cared for any of Michael's solo work apart from TRUTH. (This is despite Michael's claims that the differences between a Stryper album and his own solo work is "subtle.")
If you are a big Stryper fan, parts of HONESTLY may be unpleasant to read. As they say, the truth sometimes hurts. In terms of being an entertaining rock memoir, however, the book succeeds on almost every count. My only real criticism is that the band's most recent three albums--which are far and away my favorite--go largely ignored for whatever reason. MURDER BY PRIDE and THE COVERING barely get a mention, and NO MORE HELL TO PAY doesn't even get that. Man, I would have liked to hear more about the making of those albums, especially since I'm not a fan of Stryper's early stuff apart from AGAINST THE LAW, which was their least successful record. All in all, though, HONESTLY is an amazing memoir from one of the most impressive musicians I've ever seen in concert. Even if he is a pain in the neck to work with.
(If you're unfamiliar with Stryper, I especially recommend you check out their songs "Murder by Pride," "God," and "Legacy.")
May 19, 2014
The title says it all. This book is so honest sometimes brutally so. I am amazed Michael was willing to be so vulnerable with the reader. He basically opens himself up for so we may take a peek into his soul. I so appreciate his honesty. Too often in the Christian community we are so willing to judge others. It seems we Christians have made an art of it. I found myself doing this exact thing as I neared the end of the book.
**** SPOILER ALERT!! **** As I finished reading the heartbreaking story of how Michael's first wife passed away with tears running down my face, I felt a touch of the pain and sorrow his family must have went through at that time. I immediately felt judgmental of how quickly he connected with his second wife. Thinking "wow that didn't take long did it". I have to say I felt this right up until Michael rightly gave me the smack down I deserved in the next few chapters. What right did I have to pass judgment on the path God has chosen for his family. His path is not my path. God has a plan for everyone and they are not all the same. Some are quite different. I hate to say that as christians we tend to have a holier than thou attitude towards far too much. If there is one thing we should all do more of it is simply to love each other. This book hammers that home more than anything to me.
It was a gripping read right from the opening pages. I was able to re-live my love of rock and roll and the 80's through his retelling of how his songs came to be. I highly recommend this book not only to Stryper and Michael Sweet fans but anyone who wants to experience what it was like to be apart of a rock and roll band.
**** SPOILER ALERT!! **** As I finished reading the heartbreaking story of how Michael's first wife passed away with tears running down my face, I felt a touch of the pain and sorrow his family must have went through at that time. I immediately felt judgmental of how quickly he connected with his second wife. Thinking "wow that didn't take long did it". I have to say I felt this right up until Michael rightly gave me the smack down I deserved in the next few chapters. What right did I have to pass judgment on the path God has chosen for his family. His path is not my path. God has a plan for everyone and they are not all the same. Some are quite different. I hate to say that as christians we tend to have a holier than thou attitude towards far too much. If there is one thing we should all do more of it is simply to love each other. This book hammers that home more than anything to me.
It was a gripping read right from the opening pages. I was able to re-live my love of rock and roll and the 80's through his retelling of how his songs came to be. I highly recommend this book not only to Stryper and Michael Sweet fans but anyone who wants to experience what it was like to be apart of a rock and roll band.
January 17, 2015
For those of you fighting the impulse to giggle or criticize with visions of yellow and black spandex, puffy hair, and guy-liner dancing before your eyes, skip this review because neither it nor the book are really for you.
I came to the book as a fan more of Michael Sweet than Stryper. I missed their hey-day in the 80's as I was more of a Whiteheart/Petra guy at the time (still am). But I've enjoyed Sweet's solo work a great deal, and I happen to think that Stryper has never sounded better than on "Murder by Pride" and "No More Hell to Pay" - both very recent works.
The book is definitely a page-turner - not because the writing is stellar (it's not supposed to be) or the stories are so dramatic (they're really not). I was just very surprised by how much I relate to him: from striving for excellence, a deep devotion to but somewhat fitful relationship with fellow Christians, the sensitivities of a creative personality that drive others mad at times, and the shock of discovering one is actually good at one does and wants to constantly improve. Multiple times throughout the book, I thought "I get this guy."
I found myself whipping through the book fascinated with just how much a 50-year-old successful rock star has with a 37-year-old doctoral student who doesn't play a single instrument and whose successes are far more personal than public.
Why would I recommend it to others? Maybe you can relate as well. Maybe you need a fresh shot of faith by reading about Stryper's early faith-filled years. Maybe you've lost or simply matured beyond such simple faith and you're riddled with doubts and questions, though you still at least WANT to believe. Maybe your financial, professional, or personal life is in some sort of crisis.
Maybe, blast it, you just love hard rock and you have memories having Bibles with Stryper logos thrown at your head.
There's something here for everyone, and there's also some things here and there that may disappoint. The title is deliberately chosen. A very real, relatable human being emerges in these pages ... not just the older version of the guy cavorting around in spandex under a bouffant of feathery hair fossilized in cans of hairspray.
I came to the book as a fan more of Michael Sweet than Stryper. I missed their hey-day in the 80's as I was more of a Whiteheart/Petra guy at the time (still am). But I've enjoyed Sweet's solo work a great deal, and I happen to think that Stryper has never sounded better than on "Murder by Pride" and "No More Hell to Pay" - both very recent works.
The book is definitely a page-turner - not because the writing is stellar (it's not supposed to be) or the stories are so dramatic (they're really not). I was just very surprised by how much I relate to him: from striving for excellence, a deep devotion to but somewhat fitful relationship with fellow Christians, the sensitivities of a creative personality that drive others mad at times, and the shock of discovering one is actually good at one does and wants to constantly improve. Multiple times throughout the book, I thought "I get this guy."
I found myself whipping through the book fascinated with just how much a 50-year-old successful rock star has with a 37-year-old doctoral student who doesn't play a single instrument and whose successes are far more personal than public.
Why would I recommend it to others? Maybe you can relate as well. Maybe you need a fresh shot of faith by reading about Stryper's early faith-filled years. Maybe you've lost or simply matured beyond such simple faith and you're riddled with doubts and questions, though you still at least WANT to believe. Maybe your financial, professional, or personal life is in some sort of crisis.
Maybe, blast it, you just love hard rock and you have memories having Bibles with Stryper logos thrown at your head.
There's something here for everyone, and there's also some things here and there that may disappoint. The title is deliberately chosen. A very real, relatable human being emerges in these pages ... not just the older version of the guy cavorting around in spandex under a bouffant of feathery hair fossilized in cans of hairspray.
May 19, 2014
Beautifully written and nothing held back.
October 21, 2016
Not bad. Better than I expected.
January 18, 2022
This book is amazing!!! I couldn’t put it down. I will be totally honest, I wanted to read this cuz I’ve had a crush on Michael Sweet since I was 14/15 and I love Stryper as well as followed his solo career. All this and Heaven too, one of my all time favorite songs. There was a moment I almost put this down. Michael has a very open and brutally honest personality. It can be hard to take at times throughout the book. I, however love to surround myself with ppl just like him so I kept on. Many places such as chapter 16, I went and sought out the video footage, so after reading chapter 16, I watched chapter 16. I loved seeing him as a real and true down to earth man. Not just the hot guy I had a crush on from 14 on. There were several chapters that also made me cry. Very very touching. I highly recommend this book to all, Christians and Non Christians.
March 19, 2016
I was never a huge Stryper fan Nonetheless, I came of age musically during the height of Stryper's popularity. They were an anomaly - an unabashedly Christian band having its music videos played on MTV alongside the likes of Motley Crue and Poison. I was most interested in learning how this band gained such mainstream popularity in an age where sexism and faux-Satanism was in fashion for so many other metal acts.
While Michael Sweet does spend a good portion of the book explaining Stryper's origins, I don't feel like I got a true impression of what made Stryper decide to go "full Christian" after starting off as just another glam metal act on the Sunset Strip. The explanation, as it is for most of Michael Sweet's major life decisions, is that it was "God's plan." Obviously Michael Sweet's personal faith has had a huge impact on his life. Therefore, I was surprised to learn that he became a Christian after watching Jimmy Swaggart on TV. I guess I was expecting a slightly more compelling conversion story.
The title of the book is "Honestly" and I do commend Michael Sweet for his honesty. He admits to drinking, smoking, and (almost) adultery all while performing in a Christian rock band. In that sense, his forthrightness is laudable, but other times it comes off as a little too honest. For example, he makes it abundantly clear throughout the book that he would rather not be in Stryper, and on numerous times he makes disparaging statements about his fellow band members. Considering his main form of income, as of the writing of this book, is, in fact, performing in the band Stryper it seems somewhat self-defeating to make those statements publicly. Many times he mentions how much he dislikes the relationship drama that can occur between members of a rock band. I can't imagine this book won't be responsible for creating quite a bit of drama if the other members happen to read it!
All in all, I felt this book lived up to its title with an honest recounting of the life of a professional musician with all its highs and lows. I'm just not sure I would have appreciated it as much if I were a Stryper fan.
While Michael Sweet does spend a good portion of the book explaining Stryper's origins, I don't feel like I got a true impression of what made Stryper decide to go "full Christian" after starting off as just another glam metal act on the Sunset Strip. The explanation, as it is for most of Michael Sweet's major life decisions, is that it was "God's plan." Obviously Michael Sweet's personal faith has had a huge impact on his life. Therefore, I was surprised to learn that he became a Christian after watching Jimmy Swaggart on TV. I guess I was expecting a slightly more compelling conversion story.
The title of the book is "Honestly" and I do commend Michael Sweet for his honesty. He admits to drinking, smoking, and (almost) adultery all while performing in a Christian rock band. In that sense, his forthrightness is laudable, but other times it comes off as a little too honest. For example, he makes it abundantly clear throughout the book that he would rather not be in Stryper, and on numerous times he makes disparaging statements about his fellow band members. Considering his main form of income, as of the writing of this book, is, in fact, performing in the band Stryper it seems somewhat self-defeating to make those statements publicly. Many times he mentions how much he dislikes the relationship drama that can occur between members of a rock band. I can't imagine this book won't be responsible for creating quite a bit of drama if the other members happen to read it!
All in all, I felt this book lived up to its title with an honest recounting of the life of a professional musician with all its highs and lows. I'm just not sure I would have appreciated it as much if I were a Stryper fan.
August 7, 2014
Amazing!!!
For those who have been a fan of Stryper this is a MUST read.
Michael gives us his vision of what it was beeing in the band. All the good and the bad.
Personally I'm not a person who believes in the same things. Yes, I'm catholic, my fathers decided so when I was born, but through the years I've come to the conclusion that is not religion what makes the world heaven or hell, it is each one of us. With our decisions.
Of course I prefer what Michael does, instead of talking about destruction, murder, hate...
At least Stryper's (and Michael's as a solo artist) songs give us a positive point of view.
If I have to choose, I prefer to stick to the christian world.
But, again, what really made me a fan it was the way Michael speaks about these things: not trying to convince you that you're wrong but giving you another point of view, and that "you're free, free to do what you want to. Choose your own destiny..."
Michael has music running through his veins. You can see it in all the songs he has written. And this books is a fantastic journey through those years. To know all that happen (sincerely, I didn't know exactly why Stryper split up taking on acount that I don't see Against The Law as a bad album, indeed I like it very much) back then. And to undestand some of the things happening recently.
Sometimes we think we have the right to decide what someone has to do, or should do, with his/her life but it is his/her life. Wether you like it or not he choosed to be happy. His belif in God is what gives him that vision on life. Who are we to question him?
I have always loved his songs, and I have all the albums (both Stryper's and Michael's). And to me the most important thing is for him to keep writing the best songs he can. He is a good guy. Nobody is perfect. So what else can we ask for?
A great reading that I sure be re-reading anytime in the future.
For those who have been a fan of Stryper this is a MUST read.
Michael gives us his vision of what it was beeing in the band. All the good and the bad.
Personally I'm not a person who believes in the same things. Yes, I'm catholic, my fathers decided so when I was born, but through the years I've come to the conclusion that is not religion what makes the world heaven or hell, it is each one of us. With our decisions.
Of course I prefer what Michael does, instead of talking about destruction, murder, hate...
At least Stryper's (and Michael's as a solo artist) songs give us a positive point of view.
If I have to choose, I prefer to stick to the christian world.
But, again, what really made me a fan it was the way Michael speaks about these things: not trying to convince you that you're wrong but giving you another point of view, and that "you're free, free to do what you want to. Choose your own destiny..."
Michael has music running through his veins. You can see it in all the songs he has written. And this books is a fantastic journey through those years. To know all that happen (sincerely, I didn't know exactly why Stryper split up taking on acount that I don't see Against The Law as a bad album, indeed I like it very much) back then. And to undestand some of the things happening recently.
Sometimes we think we have the right to decide what someone has to do, or should do, with his/her life but it is his/her life. Wether you like it or not he choosed to be happy. His belif in God is what gives him that vision on life. Who are we to question him?
I have always loved his songs, and I have all the albums (both Stryper's and Michael's). And to me the most important thing is for him to keep writing the best songs he can. He is a good guy. Nobody is perfect. So what else can we ask for?
A great reading that I sure be re-reading anytime in the future.
August 7, 2014
I would describe this book using the title of one of Michael Sweet's solo albums... Real. Sweet is the guitarist and driving force behind the ground-breaking Christian rock band Stryper. He is also a former guitar player for classic rock band Boston. This book lives up to it's title in that Michael Sweet bares his soul and feelings about the rather tumultuous life he has lived, a life that includes whirlwind success, struggles of conscience over poor lifestyle choices, bankruptcy with huge debt, and the death of his beloved wife from ovarian cancer. Although not incredible, or detailed prose, what I appreciated about this book is, in fact, it's honesty. He tells it like it is, and tells you what he thinks about things regardless of how it comes off, or makes him look or sound. I kind of think he perhaps used this opportunity to set the record straight on a few things. As anyone who has followed Stryper knows, they have been the victims of lots of harsh judgment, and much malicious gossip. It is very interesting to hear his side of the story, and the effects that such things had on him personally, and the band. I recommend this book to church-going folk for this reason. See the kind of effect harsh judgement can have on the soul of a person. The scorn and anger from churches against Stryper, especially at the beginning of their career, played a detrimental effect, and aided in the crushing of the lives of the members in this band. Grace is always better.
Personally, I am an agnostic, but I still love and appreciate Mr. Sweet, and his band Stryper. I enjoyed this book because I am a fan, not sure how much appeal it would have for those who aren't fans, but I guess you could say that about any books written by musicians. The other thing to note is that although there is no question the Michael does indeed share his faith, at no point does this book ever become preachy. It's a knack he has.
Personally, I am an agnostic, but I still love and appreciate Mr. Sweet, and his band Stryper. I enjoyed this book because I am a fan, not sure how much appeal it would have for those who aren't fans, but I guess you could say that about any books written by musicians. The other thing to note is that although there is no question the Michael does indeed share his faith, at no point does this book ever become preachy. It's a knack he has.
May 8, 2016
Overall, a good book. I know I only rated it a 3/5, but on my scale that is still "worth your time." Michael Sweet gives a brief overview of 30 years in the music industry, and he isn't afraid to tell it like it is. The book was an easy read, but it didn't really reach out and grab me.
Don't misunderstand, there were some very interesting parts, and a few funny parts (the story of Michael and the "piece of gum" on his shoe was one of the funniest stories I've ever heard, almost worth the price of the book). And Michael walks a fine line between a "tell all" and maintaining the privacy of all involved. Still, I can't help but think there were a few people that weren't pleased after reading the book.
I think the thing that knocked it down a star for me was it felt like Michael, at times, is a bit of a diva. I have to be careful here, I don't want to be judgmental, or overly critical. It's easy to sit on the sidelines and blow hot air on how *I* would have handled any given situation. And believe me, I've made my share of mistakes. But, if Michael is going to put an honest book out there, and I believe he did, then for what reason do we read it, if to not gain insight into one of our favorite bands? And so I have to be honest in return with how the book made me feel.
I appreciate Michael not shying away from the death of his wife Kyle (which was very potent and emotional), and his surprising marriage to Lisa Champagne only three months later. It's good to hear his side of the story, and I don't doubt his integrity. But, it still seems too short, but that's just me.
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I think people tend to rate books higher than they should, so I try to rate books on a harder scale, while being consistent over time. Jerry Foster's book rating scale:
5 - Fantastic. Life-altering. Only 10-20 books in a lifetime.
4 - Very good.
3 - Worth your time.
2 - Not very good.
1 - Atrocious.
Don't misunderstand, there were some very interesting parts, and a few funny parts (the story of Michael and the "piece of gum" on his shoe was one of the funniest stories I've ever heard, almost worth the price of the book). And Michael walks a fine line between a "tell all" and maintaining the privacy of all involved. Still, I can't help but think there were a few people that weren't pleased after reading the book.
I think the thing that knocked it down a star for me was it felt like Michael, at times, is a bit of a diva. I have to be careful here, I don't want to be judgmental, or overly critical. It's easy to sit on the sidelines and blow hot air on how *I* would have handled any given situation. And believe me, I've made my share of mistakes. But, if Michael is going to put an honest book out there, and I believe he did, then for what reason do we read it, if to not gain insight into one of our favorite bands? And so I have to be honest in return with how the book made me feel.
I appreciate Michael not shying away from the death of his wife Kyle (which was very potent and emotional), and his surprising marriage to Lisa Champagne only three months later. It's good to hear his side of the story, and I don't doubt his integrity. But, it still seems too short, but that's just me.
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I think people tend to rate books higher than they should, so I try to rate books on a harder scale, while being consistent over time. Jerry Foster's book rating scale:
5 - Fantastic. Life-altering. Only 10-20 books in a lifetime.
4 - Very good.
3 - Worth your time.
2 - Not very good.
1 - Atrocious.
September 5, 2014
I had to order this off of Amazon because I could not find this book in any store, but it was so worth it. Even though I knew of Stryper's music in the 1980s-1990s, I was never a big fan until they restarted the band and I went and got their back catalog (Their latest CDs have been better than the stuff being put out by more major bands).
This book was easy to read and the author is truly honest (which ties in the the title-also the title of their pop hit). I read the book in three days. Sweet talks of how he started the band to his solo career and recently playing with the band Boston. Along the way he discusses how the Christian music scene was the ones that had the most problems with their music, along with how he felt when a major tv preacher, who helped get him saved, also joined the campaign against them. Sweet talks about having to let go of certain members of the band and his regrets doing it.
The touching part in his honesty details having to deal with his family's bout with cancer, and his thoughts about God in the journey.
This book is not preachy, but a man that just puts his feelings out there, almost like a journal. The only problem I had with the book is I wished there was more in depth writings (like most rock biographies lack) on how they came to write the songs, or record the albums in the studio, but these musicians live their lives so fast at times, how can they remember everything?
This is one of the few must reads for any music fan, not just a Christian who is a follower of the band (and not all the fans of Stryper were Christians because they hit the pop charts and was the first Christian act on MTV).
I have become an even bigger fan of Michael Sweet after reading this book. This is a book I will re-read over and over.
This book was easy to read and the author is truly honest (which ties in the the title-also the title of their pop hit). I read the book in three days. Sweet talks of how he started the band to his solo career and recently playing with the band Boston. Along the way he discusses how the Christian music scene was the ones that had the most problems with their music, along with how he felt when a major tv preacher, who helped get him saved, also joined the campaign against them. Sweet talks about having to let go of certain members of the band and his regrets doing it.
The touching part in his honesty details having to deal with his family's bout with cancer, and his thoughts about God in the journey.
This book is not preachy, but a man that just puts his feelings out there, almost like a journal. The only problem I had with the book is I wished there was more in depth writings (like most rock biographies lack) on how they came to write the songs, or record the albums in the studio, but these musicians live their lives so fast at times, how can they remember everything?
This is one of the few must reads for any music fan, not just a Christian who is a follower of the band (and not all the fans of Stryper were Christians because they hit the pop charts and was the first Christian act on MTV).
I have become an even bigger fan of Michael Sweet after reading this book. This is a book I will re-read over and over.
August 22, 2014
I liked hearing about the origins of Stryper and the factors that led to their demise in the early 90s. That said...
Michael Sweet is a major DB. The entire book is pretty much him complaining or congratulating himself. Anything that went well in his life is because he rose above the turmoil to make it succeed. Anything that went wrong is because everyone else failed despite his best efforts. God is weaved throughout but mostly as an afterthought or to pay lip service.
And then there's the constant whining.
"Everyone thinks Oz is the real lead guitarist but really I teach him all the music."
"Boston asked me to sing with them but the audience doesn't appreciate how good I really am!"
"My wife got cancer and it's really time consuming taking care of her so I needed to go on tour because she wanted me to."
Wait, what? The guy's wife gets terminal cancer and he writes more about how important it is to tour with Boston during that time than to stay home and take care of her.
And then she dies.
And then within a month he's dating someone else (and this time, it's his "real" soul mate) because God ordained it.
And then he marries her two months after that and is shocked that people are disturbed by it.
Seriously, Sweet?
But at least it ends well. Sweet talks about about how he hates Stryper but has to do it to feed his family. I mean, he loves it and the band. But he hates them and the burden. But he loves it. Except he hates it.
And this is why I probably shouldn't read biographies written by musicians. Sitting this close to the ballet spoils the illusion and tarnishes otherwise good bands. Of course with this thing now in publication, the days of Stryper or indeed numbered.
Michael Sweet is a major DB. The entire book is pretty much him complaining or congratulating himself. Anything that went well in his life is because he rose above the turmoil to make it succeed. Anything that went wrong is because everyone else failed despite his best efforts. God is weaved throughout but mostly as an afterthought or to pay lip service.
And then there's the constant whining.
"Everyone thinks Oz is the real lead guitarist but really I teach him all the music."
"Boston asked me to sing with them but the audience doesn't appreciate how good I really am!"
"My wife got cancer and it's really time consuming taking care of her so I needed to go on tour because she wanted me to."
Wait, what? The guy's wife gets terminal cancer and he writes more about how important it is to tour with Boston during that time than to stay home and take care of her.
And then she dies.
And then within a month he's dating someone else (and this time, it's his "real" soul mate) because God ordained it.
And then he marries her two months after that and is shocked that people are disturbed by it.
Seriously, Sweet?
But at least it ends well. Sweet talks about about how he hates Stryper but has to do it to feed his family. I mean, he loves it and the band. But he hates them and the burden. But he loves it. Except he hates it.
And this is why I probably shouldn't read biographies written by musicians. Sitting this close to the ballet spoils the illusion and tarnishes otherwise good bands. Of course with this thing now in publication, the days of Stryper or indeed numbered.
December 7, 2016
So let's just get this out of the way, I am a HUGE Stryper fan. Have been since Yellow and Black Attack came to the Gordon College bookstore many years ago. I have followed the band and Michael Sweet for all that time and believe the are making the best music of their careers now. Having said that, I really enjoyed this autobiography. Sure, it is not the best written work, but it is raw and honest and Michael take a hard look at himself, his life and his career. He indicts himself more often than he claims that others we the issue in many circumstances. If you are a fan of Stryper, or Christian music at all, this is a good read. Also, Stryper's last two albums - Fallen and No More Hell to Pay are their best two albums they have done. Great music.
February 23, 2015
I've been a long time Stryper fan, and a Michael Sweet fan so a lot of the stories I knew, but what I did learn was about all the hardship, relationship issues within the band, and how the intricacy of the music industry contributes to these issues. The honesty and frankness of this book gives you a deeper understanding of not only Michael, but Stryper. I appreciated the truthfulness of it. This book in many ways felt like Dave Mustaine and Dave Elefsons biographies. An absolute page turner and encouraging read.
June 25, 2015
I remember the first time I heard Stryper. It was on OZ FM out of St. John's, Newfoundland. The song was "Calling on You" and I was hooked! I was sad when they broke up in the early 90's.
I had followed Michael Sweet's solo career to a point but had not listened to any of their new stuff!
I heard Michael interviewed by Chris Jericho and went out and got the book.
It was choppy and felt somewhat unedited. However, that does not diminish the power of the story at all!
I love the honesty, the struggle and the desire to be faithful!
A good read!
I had followed Michael Sweet's solo career to a point but had not listened to any of their new stuff!
I heard Michael interviewed by Chris Jericho and went out and got the book.
It was choppy and felt somewhat unedited. However, that does not diminish the power of the story at all!
I love the honesty, the struggle and the desire to be faithful!
A good read!
June 27, 2014
Being a fan of Stryper as a teenager, it's great to read what was happening behind the scenes. I resonated with so much of what Michael Sweet encountered from "church people." Now that Stryper is back together and playing again, a little older and wiser, I think they have as much ministry ahead of them as they do behind them.
This was a revealing and refreshing look at a childhood hero that I hope to mee in person one day!
This was a revealing and refreshing look at a childhood hero that I hope to mee in person one day!
June 23, 2022
I really enjoyed this easy read. It was refreshing to read in that he is almost brutally honest about himself. He doesn't portray himself as some saintly person who has his life and faith figured out. He talks about how he at times feels trapped by his job in Stryper and at other times loves what he gets to do. We can all relate to this because who doesn't feel trapped and unfulfilled in their calling at times and at other times cant believe we get to do what we do?
April 3, 2015
Really enjoyed reading this autobiography of the solo artist and frontman for the hard rock/metal band Stryper. As a kid who grew up loving Stryper's "Soldiers Under Command" and "To Hell with the Devil" albums, Ireally enjoyed reading the inside scoop of how they came about and pulled off being a successful, mainstream band of Christians. Michael is very honest and can at times come across as arrogant, but he also demonstrates sincerity and humility throughout the book.
June 11, 2016
Well written and a fantastic read. Really enjoyed seeing how this musical great who is also one of my all time favorites, is really a regular human like the reast of us. He opens up and shares how he dealt with struggles and is honest about his faith during those difficult times. I remember hearing some of the stories as a fan and it was really cool to hear Michael's perspective on them. Highly recommend for a Stryper fan or not.
May 20, 2014
I love this book! I grew up in the 1980's listening to Michael Sweet front the band Stryper and to this day I am not only a Stryper fan but a fan of Michael Sweet. This book chronicles the life of Michael, Stryper and his family. I admire his faith and his willingness to share it. If you love biographies than this one will not disappoint. Enjoy!
June 12, 2014
Very good read.
Very good read.
This is a very open and honest look at Michael Sweet's life. I wish at time's he would go into more detail about making records, touring etc., but overall this is a very good book. To read about his first wife's struggle with cancer in heartbreaking.
Very good read.
This is a very open and honest look at Michael Sweet's life. I wish at time's he would go into more detail about making records, touring etc., but overall this is a very good book. To read about his first wife's struggle with cancer in heartbreaking.
June 20, 2014
This was a great look into the life of Michael Sweet and his music career over the years. It was very interesting to read about certain behind the scenes stuff that helped explain some of the Stryper decisions over the years. It was a good lesson in that when you are right with God you will prosper, but when you are not following God's direction things will regress to bad places.
September 21, 2015
Being a life long Stryper fan, this was a must read. A great look into a musicians life. Michael does a great job allowing the reader to experience life as a musician in the 80's on through stardom and hit records to bankruptcy, then on to retaking the world. I love this band and there mission and will always be there for them.
August 16, 2014
A really insightful book into the life of Michael Sweet and the behind-the-scenes of Stryper. I'm not one who reads a lot. But when I find a book that really captivates me, I'll devour it. This was one of those books.
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July 13, 2015I either wanted to high-five Michael or cry on his shoulder (and I know he'd offer it). The best chapter was 18. Best part of all: I met Michael Sweet a few months ago. My copy of this book is autographed. And he now has a copy of my books, too.
May 27, 2014
Insightful. Micheal paints a picture of the rise and fall and rebirth of Stryper.
January 11, 2015
A cool reading and truly a page turner.
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