Okay this is a complicated one. Personally I did not like the book. The author took useful tools such as mindfulness and (maybe useful) psychedelic drug therapy and totally ran with them. Meditation and mindfulness works, that’s apparent, drugs work (if used responsibly), even though the author doesn’t recommend doing the drugs ourselves, his thesis seems to be wholly based on an experience he had while undergoing LSD therapy. I’ve always wanted to try psychedelic therapy (psilocybin) but I’ve always been afraid of turning into a weird hippy that believes in chakras and spiritual energy, I like my hard sciences and atheism, thank you.
From what I gather, he believes that he has some kind of crystalline structure in or around his solar plexus, and I’m pretty sure he is talking about the “spiritual” solar plexus associated with chakras and other pseudoscientific bull crap, not the bundle of nerves behind the abdomen (okay, maybe he is using it as a taxonomical reference…). There are signs that he is empathetic to homeopathy because he calls himself a allopathic doctor (a term fake homeopathic “doctors” often use to make give their own trade legitimacy), just call yourself a doctor, or if you want to be hip with the kids, a “trad doctor”.
The author goes on to talk about energy pathways in the body, and I don’t believe he is talking about the energy pathways that science affirms, the blood streams which transport oxygen and other goods, or nerves that transport electric signals… he does talk about hormones and chemicals like endorphins, but the energy that he seems to believe in seems more like “chakra” BS energy to me, because he says the energy is a messenger of trauma and whatnot.
The book was extremely repetitive, the author mentioned LSD every other page and his unfortunate upbringing every other other page (sorry to hear about his dad). He is obsessed with Alice Millers theory of childhood trauma leading to adult anxiety. Although I don’t totally discount it I think the author bases his whole existence on the fact that he had a traumatic childhood. Personally I have 2 siblings, all raised the same (a single mother that suffered from depression and couldn’t work and thus we were quite poor) and we all turned out completely different). The author does what a lot of self help authors do, which is lump large amounts of people into the same category. The Walt Whitman quote, “We contain multitudes”, comes to mind whenever I read books by self help gurus with alluring one size fits all narratives.
Okay, now I can go on to why I gave this book 3 stars and not just 1 (to be mean) or 2 (just to be polite), I think this book can help people who don’t care about the science, arguably most people. I agree that we all have some form of anxiety (probably as a result of evolution) and I agree that many of us tend to victimize ourselves and descend into a vicious cycle. Mindfulness about these tendencies are useful tools and conscious effort should be made to tackle them.
I have yet to find a book on psychology that really convinces me that we know anything about what goes on in the human brain. Philosophy seems to be my go to. So if anyone is triggered by this review I’d say maybe this book just wasn’t for me…