I love a unique reading experience, and this book certainly provided that. The following will be littered with spoilers, so if you'd like to go in blind, please stop reading now.
This is the first book I've read that was billed as nonfiction, but is so grossly biased it should be shelved as creative nonfiction or memoir. The author is the subject's girlfriend. But she's not just an impartial journalist who interviews soldiers upon their return home (or via phone call/videoconference while deployed). No, she sneaks herself onto Jalalabad Air Field (JAF) and into Afghanistan, where she accompanies Army Special Forces Major Jim Gant (her husband) on actual missions. You've got to be kidding me.
Ann refers to her "exploitation" of a "loophole" (allowing her onto JAF) as brazen, and points out that "if military authorities found out I was slipping under their noses, Jim's entire mission could come to a crashing halt." Never mind that the Taliban got wind there was an American woman in the area, and had plans to to kill her. To be clear: Her concern was that she could compromise his mission, not that she put others' lives at risk by her mere presence. She had no reason to be there - beyond shacking up with her husband, and apparently researching this book. But, at the height of narcissism, she and Jim put the American soldiers and the Afghan villagers at greater risk by secreting her into the qalat.
The entire book is this mind-boggling. You can't really believe anything the author says, as she has such rose-colored glasses for her now husband. She describes him as a warrior, and makes his blood-thirst sound like a good thing. She continually paints other members of the military as inept, and Jim as an absolute hero. It's shocking, and maddening, and so utterly ridiculous I couldn't look away.
That General David Petraeus is quoted on the front cover should be questionable - how could someone deserving of such respect endorse such a book? But, as we all know now, Petraeus also likely crossed some serious boundaries, and perhaps disclosed confidential information to the biographer with whom he had an affair.
Which is where this book leaves me: Is this a one-off? Is Jim one-of-a-kind? Or is every third person in the military (or the Army, or the Army Special Forces) like this? Is sneaking your woman into a war zone more common than I thought? This is the story of one man, from one country, in one war. Are more of them like this?
The answer, likely, is that there are degrees of respect for authority, egoism, and foolhardiness. That people are complicated, and so everything involving people necessarily is complicated. But wow. Just...wow.